IRL I would identify myself as a feminist but never anywhere near radical. I mean cmon I have a dick, I am not afraid to use that shit lol. I heard rumblings of the "patriarchy" in my life, but as a black man in school 8 hours to day to propell myself out of the inner city and into the professional world, I never saw it. The black family is a woman dominted institution, as males arnt fully present in terms of parents. So I grew up thinking that woman handled their shit...boy was I fucking wrong.

I got through highschool relatively unscathed, but I went to a small liberal arts college and it was hell. Here I had woman telling me that they dont feel safe with saying no. Or there were other woman who would drink with a guy, hook up with him, go back to his room after the party, make out, then get mad when he attempts to have sex. I had people telling me that I had to make the first move but at the same time telling me that I am a creep if I hit on girls. I was absolutely baffled, but I put my head down and handled my business.

I got out of that hell hole and into the real world, and I discovered reddit. As usual I joined all of the stuff I was interested in and I made the mistake of thinking that reddit feminists werent batshit crazy. I joined the sub SRS discussion but was soon banned. I got banned for telling the ladies there that a. woman get friendzoned too b. you cant pass judgement on male friendships as you are not a male thus you have never experienced first hand a male friendship and c. because of a. and b. any conversation about men and the friendzone is incomplete without the inclusion of the male perspective. Somehow that got me banned. I was like whatever, lets see what else was out there. More of the same unfortunately. Then I discovered the red pill.

Well thats misleading... I always thought the website ReturnofKings was fucking hilarious so I was always familiar with red pill ideology, but I had my reservations. I never liked the alpha beta crap. I was and still am under the impression that if you gotta learn how to be an alpha male then you will always be a beta male. Alot of the things people said alpha males did, I inherently did. I didnt need to learn it because thats just how I operated in my daily life. In fact, it was how my mom raised me lol. So I was always a little skeptical of you guys. But the lunacy of tumblr/reddit feminists has driven me into your arms. Through reading the sub, I realized that I have more in common with you guys than id ever have with reddit feminists. Your line of thinking was more inline with my "take no shit from no one, and wrap it up when you fuck these hoes," upbringing. So although we may not agree on everything(there are some racists who subscribe to the red pill ideology and fuck those bitches), we agree on most things. So I hope you guys will welcome me with open arms, as I plan to become a contributing, and hopefully valueable member of this community. Thanks for reading my life story lol!