Just about every woman who is past 30 has what they call emotional 'baggage'. It's some emotional problem left over from previous relationships or some abuse that actually happened or might have happened or was just some bad experience that got re-framed as abuse.

My ex-wife was self-described as having baggage. I should have viewed that as a huge red flag, but this was before my red pill days. She had daddy issues. She would get mad if we were running or biking and I got ahead of her. She would completely lose her mind and throw a fit. Once we were driving her car to a dealership, so I was going to meet her there with my car. I got ahead of her on the commute over, and she got mad at me.

I've had some crap happen to me, but I wouldn't say I have baggage. That time my gf dumped me for my best friend on my birthday right after my mom died? Yeah, that was a low point, but I don't think about it except when writing crap like this to make a point.

Do you have baggage? Do any of your guy friends have emotional baggage?