Emotionality

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-09-13T20:04:30+00:00

Wow... where to begin?

First, you should read the sidebar, there is much to be gained by putting in effort.

Second, the typical young guy tends to be introverted as well as emotionally blocked. Think of what you are doing as living in a cage of your own creation.

My guess is you ignore many things about yourself and others because they don't fit into your "self definition" of a rational being.

What result does this always create?

A guy without intuition because intuition is outside you "acceptance zone".

To be attractive you need to demonstrate masculine traits:

Extroversion (IDGAF)
Emotional Intelligence
Physical Appearance of Strength or Health. (muscles)

...my guess is you have so far put zero effort into self improvement in these areas.

So that's your baseline as best I can determine.

Icaria25 · 2016-09-13T22:04:14+00:00

As u/neoreactionsafe laid out, you are out of touch with reality and yourself.

Either the girl was unactrattive or displayed red flags to you, or you have economic, personal problems, or you have emotionals ones.

She couldn't have hurt you but you still were defensive. Remember when you were little and thought it was no problem to approach girls (if ever?), well she probably felt the same, (or didn't, red flag, used-to-it-bitch)

I don't like to advocate sexual context at all costs, but if you felt the context was ok and she was ok (aka a genuinely interested girl, not one that just approach all guys she esthetically likes), then you have a problem with yourself. Which is ok if you know what it is. Unless you joined some restrictive cults, just loosen up and stand to be scratched. It will not hurt that much as you thought it could and you will gain confidence. What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. If you haven't yourself fully figured out (which is a very mobile concept, so it's best to apply it in the moment). If you have doubt just be bold like you did. If it doesn't work, you got a possible bitch out of the picture early. Where's the problem. Be happy, you did it right.

Have you ever been in any physical activity where you can be hurt? if then, you could remind some occasions where you got hurt but got over it in a second, because it was no big deal. Women are the same. There are some that can hurt you deeply, but you have to let them. Most can only take a scratch and call it a win. But you can be superior; call it a laugh... like a warrior that couldn't damage you with his sword. Learn to identify little and big swords (hint: those are mostly subjective).

There are some infos you never disclose to women so you can just skip the defensive. The fact you were shows you still have some doubts about what is a woman and what it isn't. Get over it as soon as possible and you can be offensive. Cuddle her game as long as needed, then bash out yours. Unexpectedly and certainly.

When a girls approaches you, it must be as it was your idea and you were expecting it, subcosciounsly. You knew there was some girl interested in you because you have high value. You are a male, if you act like one you just surpass females in power by a long shot. Remember their courage is socially mediated, yours is spiritually so. Society is fixed, spirit goes...is.... wherever, whatever it wants. Want to be an alpha male? start thinking like one in the context you are allowed to (a beta concept, but you must first learn spiritually).

TNNRR · 2016-09-13T22:24:12+00:00

(first post got bot-blocked, I think.)

Hey friend,

This post is going to get locked. The mods believe that questions like this belong in r asktrp. Sometimes they are wrong, but most of the time, these types of questions DO belong on that subreddit. In this instance, I think they'd be right to lock it.

While I can still answer your question a bit - read the side bar, start working out, eating and sleeping right, and focus on self-improvement for its own sake. Your goal should be to make your life awesome.

Also, its ok not to be emotional with women, but remember - women are very much ABOUT emotions. So if you aren't able to pick up on those emotions, you won't be successful with women personally or professionally.

Remember the old song lyric, "girls just want to have fun". So should you. Its called game (not work) for a reason. Its a game. Have fun. Love women, love life, and love yourself.

Faymozilla · 2016-09-14T01:07:22+00:00

Lift get money and fuck bitches

Title	Emotionality
Author	logic_thinking
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	September 13, 2016 7:17 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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