This was another epiphany I had while swallowing the red pill during the last year: Your date/partner/lover/girlfriend/wife is replaceable.

I know, this should be obvious now to any red pill man, but to my former blue pill self this was difficult to even acknowledge. I thought that the woman I was with was THE ONE^TM. To think of our partners as replaceable goes against everything blue pill culture tells us, but it's the fundamental truth that every red pill man should know.

I first heard this from BlackDragon, so full credit to him. Women already know this. It's beta men who don't get it. All women instinctively know that men are replaceable. Watch a SR9+ woman chew threw men these days, without much of a care in the world. Men are disposable and replaceable to her. She knows she can go out and get another one any time she wants. THIS is the mentality that the red pill man should emulate. Any woman you are with is replaceable. If you're on your second date and she's trying to get you to jump through hoops and is already shit testing you, next her, and another woman of EQUAL OR GREATER value will be right around the corner. If you live your life as an alpha red pill man, this will be true. If your girlfriend is hanging out with another guy AGAIN (don't worry, they are just friends and he would never think of her that way) or she's out for another Girls Night Out^TM , next her and find a better one. There are probably 100s, if not 1000s in your area that are equally or more compatible with you. Oneitis stops you from realizing this. It makes you worry that you're going to end up alone and never find someone as special as her. It's not true and never was.

Now, of course a SR9+ woman will still have an easier time than just about about man at finding the next partner, but it's her attitude we should emulate. She has exceptionally high standards, because she can. Partly it's hypergamy, but partly it's just because she knows she's sought after. Why would she ever settle? Why should you ever settle? She shouldn't and neither should you. Be picky and don't put up with disrespect.

I know, 'nexting' is the basic skill of the successful PUA or any red pill man, but it was a difficult hurdle for me to jump over.