Good evening, men. I posted a field report some months ago about clubbing while being a whale, since then I've been dieting and exercising. I am down to 260 lbs from 325 lbs.

I like reading this sub and wish to contribute how I can, so below is a transcript of a LJBF rejection I received earlier this evening. I welcome analysis, cheers, jeers, and whatever feedback the members of this community feel like sharing.

I dont want u to think Im ever being rude so I am going to be completely up front w you as I always would. I also dont like to get into personal business on the spot or in front of other people... Getting to the point... I get what ur looking for / asking for or seeking in me and I am here to tell u you dont want that. You def dont know me enough at this point but I am not any kind of relationship to be had its not the place Im in nor what I usually look to do. I dont date. Im a bit of an odd bird and I try to keep my private life just that but there are some people in it. I truly enjoy u and u are fast becoming a closer part in my group but fair warning that u should heed u dont want to seek anything more. Leave it at that and lets just commence with the good times just know there is a line and where it is. Im not in the business of being hurtful to people but I am always in the business of being honest. <3 <3 I truly dont mind hanging out doing whatever it be its just the intentions that lie underneath. Believe me I always pick up on them.