TLDR: Employed TRP philosophies (abundance mentality, outcome independence, etc.) and scored a HB9 last week. Forgot what I learned on TRP last night and got nexted by a HB7.

Intro:

I’ve been on here for a few months and I wanted to share two different situations I was recently in. I’m not going to lie, I’ve maintained a fairly decent SMV before discovering TRP (good looking, educated, etc.), but these factors in conjunction with the two recent experiences I’m going to get into just further reiterate how important maintaining your frame and having the right attitude is. I’ve had a lot of things going for me, however social interaction wasn’t always my strong suit when it came to talking to high SMV women. Thanks to TRP, I’ve been able to work on my weak areas and wanted to contribute, and hope maybe this post will help someone else. Last week I maintained my frame, remembered the wisdom I’ve gained from reading all of your posts, and scored with the HB9; whereas last night, I drank too much, disregarded my abundance mentality and outcome independence, and got nexted by a chick nowhere near as fine as the previous week’s sampling.

Last Week

Last week I was visiting a friend in a bigger city here in my state and we hit up a pretty cool bar in the area our first night in. I immediately caught eyes with this HB9 (thick in all the right places, huge tits and ass, slim waist, cute face). My friend was a great wingman for me and chatted up her friend while I went at this huge titted gazelle. The whole time I was around this girl, I did my best to avoid giving this girl any undue praise; this chick knew she was fine, she didn’t need to hear it from me when she could hear it from every other guy in that club. Towards the end of the night, I tried to seal the deal and go in for a kiss and was shut down, with the typical “I’m not that kind of girl” “I’m not easy”, typical hamstering women implore to convince themselves how good they are. I was pissed, but I did my best to not show it, and told her that I would be in town for one more night if she wanted to get together, but if she did, she would have to text me first because I wasn’t going to waste my time chasing someone. Sure enough, she texted me that night and I completely ignored it until the next day. I had to do something to change the dynamic, so I decided I would do this by being an extremely terrible texter, as I was sure she was accustomed to men replying to her texts within a minute. I would wait AT LEAST 10 minutes before ever replying, and sometimes waited even longer. This clearly had an effect on her, as she eventually asked me what I was going to do that day and she asked if she could see me. I invited her out to this river we were hanging out by, popular area, and she and some friends met us out there. Every swinging dick in the area couldn’t help but stare this girl down, she was bursting out of every part of her bikini, but I remembered to maintained my abundance mentality and just treated her like she was any other person out there, except when I would occasionally touch her ass here and there to let her know what my intentions were. This drove her crazy and I didn’t even have to put any kind of actual work in, it’s that fucking simple it’s unreal, they’re just so used to men constantly trying to “spit game” at them so they go crazy when you refuse to feed into their ego and compliment them every other sentence. Long story short, she invited me back to her place and I blew three loads into this girl’s mouth in the span of 7 hours. So much for not being “that kind of girl”. My approach the entire night let her know that I didn’t give a fuck whether or not I got anywhere with her, which clearly worked like a charm.

Last Night

I wish I could say last night went just as well as last week, but I forgot to use the tools I’ve gained from swallowing the red pill and missed my main target. I was at a club here in my hometown and I spot this older chick, probably mid 30’s, but had a porn star body (clearly fake but idk I like that sometimes). I started out fine, didn’t flood her with attention, demonstrated my SMV, etc., however I started drinking way too heavily with a friend of mine. All of the alcohol clouded my judgment and caused me to go back to my BP ways of trying too hard to get women. I kept walking up to her, complimenting her for no reason constantly, and generally just being a beta poster boy hoping to exchange compliments/validation for sex. This chick wasn’t even in the same league as last weeks, but I was drunk, horny, and looking to get her that night. As expected, she was completely turned off, it was like I was a completely different person than before. She went out of her way to give me her number at the beginning of the night, but at the end of the night she wouldn’t even reply to my texts. I made the mistake of showing WAY too much interest and trying to hard. I ended up bringing home some bar skank, but fuck I was disappointed in myself for not maintaining my frame.

Conclusion

Despite the fact that I didn’t get the one I wanted last night, this was still a good experience. In my opinion these two recent examples truly demonstrate just how valuable the few months I’ve spent here have been. If I had any doubts about how effective TRP approach is, they were shattered this morning when I sobered up and was able to compare and contrast the two situations. My eyes are open. I have to do my best to always maintain an abundance mentality and constantly exude the IDGAF aura. These women can swipe their phone on and get unlimited amounts of attention and validation, make them work for it and watch them go crazy over you. You could be of extremely high SMV, but if you flood these women with too much attention and praise, they’ll next you in a heartbeat. Let’s always keep in mind that there’s a million of them out there, we won’t be made or broken based off of their decisions. I look forward to learning even more from yall.