So after improving myself through reading RP material, beginning to lift, overall improving myself, etc. I am finally starting to approach at night at various bars at my university. This FR is my experience from a couple of nights ago, with a girl that is in one of my classes.

It is a Thursday night and a weekly drink special causes the bar I am at to be one of the more happening spots before midnight. After approaching a few groups of girls with another one of my friends I see a girl that is in a group project I am doing for class. She happens to be walking to the back porch of the bar so I follow looking to approach, however when I get outside she is surrounded by a group of maybe 8 guys. I decide that since she is in my class and my friends already want to go to a different bar, it is time to cut my losses and start approaching at another bar.

Once at the other bar half of our group of friends wants to go get food while my friend from earlier and I still just want to approach. So as the group splits up and I go to the bar to get another drink, the girl from my class who I left at the other bar comes up to me and starts flirting. Normally in class she has tried to shit test me and I have done an alright job of A/A or ignoring, however tonight she was pretty forward and clearly pretty drunk. I didn't really care about her being so drunk as I was 10/11 deep myself.

As we continue talking my friend decides to leave because of his Approach Anxiety causing him to not be able to approach by himself and now it is just the girl and I. The bar is nearing closing and she keeps giving me more and more indicators that she doesn't want to go back to her dorm. I take this as a sign to make a move and we start making out, this continues for a couple of minutes before the bar turns on the lights and tells everyone it's time to leave.

I walk outside with her and she asks if we can go to my place. As we are walking there she is walking fine and keeps telling me how she "really likes me". I am not interested in any sort of LTR so I don't really care about this, plus I know that women will say this all the time without any actual meaning be hind it. We finally get to my house and go to my room. We start making out and things progress to the point where she is topless and I am fingering her. While this is going on she stops making out with me and reaches down, grabbing my wrist(the one connected to the fingers inside her). She then proceeds to stick my fingers in her mouth, sucking herself off of them. I take this as a sign of progressing further and start to take off my pants, but instead of going further she tells me she's pretty drunk and doesn't know if we should do this. I tell her that it's fine and she can do whatever she wants. She then starts pulling the covers over herself and goes to bed.

The next morning she is wearing one of my shirts and asks me if we hooked up last night. I don't consider making out and fingering hooking up as it's really not that big of a deal so I tell her no. As the morning goes on she starts talking to me more and more and I'm getting pretty tired of her being here. While she's still in a tshirt and underwear she won't give me the time of day on touching her or going in to makeout with her again. She is telling me about her different hookups and asks me about mine(which I really can't since this is the first girl I have taken home since breaking up with my LTR when swallowing the pill). I give her some bullshit story and she seems to believe it. I keep trying to get her to leave and eventually she does, but keeps trying to take stuff from me like condoms in my room and the shirt she is wearing. I tell her no and take the condoms back and half jokingly keep trying to take my shirt off of her. Eventually I get her out the door with a different(shittier) shirt of mine and drive her back to her dorm.

I will be seeing this girl again in class tomorrow and don't really know how to act or whether or not I should try to go for hooking up again. I have also heard from some fraternity brothers that while she is in a pretty good sorority, she is reffered to as "Blowjob Becca"(Not her real name, same meaning and implication though). This isn't too reliable of information however it could very well be true. Any pointers for next time, advice on how to go about the situation now? Keep on improving brothers