Summary: Recently I noticed that there are so many guys here that are still in the anger phase, this is devoted to them. A few days ago I published an article on my blog about differences in mindset between a guy who is stuck in anger phase and real player. It made me think even more about this subject so I decided to write another post that I will share only with this subreddit.

 

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So, you just found out about the red pill, totally agreeing with everything, right? You can't believe you were that stupid, thinking that women are angels?

 

Well, you have every right to be angry since you were manipulated and lied to your whole life by basically everyone around you. Media, Hollywood, parents, teachers, and society as a whole. But stop for a minute, and ask yourself one very important question: What do you want?

 

Do you want to have a few plates? Get a girlfriend? Tons of one night stands? Good.

 

Now, how exactly is being angry going to help you with that? Is it going to get you more pussy? Or will you just look like a butthurt little bitch to everyone?

 

Everyone here gets your struggle, I was very angry myself when I swallowed the pill. Luckily, I was able to channel that energy to self-improvement aka lifting.

 

But when it came to approaching girls, while I was angry I didn't have any results. I would be butthurt with every little shit test she threw at me. I couldn't control my feelings. And not being able to control your emotions is a pure definition of weakness.

 

After a while I accepted the truth, I accepted women as they are. As a result, I started to love them. To love their mental games, to love how they walk, smile, smell, fuck..everything about them. (Note that I said in my article that I love, but not trust women.) Because of that, my results jumped. All of a sudden, when she throws a shit test I just see it as it is, a childish game. Nothing more than that.

 

Persistence? I'm willing to go all the way. I don't give up on pulling that ass at her place if she is not alone or if she has a roommate. If the conversation hit a dead end or she creates some kind of resistance I don’t read it as rejection.

 

I can't tell you guys how many times I got laid only because I was persistent where most guys would give up. I would spend hours with a girl if there is an attraction because I don't see spending time with her as something I have to do just to get laid. I enjoy the chase, I enjoy the moment.

 

In my country they say: "It's not the pretty one that fucks, but persistent".

 

One more aspect of my game improved when I got out of anger phase. Ironically, I don’t get oneitis anymore, since now I love them so much I always give attention to more than one girl. I fell in love ten times in one hour. There are no unicorns in my mind, so when I get rejected I just have to look on the other side of a street. This mindset gave me the power to approach at least five to ten girls every day.

 

All of this is only because I was able to shift my mindset from anger to love.

 

Just remember, you need to love yourself first. That is a precondition to loving women.

 

Conclusion

 

Anger phase is necessary, but don’t stay in it for too long since it will only hurt your game. Instead, have strength to accept reality as it is and be able to adapt.

 

Until then, hit that gym.

 

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