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[FR] Alpha Widow's cuck, Alpha's POV

MarvelousWhale

June 27, 2015
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Title [FR] Alpha Widow's cuck, Alpha's POV
Author

MarvelousWhale

Upvotes 0
Comments 19
Date June 27, 2015 3:23 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3bb6fo/fr_alpha_widows_cuck_alphas_pov/
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Comments

[–]nechoha4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What do you have to benefit? Is the chick even worth it? From the post, sure you may get some sex, but beyond that there is nothing to gain. In comparison to the new guy, who fulfills a fantasy of cuckoldry and has sex. I don't know anything about you, I'm not going to look, I'm not going to ask. You can do better. My $0.02 is to not waste your time.

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

With very little effort on my part I could potentially be set up for a threesome with a girl who I know is wild in the sack. If it doesn't work, I didn't spend much time on it anyways so I'm in the same boat.

Why not take the risk and see what happens

[–]apply_truth3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Maybe I'm mistaken, but isn't a threesome MFF and a gangbang MMF.... From the sounds of things BBB would prob just be watching you have her the majority of the time, though if you do DP that might ruin her for him even more lol

[–]brokenshelf2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Two men, a gang does not make. It takes at least three, and some might even argue 4+ to make it a real gangbang.

Why you'd ever want to get your dick that close to several other men's junk though, I'll never know.

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Watching a video of a girl being taken advantage of in a gangbang is interesting but I don't know if I could keep it up were I to find myself in that situation.

The boner to hole ratio should always remain at or below 1:1 IMHO

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was toying with the idea of telling them I'd need a few minutes alone with the girl to get comfortable, much like the Chad did in this other crosspost recently submitted to TRP with his threesome. And just leave after I've finished without a word before the other guy joins, leaving him sloppy seconds lol

Another idea I had, thinking what to do should this situation become a reality, take over the situation with her entirely and force the guy to watch while I humiliate her/him.

A threesome is a threesome, once it gets to foursome that's a gangbang, whether it's MMMF, FFFM or any other combo above three.

[–]nechoha0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then you know what you want to do. Have fun, be safe.

[–]KarmaEnthusiast5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sounds like bs to me. The bit that gave it away was the last bit of dialogue with "She said with disappointment". Why do people make this shit up?

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Try reading my post history, I've mentioned this girl and the weird shit that happens a few times. She really did say it with disappointment in her voice, WITH the other dude in the room.

[–]donit1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

Sometimes I notice little clues in these stories:

all the kinky shit we did when we had recorded on my phone marathon BDSM sex in a hotel room for four hours the week before she "found" this guy.

Something tells me that was the first time you ever did that with her, and the first time she ever "found" a new guy. Two first times in the same week. What are the odds of that? Hmmm...... Nothing is ever truly random. Life is a sequence of falling dominoes.

Reminds me of the guy who had a three day marathon with his girl, and then she suddenly fucks another guy after being faithful for the past six months. Some kind of change seems to take place in the girl after they go through these "marathons". It seems to flip a switch and turns them into sex-junkies.

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You make a valid point on the switch, and her probably hooking up before she got into a relationship with the guy but this was far from the first time we did this marathon, we've had numerous marathons lol.

Though who is to say there wasn't ever some other asshole she was seeing at the same time I just didn't know about previously. Women.

[–]donit1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if there were other clues in the relationship, that made her more susceptible to being approached by the other guy.

Usually sex is a good indicator, because her attraction is a measurement of how she feels. But what was she like other times? Did she seem just as happy and attracted as she was in the beginning?

Or did she complain a lot? Did she make lots of requests and get mad at you for the ones you didn't fulfill? Did you set limits on her requests and her arguments (attractive), or did you try to fulfill every request and give every argument she brought up full weight and consideration? (apparently that's unattractive to them)

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She actually managed to get with a total Beta, SHE approached HIM. If she hadn't, they wouldn't be together.

I did notice that the rougher I treated her, which I found out late in the game, had always been how she wanted to be treated, her confidence went up and she began approaching guys.

She complained about the other guys when she wasn't with them, I'd ignore her or just make fun of them and turn the convo towards the next round of torture I was going to put her thru and end the complaining as soon as it started. But it always started, which was an issue. Failed to put that fire out.

She was plate at this point, but clearly trying to get herself upgraded back to LTR, which doesn't happen in my book so she gave up and went with someone else. She seemed more interested in the LTR than sex, even though she had verbally admitted she missed the sex most and we discussed details of a threesome even while the other guy was in the room.

I never fulfilled her requests except one. She was going on a hormonal trip and randomly arrived at my house and decided we would drive to Canada in ten minutes. I was bored and jobless at the moment so I was like yeah lets do it. Road head the entire way up (from jersey). This was her final attempt at getting back into an LTR with me. She admitted this on the trip even.

I no longer fulfill women's requests and don't give her issues attention unless she is bitching why we haven't fucked in a while (she's said this as well in her BFs apartment but I don't know if he was there for that one) and I just tease her because I don't care whether I see her ever again or not.

[–]donit1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh, so she was seeing guys all along? Well, in that case, it wasn't a change in circumstances. Was it ever a LTR? I would be more interested what caused that to change, but you might not know when that was. I wonder if it corresponds to the first marathon.

I've decided getting a girl off doesn't strengthen her attraction to you, it just strengthens her attraction to sex. Her attraction to you is based on how good of a prospect you are for raising a family. Giving her 1 extra orgasm doesn't change that.

In fact, giving them more orgasms makes them feel less satisfied because it's more likely to leave them hungry for more. True satisfaction is about not being hungry afterward.

I wonder if she was mentioning the other guys to see what reaction you would have. I once had a gf who would make up guys and dates she went on just to try to get me to give her more attention. There's always a motive when they name-drop like that. I finally got her to stop by giving her less attention when she did it.

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I broke up with her long ago and downgraded her to a plate. She kept trying to get herself back to the status she was but I wasn't having any of it.

She wasn't seeing guys while we were marathoning it, the turning point was when I told her we are NOT getting back together in Canada as she told me how she wanted to "fix what we had"

She realized after Canada that I wasn't letting it happen and so she fucked around and found someone else to LTR. And yes she was probably mentioning other guys to get me jealous but I wasn't interested

Pretty much exactly how it happened. The earlier post was probably more confusing as I was leaving work and getting in my car as I typed it up.

I do like your point on satisfaction vs sex, even though the plate mentioned it in a different context in my OP. The general idea is solid, that sexing her up (whether the quality is good or bad) isn't going to make her more attracted to you, your SMV will do that instead. Even to a point where if you don't sex her up your SMV still holds value.

Perhaps sexing her up good, I.e. pushing her limits, humiliating her, etc., could boost her confidence afterwards as she seeks out that pleasure from someone else. But my SMV wasn't high enough to maintain her focus at the time.

[–]JohnDavidsonR 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Wait till it happens in person, and a wife says to you, in-front of her husband "We've been looking for a guy like you all night". Being black helps you see the cuckold situation magnified. Women aggressively tell me they have a boyfriend while flirting with me. Weirdest shit ever, and a turn-off no matter how hot she is.

[–]MarvelousWhale[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Curious why it's a turnoff for you

I believe it though, but seeing it in person is just another level of experiencing this lesson. Women are very interesting creatures, they have yet to cease amazing me.

[–]JohnDavidsonR 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly, It might be the shock of it. I was starting to consider it the more it happened.

[–]∞ Mod | RP Vanguardbsutansalt0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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