tl;dr Create a real or artificial sense of preselction to make a girl go nuts.

Summary:

19 y.o. white male. 6"/6"1', 140 lbs. N-count of 3.

I've had this plate that I've slept with twice. Knew her in high school, she was a junior while I was a freshman. Cute black girl, maybe a 6.5/10. We have a specific spot we park at to fuck, it's a kind of secluded dead end within a neighborhood. I had asked to hook up about a week ago and she was playing games, so I deleted her number and nexted. A few days ago she apologized on Facebook, and today she texts me at at 6:50ish with "Hey! Meet me at our spot at 8.". Well, I'm about to go watch the premiere of Walking Dead and no one tells me what to do so she can go fuck off. Show ends at 8. I decide to watch the talk show Talking Dead right after. I finally get to my phone at 9 pm. 3 texts and 2 calls plus some voicemails. "You up for it?", "Hey im at our spot. Where r u?". I text back and it turns out she's still in the area "shopping". She had waited an hour+ for me. Since I don't have school on Monday and some of the girls I've been gaming lately haven't been as receptive as I'd like, I figure why not.

I arrive, we hook up for a good 40 minutes. I take a break, can't seem to finish (I had already masturbated a few hours before). We talk for a bit, and then I begin to use a new tactic that I've been working on. I commented it a few days ago, but I'll repost it here and elaborate.

I've been applying a new form of dread game that creates an artificial preselection for me. I downloaded a free app on my iPhone called Burner. It lets you create random phone numbers and text/call/send pictures. When I'm chilling with a girl, I put my phone in a place where they can visibly see it like a table or desk. I then text my number from the burner number. I've been alternating between a saved contact "Katie" and just leaving the burner number unsaved so it has no caller ID. Anyways, I send whatever message like "Hey boo", "Let's get together tonight", "Miss you :)" and then put my phone down and wait. I usually divert my attention to something else when the message arrives so the girl I'm with can take a glance at the message. Sometimes I even get a pic of a random girl from the realgirls subreddit and send that. The best is calling my number from the burner and then "talking" to "Katie" telling her I can't see her right now because I'm with a friend. Some Machiavellian stuff. I plan on making a full post after I've gathered more data. I think it's pretty clever if you don't have many plates spinning or you need dread game on the spot.

So I had "Katie" text me "Let's meet babe :)" as I was in my car with the plate. I asked her to get my phone from the front seat and check who texted me. She eagerly grabs my phone and it takes a few seconds for her to process. Her perceived sense of preselection of me combined with me not finishing earlier makes her go nuts. We start having sex again and I guess the angle I was pounding her from (small Audi, awkward positioning) combined with her emotional state made her squirt, which in turn made me climax. Pretty cool to be able to cross that off the checklist at the age of 19, and it's a pretty big ego boost.

She's all over me, apologizing for past slights and having to leave early because her mom called her. She wanted to meet tomorrow on President's Day but I have things to do and frankly the sex in the car in that spot isn't that exciting.

I may not want her anymore at the moment, but you can bet that if I hit her up anytime in the future, regardless if she's in a relationship or beginning to date someone, she will come running to the only guy who's made her have such an intense orgasm.

Lessons learned:

  • If you are not in a social setting to display natural preselection, create an artifical preselction. It doesn't matter if it's real, it only matters if she believes it.

  • A great way of realizing and maintaining abundance mentality is to come to terms with the fact that your time is more valuable than hers in every situation.

  • Give her the tingles before you go in and she will do the rest.

  • Some girls want to be treated like shit. It's very easy to spot them. Tattoos, dyed hair, lots of selfies. Any combination of those is a recipe for a broken girl and an easy lay.

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