London. Central. Finished a meeting, went to the park to play with my drone. Smoked one.
Outside the metro station on my way out, put down the phone with my oneitis ltr, saw a 7.
Needed to light the rest of my rollie, thought to ask her. Walked her way, walked past to the corner. Disappointment.
Said to myself - "So much trp, asktrp, mrp, askmrp, sidebar, so much thought, so much lift; come on. There was a time you had 3 plates...you've always fucked around..Just start walking in her direction! And I did.
All of a sudden, everything came together. Spoke to her a few minutes (open), high fived her (kino), spoke to her with the child tone of voice (amused mastery), asked her this that (info on her to build on), built a little bit of value and asked to take her for a drink.
She first mentioned she doesn't have much time between her jobs, I reiterated with the same sentence that I would like to take you for a drink. "Mmm..ok!"( beat last minute resistance). Then she got real close and put in the number herself to my phone, her Spanish number for Whatsapp.
I said "Nice meeting you, goodbye and shook her hand, and left.
Successful field report of the first RP frame approach.
It was as simple as that first step in her direction, with an intent to get what you want.
Thank you all, more power to you all. You're helping me get mine back.
Ray
Edit: I didn't approach the situation with all this terminology in mind. I didn't plan it scientifically. Everything in brackets are afterthoughts, later as I was typing this post. Just made connections with everything I've read. Which is why I've titled the post describing my first TRP mentality based approach.
I'm using TRP to get my game back, to where it once was with women.
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