Summary: A brief example of the relationship between alpha and widow, and the extent to which alpha widows cannot move on.

Bachground: My old guitar teacher (call him Don) is in many ways the epitome of an alpha male. He teaches music professionally from his home and has been shredding guitar (and invading panties) at events and parties for 25 years. Don is 43 years old and a masterful musician. He is jacked and has been practicing jiu jitsu for about 14 years. He is known to have a temper and intimidates just about everyone.

Today I was listening to a recording of a guitar lesson i took with Don about 3 years ago, before I knew about TRP. We have the benefit here of the exact word for word interaction that took place.

Me: "Don uh I think you have another student coming." Don: "What?" Me: "I think you have another student there's a girl at the door." Don: "Oh... That's my ex girlfriend. She doesn't take lessons. She would be a terrible student." [She knocks. He opens the door] Don: "What's up." (No emotion) Her: "Hi how are you?" Don: "Good how are you?" (Blatantly feigning interest) Her: "I just wanted to make eye contact." Don: "Ok I gotta go." [She races to say "I love you" as the door swiftly swings closed in her face.] Don: "k so let's get back to C major on the top strings."

Lessons Learned:

Alpha Widowhood is real. A woman who has experienced a dominant, jacked man who always maintains frame, intimidates her physically, and never shows weakness is effectively powerless against the hormones that drive her to submit to him. It DOES not matter how nice you are. It does not matter if you have a nice car or make six figures. Don doesn't. But he also doesn't have a boss, he makes his own schedule, and he makes $60 an hour untaxed for as many hours as he is willing to work. He doesn't answer to anyone.

The take away here is this: Imagine a beautiful girl. She is tall, absolutely gorgeous face and eyes. Tits like an angel. Ass like Aphrodite. Flawless skin and a feminine demeanor. Perfect teeth. She doesn't need to be smart. She doesn't need to have money. She doesn't need to have a single talent or skill in the world. She can afford to be absolutely mind numbingly dull, passive to a fault, stuck up as hell or annoying beyond all belief because BEAUTY and FEMININITY are the keys to make desire. Men will still want her anyway.

So what can you and I do? We must realize that as beauty and femininity are keys to male desire, POWER and MASCULINITY are the keys to female desire. So lift. Be intimidating. Have power in the form of social proof, money, and abundance. Whatever it is, make sure you have a damn lot of it. As long as you have UNBRIDLED MASCULINITY and POWER you can afford to be pretty much anything else. Your other faults will be overlooked. If you can't be tall and jacked, be jacked. If you can't have money and social proof, have social proof. If you can't be liked, be respected and feared. You have no excuses.

Edit: Apologies for the formatting. It looks good in the edit text screen.