BG 45 year old had 19 year LTR ended in 2013. Red pill slowly dissolving ever since. I once weighed 265+ and now weigh 170 with 13% body fat after; 5+ years of gym, BWF, MIIT (medium intensity, I'm old) ,running, biking, swimming, cico, intermittent fasting and vitamin regime.

I'm having a blast this weekend working a local summer event. Picking up extra dough and generally socializing and putting myself into an unknown and new space for myself. I'm kind of a monk but will strike when the proper requisites are met. I've never felt like that guy but you can now call me Chad.

I talked to every single girl/woman I wanted to. Bonded with a bunch of cool bros over all the things we do and smiled obviously at women who made eye contact and got paid for it.

So the gig ends and I headed out on the town to hit the two best spots. I quickly surveyed the first and closer venue to the festival and just really didn't care, I think that sometimes it's ok to slide through a place, be seen, and move on.

Enter bar two. The perfect dive. Open since the 30s this place is always a great mix up. I found A spot at the bar and camped out making friends with a young couple and then a few of their friends. I opened easily with about anything just for fun and practice. Open everything as a rule. The fat chick, yep, the one who's not your type, old, lesbian, why not? They all got friends.

Something like 30 minutes goes by and a cute bottle blonde 25 hb 7 lands next to me with her heavy set friend on the far side. I took my time, made a couple of obvious looks while having fun and convo with the people I mentioned before.

And then... Something or another happened and I just did the dumbest easiest most reliable open I know, and I said "Hi I'm whiskytango". TBH I don't even remember her name but I still smell her perfume. We talked she expressed her interests in sugar daddies to take her to travel destinations and exotic Colombian weight loss regimens. I noticed while we chatted her phones wallpaper was her on the tarmac for the typical air waitress pose with one foot kicked out. Of course she bragged about having visitied 50 countrys on her "travels" (work). Conversation was stale AF, really, and we really only had any physical attraction to go from. We'd talk break off and resume fairly often but then ended up in this really wierd staring contest, I mean this was eye fucking. Reciprocal eye to eye fucking. It was raw, I should have used a rubber.

Be me new Chad age 45 like 1 year old Chad. So I know have to keep some tension. Eyefucking commences; whiskytango uses skeptical eyes. Blonde plants kiss on the cheek. Hah! Again we locked in, peered deeply and she did have very pretty brown eyes and I gazed deeply from one to the next. Then broke off and turned back to the bar. Now more than ever to push pull, I literally push her shoulder while looking away, she comes right in with kisses and licking my neck while sliding her hand on my thigh. We just kept this kind of tension going and she planted a few more kisses on my cheek neck and I finally "let" her kiss me on the lips.

This is where it gets dark, she and her gal bailed to use the bathroom and never came back. So it was a no close and I'm sorry that this is the end of the story for tonight. I did see her on the way out and she was a bit chilly so I gave her a reasonable hug goodbye and just to give her one last twist I told her she'd make someone a very happy man some day. She gave another peck on my cheek which is what I offered. And I told her good bye and strolled away. Abundance is in the mind. Am I home, alone, writing a drunk, no close field report instead of slaying? yep. Am I mad? Nope. I have fun doing what I do. I'm really not even trying much and now know how to reverse polarity such that the one/ones you want will make it easy. Also as a fringe benefit these little bars are such a seen and be seen place that my SMV is now nuclear reactor, Lazer fired, liquid hot lava to any of the other regulars. Thanks TRP bringing me up and I hope somehow this post might somehow inspire others. Just do you. Have value in yourself and enjoy life!