So I have swallowed the pill. I have been focusing on building myself up for the past 6 months. I'm at the point where my business is taking off and I'm happy with myself. Well I run into an ex. We talk and end up exchanging numbers. For two days we talk while I'm working from home, just catching up and shooting shit. It's going really well and I tell her that we are going out on Saturday, so she needs to wear something nice. Then the fact that she has a boyfriend becomes a problem. I told her I didn't have any problem being the other man. It's at this point things go bad. She goes into this whole self righteous hamstering mode about how she isn't that type of girl and yada yada yada. Is at ok then, leave him. You've been bitching about him for a week just go ahead and leave him. So she try's and like the BP bitch he is he cries and begs for her to stay. At this point I know I should just be done. I should maintain frame and walk away. Well I fucked up and told her I cared and wanted to be with her. So now I'm sitting here going crazy in my mind because I have her the power of a choice in who she wants and have given her a couple days to decide without me influencing her. Have any of you guys had a similar relapse on your first attempt after swallowing?