Summary:

"He is most powerful who has power over himself." - Seneca

 

Body:

Being in control of your emotions is a fundamental pillar of being a man and embracing your masculinity. Way too many guys have this horrible habit of losing their cool. She says something a little unexpected and bam! the dude just goes on a rage on how big a cunt she is. She throws a minor shit test at you and the dude just goes and shoots a sorority. [For you stem spergs - Don't do that]. Well yeah? She is a woman dafuq were you expecting?

 

Look at this buzzfeed post - Scroll down to the pictures and see how these guys are reacting after the girl says no. Needless to say, guys like these don't get a lot of action. Which leads to them clinging onto every interaction which leads to desperate beta behaviour which leads to no action. A vicious cycle and thus the lash out once their frustration hits max levels.

 

Never let a woman get under your skin. Never hint any sense of jealousy or bitch butt hurt. Be stoic. Be cool, calm and collected. She can say whatever. You should not suddenly go berserk. Stay calm. Trust me, women can tell even the slightest changes in your demeanour. Have a smirk on your face and use amused mastery to your advantage.

 

Let's see a few examples

 

Bad:

Her: I don't like that shirt

You: oh umm what kind of shirts do you like? I'll get that one next time [you can hear her pussy drying up]

 

Good:

Her: I don't like that shirt

You: Play your cards right and I might let you take it off [with a playful vibe]

 

Bad:

Her: I can't make it tonight

You: Oh what's wrong? Can I call you? Should I send you some soup

pukes

 

Good: [the medium IS the message]

Her: I can't make it tonight

you: no reply OR

you: no worries (soft next in your head)

 

Bad:

Her: I am sorry I have a boyfriend

You: Fuck you bitch! I am a much Nicer guy than him! I would treat you with so much more respect you fat fucking cunt

 

Good:

Her: I am sorry I have a boyfriend

You: That's fine - He can be your boring weekday boyfriend - I can be your fun weekend boyfriend [again with a playful vibe]

 

It's not all about passing the shit test itself. It's about cultivating a personality and demeanour that makes you a natural at it. Don't be all butthurt about everything. Have a playful vibe. You are not at work. You are with a woman. Have fun. Enjoy the interaction instead of trying to fast forward to the end. Be like the cat that plays with the yarn ball. Be a roller coaster of emotions for her. Make the ride enjoyable for her, but more importantly for you!

 

This is one of those things that just comes with time and experience. The more interactions you have the better you get. Always practice your game even with the girls you probably won't take home. A girl rejects you, tells you to fuck off - STAY FUCKING CALM and handle it playfully. Don't let them see you sweat.

 

Read this about pete - Look how he didn't just lose his cool. He stayed calm and handled the situation perfectly.

 

TL;DR Don't lose your fucking cool!