Just get out of an LTR? How about being lost and not know what the hell you want to do or be? Not sure how to be an asshole properly?

There's a book called Radical Honesty by Dr. Brad Blanton. I don't even know the guy but he makes a hell of a lot of sense. Most people talk about being honest with ourselves. He goes a step further and pushes you to be so freaking honest with yourself that you weigh your options and if you don't want to do something, you say it. There's no remorse or sympathy, just you being so severely truthful and honest with yourself that you deal with reality as it is and not some imaginary socially tactful wannabe way.

Don't know what you like? What did you like as a kid? Start there and grow it. You're probably still interested in it. You have to start trying things to see what piques your interest. The worst thing you can do is not take action. Who gives a fuck if you screw it up. You want to be interesting to women, be interesting to yourself first. I started playing piano again, roasting my own coffee, ballroom dancing, and working on creating hair care products for men. Now I have a shit ton of kick ass stuff to talk about and girls notice that I like my life. Having a conversation is a breeze, I want to talk about how awesome I am and it only takes dripping a bit of false modesty and they take it from there.

A lot of blue pill shit I do is lack of honesty with myself. I pretend the imaginary potential for a relationship or person is really there and instead of dealing with the hard truth of reality and actions over words. First thing I had to do is get up close and personal with myself. Am I okay with my results. no? better fix it because I'm 100% responsible for myself. Whether its the actions that lead to success or the actions that lead to failure is up to me, and being me and honest with myself. Want to lose weight, its up to me. Want to meet girls, go do it. I've gotten more numbers (and the fun that follows) over the last year (found this a year ago) than the rest of my entire life combined.

I'm sharing this because a lot of guys are talking about not knowing what they want and it's hard to be so involved in one thing to not give a fuck about something else. This is my personal experience and figured if it helps you be a better man, then do it. I'm still working on things, but this part of my personal growth has helped out the other areas a ton.