Opportunity is like a fleeting glimpse down a girls shirt. There momentarily, its existence is temporary.

When the possible future knocks on his door, the mettle of man gets tested. Do you take the opportunity or do you procrastinate? Do you take the risk and the subsequent consequences or do you value your safety above all? (Within reasonable measures obviously).

When in the field, chaos is the status quo. The music is loud, the club is dark and the girls are everywhere. Opportunities disappear as quickly as they appear and to capture it in the moment requires trained eyes and a healthy dose of self-awareness.

Females normally don’t initiate contact with males, due to their nature, however there at least 5 signs that a girl is interested in you, I call these micro-opportunities.

So if you’re in a club and a girl initiates a conversation, you can bet money that she is keen on you. This is rare but it does happen.

Most men progressing, and dead-set Beta males tend to not act on presented opportunities for a variety of reasons which I would say have the same core reason, a lack of self confidence.

Though this article revolves around females, the principle applies to all aspects of life and human nature. Notice the big-wigs on Wall St, they tend to act on what they perceive as a potentially rewarding stock, or a presidential candidate seeing a group of people that they can influence to follow their cause. Lets also not forget the countless examples of men taking a risk to influence the current of War to secure victory.

Opportunities present an alternative and it is understandable for one to be hesitant, as it's human nature to protect yourself from harm, however the brain doesn't recognise the difference between a chat and an altercation, so it tends to group all changes as negative (obviously unless a positive outcome is reached or it it is evident to do so).

As a male, you need to become comfortable taking risks. You need to be comfortable in new situations. As a fun exercise, next time you find yourself as an observing entity in a group of people where a sudden change of situation requires action from the authority of your group (say, for example, your male boss), focus your attention on how the females react to him. Strong leaders show calmness and an organised demeanour in the face of change, in the face of opportunity.

Females seek males that not only not waiver when facing change, but can embrace it and adapt to it to come out on top. They seek ambitious men who actively scout their surroundings for ways to improve, to move up. Powerful men don't fight change but use it to gain profit.

Think of it this way. In 10 years, do you think you'll even remember the girl rejecting you? Probably not. I don't even remember the name of the fourth most recent girl I've banged, but I do remember the last few recent opportunities that presented themselves which I did not act on. Honestly think about it, what could possibly happen if it goes sour? What could possibly happen if it goes well?

Seize every opportunity that is presented to you.

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