I have a new coworker , his name is Henry he’s a classic geeky looking guy in his early 30’s , nice enough to hang out, with loosens up after a few drinks but has little in the way of social skills while sober and occasionally has nervous ticks . When my bosses brought him in I assumed Henry was like most tech guys that I know an incel or someone who could count the women he’s been with intimately on one finger ( two fingers is traditional geeky engineer chad in my experience).

At First Henry works remotely out of state with plans to move once he's but while apartment hunting He occasionally stops at the office to check in , get a feel for us and say hello . One such time while he is hunting for a space I invite him out to drink . He mentions a “ friend” who just happened to fly out with him and says he has to talk to her about whether she’d like to hang or not . She says yes and we pick a nice bar near a beach to have dinner.

Like I said Henry is a classic geeky guy I am not expecting much and then a potential Blue Pill example hits me square in the face as I see a stunning Asian Woman sitting next to Henry as I meet them at our table. Gorgeous smile, Huge tits, and Big anime eyes . I’d say she’s a solid HB7 . Henrys Friends name is Wendy .

Now my spidey - senses towards whoredom are still developing but this girl was triggering the fuck out of them, everything she did kind of had a flirtatious subtext / sexual tone to it . She also liked to talk a lot and craved having the conversation on her . Whenever I steered it towards Henry and how I respected his skills and appreciate his contributions to the team she’d flip the conversation to be about her again . Regardless we had good drinks that night , had great food , and I got to know Henry and Wendy a little more. I thought maybe just maybe Henry got lucky and found himself a cool , sane , gorgeous chick who appreciated him for his geeky charming qualities, Wendy later destroyed this theory .

A few weeks ago Henry finally made his move here and I invited him and a third coworker ( Steve) out . I offered to celebrate my new team by buying these guys drinks after work and Henry let me know that Wendy was in town so he’d have to ask her if she was into going out which she agreed. Wendy is cheery as she was the first time I met her and she somewhat upset mentions at one point she is very shortly entering her 30’s.

Wendy and Steve start flirting almost right away right in front of Henrys eyes . On the surface it just seems like playful conversation but now that I understand power talk It’s very clear that it’s not. Over the course of the night Wendy gradually unfurls and after every drink gets a little worse.She laments being a hot Intelligent woman and then rails against monogamy and it’s oppressiveness. She talks about her experiences in sex clubs , prostate milking , and more railing against monogamy and how her ex Husbands ( plural) never understood her . She’s worked in bars, clubs , hooters, and then laments that now she is trying to make a transition into the tech world how unfair it is that people seem drawn to her due to her looks . All while doing this her and Steves flirting gets more and more intense . Steve doesn’t have much experience with women either so a flirty girl like this being aggressive towards him is bringing him out of his shell but he clearly doesn’t see he’s making Henry uncomfortable ( and Henry isn’t saying shit). Eventually we get to the point where she is literally grinding against Steve , She goes into hug me randomly and actually bites my neck , does the same to Steve right after .

Our only reprieve during this series of events is when she goes off to do a shot with Steve and flirt with a Bartender , Henry is obviously uncomfortable so I try to console him a bit but the highlights of our conversation were him saying “ I don’t like to be jealous so having an LDR with Wendy makes things not so bad” ( Because she’s obviously fucking other men). “She’s actually a good person, she just likes to flirt and get really close to fucking but then she pulls back “ ( Because she knows not to fuck someone else in front of her meal ticket). Lastly “ She does what she wants and she gets in trouble a lot” (but he’s always there to rescue her) .

I’m hoping Henry and Steve are ok with each other after that meeting , I did my best not to get pulled into the flirty sluts vortex and I could tell Henry appreciated that but Steve was excited to have a woman attention and couldn’t see through her validation or se where to draw the line. The one thing I will say about Henry that I respect is he does spin plates ( During her sexual word vomit Wendy let that information slip out too) . Wendy knows it and so do his others apparently ( or that’s what she says) . I question this a bit though , Henry doesn’t seem like the kind of guy who is into this and he mentioned during our conversation he enjoys the concept of monogamy which leads me to believe he just spins plates because he knows Wendy won’t settle down with him.

I've dated a slut before so I related what I could with Henry and I think that helped him a bit , we ended that part of our conversation with him telling me " Things are ok like this for now" with an expression and tone of melancholy. Sometimes I love when this sub gets it right and sometimes I hate it .

TLDR: Coworker brings hot HB7 to dinner , girl spends the entire night explaining how she deserves a slut championship , grinding my other coworker, bites me and other coworker on the neck , flirts with bar tender, coworker tries to pretend he's comfortable with this relationship and is clearly not , he is ok with being her free rent and dinner when she feels like visiting for as long as she'll entertain him.

TakeAways :
- Know your value , Henry didn’t win the genetic lottery and he could definitely do some things to improve himself however he’s a highly-paid technophile bachelor in his early 30’s . You don’t find women that look like Wendy everywhere but I have no doubt he could find one that was less of a slut ( or at least less open about her sultry) than she is.

  • Have some kind of Boundaries with any woman/ person you hang with , Wendy was a fucking wild cannon slut on the loose that night and it wasn't just because she loves attention , it was also because Henry clearly never expressed or expresses that the shit she pulls isn't ok . To be fair if he excercise those boundaries maybe Wendy wouldn't be with him but is it really better to visibly watch your girl grind on coworkers and flirt with bar tenders ? To each his own .

  • Most single women 30 and older are fucking broken , As gorgeous as Wendy is she has serious issues and I know they only develop further as those 30 + year old hamster wheels start to spin and justify why a wonderful woman doesn’t have a husband , children , or possibly both by now. I’ve unfortunately seen it in my sister , I see it in Wendy , and I have seen it in friends . Women just generally seem to get super Neurotic once the wall hits.

  • Last but not least give a woman time to show you who she really is , I don't understand why so many men rush into relationships. The Wendy I met that first night and the Wendy I knew by the end of that second night were basically different women . Wendy is Charming , fun , reasonably intelligent , and fun to look at but she's also slutty , unhinged, has the thousand cock stare , and is desperate for validation and attention .

    Elvis sung a simple song about a Devil in Disguise and it perfectly describes Wendy and many women like her.