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[–]LordThunderbolt9 points10 points11 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
He's definitely beta. She left him back in 03 for some DJ, then he "won" her back (lol). Then back in 2014 she was back trifling again, and now this.
Lessons to be learned:
As a man, never be complacent.
Don't commit to party girls. They're damaged goods and not relationship material.
Your girl going out to bars or clubs without you is a red flag. They're environment built around mating culture. Alcohol to lower inhibition, loud music to put people in a more positive mood, tight crowds where everyone is rubbing off each other, and everybody is it to be sexy.
If she leaves you for another man, never take her back. You aren't valuable to her and she will always leave you as soon as a better option presents itself.
Society will almost always career to the woman. Notice how the media didn't call her out for Edgar she is, an unfaithful and worthless set of holes.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't commit to party girls
Don't commit to any girl. AWALT. They're either party sluts or boring and trying to lock you down into being a provider. Often both.
[–]MUHFREEDOM1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't commit to party girls. They're damaged goods and not relationship material. Your girl going out to bars or clubs without you is a red flag. They're environment built around mating culture. Alcohol to lower inhibition, loud music to put people in a more positive mood, tight crowds where everyone is rubbing off each other, and everybody is it to be sexy.
Hmm, that pretty much apply to every woman ever. Is it really that black & white?
[–]SeekingTheWay1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does not. In my main circle, its less than 10%
[–]LordThunderbolt1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not every woman like to go clubbing or to bars on weekends. And yes, I'd say it's really that black and white. A grey area leaves you in a maybe she's not a slut but she just likes to go clubbing. Well good luck with those odds and don't be surprised when she comes home the next morning saying she was at Stacy's.
[–]Usecod5 points6 points7 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My old friend who is 34 left her husband for a young boy.Right now she is in very bad situation.Nobody wants her,she dont have a lot of friends and lot of people in the city dislike her.Her husband have found a new girl in his life and it is very happy.She is on the opposite side - very miserable.
[–]vagbutters1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't worry about her-- she has millions of overweight/scrawny betas lining up to put a ring on her post-wall ass because they're so sexually desperate.
[–]TrumpRules2016 3 points4 points5 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly why no man on earth should not get married. Yes, not every single marriage ends like this, but it's very common. Zoe Ball is probably gonna regret this decision when DJ Fatboy Slim finds a new and probably younger woman.
[–]AllMyOwnStunts3 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I expected a 27 year old party blonde when I Googled 'Zoe Ball'.
She's 45 with a butterface, and that's being generous.
Fatboy Slim shouldn't bat an eye, but I'm sure he will.
[–]a_flat_lemonade 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I think the slew of high-profile divorces is a good educational tool for young, aspiring red-pill men on this sub. It reveals a truth that is sometimes shied away from, which is that you will never be alpha enough for any woman all of the time, and that, even if you could be, you'd have to compromise your own desires and needs in order to do so. As you get older, the things that you want and need will change and you will want to pursue them accordingly. For women, who barely mature at all, there is always a need to be excited, to be courted and seduced, to seem as if they are in the midst of a convoluted love affair that pulls and pushes at their emotions all at once. In order to achieve this conflict within her, you either have to be the new cock on the block, or you have to be keeping things fresh all of the time.
That's why it's so much easier to move in and out of different types of relationships, rather than stick to one all of the time. With women, familiarity really does breed contempt. They see it as a weakness that you'll commit to them, regardless of your manner or your feelings towards it. It's easier to be the fresh new thing by virtue simply of being the fresh new thing, instead of having to refresh and reignite all the time. Women are the masters of bullshit rationalising along the lines of "the spark has gone" or "we don't have the same chemistry", which is all just a means of hiding from the banal and uninteresting root of their thoughts - that they're bored. You'll hear a lot of melodramatic phrasing within relationships, where people fight for one another, etc., but it's mostly the men who are having to do these things in order to keep a fading flame from being extinguished. Let other people enjoy their drama, put yourself first.
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It reveals a truth that is sometimes shied away from, which is that you will never be alpha enough for any woman all of the time
Yeah, there is a myth here.... the last vestiges of Disney within the TRP community: "If you're alpha enough you can have your Happily Ever After and your woman Will Not Cheat". In other words it's the blue pull lies but with a sprinkling of "lift some iron" thrown in there. And in typical dogmatic fashion if she does cheat then proponents of this delusion will simply state "You weren't alpha enough bro". Just like women will say "You weren't romantic enough and didn't do enough housework".
Everyone has their own reasons for wanting to believe that Women Can Be Loyal If You Just Do <something>. Or in other words: female loyalty is male responsibility.
Better to accept that women can and will cheat, branchswing, beta-ise, date-up and there isn't a damned thing you can do about it except living your life knowing that it can and will happen and making your peace with that and living your life accordingly.
That's why it's so much easier to move in and out of different types of relationships, rather than stick to one all of the time.
Exactly this. Be a man pursuing your own dreams and not obeying hers and you'll create plenty of drama in her.
They see it as a weakness that you'll commit to them
Absolutely. The easier you commit the less value it has. But over time it will be a prison for her no matter how you go about it. A prison that she will long to escape from sooner or later (ideally without losing your commitment).
hiding from the banal and uninteresting root of their thoughts - that they're bored.
Usually they'll blame the man for her losing attraction, and the man will try and do what she asks. "I'm too tired honey, it's because I have all these dishes to clean". Wrong answer: "I understand honey, I'll do some housework after my stressful 50 hour week and 10 hours of commuting". Right answer: "I understand honey, I'll find someone younger and more energetic so that you don't have to worry about sexually satisfying me, see how much I love you?"
put yourself first.
I put myself first, second and third. The rest of the world can compete for fourth place if it wishes.
[–]Marino4K0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I just don't necessarily buy that all women are interested in cheating if they have an opportunity. Some old school morals do exist, men and women alike, nothing alpha or beta here.
If I have a legit and good LTR, if she's truly "loyal", sex is good, cute, etc. Even if a relationship gets "boring" I'm not going to just throw it away for a flavor of the night. I don't think all women will necessarily throw it all away either for a chad
[–]Senior EndorsedMattyAnon1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the long run women either get sexually bored or sexually boring. It's not good for the guy either way.
[–]TrumpRules2016 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/1851888/zoe-balls-dad-blames-trauma-of-mum-leaving-family-for-self-destruct-mode-that-caused-fatboy-slim-split/
Her history shows that she doesn't have morals, becoming of a woman you should even commit to.
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