I posted this at ASKTRP too but I feel like I'll get more feedback here. I play football at a small college with only around 1,000 students. I dress well, stay in shape and am in the best fraternity on campus, but people don't seem to treat me with the same amount of respect as they did in high school. I've found that the quality of women that I attract now isn't as high as when I was in high school. Does anybody have experience with gaining respect as you age? BTW I'm only 5'9" and 165 lbs.