How does a Beta become an Alpha?

tits_out_forTheBoys · 2014-12-26T06:28:54+00:00

Value yourself above everyone else

Cloughtower · 2014-12-26T06:34:48+00:00

The hardest thing for me to do was deny instant gratification in relationships.

It's funny, because I can easily do this in every other aspect of life - finances, career, etc...

When it came to relationships, it was harder. I was afraid to cut people loose and suffer the immediate emotional pain as a result in return for better relationships in the future. When I learned to do this, life became better.

morteon · 2014-12-26T09:34:35+00:00

tl;dr increase your testosterone level.
Increasing the test level affect your behaviour subconsciously, so you'll be more aggressive, determined, fearless etc, in one word an alpha.
For your surroundings this transition will look like you 1) finally grew a pair 2) changed into a douche. Whatever, you are now an alpha, so you don't give a shit on others opinions.
Being manly man brings credibility, so you will get various offer along the way. Better job, better companion, more attractive women.
However, don't expect this happen overnight, it is a long(ish) way to the top. Be persistent.

TattedGuyser · 2014-12-26T06:57:39+00:00

First and foremost he needs to start valuing his own needs over the needs of others. Then he has to understand that the world is a sexual place and it's natural to to be openly sexual and not hide his intentions through whatever masks he was using before.

The rest will follow suite once he starts seeing the world for what it really is, either slowly on his own or by taking a large dose of pill from here or the few forums out there.

Yellowfever24 · 2014-12-26T07:48:43+00:00

Have a higher social status than everyone else in your social circle.

A big part about this is physical prowess, not necessarily being the strongest, but appearing to be the strongest. 1) Start lifting, go for hypertrophy. Big muscles are a very natural way to give power / social status to yourself. 2) Learn to communicate through body language and posture physical prowess.

Grow your social circle. Start networking.

Accumulate wealth, further your career.

Join MMA or Muay Thai or Boxing or other fighting style sport. The more aggressive, the better. Try to find an all-male or mostly-male gym. The dynamics here will be entirely different than co-ed. In an all-male environment (doesn't have to be fighting sport), you will learn camaraderie that you can't learn elsewhere.

Consider the freemasons.

Learn an important lesson from fight club: aggression is an important facet of masculinity. To shun aggression is to emasculate yourself. Simply being honest with your own masculinity will put you in Alpha status over 80% of men out there.

Stop yielding to others. Yielding is definitive beta behavior. Either others cooperate and negotiate with you (and make sure you git the bigger stick), or they yield to you entirely. This is where I disagree with others: you don't always have to put your needs first, but you will execute how the needs of others is responded to.

Be confident in all that you do. This doesn't mean that you'll know how to do everything already, but that you will be confident in your capability to achieve your goals, and proudly execute every step towards that goal.

Understand what alpha is: it's a responsibility, and you're granted it by showing a demeanor that says you're best suited for taking this responsibility.

Watch house of cards: Underwood exemplifies all of this.

Edit: added 2)

[deleted] · 2014-12-26T16:07:23+00:00

You must take command of your existence. Find a way to make a living and own it. This may not be something you enjoy but often that is not for you to decide. If you work hard enough you can change your fate.

To do this you must be secure in your thoughts and actions, take care of your body via exercise and nutrition and expand your mental capacity.

Everything else will fall into place once you sort out yourself. I have found that through focusing on my mission and pouring my energy into a career which I believe will further humanity I have little time or interest left for women.

BlackHeart89 · 2014-12-26T17:20:31+00:00

Stop being a sucker, chump, scrub, and/or bitch.

Learn to accept reality, stop making excuses, and stop settling for bullshit.

Title	How does a Beta become an Alpha?
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Date	December 26, 2014 5:44 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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