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How to approach milfs

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May 29, 2014
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Title How to approach milfs
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Comments 15
Date May 29, 2014 11:06 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 2 points2 points2 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]3trplurker 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Easy sex. That's quite literally all they have to offer. It's dark and evil, but hey fuck that noise and do whatever makes him happy.

[–]Brad_Wesley 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup, plus because they have kids they are only going out at most every other weekend and they want to get right down to it. They have no time to play games. It's just straight to fucking.

I've been known to specialize in such women.

[–]shitaintworthit 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not sure what's "dark and evil" about just wanting sex without commitment.

Edit: I've thought about it and changed my mind, it's pretty dark and one loses touch with humanity.

[–]3trplurker 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because she's got kids and needs a provider for those kids, it's NEVER "without commitment". She expects you to commit to kids the same way nice guys expect to get pussy for being nice. It's "dark and evil" for us because as RP men we know what she's ultimately after, and still consciously chose to maximize our benefit at the expense of hers.

Now personally I don't care about morality, was merely pointing it out because there is a subset of men on here who seem to think that being upright and "good" is somehow a requirement.

[–]ICWilfred 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My two...

Girl in the car: while staring at each other give a smirked smile and a nod as if an invitation for her to get out of the car, impress you are approachable and want her to do so. She does great, she doesn't walk away.

Girl on the sidewalk: not sure if that meant anything other than she's paying too much attention to her phone.

As for the cards: If you do have a job it's a great way to show worth rather than scribbling on paper or just typing into a phone. The cards, whether business or personal, give her something physical to associate with you. No, don't walk around the mall giving them out, and don't make the personal card about women or hooking up. Make the personal card somthing light and quirky which shows humor and confidence.

[–]A-Red-Six 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, my question is, how would I have approached these older chicks without looking like a cunt and how should I deal with the kid?

If they're anywhere near the wall, or have already hit it, you don't need any sort of fancy approach tactics.

At that point, they're just happy that somebody is paying attention to them. Assuming you've got a reasonable amount of SMV, just walk up and start talking. If you think about it any more than that, you're overcomplicating things.

[+]billiegoad -6 points-5 points-4 points 12 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

Hand out business cards. "Hey I think you're hot. Call me if you want. Here's my card." That's what you say. But you have the right idea. Don't waste your time on chicks your age. If they don't have 3 or 5 kids by 22 they want them. What you really want is women with kids about to graduate high school and leave the nest. Catch them before they acquire 11 cats especially if you have allergies.

As far as the off topic thing, since you weren't with a group of guys yourself you made an easy target for the guys looking to prove something to their budds, that they're macho ball busters. That's why dudes join gangs both in jail and out. A good sense of humor will help you get into their click. Freek them out. Try to befriend them. Laugh if they reject you.

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[–]billiegoad -5 points-4 points-3 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

It's called something else, like a personal card, like a business card though. You put your contact info, your philosophy, interests. Come on you've never heard of this? You walk around in the mall and hand them out. Or in bars. If the girl is interested she calls. If not you wasted 3 cents. Better than pissing away a whole bunch of money on drinks.

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[–]billiegoad 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All young men are desperate. Hormones is a terrible thing. If you want to compress time you have to throw a lot of darts at the wall and see which ones stick. When it comes down to it, a girl knows if she'll sleep with a guy withing 10 seconds of an encounter. The alternative is wasting money in bars buying drinks and going home alone particularly if you're not an alpha.

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[–]writewhereileftoff 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ya and in doing so you are giving her all the power. No, you get her number and she should be lucky you call her so you have the initiative. (this might sound douchebaggy, it's what your mindset should be) I'm sure there are other alternatives than buying her a load of drinks. I don't think these cards are a good idea at all. It sounds like you are applying for a job.

[–]billiegoad -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bro they do have all the power. They have what we want more than the other way around. If you want to compress time you have to throw a lot of darts at the wall and see which ones stick. I'm not saying you can't start a 3 minute conversation but look like you're in a rush and say hey call me with a confidence they will.

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