How to keep the spark going?

NateHiggersII · 2017-03-18T18:26:21+00:00

Ever thought about giving her the dick?

truthseeker201 · 2017-03-18T16:34:00+00:00

Spark = dread game and perceives SMV

Shaman6624 · 2017-03-18T20:44:13+00:00

Sounds like you have a low sexdrive and are interested in oneitis.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-03-18T22:39:24+00:00

I have never once gone out with a girl 3 times without fucking her. 3 is the absolute max.

SLMC1 · 2017-03-18T19:35:03+00:00

she was comfortable with me holding her holding her hands etc on previous dates.

This is so bluepill it's absolutely cringeworthy.

aditas · 2017-03-18T17:12:27+00:00

Move faster. Tell her you want to own her pussy.

LLL3peat · 2017-03-18T19:00:42+00:00

3 dates within the first week? Sounds like you are too available. Space it out a little and have a life outside of this girl you approached. You have to let her miss you to make her want to be around you more and more

Shaqs_foot · 2017-03-19T02:04:40+00:00

Men are the gatekeepers of commitment/relationships. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Do NOT go out with her until at the very least you bang her.

Also, you're just wasting time. She's not special and neither are you. Go for the lay and go from there. All this "not wanting to rush it" screams insecure. You're either afraid of rejection and you're rationalizing or you think she's a special unicorn and don't want to "ruin it". She's not a unicorn.

equation_x · 2017-03-18T22:06:49+00:00

Forgot to mention she is still keen to hang out with me. I understand I should f close soon but I don't want to rush it. It was actually a mate who suggested the spark would soon fizzle out. We have similar interests and contrasting beliefs.

Sir_Distic · 2017-03-18T23:25:48+00:00

Have fun. Treat it as if you were out having fun and she is along for the ride rather than the center of attention.

Just pick up where you left off. Be physical and go for sex.

DaBaulz · 2017-03-19T15:13:09+00:00

Your dreading the loss of the spark. She might be dreading it too.

It is not the loss of the spark you should fear. The loss is normal, all relationship have this energy rise and grow. What you should fear is your reaction to the loss. If you try and make up for it, if you over compensate, she will detect this and realize you are a fearful lowet value male. You should be ok with the loss, you have shit to do anyway. Go on your next date be fun, and make your move on her . It sounds like you are taking things too slow.

Title	How to keep the spark going?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	March 18, 2017 4:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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