How to maintain frame?

Cyralea · 2014-07-29T16:58:48+00:00

You probably still rely on others for validation. The need to go beta is often couched in the worry that you'll push someone away from being too alpha. When you truly and fully realize that every woman is replaceable you'll lose the need to double down on your newfound prize.

Start by doing things for which you're likely to get rejected. Get used to it, dull the sting, ultimately give less fucks.

kami_kakushi · 2014-07-29T20:42:37+00:00

its part because you see the woman as your judge, and you are eager to please her, fear of rejection, all that shit

you gotta view yourself as the giver, not the woman

when you talk to a woman, you are doing her a favour. when you ask a woman out, you are doing her a favour, when you go on a date etc, its you who are the prize for her

Misteralcala · 2014-07-30T03:22:03+00:00

The best way to do it when you're starting out is to realize that to her, you're a stranger. You can be whoever you want to be and chances are she won't see you again. This gives you an excuse to have fun with things and see what you can get away with. Remember, every girl you approach is a small victory, so rejection is a badge of honor for manning up.

After a while of not giving a fuck and having fun, you'll find your stride and get a good sense of what works for you and what doesn't.

Title	How to maintain frame?
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Upvotes	2
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Date	July 29, 2014 4:08 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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