How to proceed with my life?

Geocan001 · 2014-07-09T17:37:53+00:00

Okay, I can see two things that are holding you back from internalizing the pill in it's entirety. First is that you are suffering from being set in the roles that were defined early in the relationship. Check out Zimbardo's prison experiment to understand what I'm talking about.

The second thing is that you're afraid to be alone. So afraid, in fact, that you fantasize about getting into another relationship, have made up your mind to leave your wife, yet still can't put yourself into single mode. Here at TRP we are all about being comfortable alone. You can rationalise it however you want, but the truth is you're not presently strong or secure enough in yourself to take the Red Pill and take over the relationship.

TL;DR - Bro, you've got TRP in your hand. Swallow it.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-07-10T00:09:14+00:00

I am a Captain in The Red Pill Pro Marriage Brigade and a veteran of a 20+ year marriage. Quit fantasizing and take the damn pill. Honestly you are behaving like a.....woman. Seriously. Take it right now. You are hamstring par excellence the fact of looking for a replacement wife from a cheating slut. Don't do it. That is the dumbest idea I have heard all month.

This emotion you are feeling is VERY common when you first begin to unplug and you are correct- you are being completely retarded- but not to worry. Just process things slowly and avoid anger. Women get angry and stomp their feet. MEN figure out how to fix it and work to fix it.

I wish somebody had told me that earlier. My first post ever on TRP was asking the ladies at RPW if I should use my newfound powers of Game and Frame and Seduction to pickup up sluts or to repair my long time marriage. Long/Short I used my powers on my wife and now we fuck like rabbits and have never been happier. She is sweet and affectionate. I treat her like a piece of meat and tease her relentlessly. I slap her ass whenever she walks by and make her kiss me for 10 seconds every day. We have sex (at least) every other day because I freeze her out and stop responding to her calls the second she tries to deny me. You can't negotiate desire but you sure can command it. Did I mention she makes 6-figures more than me (that's not just 6-figures, that's 6-figures MORE than my pathetic professor salary).

Let me guess you have not been happy for some time in your husband/wife relationship because YOU have not been the leader and the Captain. I know it is a bitch when she makes more than you (trust me I really, really know) but you have to look at adding value otherwise- your calm, cool, upbeat frame would be a good place to start.

If sex frequency is the problem (and it usually is) WE at the Red Pill have the answer but you need to work for it.

TLDR:
Don't make any major sudden decisions in your life after you try to swallow TRP.

Don't leave your wife for a slut.

DO read about relationship game and Seduction.

DO establish and maintain a dominant frame and begin taking control and establishing boundaries.

[deleted] · 2014-07-09T20:58:55+00:00

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pbballs · 2014-07-09T21:49:01+00:00

Do you work at all? How much more money in terms of your income vs. hers, does your wife actually make? Having to "pick up the slack" for someone else especially if their income used to be higher, can really cause a lot of resentment. However, if you like your wife being in charge and she does, too, then good for you, and you can forget my statement. I for one like being the dominant one in the relationship so I can understand how your wife might like earning more money than you.

stemgang · 2014-07-10T14:56:18+00:00

Quit your job. Spend more time with your kid.

Stop developing oneitis for a slut.

[deleted] · 2014-07-13T01:22:33+00:00

Wife makes a lot more money than I do.

Well, now you're definitely going to get divorced, because she will find you inadequate if she hasn't already. Read up and swallow TRP.

Title	How to proceed with my life?
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Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	July 9, 2014 4:19 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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