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Here in the thousands more like.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 07:12 PM
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IMHO ego is that thing that doesn’t want to die. The thing that makes you want to leave an impression on the world if only to say “I was here!”
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 09:30 AM
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if you can get a clear understanding of how they see themselves and how socially rough it is to be a hot girl Where the fuck am I BluePill? Jesus fucking Christ
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 07:15 PM
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Not sure it’s guys bored of banging broads.. more like men who are fucking tired of the mind game bullshit
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 12:16 AM
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As a rule it is the nature of women to use men for protection, resources, and, in the case of her interaction with alpha-males, reproduction. This is due in large part to their physical vulnerabilities. I know this isn't the point of your post, but I lost interest after reading that. Our physical aptitudes are NOT the only major factor /difference between the sexes. I know I'm derailing your post, but come on. you're not giving men enough credit for how much we do and provide for women. Women wa…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 06:38 PM
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Religious texts were created to guide the ignorant and feeble minded away from the destruction of civilization. That's not really an honest statement. Do you really think the authors cared about civilization? How do you suppose to know why those texts were created? come on. But since we're guessing, I agree that the texts were created to guide the ignorant and feeble minded... but only to their own slavery at the hands of the authors/creators. To think the authors cared anything about society is…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 04:58 AM
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I get what he's saying. And I'm saying, why listen to someone who's either an idiot or lying to you?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 08:03 PM
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I have no problem with that context/statement. I have a problem with the concept of original sin. Hi I'm God. I made everything, every law of physics, every law of the known universe, every synapse firing in your brain. I made you independent and have a will to learn and do things. I want you to decide things for yourself. BUT don't eat from the tree of knowledge. Why? Oh, because I told you so of course! OMS! (oh my self) you ate from the tree when I told you not to! Now you will die! You've ne…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 04:55 PM
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that's really not taking it far enough. I would be willing to bet that women to it 20-100 times more than guys do it. Women have zero honor and feel no remorse or obligation to guys they no longer want to date.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:04 PM
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Me too. Let's also not forget how gynocentric religion is
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:39 PM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:02 AM
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I guess I need to repeat myself. Her words are retarded so ignore them. She doesn't want you touching her. It's the 'DUMBEST FUCKING SHIT EVER', and you're doing the guy thing, and giving her too much validity, and trying to find a way what she's saying can make sense and not mean what you know it means. Male hamstering; good luck, I've been there
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:30 PM
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I guess I should leave. this place is, apparently, now overrun with manginas.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:27 PM
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Get out.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:36 AM
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Read the sidebar before posting shitty advice
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:48 AM
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Terrible feminine advise! "It's like totally ok for her to act like a whore. Remember she's YOUR whore. You lucky bastard"
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:19 AM
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Just putting this out there from experience with the same thing. She may already be cheating on you. Her words are retarded so ignore them. She doesn't want you touching her. Maybe she's afraid you'll smell chads jiz in her hair.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:04 AM
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Not so much the minorities as dems in general. Bernie supporters gave her a big fuck you
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 01:12 PM
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interesting maybe. it'll never happen
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 08:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure you're agreeing twith me but calling it a disagreement. I actually don't resent anything in this context. I'm just trying to help other men avoid the idea that men ever had control of women. It's feminist tripe.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:11 PM
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I resent the insinuation that men ever had control of women. That's actually feminist patriarchal bullshit. Men have always been slaves
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 12:34 PM
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It changed a lot about me 1) I no longer fixate on one girl 2) I no longer fixate on women to fulfill me 3) I no longer feel any cognitive dissonance about what I want as a man and what society tries to demand 4) my relationships with women have improved significantly 5) I don't feel out of place or lost in dating. I'm frustrated by the state of the world sure, but I feel at ease with the women lucky enough to date me
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:49 PM
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Grab her arm and gently pull her to you. If she resists smirk and tell her she looked like she wanted a kiss. If she doesn't then go for it. It's really that easy.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 03:33 AM
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Now THAT is some real truth brother. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:06 PM
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Irrelevant. We are discussing rape here, not long term outcomes for women. I addressed your deviation from the rape discussion. See my earlier quotation of your text concerning shaming. Sluttiness and idiocy might be correlated, indeed. We agree there.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:55 PM
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Is it to make sure everybody possible can access this information to help themselves Men build society. This sub-reddit is society building 101.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:48 PM
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It has to be noted that people make serious mistake by shaming rape victims as sluts and such. This is not correct and rightlfully aggravates women. They should be shamed as idiots, nothing more That seems an awful lot like a distinction without a difference. Being a slut is being an idiot. But you know, since we're guys we like them slutty so we go along with the 'being a slut is fine' poppycock. There have been many many discussions here on why slutty behavior leads to poor outcomes for women.…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:43 PM
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Call me whatever you want, but if you imagine Jay Z when he wrote this song and/or before he was wealthy this shit is weak. The lyrics ring true but his actions dictate otherwise. He's just posing and or peacock-ing. Which is 99% of rap. "Hey look at me girls! I don't give a fuck!"..then gets married. I can't respect that.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 03:12 PM
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Ding Ding Ding. Men don't care at all about other men's problems. They're too busy dealing with their own, and that excuse is why men have so many problems to deal with in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 03:00 PM
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Yep. I actually have a co-worker who's daughter was involved as a teacher in sex with one of her students. As far as I know she hasn't gotten into much trouble. I clearly don't know much about the case though.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 02:56 PM
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Too much pussy out there is right. If you really have that mindset you dont see the point in risking everything on a few moments of orgasm with a chick who isn't worth anything in the first place
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 01:28 PM
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100% agree. RPW sub just gives women bullshit feels. Women aren't entirely without logic, RPW gives women the circle-jerk of feeling like they're above other women and their own nature...which they never will be.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:44 PM
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Exactly right. HUGE fucking difference.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:25 PM
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I'm not sure if you're white-knight-ing or not. Ayn Rand was logical as fuck..and I owe here a debt of gratitude. Evenso, she didn't escape her own solipsistic nature and hypergamy. Women have significant advantage in our culture, Ayn Rand was no exception. Her giving up her advantages wouldn't be in her interest. Nathaniel Brandon wrote a bit about his interaction with her.. she was happy to fuck him with her husband's full knowledge.. rationalizing the whole way on how it was only right for he…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 07:23 PM
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So I'm not really losing. Your time is worth more than her pussy. See Patrice O'neal
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:28 PM
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You. Why waste your time on this girl? Guard your time like a woman guards her pussy.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:25 PM
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in that case. Good one! I thought my response was funny (and serious) depending on your intent. ha
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:22 PM
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Being nice is one thing. Being a push-over is another. I know that's your point.. but this guy is clearly being a push-over
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:12 PM
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/rp/ actually said someone should be nice fuck you
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:11 PM
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he wants me to be her ride from college back to our city for the weekend. She says she wants to get home for the weekend, BUT, she also has a dinner-date with her boyfriend. I stopped reading there. You're an orbiter or a pussy, just not sure which. Stop letting women rape your time. (as the late, great, Patrice O'neal would say)
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:10 PM
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That only works if you're trying to fuck 3rd world pussy. Otherwise, the bitches in the US are all competing for top 10% of US men. Which, means you're earning 7-8 figures annually if you're going to compete.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:53 PM
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Is there any way to use that moment to probe if I'm her only sexual partner? Would/should you believe her if she says that you are?!!
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:36 PM
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Well, I'm RedPill and MGTOW. The pussy isn't worth the chase. However, being a bad ass motha-fucker and having the pussy chase you is another thing entirely. If you want pussy, figure out how much effort you're willing to put into it, knowing that it's mostly a waste of time. Focus on you and the pussy may just come calling.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:32 PM
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Total bullshit is what that is. It's extremely poorly written and it's extremely bad advice on how to be an orbiter. troll
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:28 PM
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Totally agree. People here are at least somewhat stuck in the "If I lift and get money I can have whatever I want" phase. Which is total bs delusion. Men, especially in the era of online dating, have significantly less change to get their needs met if they aren't in the top 10%. No one wants to believe they aren't in the top 10%. And fewer still will accept that they never will be. I accept both. What I see happening in this thread is a bunch of delusional men telling other men to accept the del…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:23 PM
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Counter argument: she's staying for the money
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 08:01 AM
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It may suck right now, but trust us when we tell you that by fully swallowing the pill you will avoid most of the pitfalls that trap most men into a life of quiet desperation. Commit to the road less traveled, that will make all of the difference.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 04:47 PM
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are becoming hahahaha. women have been for a very very long time. men are the romantics women are the pragmatists.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 06:26 AM
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EXACTLY 100% correct. The idea of men bar tending is absurd. It's not impossible, but it's a very hard sell for most establishments. You have to be in the top 15% in looks to get that job or have good connections... and even then you're extremely lucky. This makes sense when you consider what the ratio of men to women is in most bars... and why people go to bars in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 12:13 AM
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Dating sites are absolutely riddled with this type of woman. It's absolutely vulgar.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 05:44 PM
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Notice I said 'beta years'.. so no I wasn't. But looking back on it, I'm happy with the outcome. That princess was terrible for me.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:36 PM
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Mostly spot on... Men just need one other thing: not ugly. Because we need our dick to work for a relationship to work.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:03 PM
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Different strokes is right. I dislike tall women after dating a tall ex in my beta years. Princess had to have everything her way. She was tall and thought that meant she was more desirable for men because she was similar to the body type of a model. Most of the time I had to stop myself from cringing when I looked at her.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 09:58 PM
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but for those of us who don't live in butt-fuck nowhere and do folk dancing with hundreds of farm girls haha! He's so trying so hard to, but all I hear is NAWALT and bullshit about how the past was great. Women's intentions may have been better hidden then.. and socio-economic ties certainly kept them more in check. But a girls gonna do what a girls gonna do.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 07:02 PM
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It's still the OLD-FASHIONED patriarchal law which says the husband is the father no matter what. There is no such thing as patriarchal law. It's theoretically possible, but it doesn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 06:04 PM
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I agree, but that sense of entitlement doesn't come without its cost to others. If women were just entitled and couldn't find someone to exploit they would quickly stop being entitled. Women exploit men, and badly; men continue to allow women to behave like children so they have no reason to change. It's basically the same as a parent who can't tell their child no and follow through on a simple punishment. Men just need to hold their ground. Parents need to too. Poor parenting plays a huge role …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 04:09 PM
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Her advice is replacing bad advice with even worse advice. Girls aren't attracted to guys who worship them. So she's telling girls to go refuse to have sex (STDs) and go for guys they're not attracted to. At no point are they going to think that's a good idea. She should be teaching them how to find a balance within themselves and their partner. How they should improve themselves to find the mate that they want. How they need to bring something to the relationship table. ..but of course she won'…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 06:48 PM
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Again, you're projecting a straw-man and arguing against it. It's clear you have more reading to do (as do we all). But I'll bite on your straw man anyway...but only because I don't think you're a feminist troll. do you agree that all men are like that? That given the chance, they nail the hot 20 year old ready to go, no matter how many years of marriage, how many kids, how much is at stake? Yes all men are like what men are like. Which is different than what you said. Men aren't hypergamous. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:31 PM
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You missed the point and are projecting. He said nothing of the opposite sex in his post. And please stop with the NAWALT. christ
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 02:04 AM
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Downvote. Her comment, like most women here, adds no value...she basically said: "Hi! I'm a woman! You guys are sometimes right (and wrong). Those other bitches are crazy." Implication: NAWALT And it's really hard to avoid her comment being seen that way.. even if it's truly not how it was intended. If she had left her gender out of it then no one would be downvoting it.. it would just be ignored for its lack of content. Tits or GTFO
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 02:29 PM
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You can only control yourself.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 06:27 PM
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you're such a Troll
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:37 PM
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men are typically just sportsfans or overexcitable douches. I've found many men interact on via sports because it's a commonality. Many men will interact on a much deeper level if you can prove that you aren't the over-excitable douche that they're also used to seeing.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:04 PM
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THANK YOU. I am also an introvert, but that's no excuse for staying in and being bored and unhappy. Creating games out of social interaction is one great way to have fun. (something I sometimes employ..it's just difficult to get others involved at times)
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:02 PM
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I'm going to dissent with a few here. In the short term, you shouldn't discard friends until you have additional friends which are better suited for you. Make a continuous effort to find better friends. Friends, regardless of disagreements, can be invaluable in so many ways: career prospects, dating prospects, help when you're down, and your general social/mental health. Additionally, there will always be betas to ridicule you. Now is a great time to learn how to hold frame and turn the tables. …
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:50 PM
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If you think she can realistically fuck up your life.. figure out how. Take steps now to protect yourself. In some very unusual cases that could mean interacting with her a little more to get evidence of consent or evidence that your actions were self-defense. For the most part you need to get the fuck out. Be sure to talk to your friends, parents and support network about what's going on so that they can vouch for you if shit hits the fan. Depending on your situation and location you may also b…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:41 PM
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Yes... relax. Try to see this experience as the first of many. It may turn out a little weird, but be ok with that. The experience will teach you many things and get you closer to where you want to be. It's like taking an internship out of college so you can obtain your career goals. Take it seriously so that you learn, but if you accidentally burn the office down you can easily leave it off your resume.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:32 PM
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From what I've lurked TRP is a subreddit for male self-improvement and "sexual strategy" which to me mostly means getting laid. No, it's really not. TRP is so much more than that. It's a community built around helping men understand how society works (or doesn't work), what men and women are, and what role a man should fill to be the happiest version of himself. If a guy thinks that chasing ass will make him happy then that's not discouraged.. but many here who have gotten their fair share of no…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:04 PM
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Well.. then sit down and READ.. all of this has been covered so many times.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 08:21 PM
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There is absolutely truth in this. Guys see it the same way girls do here. While it's usually promoted on TRP that a guy give less than a girl does to the text/convo.. that doesn't mean a guy should simply annihilate the conversation with 'K'.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 08:18 PM
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"Do you want me to stay? Because right now I'm on the verge of just ending things" My response to that is the same as when a police officer tells me he smells alcohol. "OK" Both opposing statements are designed to make you give into their frame and say too much. Just don't. The problem with asking "Why"...while it may make her hamster spin... is that it's inviting conversation that's ultimately a waste of time. She's going to come up with 10 reasons.. all bullshit, for why she wants her desire t…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 08:05 PM
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My sentiments exactly brother. Great addition to my points.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 06:47 PM
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Actually that's not really true. Plenty of violent or drug related ways to rape men. But that's beside the point.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 07:10 PM
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Funny thing about the women's imperative. They want to boss you around like a mother would... But mothers aren't attracted to their kids.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:31 PM
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Back to a point I made previously. The movie never shows that those behaviours are something he ever really wanted. Why he chose them are left to the viewer. But there are clear implications. Thinking that this movie is red pill is a very clear case of confirmation bias. Even so, if you got a good red pill message out of it then great!
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:36 PM
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I'll only counter with: a quality man to whom? Women. He's now a good little broken beta provider male. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:27 AM
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You're quite the cordial one. Nowhere does the movie show that Phil stopped chasing Rita. IMHO, If he had even a modicum of self-respect he wouldn't have had anything to do with her after her continuous rejection of him. The movie ends with the clear message that he finally got what he wanted (Rita) after all those years...and they go off to live happily ever after. Think as you wish.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 05:23 AM
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But that's the point icyhot makes (and rightfully so): he doesn't just become the man women want, he becomes the man Rita wants. That was definitely my part of my point, but I'll go even further: Become the man YOU want. Be someone YOU admire. Be the hero in YOUR own story. Don't wait for others to lead, YOU lead. Our feminized world doesn't teach men this. Instead it/women teach us to be what they want. Except they don't know what they want or need. Women don't understand the masculine. That's …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 04:12 PM
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Choose to interpret this fiction however you want. BUT I think it's about as beta as it gets. Phil is stuck on Rita for the entire movie. Including the girl he lied to and accidentally called "Rita" right before closing the deal. There is an inference that he eventually sealed the deal but that's a different point. The only way for him to get out of Groundhog purgatory was to become the man Rita wanted. The movie never goes into any exploration into Phil's motivation for changing. That was left …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 08:41 PM
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if they were so into commitment like TRP likes to make out, What? Typo? Women are all about commitment of resources at key periods of their life. and they don't give a fuck about it when they're not trying to reproduce and provide for their kids. Otherwise I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:16 PM
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Good post. I will provide one counter point. If your business is geared toward customer loyalty and retention then be fair. Simply having customers trust that you aren't going to exploit their ignorance is a huge value you can provide.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:37 PM
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That's absolutely brilliant reading. Often a great idea is something people could live without, but why would they?! In our highly specialized society people don't want the hassle of figuring crap out just to get what they need.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 06:30 PM
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I'm as annoyed by realtors as the next guy.. but you make an astute point. There are many scenarios where a good realtor can be invaluable. But they are few and far between, and an individual would be much better off if they simply found a good attorney.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 04:06 PM
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Spot on, and that thread from the link is freaking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:39 PM
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Men are hypergamous just the same as women. Wrong. You are twisting and narrowing what hypergamy means into something that makes it equatable to men's tendencies. It is not. Please read Rollo Tomassi here. Our different mating strategies have some similar characteristics but they are not similar enough to dismiss hypergamy as simply a woman's version of what men do. To quote Rollo: That the term Hypergamy should be so wantonly limited in its definition, and in such a way that it serves to delibe…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:10 PM
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... and over thousands of years many frequent wars to reduce the number of men vying for female attention which hides hypergamy because women are just happy to land a mate when men are in short supply. The US has seen a long period of peace (relatively speaking) where very few of its male citizens have been culled.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:58 PM
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That's very insightful and slightly lessens my frustration with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 09:02 PM
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Yes, we definitely disagree. Men use the emotional part of the brain to solve puzzles and we could not do it only with the cognitive part. What source are you using for that assertion? Having interacted closely with a few neuroscientists I find such claims to be pretty baseless. Even if it were true, what does it prove? It certainly doesn't support your initial claim that women use their 'logic' for 'social issues'. If anything, it seems to imply that men overuse their logic at times when they s…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:51 PM
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You're partially correct. Women find social analysis as a fantastically enjoyable past-time. Which is why things like day-time tv and being mysterious and unpredictable is catnip for plates. With that said, women's ability to analyze social situations isn't necessarily a good indicator for logic. They're too irrational/emotional/inconsistent to ever be called logical... Regardless of context.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:10 AM
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I think my favorite hamstering involves them stating something negative in their past quickly followed by: "I have no regrets. You can't live your life like that. Everything happens for a reason."
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 04:58 AM
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That one was one of the big realizations I had when I first found TRP. I know of no woman I've ever met to have ever acknowledged their failures.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 04:41 AM
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Since we're talking about college loans/debt... This is the type of girl that goes back to college in her late twenties and lives off of the $17,000+ a year of post-secondary loan money. I have met several of these folks. Once they get past 35 they really start to panic/realize that there's no hope for them financially.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 04:35 AM
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But do people honestly prefer women who don't know what the hell they're doing? According to Patrice Oneal. A woman only knows what she wants sexually (or how to please a man in this case) by a man teaching her. I agree, and I'd rather be the one training her than someone else.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 10:55 PM
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I agree with you. A lot of online chicks take a bit of time before they feel like they've vetted you enough to meet. The question is whether the time is worth it to you. I'm just getting into this online dating ridiculousness...and I'm not sure it's worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:49 PM
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But do I follow through with her order? Depends on the politics, the necessity of the request, whether the work applies to your job position, the audience in which the order was given, your dependence on the job, etc. Disregarding your boss will not be met well by her boss or even your peers. Probably the best advice I can give you is to realize how valuable the relationships are around you, and how your work ethic impacts positively or negatively others. People DO notice...even when you think t…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:50 AM
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What if the female is a superior? You will be flogged for that statement. ha Answer: Maintain frame. Silence is golden. ..or get another job.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:36 PM
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yep fucking classic.. and I can't help but think that a prostitute is cheaper than these crazy whores...and a prostitute would know better than to pull this shit. I'm not sure why the poster is bothering with these silly entitled whores...except perhaps as an experiment.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 04:31 PM
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I've been lurking for a year and a half and hadn't read this. Fantastic post. thank you
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 05:15 PM
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God I hate this whole yoga pants fad. I'm tired of seeing the outline of pussy lips everywhere I go. It's extremely unfeminine, and has been covered here before.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 11:25 PM
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But you're also missing the point. Not missing the point. just ignoring it. There are no perfect people. Magic isn't real.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:19 PM
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Just gotta add: correlation is not causation.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:11 PM
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it because it takes so much effort Well, as a guy who's recently off sugar.. it takes surprisingly little effort. I've been substituting fruit for sugar.. and the results are fantastic. No more massive sugar swings and weight just slowly disappears.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:09 PM
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Agreed, it might have helped for clarity, but then again, us readers should also be able to think for ourselves a bit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:33 PM
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As opposed to folks who believe in things they can't see, feel, or prove? The same who say that their 'feelings' can prove things? ..and that man is inherently evil?.. and that being evil is simply the byproduct of being born? Yeah, we're the nutjob retards.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:18 PM
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Angry -> No coherence -> downvote. There is more philosophy to life, not as empty as "pussy" and confidence in social situations, huh. Look beyond yourself for once. Of course there's more to life than pussy. Join us in mgtow. TRP doesn't necessarily glorify pussy. Take what you want from it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:14 PM
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Atheism is not a belief system. It's the lack of a belief in theism. The fact that folks join together to share their lack of belief in theism doesn't make it a dogma either. Social creatures like to find like minds, especially when dogmatic theists have been killing you off for thousands of years. Consider it a survival instinct.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:09 PM
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oh you silly religious folks.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:04 PM
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That's a simple and apt description. Not sure why you're being downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:00 PM
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creating the majority of misogynistic behavior. I'm not sure what you're getting at there. The gynocentric programing creates misandric behavior and labels any male who tries to be true to himself as a misogynist. If that's what you're getting at then spot on!
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:57 PM
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My guy friends just aren't as interested in politics/ current events. It's strange Actually, I'll bite on this and tell you why we're not: It's an entirely superficial, fem-centric and dominated conversation. IMHO, politics is something I explored 10 years ago (my 20s) when I didn't see the layers of bullshit and control. Most women will never see passed the superficial social bullshit of it, and the guys that do will check the fuck out. As another commenter pointed out in this thread, there are…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:30 AM
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I've actually been able to have more intellectual conversations with her than a lot of my guy friends (maybe I need better male friends) I challenge you to watch closely the next time you have that intellectual conversation with her. Often, women will simply be mirroring you and adding information based on contextual clues. From my experience, smart girls use their intellect as a social tool nothing more. Deep conversation isn't something they enjoy, and are actually irritated by it. (Source, da…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:26 AM
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I'm an Ayn Rand fan, but in a lot of ways, I see her philosophy as a way to rationalize and excuse her hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 05:20 AM
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So what you're saying is that you gather self esteem from rejecting other people? No you reject other people because you have self-esteem. The recognition of the fact that YOU are valuable and that YOU can choose who you fuck. That you aren't powerless. The happiness you feel is a result of your own recognition of your power over self, integrity (congruence with your values), and the desire it creates from others. Watching bitches heads spin is hilarious because women walk around empowered with …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:49 AM
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So, you seem to be implying that mgtow are only mgtow because they're ugly or unwilling to alpha up..and as a consequence can't get laid. Great rant by Barbarossa None of the players and 'Aphas' encourage shaming women for their deplorable behavior and hypocrasies. They only want to get their panties wet. So they reward women by giving them what they want and shaming any male who refuses to play along. In that sense the players and the feminists are on the same side, they just have different met…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:51 AM
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Beta --> MGTOW --> Alpha I disagree, I'd respectfully put MGTOW and Alpha at the same level. This entire discussion is focused on getting to the point as a man where you are satisfied turning down pussy. Whether you do so because you have an immense supply or because you have realized that pussy isn't worth the effort (with or without access), it makes no difference. Just keep turning down pussy, lads, and you will find yourself and your power. I publicly turned down a girl 4 months ago, and I'm…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:17 AM
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Sounds great doesn't it? Except pattern recognition is useless out of context. You'll still need a procedural strategy to understand it. Epistemology is worth the time to read up on. I got a lot of mileage out of Ayn Rand's 'Objectivist Epistemology'. A great example of how pattern recognition can't be used on its own is the behavioral sciences...which we rail against almost daily here. Correlation is not causation.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:02 AM
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Personally, I'd push it further and say women are good at having emotions. They need us to control them because they sure as shit don't know how to analyze/process/handle them.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:36 PM
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I'm just going to reply to myself since, there's too much to rebut. Let's first posit a definition of what intuition is: The act or faculty of knowing or sensing without the use of rational processes; immediate cognition. n. Knowledge gained by the use of this faculty; a perceptive insight. A sense of something not evident or deducible; an impression. I aver that intuition without the ability to properly analyze (rational process) just results in confusion and is mostly useless. Any unidentifiab…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:01 PM
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Intellect + Intuition = Intelligent Hamstering 101 Intuition is an excuse for laziness and a rationalization for believing in magic and doing whatever feels right.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:41 PM
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shit test, or she's just feeling you're too good to be true.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:34 PM
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Indian women being more successful?! hahaha No one in their right mind would want to date an indian woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:05 PM
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Funny how we use 'sexual strategy is amoral' all the time to justify doing taboo sexual acts, but when it comes to choosing to refrain from them suddenly the gloves come off.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:21 PM
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It's ok. That wasn't my point, if you're going to read Rand then there is really only one book to start with: Atlas shrugged. The Fountainhead pales in comparison and I'm pretty sure Rand considered it her best work of fiction.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:13 PM
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they want (commitment) If by commitment you mean resources, then I agree.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:53 PM
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You can't have your cake and eat it to. A girl who is still a virgin when you meet her has principles she'd have to throw out the window for you to fuck her. The effort involved in pursuit of that pussy isn't worth it. Coming from a religious background myself, I know full well the amount of time wasted.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:15 PM
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Because you don't buy a car without driving it first. Sexual compatibility shouldn't be assumed.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:03 PM
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can't face the thought that they might be wrong.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:13 PM
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I had that in a business class. It was pretty appalling behavior.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:19 PM
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the way they came to these conclusions "scientifically" was that they literally changed the significance threshold. Yes you heard me. Apparently only correlations that are extremely high are significant and therefore everything was refuted. This has been going on in secondary education for a long time. It envelops all of sociology. I failed sociology the first time because I couldn't choke down the BS with a straight face... that was 15 years ago, and the bs was already well established in my ti…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:12 PM
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Another thing I see among many angry newcomers and beta males is that they look at guys who are the life of the party, loud, charismatic, outgoing, call them assholes/players/meatheads simply because their underlying psychology is telling them they can't be a part of it. There is a lot of truth to this. It's something I've been working on.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:58 PM
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Part of the problem is looking at women and saying "oh, the poor things just don't have the capacity to be adults," rather than acknowledging that they are trying to have their cake and eat it too, and holding them responsible. I totally agree with you. Women are 100% capable of acknowledging and fixing their problems. To look at them as children excuses their choices. They know full well what they're doing. They're exceptionally pragmatic. But they won't change because they don't have to. Put t…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:27 PM
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Are you talking about me again? Scarlett Johansson is about a 17 on a 1-30 scale. Fucking average without the makeup.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 09:49 PM
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Just read.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 07:44 PM
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Along in the self-realization process, I discovered I had a fear of commitment and love. Bullshit female shaming. (Edit: that's feminine programming which creeped into your psych. throw it away) You have a lot of sidebar reading to do. Stop asking for help and help yourself.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 06:46 PM
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Wish I would've discovered TRP a year ago at least We all wish we were born with the knowledge.. and to some extent we were. Have no regrets. You're still a baby relatively speaking. There's so much ahead of you.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 06:40 PM
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Yep, It works best when alone from my experience, but definitely works.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:42 PM
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A simple answer: hang out here, read as much as possible. Immediately start pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. Work on making male friends. Men are awesome; women follow us around because we are. Do something today that is different than your normal routine and at least a little uncomfortable. Wash-rinse-repeat Realize that this whole alpha/beta/omega stuff is at least a little bullshit. Don't let others' perception dictate your self-worth (especially women). Are you happy with where you…
/r/askTRP01/04/15 01:57 PM
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well. actually oral is dangerous too.. just not as much as intercourse.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 06:27 PM
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Dude, the world is filled with misandry. Men are the manipulated and shit on sex. There are plenty of resources to learn about this and find comradery. I think you're angry because people are crazy and call the abuse of men normal and equal. It's ok to have righteous rage...but don't wallow in it. Anger is a gift; use it to fuel change in your life. Learn, learn learn if you're the analytical type. Do something useful and stress-reducing if you're not.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 02:17 PM
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You're absolutely right, in the correct light it's easy to see what's going on...Not sure I'd call it redpill. It's been 10 years since I read it, but the delusions of Rand almost rival 50 shades of gray (not that I've read it). It's no surprise that Rand was all ego. She was brilliant in some respects, but she lacked the most basic of feminine qualities. She is every woman who considers herself a special snowflake princess who is unrivaled by other women. She must have been aware of her homely …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 11:41 PM
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Yep. Possible.. but very improbable One doesn't get over 40 years of beta conditioning in a few months.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:40 PM
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I really think that the Fountainhead is a waste of time. Just read Atlas shrugged. I will say that Rand's portrayal of men in her books is very telling of the female psyche. Her Personal life as well. Hypergamy to a T as well as the hyper-idolization of men beyond reason and the idiotic inherent assumption that women can earn their place next to a heroic man through her own achievements. With that said I am still deeply indebted to Rand.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 11:12 PM
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No. Abundance mentality!=abundance Men haven't had abundance for decades. And no most men here understand that.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 11:55 PM
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Go hang out at any bar and watch... Some of the ugliest Bitches I know have very high partner counts.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 02:10 AM
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Well, I think you're half right. A some of what is being talked about is a bit beta. However, I think they're describing an interesting balancing act that has to be managed in order for both parties to get what they emotionally need out of the relationship. With that said, the idea of having to jump through hoops to entertain and keep a woman interested in me (even to the degree describe above) revolts me. MGTOW for life.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:30 PM
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I think you might have mistaken this subreddit for somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:22 PM
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You can't, or at least it's very difficult. Abundance mentality is basically dread game in a LTR but she's got you by the balls, especially if you have co-mingled assets and children. That's one reason why marriage is so frowned upon here... amongst a myriad of other reasons.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:08 AM
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Great point that I hadn't thought of. Constant reinforcement with small requests for subservient behavior. Women constantly do that to their beta guys.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:47 AM
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I had the same reaction but thought the story added to our dialogue enough not to raz him
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 07:59 PM
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I Married a phd in neuroscience. I could have written the above story myself. Awalt Happily divorced
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:25 PM
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Nah. She is a lesbian trying to further diminish the role of men by proving that gender roles are entirely a social construct. That any woman could man up if she wanted to. That women don't man up because being a woman is more difficult and better suited for their amazing and undeniable strengths. Same shit. Different day
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 11:58 PM
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Absolutely correct. Both the interviewer and interviewee were both obviously unable to comprehend even a fraction of what was happening. The leading questions and answers were offensive. Misandric rationalizations about how us men are incapable of emotionally connecting were telling. Women walk into a room full of other women and plug in socially and emotionally almost like a telephone. Men have to earn the privilege to even be in the room. A woman posing as an effeminate man had to face a fract…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 03:03 AM
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I'm talking about the boyfriend. Let me put it this way. We agree that the boyfriend was an idiot; the problem is that you're giving the girl a pussypass. ..which is, ironically, the same thing the boyfriend did when he got mad at the boy in the story and not his own girlfriend. It's not just social conditioning that causes men/society to be protective of females and angry/dominant toward other males. Are you white-knighting or do you just need to read the sidebar and have a little self-reflecti…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 09:49 PM
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Which is also really interesting because she has no idea how much less was expected of her as a man just because she exuded femininity. I don't want to get in a pissing contest with gay men, but the more feminine they are the greater the female privilege starts to creep in. (men and women expect less of you)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:16 PM
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the boyfriend is a POS, so is the girl. If you're going to exclude the girlfriend from moral judgements shouldn't the guy (edit: boyfriend) be excused as well? Isn't he "simply acting according to thousands of years of evolution?" That's a rhetorical question.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:42 PM
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Chances are shes done it a bunch, & will do it again. So going for it on the first date will let you know if shes "that type" Which is a flag for potential cheating and infidelity am I correct? Yes... I passed on a girl a few weeks ago simply because she was aggressively sexual and way too easy... much to the surprise of the guys around me. Honestly, I am struggling with the same questions. I think that expecting a girl to be virtuous is a symptom of my old BP ways, but yet I have no interest in…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 08:20 PM
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And that is a point lost on way too many here.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 10:47 AM
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She's an attention whore who is draining you. Move on. It's really that simple.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 08:11 PM
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tldr; read the sidebar bagging a girl way out of my league Your premise is flawed. You are the prize
/r/askTRP26/12/14 08:04 PM
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Stop drinking alcohol. You're too young to even know the health, career, and social risks. You're being an idiot and your mother is right to be concerned.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 08:00 PM
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tldr; Your mother needs you, you don't need her. She realizes this (why she's manipulating you), you don't need her. Realize it, internalize it, then let her know you realize it (see the other responses)
/r/askTRP26/12/14 06:17 PM
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I've been seeing this plate since October and it's getting to the point where she might want an LTR, the question is should I LTR Bullshit bullshit bullshit. You've been dating one girl since october and are trying to act like you're spinning plates. If you actually were spinning plates you wouldn't have a problem dropping one and this question wouldn't have been posted.
/r/askTRP26/12/14 06:05 PM
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I've always wondered what percentage of women who say that are actually being honest. 20%?
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:30 PM
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They're among the worst excuses for women; they have all of the manipulation, with no sweetness to dull the sting of their whip.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:26 PM
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So you want to know how to handle a wife who's attempting to manipulate you? There is only one answer: don't give in. Are you steering this boat or what? Go about your business and ignore her (assuming you've already told her to drop it and she just won't let it go). If she continues to escalate leave for a couple of days, come back and see if she has her mind right. If not cut your losses now, you will end up a worker slave who caters to her every whim otherwise.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:21 PM
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There is no right way. You're going to make mistakes regardless. Instead of worrying about it relax and enjoy the ride be outcome independent. (you'll make fewer mistakes this way)
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:15 PM
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I'm talking about casual conversations when she suddenly gets offended by something I say. That's obvious and overt manipulation. Was it right for me to get offended by her anger, or did I fuck up there? Chill out, but she's manipulating and you have a right to be angered by it. Her perspective is that she used to earn more than $1000 per month, and she quit that job just to marry me and come abroad So she 'invested' in a relationship which dramatically increased her status and overall long-term…
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:08 PM
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You realize, her being offended is just another way of saying that you did something she didn't want and should be shamed for it. Manipulation 101; don't give in to her frame/control. Did you do something you regret? Good, you have recognized a way you can improve. Don't apologize, but you can certainly indicate that you have considered her input.
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:58 PM
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Repeat after me. WOMEN ARE INCAPABLE OF EMPATHY FOR MEN
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:13 AM
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When the girl is begging for your attention like that.. just open your mouth and say 'hey'. She will fill in the next line. Which will be a softball right down the center.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 11:14 AM
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Just wanted to share my experience What experience? You just told us you got what you wanted. Only how you got what you wanted is useful to me. Welcome, but shut up and hang around for a while. I've been here over a year and have yet to make a post. (comments excluded) I've still got too much to learn.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:27 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly, but wonder if that anger and frustration ever truly goes away I agree with much of what you said and am struggling with this myself. I'll posit that it will likely never go away. Here's why: it's not just about social conditioning. The blue pill fantasy, like all other social lies, is believed because of a deeper innate desire. i.e. religion (struggle to find meaning), blue pill (struggle to avoid loneliness; need for connectedness, comfort, familiarity, social stability,…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:18 AM
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It's all about the validation. I see so many girls teasing cocks just for the chance to say no. I like refusing to feed the machine and watching these girls acting butt hurt cus they didn't have the opportunity to reject me.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 08:19 PM
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Of course you don't care what her friends think. You're a man. Awalt Guys stop talking about unicorns
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 06:12 AM
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|they clog up the subreddit, without actually contributing anything. I think they're good examples of TRP learning process. He's trying to red pill level up too quickly. Part of learning is failing, getting feedback, and trying again.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:28 PM
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absolutely correct. desire can't be negotiated. Power can't either. You take it or you don't.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:21 PM
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agreed, but it's pretty obvious she's cheating on him.. he's just now waking up to it and is having a hard time swallowing the truth.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:19 PM
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I'll go a step farther and say that even if she's calling that's also a red flag. Women often "touch base" to reassure and verify that you're not suspecting right before they finalize their plans to fuck someone else.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:16 PM
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huh? his points are obvious to anyone not still plugged in and prostrating themselves to the poon.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 11:09 PM
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There are some causes the reader should correlate on their own
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:51 PM
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I agree with you on every point. But I can't help but wonder if making posts like this whining about how dumb newbies are ruining our subreddit with idiotic posts isn't just as bad. Just ban them. You have all of our thanks for the hard work that you do.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:36 PM
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At least you didn't start this comment with: "as a woman"
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:11 AM
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I agree with never letting your guard down... but I like the following line from a comedian who's name now escapes me: I could never be gay, I would never fuck something I respect.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:52 PM
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Wait, stand right there for a sec while I go get my unicorn harpoon.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 12:46 PM
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You are adding nothing to the conversation. Please shut the fuck up. TITS or gtfo
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 12:43 PM
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Not sure I'd put it that way. More like: When it comes to love, men are the delusional romantics and women are the ruthless pragmatists. Rollo has a couple of good posts on this topic
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 04:25 PM
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hanging around post-graduate schools. going to events the doctoral students do. but it may not be worth the effort...at least not from my experience.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 02:56 PM
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Been there done that. It's not worth the effort. It's not like the sex is any better or their personalities are any sweeter.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 02:54 PM
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Just a few observations: What can I do? For one, don't try to reason with a woman. but she completely believes I'm loyal. Why is that? She has you wrapped around her finger, she knows it and you know it. Start changing yourself. Give yourself the liberty to be brutally honest every once in a while and be stoic about it. Don't give explanations for behavior, just be yourself. Don't put up with her shit, but getting physical is a bluff she called you on very quickly. She can't begin treatment unti…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 06:20 AM
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Go see a shrink. seriously. Get some meds to help. Then cut the things that make you unhappy from your life. Then learn to appreciate all that you are and have.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:48 AM
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Take ownership of yourself. Take ownership for the situation you find yourself. Throw off the victim mindset and the world becomes yours for the taking. Take it. It's yours!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:02 AM
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Simply put, we don't define ourselves by our access to a female sex organ which females did nothing to obtain.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 12:35 AM
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Regarding the 2nd video. It was interesting to watch how she never once provided a counter argument to his opinion. All she did was increasingly escalate her shaming of his argument.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:20 PM
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Mens only biological desire is to fuck as many of the prettiest women they can Ignoring the fact that I wasn't talking only in terms of biology.. you're grossly over-simplifying. You're saying that: Men don't have the biological need/desire to reproduce? No biological need/desire to see my offspring succeed? Men don't don't have a biological need/desire for human interaction? That we could simply live our entire lives alone without any human contact (besides a little fucking)? Men don't have any…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 08:58 PM
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That's exaclty the truth. I got out of my marriage scott free, but only because we had no kids, kept separate assets & accounts, our incomes were comparable, and she had nothing to gain by dragging things out. I wasn't Red Pill before the marriage, but I wasn't an idiot either. In fact, part of the above self-protections caused tension in the marriage. She knew she couldn't persuade me to provide more than her during the marriage, but she still wanted it... Cinderella Complex with absolute certa…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:58 AM
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+1. I see your point, but it's a reasonable question to ask. He's trying to determine if TRP is contradictory and/or congruent. He just doesn't realize that TRP espouses that men and women have 'competing' sexual strategies. Which means that what's good for the gander isn't necessarily for the goose.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:50 AM
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and we care because? Add to the conversation if you're going to post.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:45 AM
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My dad uses that tripe on me often. I usually just tell him he's being selfish for wanting me to provide him with grandkids and continue his 'legacy'. He then looks butthurt and tries another tactic...which is to state that my life will be sorely lacking in richness without a family. It's a delicate situation since I don't want to sound disrespectful of his sacrifice for his family (me). But I can attest firsthand to the amount of rationalizations that are spouted to justify his sacrifice.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:44 AM
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Now, is it not clear that a hell of a lot more divorces would be initiated by men? That sarcasm doesn't translate easily over the inter-webs. I'm going to suppose it wasn't sarcasm for a moment. While men would like 'younger models' it's not a primary need/desire. Women who make good wives wouldn't easily find themselves cast aside. Why? men aren't short-range thinking animals. Young sex isn't the best (or often very good even). Men love completely differently than women (and are the true romant…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:28 AM
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Mostly agreed.. Except for the emotional reaction part. It may hand been for him. But not for me. I have every intention of reacting that way if presented with those circumstances. There's a reason she acts that way and I would consider it a privilege to enlighten a girl like that to foreign concept called consequences
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 01:51 AM
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He remained remarkably calm through the whole thing Nah, He should have stopped the car, kicked her out, and driven off. How much of this did he put up with before deciding to make a video? A lot, and given that she's still using this tactic it's safe to assume that it usually works.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 11:19 PM
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pretty funny... if it wasn't so tragic. She's acting like a 4 year old. I thought she might have missed her meds, but when she snapped out of her trantrum so quickly it was obvious that she has used her trantrums without fail, her entire life. Very poor parenting. Very poor.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:37 AM
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Didn't read anything but the title. The reason I don't ask gir ls out? Because I couldn't give a fuck about feeding women's constant desire for social validation. Tinder and all of the social dating apps and sites do nothing but inflate women's perception of their smv. That's one example, but the local bar scene is the same... Unless you're in an area with a decent ratio of men to women. My other reason reason is that, while I'm nor criticising my brothers, sluts don't interest me.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:57 AM
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You are right... In a certain context. However this thread is focused on deprogramming men from the female imperative. Men need to know that judging is correct action and vital for their survival.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:49 AM
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Well, if your point was that the bankers have been given a huge amount of freedom to fuck over the general public with impunity then I agree with you. However, there are plenty of laws, pretty much any one related to fraud, which could have put many bankers behind bars. Fraud in the inducement of the loans, fraud in the sale to investors, fraud all the way down to the way they registered (or didn't) property transfers via their own illegal system.(MERS) There was plenty of reason to revoke the c…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:05 AM
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Cops only enforce the existing law How naive. The judicial branch only enforces what it wants. And what it wants is to get paid. There is so much $ involved that its way too lucrative for them to consider changing. There were many laws on the books which would have many bankers in jail for their actions 10 years ago. None of them were enforced.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:45 PM
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That bit makes the situation risk free and changes it from standing up for yourself to an act of cowardice. One could view it that way...if the child was already malevolent. But if a young boy needs to learn the value of violence when defending them-self.. and is too timid to risk it, then it's the fucking right approach. The lesson on violence starts of decently enough Yes violence can be problem if taken too far, but men need to understand how take care of themselves. Additionally, if they can…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:09 PM
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Your Anger is a gift! Your post is so spot on. I had the same reaction to his comments. For example: You are angry because you thought she is a different type of woman than she is. No he's angry because she failed to reciprocate a modicum of respect. Further, having no expectations for other's behavior is asinine.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 08:00 PM
2

Yep. Girls Flipping the Bird is one such example. These girls might as well be punching their own teeth out.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 07:37 PM
1

have a ton of time to work out so when you get out you are in the best shape of your life That's a rosy picture of prison. STDs are rampant there as well as rape. It's a problem that society doesn't care to address. Primarily because it's a man's problem.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:31 PM
3

Do they actually enjoy the validation I'm going to assume that was sarcasm
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:32 AM
1

If you pander to the masses idiocy what should people think of you? Are you an idiot perpetuating more idiocy or a capitalist perpetuating idiocy? Are either worthy of respect?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:44 AM
1

Thanks. This is the first comment in this thread that made me chuckle and is, by far, the most reflective of my opinion. Any woman who acted like bionce, regardless of how much money she made pandering to the masses, is not wife material. Not that a wealthy man should ever consider it. I have respect for Jay z but not because of his familial relationships.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:42 AM
1

Not everything is a shit test. Can i try her again or is it over? When a woman likes you YOU FUCKING KNOW IT. There's no guessing. So you're acquainted with the concept of one-itis, but, I know, I know, it's hard to see in yourself. stop pining over a chick who doesn't like you You need to believe that the world is full of women, most of which are about the same. When you get older the more you realize that this is true.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:35 AM
2

I haven't ordered the book (I may), but I'm pretty sure everything is already on his site for free. The comment sections are as good as the articles.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:20 AM
1

As others' have said read everything on therationalmale. After that, read this reddit and don't bother commenting for at least a month unless you're asking a question. Exercise at least 3 times a week Talk to people. If you're like me you may want to avoid women entirely for a while. Men are by far more interesting to talk to and there's no pressure.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 08:17 AM
-1

Dangerously Monogomous ^ That is the first thing I see when I visit the forum. Which translates into: Without a woman you are dangerous Without a woman you are nothing Which leads me to a giant FUCK YOU to the website owner. I never read a few more words than that; why would I?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:07 AM
2

Thanks for the response. My main point in joining this discussion is not to detract from the fact that there is much someone can do to increase their SMV. I am however saying that there is a limitation on what your SMV can be. It's not all in your mind as you asserted. Lacking symmetry, for example, in your facial features is a big detractor. Comparing eye color seems a straw man counter argument to genetics affect on SMV. (as I'm sure you agree with) There are much more significant genetic fact…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 12:01 AM
2

I'm jealous sure. However, what pisses me off is that women expect us to spend 10 times the time pleasuring them than we need ourselves...and when we don't, well then there's someone else who will...at least for a couple of weeks. Whatever, shit like this is why I'm more mgtow than rp. Now that women are off pedestals, I legitimately don't see the point in exerting more sexual effort than she does... unless it pleases me which, occasionally, it does. Let the down votes commence.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 09:44 PM
2

From therationalmale.com three good articles: Purgatory, Playing Friends, intergender-friendship
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 08:45 PM
1

Well, I'm being downvoted into infinity... Proving once again that people feel very uncomfortable with any degree of determinism when applied to them specifically. Apparently folks have a problem with believing that their behaviors are (at least some of them anyway), in fact, a consequence of their genetics and evolution. This, of course, contradicts the very same position that they hold: women are biologically inclined to specific behaviors and traits.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 08:05 PM
2

Where are you getting this number from? My poor memory. Make it top 30% for all I care. I believe the point stands.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:17 PM
1

If you were dating men would you be asking this question? You're the prize aren't you? You might as well have some fun and see if she picks up the tab.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:16 PM
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I feed off of her bitchyness That quote implies it. You weren't especially detailed in your post...
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 07:12 PM
-19

However, any beta can turn into an alpha... It's all in your mind. I have to disagree. We are all dealt certain cards at birth. Genetics can't yet be changed post birth. Someone's physical fitness, frame, social awareness & intelligence can definitely improve their chances. Evenso, it is regularly pointed out that women are really only attracted to the top 10% of guys. If you're honest, where does that leave you? Were you born with fantastic genetics? Are your parents wealthy? Have you defied th…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:50 PM
1

I've gone there and done some reading. It's rather funny and sad at the same time. The women try their best to compatible with RP..and I think they are an important part of the ecosystem. RPM who really can't do without a LTR might find some benefit. However, AWALT, and it's pretty obvious even when reading RPW. As for an example, see the post & comments titled: Keeping hypergamy in check - Men's or women's job? I probably should have stopped myself, but I couldn't help but add myself into the m…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:09 PM
5

I am a special snowflake in a see of toxic grey snow. All men are my bitch. Bow before me!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:04 PM
1

Mind you she had a good job but no real money saved. So this all falls on me. And that's your fault how? Why does it fall on you? Oh that's right because she's a girl and girls don't have to earn their own. Your dreams of financial freedom are ignored for the immediate satisfaction of her wants (not needs). How do you think you will feel when you are 20 years older and a wealthy gentlemen catches her eye? You know, the guy who made choices that you now want to make but can't because she can't se…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 04:01 PM
3

Everyone should watch this video. So few people understand how easy it is to go to jail for trivial matters.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:19 PM
1

I guess it depends on your age and how the color fills in. I'm in my 30s and have a few gray beard hairs. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:18 AM
-8

Sounds like you're not lifting your legs.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:17 AM
0

well. It sounds like you're unhappy. Find out what it costs to fix/exit the situation and pay it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:00 AM
2

its main role is keeping biological forces (sex) aligned with the interests of society. It's also really good at making slaves of men.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:39 AM
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Stop caring. Don't be rude; be a good roommate. You are trying too hard. Take some time to work on you after your recent break up. If she was a dude, would you care? Your roommate pays the bills and is reasonably respectful. She's not making your life hell. flatmate is attracted to me, hates me, or is just a bitch The answer is no to all of the above. What you're actually doing is creeping on her and she knows it. Stop giving a shit. Go do stuff.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:57 AM
15

I do the same thing. Don't do anything for a woman that you wouldn't have done for a man. Fuck that. It's very rare for women to reciprocate. Which is why I'll open the door for men, and ignore women. Women are no longer on pedestals; They're rude and narcissistic; they can open the door themselves.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:33 PM
2

I totally agree. I'm all for supporting newer members, but christ. She cheats on him, and he still refuses to see it, and then eventually takes her back... all the while telling himself that he's in control and not a beta. The hamster is strong with this guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:23 PM
2

If some of you haven't seen this rant by Bar Bar on youtube perhaps it will show some insight into the mindset of a few of us MGTOW-ers. The rant at 4:40 might annoy a few PUAs here, but it's legendary.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 12:09 AM
1

I'm not answering for the OP here, but that question is just like the following: What makes you disbelieve in god? It's not the responsibility of the skeptic to prove that it doesn't exist. It's the responsibility of the theory supporter. Free will is a concept strongly tied to religion. If you haven't seen through one then the other will also be opaque. Nonetheless, it's very similar to the idea that gender is a social construct.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:55 PM
7

The more MGTOW, bluepillers, homosexuals, the better for the unplugged. I cringe a little at that statement. It seems almost as if you're implying that us MGTOW folks are plugged in. I know you didn't say that, but I wanted to clarify for other readers.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 11:37 PM
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I guess what I want to know is what I can get out of the red pill and perhaps how I should "follow" it. You need to read more sidebar and continue lurking. The biggest things you can get from TRP are: No one will give you anything. You must take it. Women will never love you. (at least in a way you construe love) Whining about either of the above is a waste of time. The universe only rewards those who act. Live a life worthy of your own pride Sexual relationships are more lopsided in favor of wo…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:30 PM
1

Yes, fucking on the first date/night is used as a filter. The problem is that women aren't ignorant of this. When they want to 'settle down' they often begin to refuse to repeat their old pattern of promiscuity. Of course we all know better than to fall for that game.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 03:36 PM
1

If it's any consolation. I couldn't grow much of a beard until I was 27 or so. and now that I've gotten older my facial hair is black instead of brown... and it looks awesome. Just do your thing and experiment every once in a while. I did find it humorous how quickly women noticed me when I got my beard. I went from invisible to getting more than a few looks.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:21 AM
8

What's worse than a female rapper? A female comedian
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 11:09 PM
1

If I could undo all of these other people's down votes I would. I read the post the same way. Apparently we're supposed to excuse deplorable behavior by women now because: vagina. In fact, the OP completely ignores women's agency. I understand that we can't control society, and we should focus on ourselves and self-improvement. This site even with the whining helps me understand women better. I go to other subreddits when I want to focus on specific improvements like weight-lifting. Which makes …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 10:03 PM
2

Plus, I have the sinking suspicion, she'll tell me that I look better without it. This would leave me clean shaven, and would instantly rob me of attention from other women. Which, I suspect, is her actual goal- to change me, and put me off the market (as her's). I'm glad you realize that. I was thinking about editing my original post to include it.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 06:53 PM
1

I feel like it would empower one more to totally disregard the value of a women What would? believing the true nature of women? We point out strengths of women here frequently, but that is not our objective. Men are barraged with constant debasing of our value. No one cries for us. We are here to strengthen men. Besides what would be so bad about not valuing women? No really? That's such a loaded point. Men can go their own way and not give a fuck. You're implying that without men constantly put…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:54 PM
4

as do whites, browns, purple and orange colored folks. What did you expect?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:29 AM
1

Who knows? I'm simply coming from a perspective where I view women as parasites. I think they realize this, and it's why they shit-test like crazy. It's why they wear down their men in LTRs and beta-ize them. They need control. Women have the social skills which from which they can derive power, but that is most of their aptitude. If the above was true for you what would be your biggest fear? For me it would be lack of social influence and loss of investment. That's why TRP is so hated, it enlig…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:13 AM
1

I guess my unarticulated point was that women often have a reason to be insecure
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:44 AM
1

Classic context dropping. Stupid Autobot don't delete
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:42 AM
1

Do you know the people who aren't sensitive? They're the ones not giving a fuck, enjoying the fruits of their labor, and are proud of their accomplishments. Guess what their gender typically is?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:18 AM
1

Welcome! Now sit down and avoid posting for a while. I found therationalmale.com to be filled with information. Spend a week there and read the comments.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 03:12 AM
3

The last post needs a little more work. The author was a little sloppy when he stated: “the absence of evidence means that something has neither been proven nor disproven” Good stuff though
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 12:40 AM
1

This is a shit test. I've been there and lost. She's giving nothing to you in return, and like most LTRs, wearing you down and getting you to do what she wants. Just tell her no. She knows that you have no obligation. When you told her that you keep your word (even about stupid shit tests) you're indicating that she can exploit your honor for even the most absurd things. IF your 'word' is really that important to you (even about asinine things) then bargain. She had better give you something of …
/r/askTRP28/07/14 08:27 PM
1

Well dude, we all want to get laid. You sound thirsty. I get that. Your SMV isn't where you would like. I am there. Like you I refuse to be unauthentic. The problem is that you need to focus on internalizing your own value. From what I can tell you haven't yet. Banging chicks is a small subset of TRP. What you need to realize is that you are the prize. You create your own value. Don't give your agency to women and their opinion of you. Men have been long conditioned to believe that women are the…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:49 PM
1

But what in the meantime? Id still have to pretend something in order to get pussy. No, actually you don't. There are plenty of girls going to clubs to get laid. They don't care what's real. They just want someone to have fun with that night. Most people (even girls) don't take people they've just met too seriously. Do you think they're going to be mad at you for entertaining them with a good story about yourself? No they're not. Fuck, i've told girls that I'm a garbage man when they ask me what…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 04:32 PM
1

Isn't love itself a feeling? For women, yes. For men, no. We could have a feeling with any number of women. We choose to love one/few. Love for us is loyalty, commitment (for better or worse), and emotion. We are committed beyond the emotion of a moment. We desire the same, but it's not something women can give.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 10:11 PM
1

I got 11 minutes into it before giving up. There are more audible videos on youtube, and they don't have a camera man who is constantly panning away from the speaker to view the reactions of a fat feminist freeloader.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:35 PM
2

Well, I'm on about the same timeline. It is a bitter pill. Yet, I've found that as a result I once again have the tools for my success. I can buy an affordable house, cheap car, and avoid most consumerism. I can save $ like crazy and potentially retire in 10-15 years instead of 30-40. The amount of money I need day to day is almost laughable. Once I own a cheap place to live I could easily survive off $12k a year without really feeling poor. That is liberating. I no longer feel like I'm worthles…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:47 PM
2

Same here. Rationalization central and never ever ever wrong
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:54 PM
4

So women then? or is that just implied? ha
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:52 PM
1

I respectfully don't agree. He told me they're no longer together cause she cheated on him with some jock she met at a party. He didn't give me any details but he said that she tried to salvage the relationship, and he didn't give in and he's done with her. The OP mentioned that she tried to salvage the relationship. Does that sound like a girl who thinks she found someone better? Hypergamy is, by a narrow definition, a girl ditching her old man for a new one. Of course, women sometimes don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 11:31 PM
1

Ditch the LTR. If a bitch is driving you nuts there's no reason to put up with it. This shit is why I don't do LTR.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 01:00 AM
-4

It's not hypergamy it's alpha fucks beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:56 AM
2

So, you're not attracted to dudes. Is it really a surprise that girls who act like dudes aren't attractive?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:07 PM
3

I'm still trying to come to grips with the fact that I live in a world where this is entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 05:34 PM
2

Think about it. If this guy was having an affair, he would suddenly stop asking for sex all the time. Her hamster would get curious I've been in this guys situation before (in my beta days). My wife at the time simply didn't give a shit and was relieved that I wasn't asking for sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:58 PM
2

Sex is their loss leader. Be careful.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:17 PM
1

Thanks for the post. I was a bit disappointed though. Much of the article was just a summary of other readily available information. The meat of the article for me was: With loneliness, man has met his match. This is the infected barb underfoot that gradually becomes a systemic infection. The answer is to manage loneliness, turn it into something productive. If you cannot prevent a circumstance, you can at least mold it into something more desirable. Lonely feelings have manufactured some of the…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:17 PM
1

I'm just going to give you the benefit of the doubt and hope that you're being sarcastic.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 08:15 PM
0

To beta's all girls are unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:39 PM
-3

I'm not sure why you're getting downvoted. His post doesn't make the case that this girl is even close to a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:38 PM
1

Irrational is a stretch. You're just spinning without clarity...desperately trying to rationalize how you can have your cake and eat it to (wife/family/commitment vs an open relationship that your wife doesn't want). In your case, you can't have both. Accept it and figure out your next move.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:58 PM
1

Just keep going. Do not worry about failure. You can have 10 failures and 1 success that makes it all worth it. Oddly enough I had a similar problem last night. The bar keep started whining to me about her problems while we were smoking. At the time, I couldn't figure out a clever but non-offensive way to exit the situation. I'll do better next time; so will you. Also, realize that just because you approached the girl does not mean that you have to keep the conversation interesting. If she wants…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:47 PM
4

Turn your focus to something else. There is no urgency of the moment. You have no need to make a decision today/tomorrow/week/month. Go enjoy hobbies, lifting/exercise, just stop focusing on a situation that's frustrating the hell out of you. How you're feeling now is just a fleeting thing. Embrace your masculinity and don't allow a fleeting emotion to control you. Meditation can be good for watching the thoughts, emotions pass, and centering yourself. Let go of your frustration embrace the happ…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:18 PM
4

This exactly. The dude is getting one-itis over a chick who isn't his wife. He doesn't want to be alone. He doesn't want to work on his marriage. Dude (OP) wisen-the-fuck-up. Figure out how to make your marriage work. or don't, just don't fantasize that banging a slut for a few months is going to solve anything.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:21 PM
1

Wait, wasn't it 1 in 4 yesterday and 1 in 5 the day before?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 03:52 PM
1

How are beta's supposed to learn if you don't shed some light? If he is asking then he already knows. I would confirm her infidelity, but not get specific about who.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 08:21 PM
11

Her feelings are not your responsibility. Create a schedule to keep yourself occupied and working towards your goals.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 06:27 AM
2

Yeah definitely my favorite line too.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 11:17 PM
2

KAPLOOW! ha! that's pretty funny. I think I might actually be able to tolerate it with those old batman subtitles.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:54 PM
1

I had the same observations and hopes. C'est la vie.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:47 PM
15

The movie was so steeped in women saving the day and manipulating men that I spent the whole movie wanting to throat punch Queen Gorgo.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 02:05 AM
2

White knight much? Jesus. Stop trying to police our natural/organic conversations. Why are you here defending women? Why do you think we need you to tell us any of this? We don't women bash here; we reinforce a positive male perspective without censorship.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:00 PM
1

I'd also argue that if there's going to be sex ed in school, that young boys should also be taught to masterbate before they hit puberty. Parents might hate it, but I think it would would solve a lot of problems.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 01:25 AM
1

on the top posts from the past few months. Even better, go through the new section of posts on askTRP and read the answers people give. Ah.. yeah, I never read AskTRP. I'll check it out.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:44 PM
3

Where is this influx of white-knight trash of which you speak?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:32 PM
2

I had the same thought when I read this.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 08:47 PM
3

Great point. As I look at it again, it appears self inflicted to me. It's the left arm; the dig marks are there; then the scratches appear to go from the dig marks inward left to right. I was believing her tripe until you pointed this out.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 07:39 PM
2

Wait, they're not special snowflakes? mind blown
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:51 PM
1

You are your worst critic. Accept who and where you are in life. Then strive to be better.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:37 AM
4

The medium is the message. To her, you don't deserve an answer. If She gives you one she will have to live the with the consequences of that decision, and she much prefers to keep leading you on. Who is going to buy her drinks for her and shower her with constant praise and attention? If she wanted you, you wouldn't have to ask her anything. Which brings up another point, why ask a girl out? (that's a rhetorical question) Read the sidebar. This is the only place on reddit that will probably feel…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:33 AM
1

People shouldn't be allowed to post on TRP until they've been subscribed for at least a few months, then we would have far less of an image problem. I don't think this is a good idea. While detractors may not have as much ammo to sling at us, those converting to the pill will not find the camaraderie they need.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 06:36 AM
1

You're cute. Thanks for the entertainment.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 01:35 AM
3

I think you're right about the natural apprehension to date single mothers. However unless you've seen other men in your life fucked over then you won't know why it's a bad idea. This applies to divorce as well. That is why TRP exists.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:55 AM
2

Almost, every single profile I look at is exactly like the above. When I find a rare bird who doesn't do this, I immediately send her a message just to tell her that she's awesome.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:37 AM
2

Sadly, my brother.. and he was about 15 years younger than her at the time. IDIOTIC.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:34 AM
11

YES. Inflated ego and frustration with the lack of commitment from men. These women are rejects and these profiles are them whining...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:26 AM
6

Women are masters of the bait-and-switch I've been here at least 6 months and I haven't read that little piece of gold before. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 12:09 AM
0

I can't really suggest much. It depends on what you want and what you're willing to risk to get it. Depending on how you read the situation you may be able to open up the relationship by careful defining boundaries and perception. (as others have noted) Ultimately, you're married; No matter what you do you can't escape that fact. She has your resources by the balls if she decides that she's unhappy for any reason. That is the primary reason I say to tread lightly. Having the social proof of anot…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 06:49 PM
43

awkward & annoying. I am not a gamer, but I can't help but want to throat punch her for her disingenuous enthusiasm & insults hurled at the audience. It's clear she's uncomfortable, but jesus.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:54 PM
10

Just a couple of observations. I have no advice for you as I'm no longer married and have no desire to be so. You initiated the contact with the other female. Your wife tolerated it and didn't want to tell you no. (a good choice for her) However, she made it clear that she doesn't want an open relationship. From your story she didn't do anything sexual with anyone but you. She's jealous of your best friend and/or sees her as a threat. That is why she is shit testing you by constantly talking abo…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:44 PM
2

So that's a yes. +30 is definitely wall.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:48 PM
1

I'm with you right up to the point where you blame a person for being unable to know how a significant other will behave in all circumstances. There are many clues (often discussed here). But each party has free agency and the future is unknown. One should learn from past experiences, but the future is full of unknowns..and that's the fun. One can't/shouldn't berate themselves for being fallible.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 10:49 PM
5

She will, on her own and out of respect for you, not do anything that would risk fucking up her relationship with you. Your argument leaves open the possibility that if a woman is disrespectful then it's your fault. That I simply don't agree with. People fuck up. She will eventually do what comes naturally. Whether you allow it to happen without confrontation is what matters.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:56 PM
15

I disagree, those actions shouldn't be defined as you 'controlling' her. Instead it's her (and the feminine imperative) controlling you. As OP pointed out, TRP breaks women's control of men. It's pure solipsism and projection when a woman says that it's controlling for us to be independent of them.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 08:49 PM
1

Well said. Personally, I'm a HUGE sucker for braids which are attached to the head/hair. Example Women simply don't bother to look this good anymore. They only time I've seen it was at church 15 years ago. I'm not a gawker, but women who do their hair up are hugely attractive to me. Shit, I just wasted 5 minutes of my life talking about hair. fuck it, time to log off.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:09 AM
2

Simple fucking water and maybe soap. It's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 03:27 AM
1

Yep, married a P.H.D. myself. same thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 03:20 AM
2

Most are great, but I started on RationalMale and went from there. Year One - The Rational Male Year Two - The Rational Male
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:14 PM
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I'm in a similar place as you. I'm an atheist with many religious friend, and I'm frustrated by the misandry. I don't agree with the idea of mimicking those who would do us harm through misandry. Do what is right. Realize that you won't/can't convince others to your view. Occassionally you can get in a wise word or two, but mostly it's not worth the effort. This holds for atheism and TRP. I've found that my religious friends are still great people. I just avoid religious topics (and so do they s…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:12 PM
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Bud, Check out the sidebar and read more. TheRationalMale is a fantastic resource. After you do that for a couple of weeks you won't need to ask us what to do.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:57 PM
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You're reframing the conversation. I know what it's like to perform for an audience. THAT was nothing more than impromptu attention whoring. It really is that simple.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 03:31 AM
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That is interesting. But be careful when drawing conclusions, it's a small sample size and pretty old data.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 01:08 AM
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It's not that attention is wrong per-se. It's the constant need for it that's a problem. Many women, despite their insistence on self-reliance can't do without constant attention and emotional reinforcement. Is this video an example of that? Maybe. Evenso, I have to wonder why a person, who is not an attention whore, would even desire to be up on stage. The speed at which these women JUMPED at the chance to be on stage is indicative.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:25 AM
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Why is it fun? What do they get out of it? Answer: attention
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:36 PM
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I like this movie. But it's Blue Pill as shit. It wasn't until he 'improved himself' by becoming less narcissistic and giving to others (everyone) that he was a nice guy enough to get the girl: Helped old ladies with their tire trouble Bought a ton of life insurance that he didn't need (who was he going to die and leave the money for?) Saved child from tree fall with pain to himself, and the child never thanked him Saved a man from choking to death But you are right about one thing, as soon as h…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 05:19 PM
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I have the utmost respect for stay-at-home mothers who actually put in the effort around the house and with themselves. "Utmost respect"?? Really? It's the easiest job in the world. I have no wife, a full time job, and somehow my house and affairs stay in order. Most women can't cook worth a damn. What else really matters? I know only 1 or 2 house-wives which I'd put in the category of respect for their work ethic. (my mom is definitely not one of them) Other than that I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:53 AM
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Yeah, the post was pretty terrible. It seemed like a troll to me, and/or a newbie who needs to read and hang around a while.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:46 PM
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Women don't want to feel like you're their daddy. In fact, women want to feel equal. ....They want to feel smart. They want to feel capable. They want to feel all of those things, but they also want both of you to secretly know that you're smarter. You are more capable. You are all the things she wants to be, but more. You are drawing a distinction between what a woman feels and what she thinks. This is a fallacy. Emotion is derived from thought/beliefs about a person's self and the world they l…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 02:37 AM
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You sound like me 2 years ago. I loved her, but the sex wasn't there. I relented and got married even knowing the risks. Less than 1 year after the wedding she left. She got everything she wanted, but failed to ask herself what she wanted after she got it. Women are short-sighted; trust yourself. You see the writing on the wall, leave. There is no good way to do a breakup. It's going to hurt regardless. Just make sure you take preventative measures before hand. Safeguard things of value. Record …
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:02 PM
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Can't argue with your reasons. But the point is that this kind of abuse is very real yet usually goes unpunished. Narcissism and psychopathy are not abuse. Labeling it as such is opening a pandora's box. Women love the feels, and when their feels aren't what they want it's labeled 'mental abuse'. We can only apply consequence to action, not to an emotional reaction to that action...because emotional response is subjective based on perception and personal beliefs. Doing otherwise would make it im…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 03:11 PM
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Dude, falsifiability is great. However, TRP is not a theory, it's a collection/framework of many theories. The falsifiability of each claim must be measured individually. If you find a claim which can't be falsified please bring it up for discussion.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:55 AM
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You should never have shown up. Damn she was giving out serious vibes that she was on the hunt for a beta-provider. Wanting a 'relationship', 'settling down', and 'tired of the bar scene' are all huge neon signs.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:51 AM
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I really hate the term 'mental abuse'. It's an easy scapegoat for someone to blame others for their own lack of agency. By in large, 'Mental abuse' claims are often not falsifiable. If it can't be proven wrong then it can't be proven true. Further, how does one measure the affect of such abuse? And how would damages or consequences be assigned? 'Mental abuse' is whatever people decide it is at any given moment. According to some, TRP teaches men how to 'mentally abuse' women... which is, of cour…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:29 AM
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Once you down TRP and break out of the pussy pasture, you quickly realize how many awesome things there are to do. Great point! So much of TRP is about self improvement and banging women...that it's easy to think that the reason to self-improve is to bang women. (even though that's denied). I would love to see a section of TRP devoted to sharing hobbies..but then again. maybe that's outside of scope for what can be reasonably achieved here. Evenso, I'd love to share & get together with like-mind…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:44 AM
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I'm glad we earned your approval... finally rolls eyes
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 01:33 AM
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so there's a conflict between women who like to expect things in exchange for their beauty, status and genes (children) and those who want to be respected and desired for their achievements and things they can provide. From my experiences with marrying a feminist, women are unable to divorce their biology. They may talk a good game regarding equality, respect, and achievements, but deep down they resent and are angry that they can't just get what they want for free from provider males.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:30 PM
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If more men were honest they'd express the same thing. Women want children it's the only thing they love and they use men to get and provide for them. period.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 06:25 PM
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See, now this is something I can sink my teeth into. Quoting a tabloid is a joke. I can't figure out why people downvoted you. Nor why people are posting tabloid articles as references for this stat. We need a credible source and then it can go permanently on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 08:32 PM
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inability to grasp the concept of trade-offs THIS. I tried and tried to explain this to my ex. I was always met with blank stares.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 07:54 PM
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We have equally valid thoughts, ideas, and feelings. I smell bullshit. Women always say this right before they want an invalid and baseless opinion to be considered the same as one with facts and reason. Yes each gender has a right to its own way of thinking. Each gender has a right to pursue their own sexual and social interests. However when a gender that completely disregards the other there's a problem. THAT is why TRP exists. Men are angry because they've been taken advantage of by women. p…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 09:06 PM
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You have an astonishing grasp of mathematics.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:43 PM
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This is not a rebuttal.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:35 PM
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which is why LTRs are so dangerous. No man or woman maintains the strong interest of their partner long term; it always diminishes. And since women are so emotional it's outcome is obvious: she's gone as soon as she's gotten as much resources from you as possible or until another 'better' male shows up..whichever comes soonest.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:29 PM
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and I invested quite a bit in each girl. THIS is what you need to focus on and change. Always invest less than the girl. Have an abundance & outcome independent mentality. It's more difficult to get a handle on when you're young. Cut yourself some slack.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:27 PM
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I like this. Not too long ago this was common and accepted practice. As a child I understood well the fact that if I get spanked at school I would be getting more at home. (it was threatened more than undertaken but still) Now everyone is too afraid to correct other people's children (and rightly so given the laws and legal practices now) that brats get away with..well. anything.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:43 PM
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I believe that a large majority of fat chicks have been sexually abused (most likely in childhood) and that is why they are fat. Interesting point. At least 1 of my former friends was like this. It is an interesting psychological defense mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:35 PM
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you don't think fat, ugly women get raped, you don't know the ways of the world. Pretty much every woman is at risk of being raped. Classic re-framing of the conversation, i.e. straw man argument.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:20 PM
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Either I'm missing something or you're talking about such a small percentage of the population that the point is moot.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:02 PM
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Thanks for the words of encouragement... but for now, all I hear when I read that are "blah blah blah fat girl" ha
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 12:14 PM
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You're absolutely right. But it's why I'm mgtow. Most of what you're saying is a laundry list of things for a man to do...feeding almost perfectly to the female imperative. It just makes me sick. It's not wrong or right. Just is. Biology can't be ignored. But damn, I'm tired of men being required to put so much effort into, well, everything. I guess my brain can't escape the victim mindset. then again, maybe it's righteous anger. I haven't decided. ;)
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:54 PM
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You are only disposable if you think you are disposable If that were only true...
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:36 PM
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Fucking fantastic points. Especially: |Men are told not to think like this even though that is at the core of what my masculinity is; complete and absolute dominance over my life and those around me. This is the core of what I work towards every fucking day. All around me I try to explain this and am met with blank stares. It's fantastic to read it here.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 06:33 PM
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add: should a small breasted woman have the right to reject a man with a small dong? lol that'll get the hamster hamming.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:10 AM
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Who is he to tell her to get in shape? Ahem He didn't Jesus Christ. He actually told her that she wasn't fat... and then was told that it was the meanest thing he could say. I've had a lot of fat women chase me, and I've tried (not that I needed to) to see if I could 'build something'. I have found that fat women have the best personalities and are often the nicest women. I think this is probably due to the fact that they're humbled to the point of being near human (i.e. kind of like men without…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:02 AM
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Ok, listen up. The last month or so, TRP has been filled with this 'stop complaining' and 'suck it up' talk. It actually makes a lot of sense. We cannot play the victim and expect to enjoy life. However, if you want me to seriously consider women as a sex or life partner I'll need to hear some actual arguments affirming these good virtues which you claim they have. e.g. |The same things that make them frustratingly irrational on facebook posts are the things that also make them feminine and love…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:28 PM
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Very fucking true. I once told my ex that she had better not fuck with with because I would find a way to both get even and to avoid the US bullshit laws. I made that clear early in the relationship. Looking back on it, I should have headed out the door when I saw her reaction. Ultimately, I believe this kept me from getting divorce raped. When women realize that they can't actually fuck with you they usually don't try.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:21 PM
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Want to know if a woman really loves you? Tell her after you get married you want to stay home and take care of the house and kids while she works. It's the ultimate litmus test. Ha! I did that. It was glorious. (predictable result)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 01:14 PM
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Thank you for bringing that up. I remembered reading it but couldn't remember where so that I could post the link.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:44 PM
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Sure, as men we can constantly try to manage our women's emotional states and be in a LTR. Personally, I don't give a shit. It's not worth the effort for me to put up with a woman's constant shit..nor do I think that I should have to. I know some of you won't agree, and that's a valid choice...but as you age, you may find yourself changing your opinion. Just don't fall into the trap of thinking that if you're man enough to be Red Pill Alpha, you will make your woman tolerable. You won't. (I'd al…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 06:43 PM
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|Pros If you live with a girl it's great knowing you have something to come home to each night Have you ever lived with a woman? lol The very month I moved in with my ex the sex shut off almost completely. That 'thing to come home to' is constantly nagging & demanding that you to do things for her.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:26 PM
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yes. It's difficult. but, I have found men who do wan to bond and talk...even at bars. You have to sift through the assholes, but they are there.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:10 PM
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sure, but all are demonized by women.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:04 PM
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I'm not so sure. Men have been boxed out of familial relationships (socially & legally). Women (feminism) is awash with the nonsense that men aren't needed especially for child rearing. Boys who are raised without fathers never know what they're missing. They are taught by women to fail. These men then raise their children (if they're lucky enough to) on the same feminine nonsense. Personally, I blame women more than men. Men have always been missing from the parental equation more than women. M…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:59 PM
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AGREED, selection and confirmation bias is strong with nofap.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:13 AM
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This sub is going to hell... YEP
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 08:04 AM
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Do read the sidebar. If you think you're eyes are open now you will be blown away.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:25 AM
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Well said. This whole post & comment section is reeking heavily of excusing women's bad behavior, because well, they can't help it, because well, they have a vagina. It's making me sick.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:20 AM
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Thank you, I made the same point but it fell on deaf ears.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:16 AM
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Hyper-feminine behavior and hyper-masculine behavior both risk violating moral standards, but that's not what TRP is concerned with. Are you sure?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:12 AM
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So, now that you're Red Pill, women get a free pass to do whatever they want? By what standard should we hold them accountable? Have they no accountability? Blue Pill mysogyny stems from a lack of understanding, or a refusal to accept, the nature of women. Jesus Christ. You make it sound like it's misogyny if we hold women to a standard of expected behavior (our own standard that is). To be somewhat fair, I partially agree with you. However, natural tendencies do not excuse bad behavior. Men are…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 02:19 AM
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A vast majority of women don't have honour and don't understand the concept other than the benefits it provides them. An honourable man will defend and provide for women (not my opinion but the general concensus of what "hourable" men do). Many great points. However, saying that women don't understand honor is bullshit. What is chivalry then? It's women understanding and using male honor to get what they want. While you're right that men primarily understand and implement honor, the reality is t…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:13 PM
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rofl
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 05:43 AM
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I had the same question for a while. Keep reading. The Rational Male has a lot of amazing material which will help explain this. I also really like this link from the sidebar My quick take: Very few men (1% wild ass guess) can have as much sex as the typical female. It is thrust at them constantly. Thus the argument of a double standard is much more theoretical than reality. Men would prefer women with less experience. (for too many reasons to list) Women actually prefer men who are in high dema…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:10 AM
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I disagree. Informing her before the date makes too fine a point of it. If you're high value wouldn't you be used to having women buy you dinner? It also confuses her hamster. Anyone who dines at a restaurant knows they are obligated to pay for what they consume. There isn't a presumption of who will pay. (unless you're BP and still talking about being chivalrous) If she isn't able to pick up her portion of the bill then leave her at the restaurant to work it out with management. She won't have …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:43 AM
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Since when is it cheap and stingy to pay for the items you alone consume while expecting the same from others? Making men feel obligated to pay for women is 'chivalry' 101...and BP as fuck. Pick up the bill if you want to, or split it, but don't give a shit about what she thinks.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:36 AM
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I agree with much of what you said. However, I must protest |What did feminists say when someone tried to point out that excessive drinking puts girls at danger for sexual assualt?| Do men all of a sudden loose all sense of morality when intoxicated?! Fucking no. What happens is that miscommunication occurs (as is inevitable) and poor decisions are made. The record of those decisions is distorted by a drunken memory and then rationalized later. Failure to be cautious in social situations when dr…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:37 PM
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Of course not. Evenso, I'm appalled at the number of women who indicate that they have rape fantasies on okcupid.com's questions. ..and from my observation, a lot of those women were feminists.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 11:23 PM
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so, what you're saying is.. NAWALT. Got it, thanks. ha
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 12:34 AM
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I seek my own approval. Am I not someone? ..I couldn't help myself..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 03:51 PM
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In my travels, the educated intelligent woman is less likely to divorce because she's come to be more logical and less impulsive. She won't jump into marriage on a whim and isn't infatuated with the white dress and princess party. I thought the same god damned thing... I married a PH.D, who worked full time. Unfortunately she was infatuated with the white dress and princess party... and we divorced 15 months post wedding. The hamster, hypergamy, and trickle truth were strong with that one. Hinds…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:09 AM
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Nah, women have an advantage in western society forever...at least at this point in time. Go read /r/pussypass and tell me their attractiveness matters more than the simple fact that they have a vagina. Their attractiveness only matters in the Sexual Market place. The vag is valuable in many other areas of life.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:14 AM
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I'm sure that there's probably a public indecency law that will be completely ignored because... well.. /r/pussypass
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:47 AM
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So..put on a movie and fuck. That's 'next level RP stuff'. Please think before posting. and do us all a favor and delete this thread.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:13 PM
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Truth brother. This is the harsh truth of TRP, imho. As a man, if you want a happy stable relationship, you have to marry down. Otherwise you're constantly shit tested into oblivion, fighting to maintain frame, and/or fighting to keep her hypergamy in check. Fuck it. just my .02
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:18 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/thanktrp
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:00 PM
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You're re-framing and evading my points...and setting up a straw man..after all who's going to argue that rape is a good idea? Not I.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:54 PM
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|The wall is about desire, not outcome. If by desire you mean desperation, then yes. But desire for alpha cock, and desperation for anything she can get are two different things. The latter is what 'the wall' is about. |I think it does follow that if you're a man you should pay attention to understanding what women desire, and what their motivations are. I agree that those are important things for men to know. Evenso, you're re-framing and evading my points. I'm done. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:51 PM
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Respectfully, you missed the point. These graphs only show messages sent from men & women on first contact. They do not show any information about responses to initial contact by the opposite sex. It has been long established fact that men prefer young women, and many have no problem spamming women hoping for a 1/20 response. Go to any OKCupid profile and you will see a woman whining about being inundated with messages from 'creeps' or whatever else her hamster dreams up. It's not in dispute tha…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:31 PM
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I would agree except that he ate her pussy like a beta and satisfied her before any consideration for himself Maybe next time he'll not bow his head to the pussy before engaging in mutually beneficial fucking. I'm not saying I like this... but after she got hers, her hamster was already spinning on whether this was a good idea or not. Either reinforce her fragile mind or fail to get pussy. I'd actually respect his decision had he gotten the order right.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:10 PM
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Honestly, info on messages sent only tells 1/2 of the story. I want to see responses before jumping to a conclusion. We're just interpreting tea leaves otherwise. I'd like to avoid the circle jerking please.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:56 AM
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Actually I think you're misinterpreting the data. If you look at that graph you notice the obvious channel running left to right. This appears to be approximately plus or minus 7 years, this continues throughout all ages of women. (another poster noted this as well) Yes, one does see a slight increase in age in men a woman messages when she is in her early thirties. (assuming she's really 30) However, what's most apparent to me, is that the lower channel line actually evens out to the right of t…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:44 AM
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Holy shit. That was the funniest thing I've seen on TRP all month.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:16 AM
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I'm surprised at the number of people who will have a woman being a total bitch on a date and, if they have (blue) balls, will drive her back to her residence.... but it never occurs to these dolts that they can just tell her to GTFO of the car. Amazing how she might think twice about being a total cunt for the next guy...
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:33 AM
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hahahaha
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 04:26 AM
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wow. awesome idea! lol
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 03:39 AM
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I thought that was the only redeeming part of the entire program. It was Hilarious that she was mocking someone for arguing a position that she so clearly personifies.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 10:51 PM
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Yes. ..but it's not just their debt which is unattractive.. it's their debt and no good job.. and girl power...with nothing to show for it.. and their ridiculous deluded self-evaluation...along with the actual price of pussy due to inflation...not to mention the cost of pussy even when you haven't/can't get it (after divorce through the court system's raping).. and their insistence that they're still getting the raw end of the deal. THAT'S what's unattractive
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 01:51 AM
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This is exactly the kind of posts that give this subreddit a bad name. Very true. It's a very very straw man argument. That's not to say that it has no merit, but it's of little consequence to what's really going on.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:05 AM
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Hookup culture is creating a huge generation of spinsters who have nothing to look forward to but slaving away in their shitty office jobs for the next 40 years. You know what that is? EQUALITY.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:00 AM
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Not once in my life has any woman put any effort into any sort of relationship with me. EXACTLY. 100 TIMES YES. ..and that is echoed by most of us here.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:57 AM
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Maybe they should put some effort into a relationship? ...Besides just showing up.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:56 AM
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They're similar to white knights to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:27 AM
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Is ignorance a valid excuse?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 05:07 PM
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You are 100% correct...women hate us spinning plates as much as we hate their hypergamy... The difference is, all of us mgtow or redpill would happily overlook the hypergamous tendencies if they were kept in check... The reason we lament that natural tendency of women is because it's completely unchecked. Both genders must keep their natural tendencies under control if a long term, especially monogamous, relationship is to be attempted. Our risk is ridiculous...and our return on investment is no…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 02:21 AM
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"be a man" lol really? Those are the words you use? While I totally agree with you... I can't help but be angry at myself. This mindset is deep training put there by the female imperative. Women love it when men are honest and honorable. Then they don't have to worry about us doing what they're doing. Fuck it, be honorable anyway.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:07 AM
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Yes, they don't understand consequences... which is why white-knighting is so fucking bad. ...not to mention their narcissism and ability to be great at manipulation (and hiding it) without considering how it may affect anyone but themselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:01 AM
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Ah the dream. Searching for a Unicorn is a waste of life. It's not that we don't want something deeper than 'game'. We do! Women are just incapable of giving us what we really want. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 "Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. ...Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of." AWALT
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 08:26 PM
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NAWALT
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 04:35 PM
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Sadly, that sums up almost every female profile I've ever read on OKC
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 02:53 AM
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Panicky situations are what give meaning to words like self-restraint, cool headed, wise, adult. This is murder plain and simple. A wise father knows to expect this behavior from his child.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:16 PM
1

Strict diets usually don't work. Go with balance. Eat fruits, vegetables, and protein. I've failed many times, but every failure brings me more knowledge of self and one step closer success. This moment is not the end of the story. Try meditation.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:45 PM
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Personally, I prefer to think of my thoughts as a river, and my mind as a tree on the bank.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:37 PM
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Also realize that spending so much time with one girl reduces your availability and desire to find others.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 10:30 PM
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Why the fuck do we need to tell visitors that we don't hate women? It's obvious everywhere... We have zero need to defend ourselves when mud is slung.. we have countless posts here with the truth available to anyone who actually seeks it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 08:25 AM
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Don't get me started on how many doctors are woefully inept... I would simply counter with "trust but verify". I'm a firm believer in getting a second opinion for anything except minor procedures (when possible).
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:52 AM
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I gotta call bullshit. A reputation is a woman's domain, and she will usually attempt to destroy yours regardless of how you break up with her. IMO, do what you want. Behave in a manner that you find honorable... but don't care about others...and care even less about what others define as honorable. EDIT: your post really smells like: "be a man", and "do the right thing"
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:14 AM
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OKCupid?! HA!... the land of whales who are entitled attention whores.. I dated and married a phd... her and her friends were just like all other women... they just looked down their nose at more people with their pseudo-knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:00 AM
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Trusting any of those authority figures? Fuck me, never.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 03:57 AM
1

Fantastic points.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:35 AM
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HAHA.. the president isn't the top..not by a long shot
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:34 AM
4

with And they'll want their men to have even larger pay checks than theirs. At the end of the day, we men also want to feel needed and appreciated for our contributions.(I can't believe I have to even say this) A woman who feels like she's slumming it to be with me frankly ruins any attraction for me. Access to a vagina isn't going to blur my vision to avoid noticing this. While we men primarily desire physical beauty in our mates, it's hardly the only trait which is required. I would be gloriou…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:31 AM
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absolutely true. unconditional love from a woman? HAHA! Every conversation I have with my mother, who by most standards would be considered a model mother, involves her subtly manipulating and working toward her future. Guess how she likes my idea of moving away from her despite the fact that it will give me much needed sanity?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:17 AM
3

MEN, Heed these words. I barely escaped unscathed 10 years ago when I encountered one of these Hyenas and I was too stupid to realize the danger I was in.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:54 PM
2

"Get your ass out of the computer chair, and go lift weights, climb a rock slope, or build an engine block for fucks sake, and stop placing your shit reality solely on women." I'm working on it, but 1000% agree. I haven't eaten sugar in weeks... I'm working out more.. sleeping more, etc... but I need more awesome men in my life to help me completely ghost, but I'll find them offline eventually...especially if I keep working on myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:24 AM
1

THIS. You can rack up millions of dollars in debt and declare bankruptcy, but if it's a student loan forget about it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:16 AM
0

Rent isn't The problem is..that's fuzzy math. For it to be meaningful, you have to compare your tax with the mortgage interest deduction vs, say, the standard deduction. Remember, you have to itemize in order to claim mortgage interest...which means you lose the standard deduction, and remember you do not have to pay anything for the standard deduction. Tax savings really only increases for every dollar you spend on interest above the standard deduction. Single person's standard deduction is aro…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:04 AM
2

Of course. In the context of attracting women in the moment. I just realize, as a man, that my smv is not dictated by any one moment. In the end, I must choose a moment to display my SMV, but, I know that my SMV varies from person to person, moment to moment, and context to context. Since the marketplace is variable, I refuse to accept anyone else's appraisal of my SMV as absolute. I prefer to realistically evaluate and value myself instead of letting the marketplace (I.e. women) define it for m…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 01:43 AM
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I respectfully disagree. It's all about context & the moment....for women. I could walk into the same bar, with the same crowd on two different nights. I could dress shabby one and well the next; be quiet and reserved, and funny and social the next. I would get two completely different reactions from the opposite sex, but just because someone only sees me on one night and not the other doesn't lower my SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 11:38 PM
2

this subject just reeks with hypocracy Exactly. We can't simultaneously decry the poor behavior of women without regard for our contributions.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 12:10 AM
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with low SMV Perceived low SMV
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 11:33 PM
1

Of course I get all of that. The framing is still feminist friendly and it made me sick.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 04:20 AM
2

I'm sorry, they lost me at: 23:30 "What stopped him from instinctively submitting to the larger ape? ...That's right, he's got a female friend. Because having a woman to defend brings out the alpha in any male. Pay attention and you'll find out what girl power can do for you."
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 07:17 PM
3

Pretty much, but try not to think of it in terms of being 'selfish' and more like 'self-interest'. You have to become your mental point of origin, rather than think of yourself as a sociopath. I prefer Tomassi's words. I think selfish and self-interest are two different things. There's a big difference between narcissism, solipsism, etc and rational self-interest. One considers personal accountability, ethical and moral consistency, long run happiness, etc...the other does not.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 01:32 AM
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Great. Just great. Thank you. I internalize that to: live life without fear and regret. Live for yourself. Fuck what everyone else thinks because it doesn't matter. Women are so wrapped up in social acceptance and solipsism that you will attract them without effort.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 01:20 AM
12

It's amazing how a little reason feels like a breath of fresh air isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:58 AM
2

Maybe. However, we are a spirited bunch. Each of us have different experiences with women, and many of them bad. There is quite a lot of vitriol. I had a little trouble with it myself..so I ended up started with 'girlwriteswhat' on youtube.. then the following: 1) The misandry bubble link 2) theRationalMale.com (year 1 link at the top of the site should keep you busy for a week. The comments are as good as the posts) Those links should keep you away from some of our more colorful authors...but e…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:55 AM
1

Seconded. Rollo made so much sense there was no coming back.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:20 AM
3

Unfortunately no. That would require that they are aware of their own bullshit. Unfortunately, most are unaware or in denial...not to mention that they are not used to being accountable for their actions. They'll hamster all of our critiques of their behavior as misogyny.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:04 AM
1

That's fair. I guess my blue pill bitterness is showing. ;) I'm still choking on TRP; apparently there are stages of acceptance and integration. I've known parts of it were true for a long time. My biggest mistake was abandoning what I knew to be true in a compromise for a woman's time. Never again I most sincerely hope that TRP helps others to avoid my mistakes. I remember looking for resources such as this 5-10 years ago...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:50 AM
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I don't believe I said that I was angry, although I believe that is a reasonable emotion to have when one realizes that he has been brainwashed into slavery. I respectfully disagree with your analogy. While I can't change the color of the sky or women, I can change myself into someone I want to be...I can be here sharing, learning, and waking up brothers...and I can definitely avoid further supplication at the alter of mock femininity. I may be projecting here, but I think many of us take solace…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 08:51 PM
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NAWALT?! Bull shit. The only western woman who will not be like that will be far below you in SMV...fat, ugly. Even then, once she thinks she's done enough... she will be exactly like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:04 PM
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GayLubeOil thanks for posting about this from our discussion last night. Your thoughts echo mine. The flappy bird analogy is apt. Why is it that women do this? Do they really need us less? No. They just have such an abundance of dick that they have no cause to put forth any effort. What happens when women lose their beta orbiters and supplicators? They start to realize that they might have to do something; Why do you think so many men are amazed by their interactions with ladies in east asia, th…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 05:32 PM
3

Yeah. that's the funny thing that a lot of guys don't realize.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:50 PM
3

Telling her anything indicates that you care what she thinks and/or feel the need to explain your actions because they might be unjustifiable. Fuck that. Call me Casper.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:46 PM
1

Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:43 PM
-1

So, pay no regard to the legal ramifications of your actions? Sounds like a bitch to me.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:41 PM
-1

It doesn't matter
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:34 PM
14

THIS.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:12 PM
0

I had to dig something up from therationalmale... Women don’t need to seduce men anymore. The feminine-priority dynamic has put a default value on women’s sexuality. Those hot enough to simply wear something revealing never need seduction, and those not hot enough can’t sell it anyway. And the girls who’re in between – the one’s who’d benefit most – are discouraged from learning seduction since it’s denigrating to women who should already be on a pedestal to begin with. Ever since the sexual rev…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:39 AM
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This is sad but true. If a cum dumpster is what these men are looking for that's fine. These women and men can live happily ever after with each other. But I refuse to supplicate at the floor of female power and narcissistic solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:40 AM
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THIS has been annoying me as well. I see every size woman wearing these around just about everywhere...but especially at the night club. It screams look at me I'm sexy. Guess what's not sexy? A girl who thinks she is. This is especially true when the girl shows no class whatsoever. It screams: I'm the shit look at me! I need attention, feed my ego! I don't give a fuck what you think is classy or sexy, just gawk at my ass, hit on me, and then I'll go home happy either alone or with some other dou…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:24 AM
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Alyson Hannigan 1) She was never very good looking, but to each his own. 2) She's 39 now. The wall hit her long before the show.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 11:31 PM
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