So, I was on facebook and saw this gem of a post. The post came from my university's facebook love letter page. Basically people submit their confessions of "love" and they get posted to facebook for people to see. (oh yes, when that girl see this love letter post she'd definitely know its me, SHE WOULD FINALLY NOTICE ME AND GO OUT WITH ME HUR DUR)

Anyways, apart from the usual oh-I-love-stalking-you-from-the-back-of-the-lecture-room-you-make-my-day-so-much-better post, there was this post.

"#6440 I know this is not an advice page but still, worth a shot... I have been dating for a long while now, but I find it hard to say "I love you", I don't and it makes my man sad. It's maybe because my mind keeps going back to this other guy I dated a longer while ago. We went out for months, he lied to me about having feelings for me because he wanted to get with me. When I finally realised and asked him, he accepted and asked me to block him from my life. I think about him every day since then, every other hour almost. I think about how stupid I was to take 7-8 months to realise that he was lying about having feelings for me. He would treat me like his booty-call. He never told his friends about me, wouldn't take me out, just the bedroom, and he'd text me only when he wanted to "meet up", always in the night. I wonder if I love him because despite being with this new guy who absolutely adores me apparently, I think about him everyday... My memory keeps going back to when he first touched me or when he first said (or lied) I like you too... He's leaving the country next week and asked me to meet him once before he leaves... should I? Time Submitted: Saturday, 05/16/2015, 02:21 AM"

I was laughing all the way through when I read it. From the red pill perspective, the post really reflects what I've learned here.

This chick is an alpha widow. For those who are new to the sub, I want you to carefully read the following lines I extracted from the post. (I would definitely appreciate if someone with a deeper redpill knowledge can break these down for me in the comments for people who are new to the sub.)

1) He accepted and asked me to block him from my life. I think about him every day since then, every other hour almost

2) He would treat me like his booty-call

3) He never told his friends about me, wouldn't take me out, just the bedroom

4) He'd text me only when he wanted to "meet up", always in the night

5) Despite being with this new guy who absolutely adores me apparently, I think about him everyday

If you are new, I want you to deeply burn these lines into your mind. No girls and I repeat, NO GIRLS will crave your nice-ness. You can do all you want for a girl, tell her jokes, listen to her problems, buy her gifts, at the end of the day. She will not remember you. However, she will remember Chad. She will remember how she was ignored, how she was used, how she was controlled, and you know what? SHE LOVES IT. She gets fucking wet thinking about it.

Don't be a nice guy. Don't be that guy that chicks "love" but don't ever want to fuck. Stay and read. Read everything you can. Read the side bars, read the top posts, read the comments, READ EVERYTHING. Forget about what you knew and start over.