My Personal Shit Test Definition: Human females are programmed through evolutionary biology to prod at potential male mates, subconciously, testing for reproductive and survival fitness. If weakness, neediness, or insecurity are detected in the male, the female begins to lose attraction towards the male. The whole point of shit tests is to limit or prevent weak males from reproducing. Women do this unknowingly, which why so often what women say and what they actually do are completely different.

Some of us are more alpha than others. Some of us have more game than others. And some of us simply hold frame better than others. But all of us will fail shit tests at least once in awhile. Lets discuss strategies on how to recover from failed shit tests.

Examples of commonly failed shit tests and the result:

Text Fail: Text messages were too long or too frequent, or responses were too quick. Perhaps a text was sent that looked needy or was a poor attempt at humor and unfunny. Result: No response on subsequent texts

Date Fail: What I've learned is the worst dates are those where nothing goes wrong, because nothing goes right either. They are just boring interview dates that fail to create attraction. Common mistakes are no touch, no chemistry, no laughter, no mutual attraction. Result: Waste time

Those are two common areas where men crash and burn in the very early stages of a relationship. I am guilty as charged. Shit tests never stop and as relationships develop, the shit tests change. In my experience, some shit test failures are unrecoverable, because the woman's subconcious decided that you were an unfit mate and she is no longer attracted to you. Some shit test failures are recoverable though, by demonstrating high value in a way that overrides the shit test failure.

I feel that the best strategy when you realize you've failed a shit test is to accept that you fucked up, that it's mostly like unrecoverable, and move on. I guess this is called "dread game". You must always be willing to walk away, never become attached to anyone. This in itself demonstrates high value, and if she changes her opinion she will contact you. Please share your thoughts on your own common shit test failures, and your strategy after the failure.