How Women Tool Men

ubercoolhipsterguy · 2013-08-08T02:40:31+00:00

All of these can be treated as a shit-test. Take or have control, tell her what you're going to do (not what she wants, what will fix the problem) and deal with the situation in a legal (and ethical, according to your code of ethics) way.

She wants to be dominated and she wants your attention, and these are her strategies for getting the latter and testing the former.

With self-harm/blackmail, be aware of reckless endangerment and such laws. Remember that the state is the female's ultimate alpha male they use to manipulate. "Justice" is not in their vocabulary.

pontifx · 2013-08-07T22:15:41+00:00

The Good Trade/Honeydrop: This occurs when women in groups large and small try to exploit their massive social networks of likers and castrated pikers to vote brigade, sign up or some other similar MLM like behavior. They do what she wants to do and though it may coincidentally benefit them they are doing it because they believe this is one small trade will move her closer to her equal or beneficial to them getting the poosay. This is she-selection on steroids and is typically used to isolate a particular group of betamale to indoctrinate into her wallet portfolio. Real life examples: Charities, Religions, actual MLM's.

The Curious Quirky Girl: With a practiced and feigned intelligence this relatively uncommon (but more and more common) strain of ratcheting comes from girls trying to collect men like they are pokemon. They will target whatever weird fetish or strange interest their target has and become a subject matter expert in it. Then when they meet up with you (or any dude like you) they have access beyond their SMV (1 to 3 points in extreme cases I have seen) for the time that the bliss that you experience feeling "normal" about whatever weird shit it is you do and can used to gain favor with you in a specific way. This works incredibly well with betas and especially with women in my locale (northern california). Real life overheard example: "You play minecraft, dungeons and dragons, and like to build airplanes? OH SO DO I WHAT A FUCKING COINKYDINK" begin beta.exe.rar.jpeg

[deleted] · 2013-08-08T00:38:08+00:00

Self-Harm Emotional Blackmail

A girlfriend threatens to off herself. Perhaps she enlivens the scene with a dramatically and conspicuously placed half-empty bottle of pills, a few scattered on the bedsheet. She turns to you, tears falling from her eyes, begging for your love or your understanding or whatever happens to be her craving du jour. You, being the white knight in training you are, can’t resist her calculated vulnerability, and rush to her aid, promising her everything her heart desires. She cuddles, another victory notched on her id-post.

I once dated a girl (probably a 7/10) when I was a senior in highschool who denied me sex continuously throughout the beginning of our relationship (first few months), she would repeatedly say I had to "prove I was a good boyfriend" first, even though at this point in my life I was always bending over backwards for women. I remember even then I still had a backbone of some sort and I was getting fed up with putting so much in and not getting anything back from her. She sensed this.

Long story short, she orchestrated an entire event where she convinced her parents she was far too depressed to go to school for reasons of her anxiety. She stopped answering my texts and I didn't see her at school for a few days so I just figured she was sick or something. At the end of the week I get a long novelization text message from her talking about how she has had a severe emotional breakdown because "school was just too stressful and she just couldn't do it anymore and really needed me to be there for her through all of this"...

This was highschool mind you. This girl had no extra curricular commitments besides school and literally would just sit in her house on the weekends with her mom. She had no outstanding reasons for acting this way besides our relationship. On the other hand, I was taking 2 AP courses and knee deep in my senior year of wrestling season, at the time, if anyone should've been stressed out it was me

I broke up with her right then and there. And then she called me the next day telling me her parents couldn't believe I would abandon her in her "greatest time of need". At this point my bulllshit meter was off the charts and I asked her if she was sure that she was serious over being so upset about absolutely nothing, to which she replied "yes, and I can't believe you for not being here for me during all of this when I really need you. It doesn't matter I'm over you anyway"

Queue me deleting her phone number because, she's over me right? Wrong.

I asked out another girl later that day and she found out almost immediately and proceeded to bitch me out to no end. The nerve that I could just play her like that and try to get with another girl when she was my girlfriend. My 18 year old brain went into overdrive trying to understand how could she be over me and still be so angry.

Hindsight with a heavy dosing of redpill really does wonders for perspective...

Edit: As I said I had to enter the queue line at the sprint store in order to get IT support on how to delete her phone number, I was not very technically savy at the time.

Kronouranos · 2013-08-08T03:51:34+00:00

The only one that annoys me is #2. A lot of my friends are logic, semi red pill guys, who know women say shit, but a good chunk are also blue pill as fuck. They side with women almost automatically, and it really pisses me off. I do associate more with my other friends, and can beat most shit tests a girl gives me, but when she turns my friends on me simply because she has tits, I get angry, at her and my friends.

Not just friends, coworkers as well, or even just random guys at a club/bar.

And yeah I should give up these friends, but I have a nerdy hobby that I can't fulfill with my other friends.

Excuses, rationalizing, maybe. I don't know where I'm going with this.

On another note, does anyone have good ways to tool with women other than commitment or hitting on her friend? not so much to get with them, but just for kicks?

DranDran · 2013-08-08T08:04:18+00:00

Damsel in Distress

Perhaps the most renowned of female tooling tactics, the Damsel in Distress ploy, aka the Wounded Gazelle Gambit, has lured many a man into precarious, and sometimes life-threatening, situations to ostensibly “save” a woman usually from a predicament of her own making. Or, just as often, from a manufactured predicament that serves no purpose other than to redistribute time, energy and resources from the man to the scheming woman.

Had this happen to me yesterday. Woman who has long hit the wall has for the longest of times made overtures at me. I was never into her that way, so I never reciprocated, which did not stop us from becoming good friends. Cue the drama of her life, the victimization of everything concerning her egocentric view. Me, being the beta clusterfuck I am, full of compassion and with a retarded messiah complex of wanting to save everyone in the world, spent untold hours counseling her, helping her through misinterpreted fallouts with common friends, etc.

Last night she flipped her shit at some guy in our group who had told her ex something about her behind her back, and I made an innocuous comment about the drama train pulling into town again, which was apparently reason enough to vent all her frustration and anger out on me. She went total psycho, so I ended it by saying the fact that I haven't had a single issue with anyone in three years BUT HER, is more telling about her than me. And now she is cut out, entirely, zero contact.. for somone I ahvent even fucked, or ever would want to, lol.

I really need to learn to be more of an egoistical asshole, or care less about other peoples problems, or at least save it for those truly worthy of it. TRP is hard to swallow. Does it get better? Im battling against decades of bad habits. :/

iamme2 · 2013-08-08T04:07:51+00:00

|Let’s You and Him Fight

AKA a bitch who needs a good slap in the face.

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Title	How Women Tool Men
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Date	August 7, 2013 9:55 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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