1. Don't let yourself get bitter about women. Do not let yourself ever get bitter over a woman. A man being bitter about women is one of the biggest turn-off's for them. Don't be whiny about sex or lack of sex, in fact, I would suggest not bringing up sex much at all. Women absolutely pay attention to how you talk about your ex(s) and if it comes up actually use it to your advantage, make them laugh, tell them why you liked your ex in the first place because its humanizing, and then say why it didn't work out. Don't be bitter, don't say you hate them/she's a bitch etc, when you are telling her this she will be subconsciously putting herself in your ex's shoes and saying not only "if he felt that way about her he can feel that way about me" but also depending on how you play it "i could see fucking this person, breaking up (if it even gets there), and still having it be an enjoyable experience."

  2. Don't put sex on a pedestal. I swear some of the posters on here treat sex like it is the most important thing ever and their whole ego depends on getting sex from women. Stop giving a fuck about sex, sex isn't a big deal to women, it's a fun/intimate act, that's it really. Women are literally just human beings, and in fact, most women are generally less horny constantly like men are (some women are very horny but it really depends, most aren't) so sex really isn't a big deal to most of them, they can get it whenever really, and their hormonal urge to fuck just isn't as strong as in men, so try to remember that because a man being obsessed with sex often comes across as creepy and is definitely a turn off as well unless are you 10/10 looks. Do and talk about other things, make your life exciting, do fun things for the sake of just having fun, the less you worry about women the more they will be interested in you.