I have had a few thoughts ruminating in my mind, and hope to materialize them here for some healthy discussion:

I'm about to start Med school, and my mind thinks almost always in scientific scenarios. So I will use my knowledge and personal experiences with girls to give some analogies.

Before I started down the path to medicine I was a business major with the mentality C's get degrees, I just partied, lounged, and I can't remember ever doing homework. I was lost and moved to Argentina for some years to find what lifes meaning was. When I came back, I reenrolled with a new found passion for medicine. Well, anyone thinking about or already on this road knows, MEDICAL STUDIES ARE HARD AND RIGOROUS, this is where the law of conservation of energy comes ("energy is neither created or destroyed")

Think of a treadmill (your daily focus and action) attached to a light bulb (your dreams and aspirations), the amount of energy you PUT in will go to the POWER of the bulb.

Nothing created, only redirected... (meaning we have the energy already in the universe to become powerful, we just have been placing it in the wrong outlet)

This is where my experience comes in. As a Business major, I tried to pull girls, and sometimes it worked, but I had so much free time, I put all my energy in trying to get laid. I was not successful. (Chasing the girl = off the treadmill = energy going into the dirtl)

I came back and in order to get my GPA banging, and with my volunteer work, and shadowing. I had no time for women, only my dream. (I redirected my energy to efficiently charge my bulb= onto the treadmill). Turns out that every time a girl made any indication she expected me to do something, or give of my precious dream seeking time, she was firmly reminded that I had no time to spare for her, or anything that didnt light MY bulb. Well, guess who started putting their energy into me?

*WARNING: there were times, I slowed my hustle, and took time to give too much energy to a girl. Squandering energy for my dreams, and making her interest irrecoverable.

The bible says in Mathew 6:24 "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon." Fundamentally, you cannot serve two people, either serve yourself and become your vision, or serve a girl and become enslaved and powerless.

This explains the question I hear so often from my med friends "why is it that only the ugly/weird girls like me? It's never the super hot ones, I thought they liked doctors?"

Answer: they do! what they dont like is little bitch slave boys. SO BE A DOCTOR (or whatever your dream be) put your energy into that. The reason the uggos love you is because you dont want to put a nano joule of energy into being in their life, as opposed to the hot girl that you've complemented a million times and you bought that snuggie in case she gets cold at night... (why would she want you? your bulbs dark and you have no power)

Girls are like moths, they are attracted to YOUR ENERGY, the harder you work into lighting your personal bulb (aka your dreams and passions) they will swarm, we talk about hypergamy here: this is simply the moth flying to a brighter bulb.

Now to finish: focus on you. Get out some paper, write down "one year. five years. ten years." Put where you wanna be at each milestone, now make the plans of what you need to do to effectuate your goals and ultimately your vision.

get your hustle on, put those shades on, because your future is gonna be bright.