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[–]hashtagpound2point2 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link
You gotta love it when women just decide to show off how crazy they can be.
GF: I gave a guy my # 2day lol ;)
BF: Uhh, wtf? You gave a guy who clearly wants to sleep with you ur # while you're dating me.
GF: UR AN ASSHOLE I HATE YOU
The bf should have just let it slide, maybe make a witty retort. "That's okay, I just gave a hooker my home address" and never bringing it up again would've destroyed this jealousy shit-test in a second. Everyone ITT believes she's already made up her mind about fucking this guy. She obviously wants to, but how a guy responds to this situation ultimately makes up her mind. Show a lack of intimidation and concern of the guy and she'll believe you're the man with higher SMV.
[–]z_omg 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Wtf? Why in the fucking world would you even waste your time and energy proving to this whore you're a higher SMV male after that. Nothing needs to be said - the dude just needs to next this bitch.
[–]3rt41 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i second that
[–]hashtagpound2point2 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
It was a shit test, man. Women inevitably do them in relationships (I failed a nearly identical one, it's part of what brought me here). I'm personally not interested in LTRs, but I think my witty retort idea could be useful advice for men who are.
You need to ask yourself how many women you think have wanted to get their bf's jealous at one point or another. Then you need to ask yourself how many women you think would do this if she wanted her bf jealous, and get back to me.
[–]z_omg 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
There are shit tests, and there is creating an opportunity to be pummelled by another dude. Two different things. You'd be living in denial if you ever believed that this chick was simply seeking a reaction from him by giving out her phone number to a dude who is blatantly trying to fuck her.
[–]hashtagpound2point2 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
You'd be living in denial if you ever believed that this chick was simply seeking a reaction
I never said that. I said that she wants to fuck the guy and how her boyfriend reacts greatly helps make up her decision. Acting like a whiny bitch makes the forbidden fruit more appealing while lowering your attraction to her all at the same time.
[–]Spartacus321 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I wouldn't even call it a shit-test. The only reason she brought it up was probably so that she didn't feel guilty about texting the guy later. She got mad because the boyfriend didn't approve, which means she probably should feel guilty, which isn't what she wanted to hear.
[–]hashtagpound2point2 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The only reason she brought it up was probably so that she didn't feel guilty about texting the guy later.
I don't see how that's any better of an assumption than my theory.
She got mad because the boyfriend didn't approve
You think that she thought that her boyfriend would approve of this? I have a hard time believing that.
I don't trust your idea because it sounds like you think she's going to fuck this guy regardless of how her boyfriend reacts. Women are much more loyal when you always keep your frame. I don't think she had her heart set on texting this guy. Do you believe there's a way to stop her from trying to hook up with this guy at that point?
[–]Spartacus321 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You think that she thought that her boyfriend would approve of this?
I think she thought he might brush it off or say something like "it's because you're so pretty". Basically, it sounds to me like she wants some kind of validation.
Do you believe there's a way to stop her from trying to hook up with this guy at that point?
If a girl wants to cheat, she will. Sometimes regardless of how their partner treats them. I'm not saying that it'll happen; maybe the girl in the story won't. But she's looking for validation after giving out her number, and then getting upset when her boyfriend doesn't feel comfortable with it. Sounds real fishy.
My motto is: if someone gets emotional about something, anything, more than the situation seems to call for there's something else going on. People get offended/upset when they have something personal at stake. So when someone tells you to fuck off after you do something suspicious... that's suspicious.
My thoughts on the matter: she gave out her number to someone who made her feel validated, and then tested the waters with her boyfriends reaction. Her reaction makes me think she wanted the validation more than sparing her boyfriend discomfort, and that doesn't sound good.
[–]hashtagpound2point2 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Right. A shit test.
[–]Spartacus321 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looked it up.
She wants to know that you will stand up to her. That is how she will feel secure in the relationship. But there's a catch. She has to test to see if she can trust you. The first time you set a boundary with her she may react intensely. She will push against it. She will tell you that you are wrong for setting that boundary. She will do her best to find out if your boundary is for real.
Yep, you're right. It definitely is a shit-test.
[–]z_omg 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
All right mate, but you're not seeing this right. My point is: why would you even care if you've lowered your attraction to her or not? It's irrelevant because what she did was wrong and should never be tolerated. What's relevant is that she's lowered her attraction to him. Get it?
[–]hashtagpound2point2 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're seeing this as a 'dump her, she's not worth it' thing, while I'm explaining what he could have done to possibly deescalate and get rid of the situation had he wanted to continue dating her.
I was never arguing whether it's worth putting up with or not.
[–]Varrian 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is brilliant. No shaming tactics whatsoever; this chick just goes straight for the kill.
Behold: the female without subterfuge!
[–]drewbaccha 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm pretty sure we just witnessed a successful branch swing. Surprisingly the advice given isn't complete shit.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I was hoping for
Talk to her. Understand her. Caress her. A woman has a very unique experience and needs to explore herself as much as she does you. Be there for her. Listen to her. Find out why she wanted to give a number to a stranger, even if she didn't really want to call him. If she comes home with a cream pie, eat it, and ask her how you can please her more.
[–]boredinclass2 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I busted out laughing reading this.
[–]boobiemcgoogle 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
At least the advice is sound in that thread
[–]RedPillExclusive 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea after he fucked up by acting like an over sensitive idiot.
[–]LordXerces 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Honestly, I'd love to suspend my messiah complex for just a little bit, but it's shit like this that makes me wish people would preach TRP on the street with a fucking megaphone. You can call him an idiot, you can call him a blue pill, beta pussy, but in reality, this guy is suffering from the twisted indoctrination of an emasculated society. Truly suffering. We would just chuckle, shake our heads and get out, but for OP this is an incomprehendable nightmare. One thing is to refuse to acknowledge the truth when it's right in front of you. Another thing is to simply never know about it.
[–]1ThumpNuts 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. This.
This poor slob needs to be woken up now. He's not exactly "over-sensitive," he is just clueless.
A man would have realized she just broke it off with him. A real man [who isn't a Blue Piller and who isn't 'running game' would respond by saying, "Maybe you should give me his number so I can call him and warn him of what a whore you are. Good luck and lose my number." But that only works if you are not a whore yourself.
[–]Good2Go5280 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a pussy.
[–]Endorsed Contributorredpillbanana 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
SmoothBuddha is not smoother than the average Buddha.
Favorite response is the first one:
Well that's not suspicious at all.
[–]Modredpillschool[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Please provide an analysis when you post logs.
[–]LordXerces 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I will next time. Thank you.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To the don't text me anymore. Challenge accepted. Peace.
[–]carrotplanter -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
told me piss off and stop texting her and then to FUCK OF I think she just broke off with you
told me piss off and stop texting her and then to FUCK OF
I think she just broke off with you
Are these people fucking idiots? Looks like a clear no gf virgin trying to dish relationship advice. It's the blind leading the blind over there, apparently.
I think the girl in OP's story simply reacted badly to an overbearing and uncharacteristically possessive bf. That shit happens sometimes, and the girl will likely apologize if the guy only maintains his frame and keeps acting right. Unfortunately, that doesn't seem like it's going to happen as the guy is just a massive fucking beta turd, even asking for advice on the Internet for something as shallow and mundane as this is. In my opinion, him leaving her would be more of a favor for her instead of for him. He'll basically be nexting himself.
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