So the title is a bit misleading; whenever I do something productive ( 12 hours+ work day // personal succes ) and/or I am drunk or tipsy I feel a lot more selfish, I feel like people are not as judgemental.

When I'm not in either one of those 2 states ( after an achievement or not drunk/tipsy) I am just your usual nice guy that wants to please.

I know RP has more to do with long-term discipline all-in-all, but these hiatus state really feels good I have to say. First of all it's the ability of being honest to people and expressing myself, my intentions in a non-subtle manner, or at least more direct than usual and thinking about every possible outcome.

So I am asking here for an opinion on the matter or an alternative to getting drunk or always pursuing this state. Do I have to share these moments with friends so that I do not chasing high's like a junkie.

tl;dr I feel like I'm honest to people only when I am tipsy/drunk or have done something really productive in that day. How do you get there usually ? Just more sex? More discipline ? Do share.

disclaimer: if this does not belong here please do point me into the right direction. Cheers.