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[–]destinyaltboy 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
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What is this?
[–]silent_protector 4 points4 points4 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
This should go on askTRP, but since it's such a common question it's not hard to answer.
Always use protection
Don't talk to her at all except asking for a paternity test (if she is pregnant)
Keep any communication written (text/emails)
That's pretty much all you can do now, and don't make the mistake again
[–]UHadUnoJob[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks, I know how fucking dumb I was, yeah I only text her so everything is logged
[–]nice_and_friendly 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
i remember the first time a chick tried to tell me that too.. i was about your age. she is 100% not pregnant man, relax and forget about her
[–]UHadUnoJob[S] -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Hopefully man, I've been trying my best but the thought of my life being ruined is actually running my stress through the roof. Everytime I think of it I have an anxiety attack and can't breathe or think and I just shiver in silence. Fuck man this is cancer
[–]nice_and_friendly 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is why you use condoms. i remember my situation was much more questionable.. one night stand with a chick i barely knew, i straight up came inside her like 4 times.. and again in the morning. i sweated over that shit waiting for another phone call from her for like 6 months after that mistake. just forget about her man, if she is pregnant you will hear about it. shes not though. so live and learn, and next time you go to fuck a girl without protecting yourself, remember this moment and how much anxiety you feel. its not worth it
[–]silent_protector1 points 10 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
you need to be mindful; keep your thoughts about the present moment. whether she is pregnant or not is out of your control now, and is going to happen will happen no matter how much you think about it. just let it go
[–]UHadUnoJob[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're right, I can't fix that now. Should I text her to see if she actually is pregnant and if so convince for an abortion?
[–]RedditAdminsSuck_88 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only communication you should be doing is establishing whether or not she is pregnant. The more you say the worse things will turn out. So no, do not pressure for an abortion. Do not pressure anything.
The less you say the better.
[–]silent_protector2 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It's pretty much out of your control. If she was not telling you before if she was pregnant there's nothing you can do to make her tell you now. I would just tell her that you want an abortion if she is pregnant and leave it at that. Trying to reason/ argue with her is pointless
[–]Endorsed ContributorUrsusG 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and I came in her mouth
Do you even sex ed up there in Canada?
She's pulling your strings for some teenage drama.
I bet she showed your messages to all her girlfriends and they had a giggle over them.
Since she is definitely not pregnant, the following is purely theoretical:
If she was really pregnant and intending to keep it, she would definitely contact you for a serious talk.
If she was really pregnant and intending to abort it without wanting to talk to you, then you've just hit the idiot's jackpot.
[–]1jb_trp 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she's refusing to talk to you, she either wasn't pregnant or got an abortion. Or she's batshit crazy. You should have wrapped it up.
If she has a baby, get a lawyer and demand a paternity test. There have been cases where women will name a man on the child's birth certificate, and even though he's biologically not the father, the government still comes after him for child support. Once the paternity test is established, he's off the hook for future child support, but in these cases he's still on the book for any backed child support.
You fucked her off of Tinder bareback. She's apparently not a responsible person, so obviously she's fucked other guys off of Tinder as well. Maybe it's one of those guy's baby?
When we fucked, I was underage, does that help me at all?
No, it doesn't help. They can come after you in 10 years asking for backed child support. If this happens, lawyer up fast.
[–]1Sir_Distic 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't ever believe a women who says she's pregnant unless you see a pregnancy test from a doctor.
Answer "ok." And nothing more.
Do NOT sign a birth certificate if she is pregnant unless a judge orders you.
[–]npath 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Drink some CBD infused tea if they have that in Canada.
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