I need help.

MentORPHEUS · 2015-11-14T01:26:31+00:00

Read the sidebar. The best information is right there for the taking. Once you've thusly gone through a Redpill learning curve, you'll be able to ask meaningful questions, starting in AskTRP. This amounts to asking to be spoon-fed what's readily available.

DiamondDaedalist · 2015-11-14T01:51:15+00:00

Read everything on the sidebar first. Then go and look at the 'top' posts of the sub and learn the content that they have within them. Look at the top field reports and familiarise yourself with how, and more importantly why the concepts that those posters use work. Find a couple of high-value contributors, such as /u/OmLaLa, /u/NightwingTRP, and /u/scottishredpill (some of my personal favourites), and watch how they talk and act, then integrate the best parts of them into your own behaviours. Faking it is the first step to making it.

Oh yeah, and lift.

MattyAnon · 2015-11-14T03:29:00+00:00

I'd want to learn what I need to do to sleep with those that are much more attractive then me.

You got three main choices. Either pay (cash or commitment) or get really good at gaming chicks or make yourself much more attractive. I'd recommend both gaming and self-betterment as the way forward.

I'm hopelessly lost

You won't be in time. Right now you're reeling from the loss of having women as a goal on a pedestal to aim for. You fell for the BP ruse of "talk to a girl and it'll all be ok", then you got the usual pigeon chess thing.

You've been playing by the wrong rules. Don't play chess with pigeons (for those who are not familar: don't argue with women, it's like playing chess with a pigeon: no matter how well you play the game the pigeon just knocks over all the pieces and shits on the board).

To men who suffer from this with women, the problem is how she sees you. You are seen like a car, and a faulty one at that. And you're dealt with how women deal with all things that go wrong: frustration and annoyance and kicking it and then getting someone else to fix it. She is trying to fix the broken gearbox by screaming and shouting at the tyres until the car gives in and god damn works like it should and why hasn't she been rescued already like the princess in all the books she's ever read?

Don't argue with women, they are too entitled to listen or to learn and what they say is so far from reality as to be incomprehensible. Most of it is a powergrab anyway.

So... getting shit from her? Just walk away. (Quietly, without saying a thing. Withdraw all your commitment, attention and emotion from her. As if she ceases to exist. Quietly make plans for something awesome you're going to do instead.) She doesn't apologise? Leave her. Can't leave? Then she's found her true value and your true value in the relative relationship marketplace, and she will act accordingly and without mercy.

It won't take you too long to restructure your life around something a bit closer to reality. And when you do, you'll get less problems from women.

scissor_me_timbers00 · 2015-11-14T18:06:15+00:00

Don't let yourself get bent out of shape by women. You're giving up your power by becoming so exasperated about it. They're just fucking chicks dude. You can't hold their nature against them. Just relax, and make yourself into a better man that they by nature will respond to. High quality men are at a premium in society. Nature rewards the strong. Your post makes your seem like you've got a huge mental burden. But if you really internalize this it will be like a weight off your shoulders. Everything will become simple.

RedPillWatchTower · 2015-11-14T20:38:33+00:00

Belongs in /r/askTRP. Repost there. Removed.

Title	I need help.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	November 14, 2015 1:14 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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