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| 7 | Has anyone else given up after discovering trp?I had given up before I found TRP. What's happened to you is that the entire worldview you have based your entire life upon and your entire approach to life, has been destroyed before your eyes. Suddenly the way things have unfolded has been made clear and the actions you witnessed which previously made no sense, now make sense. Having spent all of your life living a lie, this naturally triggers grief. Welcome to the denial phase. It's a process and you'll come out the other side stronger for it… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | [40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice?Access the sub on a computer browser, down the right hand side of thesub's homepage you'll find the description, the rules and then remainder of the sidebar - to which everyone is referring. The basic info, new beginner reading, theory reading, reference material etc. While you're reading that, this bit is all you need: Beginners: Start lifting, eat clean, get your career on point, socialise, look to acquire plates to spin. In that order. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | [40M][30F] Silence in Long-Distance Relationship After She went out. Advice?Advice? Go find your testicles. I don't even need to read the post, wtf are you doing in a long distance relationship??? Have you read nothing on the sidebar? Beginners: Start lifting, eat clean, get your career on point, socialise, look to acquire plates to spin. In that order. Even in all the stuff written here about LTR game, at no point does anyone advocate long distance. Ever. Why? Because the exchange of commitment and sex is not balanced. You are the loser in this scenario. It is only eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/23 10:28 AM |
| 3 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.Dates should switch venues and have an activity of some sort. Coffee dates are dreadful as the woman will approach it with her checklist of rubbish which doesn't matter because she doesn't really get herself or what she genuinely needs to satisfy the feelings she's chasing. If there's no enthusiasm from her, remember that your time is valuable. Just say "Was nice getting to know you, but I've gotta get going now. Need to meet somebody." Do not elaborate further. Just get your gear and get ready … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 08:27 AM |
| 107 | Nuclear shit test exampleErgh. The premise of this is rejected. Go back to the sidebar and start again. If she is a plate, her dumb behaviour doesn't matter. If she becomes work, you drop her and get a new plate to replace in your rotation. If she is your only plate, you have fucked up. If she is an LTR, why are you taking your LTR to a club? Why are you indulging her in slootland? Open disrespect in an LTR is an immediate hard next and you then need to reflect on why you LTR'd up a sloot who could show open disrespect … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/23 12:40 PM |
| 26 | It Is Every American's Patriotic Duty to Affirm Transgender BeautyGLO writes in a subtle nuanced way. Hey! I could seriously hurt myself falling off my seat laughing like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 02:13 PM |
| 17 | Exes.The reason why women break up is that they wake up in the morning and perceive they have better options than the person they are with. FTFY. Otherwise you start falling into the mad world where women logic is objective and supposed to make sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 12:29 PM |
| 48 | The Symbolic Death of FemininityOverthinking without purpose. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/23 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Intelligence and attractivenessIt's exactly the same when it comes to things like lifting and game. Game is more important than lifting, if you have no game it doesn't matter how jacked you are, you'll screw it up even if you're starting from ahead. But status trumps all. It's why the skinny lead singer in a band is getting all the women while gym rat does ok and the nerd in the library isn't getting anything. Our advice remains the same though, do it all. Being intelligent and well informed is good for you personally. You co… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 06:18 PM |
| 27 | I spit the redpill back up, I'm struggling to get it back down againWe almost immediately enter into a relationship Found the fuck up. I had a solid understanding of redpill and I tried to stick to the mindset they preached. It worked for a bit. That first sentence is a lie, or hubris, or both. Any relationship requires substantial vetting, you did none - you have no understanding of TRP on relationships. LTRs are game on hard mode because you're removing your most powerful weapons from your arsenal. You don't even know how to spin plates successfully and you th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | STOP Cold ApproachingThis is basically a massive post about why I advocate "warming" the approach. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/22 01:03 AM |
| 15 | Why her body count mattersMy major concern is not equality but of hypocrisy : That I would be a hypocrite for seeking a girl with low body count when I have a high body count myself. Hypocrisy is not possible in an asymmetrical comparison. The very basis required to make your logic work is not there. I have laid out what that basis is for you and you've then dismissed it thus: My major concern is not equality You are using the wrong base logic and it comes from the hyperfocus on equality. If you were truly not concerned … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 05:57 PM |
| 35 | Why her body count mattersWould this be true for a guy? Like as a guy, should I then indulge in casual sex or have sex in relationships (before marriage)? A woman has a high body count because other men fucked her and thus, it is indirectly our responsibility as men. You are not responsible for the actions of women, nor is one group responsible for another. We are talking about individuals. You must also bear in mind that women and men are not comparable. We are playing two different dating games, with different goals, d… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 02:50 PM |
| 42 | Moved to a big city, want to leave LTR to chase tailI feel like I’m raising a little kid when we’re together This is standard for an LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Andrew Tate isn't your enemy, and why you shouldn't blindly follow what other people say.The whole Andrew Tate thing just reminds me of coach red pill. I recall seeing him recently cucking to Piers Morgan despite the fact Morgan was doing his usual utterly irrelevant nonsense. Dude lacks real strength of conviction. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/22 07:33 PM |
| 25 | Being raised with beta mentalityIt takes time to turn the oil tanker around. It's hard, you'll push for days, weeks and months on end and see you're nowhere near where you want to be every single day. The people who get to where they want to be are the ones who keep pushing on every single one of those days. That's not to say it's easy, but it is to give you the proper perspective of the task at hand. It's long and hard. Take it one day at a time and focus on doing the short term bits of your long term plan. That's how you tur… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Andrew Tate is not your friendI'm banned from a number of subs on reddit. Some for my participation here, others for calling child groomers the groomers that they are, using official govt training materials for safeguarding children to do it - but reddit doesn't like reality. Haven't made a post in years because I've got nothing else of substance to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 4 | Andrew Tate is not your friendThe young always get drawn towards the edgy... this is like coach red pill 2.0 | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Lies Women Want To Hear99% of dudes in here could never fuck the amount and quality of girls they want based on their actual value. In fact, game is entirely about falsifying value. Game is not about falsifying value you dimwit. It's about providing little emotional rollercoasters for her to enjoy herself in the interaction. In doing so you demonstrate your social value to be high enough for her by speaking the social language well. Next you're going to be telling me that responses to shit tests are about falsifying y… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | Lies Women Want To HearI'm not here to say what is right or wrong. As my point alludes to, it is both unnecessary and can potentially backfire very badly. When you are caught, it will also be seen as beta behaviour. Too many downsides, little in the way of upsides. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 9 | Lies Women Want To HearWhat is this absolute trash? Stretch the truth by all means, but the further you move away from your actual value, the less you're actually demonstrating women should sleep with you and the more you're acting like some common pick up artist trying to trick women into bed with you. Be prepared for a false rape allegation via the route of "he lied about who he was." You are the prize. If women can't see that, it's probably because you're not much of a prize. Go work on that. The following lies are… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Should men have a male VERSION of the classic hourglass physique?Don't recall reading that paper... but wouldn't dispute it based upon the behaviour of many women I've been with. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/22 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Should men have a male VERSION of the classic hourglass physique?The inverted triangle is the male equivalent to the hourglass. You can have your detailed discussion on abs or no abs and how this affects strength gains, but the reality is you won't be wandering around topless much. Make sure your clothes fit well, look stylish and if you're looking to show off your physique a bit, then a tight t-shirt is usually plenty for this - you don't even need to be completely shredded for this look because most tight t-shrits I've found don't tend to be tight around th… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/22 07:55 AM |
| 43 | You guys are right and it's annoyingTrying to use red pill methods to achieve blue pill dreams does not work. You still need to internalise the reality of what women are after and how little control they have over their own feelings/attraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Just Discovered "Gymcel." Seriously considering giving up.Oh, you mean the GLO fanboys? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Just Discovered "Gymcel." Seriously considering giving up.wtf is a gymcel? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Game From People In Open RelationshipsPlease, be respectful in the comments. Don't call anyone any derogatory terms like "cuck" or "beta cuck". There are Alpha males who are in open relationships because it allows them to fuck other women without cheating. So lets keep an open mind about it. There are not. This is because of a fundamental piece of the red pill which is day one reading on the sidebar: women control access to sex, men control access to commitment. No alpha is in an open relationship as he recognises the asymmetrical n… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 16 | 36 Questions that Lead to LoveBonding happens at different paces for men and women. Bear this in mind with your little blue pill fantasies about "falling in love" | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 18 | /r/AskMen asks "Men that opened up to the girlfriend/wife when they asked you to open up and be more vulnerable, how did it work out for you?" and gets the wrong answer...NEVER EVER expose yourself like this. This is why you cultivate strong male-male heterosexual relationships. And why you will remember that in this reality the other men who come to you CAN NOT rely upon a woman for this. Support your fellow men in their times of need and build strong friendships. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/22 01:58 AM |
| 68 | LTRs are hard-mode, Monkey-Branching is realLessons I learned: Always remain the prize Never give her 100% because she has nothing left to chase and will seek that validation elsewhere. Further lessons: Do not try to play LTR game until you have spun multiple plates for months and have fully internalised the pill. Do not attempt LTRs unless you've started being selective with plates based upon assessments of red and green flags. (Seriously, how do you overlook online prostitute?) Learn to walk away more. Dread is your friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 40 | Someone discuss this with me…Depression stage. You're seeing the women you meet for who they are, and many are not impressive or admirable people. Keep going and you may bump into one or two who are. They are people and they are who they are as shaped by their biology and their experiences with society. You'll reach acceptance soon enough. If you wish to speak privately then I'm open to a discussion if you need it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/22 11:19 PM |
| 22 | Any advice for this one?Then here's a perspective: Go read the sidebar. You're pretty much as blue pilled as it gets. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 35 | Any advice for this one?How do I get this girl to open up to me? How do I get this girl's heart? Have you even read the sidebar? Do you even grasp where you're posting this? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 4 | The attack on males and testosteroneWould you kindly provide a few of the key papers you would present in an evidence synthesis around this topic please? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | NARS: The Real EpidemicTruth only exists in mathematics Bollocks. Maths requires the assumption of the universal language. Everything rests on our perceptions. You want to argue for truth, argue it from the negative of relativism. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 02:09 AM |
| 5 | NARS: The Real EpidemicI've been hobby reading for years and still couldn't tell you much on statistical analysis. Stats is a subject in itself. I was actually untaught statistics in my first degree. I found it astonishing that they managed to do that. Much later on I realised there's a shit tonne of people out there with fancy titles who do not grasp the material. You will encounter senior managers who make decisions based on data, who do not grasp how to interpret data correctly. You will find scientists who draw co… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Second Rejection--998 More To GoSuccess does not teach you. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/21 01:56 AM |
| 14 | The bluepill escapismSolid post, particularly on the beliefs system point. An unwillingness to try and alter your point of perception will basically ensure you choke on the red pill. There are several examples of where the behaviour or mindset which is successful is counter-intuitive. e.g. if you want to have sex one evening, then you need to basically not care if you have sex or not that evening. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/21 04:09 PM |
| 27 | Massive potential deal-breaker with prospective LTRWhat does this contribute? What lessons have been learned? The fact you even tolerated multiple dates without sex was enough to say "you need to spin plates." This is a textbook example of attempting to use red pill tools for blue pill fantasies. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/21 04:33 PM |
| -7 | Women and “icks”: A confirmation of alpha/beta dichotomyYou NEED both. You need to hit the gym and be the right amount of cocky, but also build a good income and have actual interests and a personality. You need to know how to care for and pay attention to her, but also know how to take the lead and put your foot down when the time comes. So this is false. You don't need both. You only need the alpha qualities. The beta qualities are only for specific situations where you're trying to lower attraction e.g. making her break it off with you. Everything… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 13 | With the recent wave of reddit bans, you might want to archive your favorite posts - here's howEverything is already backed up on the TRP.red forums. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | How to get rid of incel mentalityOccasionally, words have a beauty all of their own. We'll see if the kid can figure out the hardest lesson he needs to learn coming here. That his preconceptions were wrong and he needs to accept he was an idiot and try things a different way for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 7 | The new 007 Bond is a femaleNobody cares. Bond has been shit ever since Daniel Craig took over. Making Moneypenny a field agent who also happens to be black was the obvious first step in this piss poor direction of "SJWism ahead of quality entertainment." Go read a good book or watch a classic film. Experience some real culture so your palette doesn't get too tainted by this modern crap. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Its It just me or are girls increasingly turning to Onlyfans and the like?This is an issue I've carefully addressed over my time here. My perspective is that the virtue of temperance is not given adequate coverage here. To flesh out my point, we have the counter-intuitive reality that if you want to have more sex, you need to care less about having more sex. The man who can say not to a woman indicates he has other options... but even if he doesn't, this mere act is enough to increase attraction. I've seen this in action from women who were attractive, interested in m… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 10:52 AM |
| 41 | Its It just me or are girls increasingly turning to Onlyfans and the like?Now, to be fair. I blame the guys who enable more than the women. Honestly I'd say it's the dysfunctional dating market more than anything else. Many men have urges beyond getting their dicks wet. Thanks to the discouragement of men having strong relationships with their male peers (from women invading everything and then setting the standards of maleness by how many women are talking to you) you've got a whole generation of men looking to women for their emotional needs. They're looking for rel… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 16 | Its It just me or are girls increasingly turning to Onlyfans and the like?Pretty much yeah. It's basically prostitution-lite. Obviously if you're out in the field gaming chicks, you don't care about it. You're fine with it and non-judgemental and all that. In here talking theory, this is basically a woman commodifying her SMV at the expenditure of her RMV. More specifically, she is exchanging her RMV for money at a rate determined by her SMV. $20,000 a month is serious cash that some of the more attractive women are apparently earning. If you quizzed women on whether … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 20 | If a girl shows you interest after 3 years of not talking is she worried about her SMV going down or sees how your smv has gone up.Dear diary, there's this one girl who I keep thinking about 3 years down the line after being rejected.... | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 09:03 AM |
| 3 | My brother wants to LTR a 22 year old with 2 kids and two fathersBack in ancient times, man would discover that fire gave warmth and could be used to cook food. He would also discover when he got too close that it burns and hurts. I'd prepare your own mind for the likely mental health issues you'll suffer from watching your brother get destroyed in front of your eyes. Sounds like he needs a role model more than anything else. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 08:14 AM |
| 6 | Opinion about girlfriend of 8 months,I am not sure whether that was a mistake but it happened. I am just not sure whether she has the same emotional intelligence as me and so is unable to say the right things to make me feel better. You seem to have misread the material. You are the rock, she is not your rock because you are the rock. You can get away with moments of weakness over major things such as death of a parent. (However this is not universal, some women will still not tolerate you getting upset over something like that and… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Just broke up with LTR of 1.5 years. What do?My first instincts are to get more serious in the gym, get more serious about my purpose, and take a break from hoes for awhile, but do any post-LTR brothers have any good post-breakup advice? This is true. Though ensure you cut her off completely. You can do without the childish behaviour of some women who will proceed to try and rub her new dating life in your face. That sort of thing can screw with your head and make you return to the game before you would choose to otherwise. Do you have a m… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Is it stupid to change town just for girls ?Yes, it is stupid. None of your decisions should be being made with women as motivation. That is pure blue pill pussy on the pedestal thinking. Legitimate reasons to move would be better job prospects, better pay, social circle or hobby needs or some other way in which it fits into your broader mission in life. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How effective is Redpill relationship advice when it comes to marriage?RP mainly is not designated for married men, but there are vast concept that you can relate them to marriage. RP is not designed with either single life or married life in mind. It's designed with success in mind. The reason it doesn't tend to be talked about in relation to marriage and why TRP has a strict "don't get married" stance is because of the principles of TRP being played out in that dynamic. Once married, you have legally surrendered your most powerful card - your ability to walk away… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | How to get over caring about your LTR?Best of luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | My[20M] Girl[22F] has plans to travel solo in the futureI appreciate the brutal truth man, I think I'm gonna dig a lot more into the literature. Spin plates for at least 18 months before even considering an LTR. If you then want to consider an LTR, go read the guides, there's an excellent one on the sidebar here. Don't touch LTRs until you have gathered plenty of plate management experience. That's all you need to know on that. Read the literature in your spare time, pick the ECs you want to read and cover all the sidebar on both TRP and AskTRP and y… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 5 | How to get over caring about your LTR?A majority of the red flags didn’t present themselves until we were dating This is why the vetting period exists. It's long because women fake for a long time... but not forever. I knew her for three years before I fucked her. lol This girl didn’t want to get with me in high school when I knew her, it was only when I leveled up by losing fat, increasing my status and making money that she came along lol I let my blue pill fantasies get the best of me This does not jive with: I genuinely don’t th… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 10 | My[20M] Girl[22F] has plans to travel solo in the futureDude, you treat her like a plate and shes gonna do plate like things. The fuck It's not even this... puts her down as a plate and then he acts like she isn't a plate and her actions outside of fucking him actually matter. If he's saying he's given her sexual exclusivity for months now... why? Why the fuck would you start a random LTR with some plate well before the vetting period's minimum length is over? This guy is retarded, and clearly hasn't bothered doing the basic reading. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 8 | How to get over caring about your LTR?she has too many red flags I think the more pertinent question here is why are you LTR-ing girls you know to have red flags and talking about marriage like it's a remote possibility? There's a very strong odour of trying to use red pill methods for blue pill fantasies. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Why are girls so much more concerned about guys than guys are about girls?Because her value is basically decided in her social circle by the value of the man/men she can secure. I am not trying to sound sexist but Stop that. Don't apologise for ignoring the stupid standards of the mainstream that inhibit open and honest discussion. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How to get over girlfriend’s body count?Alright so I’ve been with this girl going on 3 years Ok. Her body count is over 30 but under 40. So you didn't vet properly before entering an LTR. Everybody makes mistakes. Do your LTR reading. Dump, complete the reading and move on so you can try again. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Messaging girls you haven't fucked yet at night, low value?This. Remember, even the guy who's not getting any and falling asleep with some lass in his arms on Friday night is more valuable than the dude who's on his own that no girl cares about to even talk to. Keep yourself higher up the scale. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 01:56 AM |
| 30 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.New plan for the lad, he needs to start by getting himself a pimp hat and explaining what "love" really means to her. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend told me about another guy that hitted on her, and asked her about her instagram, my gf told me she wouldnt give him her ig, but she did anyways and follow him backShud i confront her and setup a boundary about me not being cool with it? So she's directly lied to your face and you are concerned about "setting up boundaries." Do you even listen to yourself? Your ex-girlfriend told you these things. Plates get to fuck around. LTRs do not. Go do your basic reading. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | My life expirences don't match the redpillWell there you go, his life experiences do match TRP and he's just an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 18 | My life expirences don't match the redpillThe exception does not disprove the rule. Go enjoy your life. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 01:14 PM |
| 26 | Her male friends and games, constructive advice pleaseshe played a lot of games like posting tinder messages and matches on her private story after telling me she deleted it That was where any LTR vetting ended. Forever plate material. Never to be promoted above. Act accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 7 | am i being dramatic or should i withdraw attention from a girl ive been casually vettingGo for it. Just be strict with yourself. Don't let one romp turn into two or three or no-end-in-sight because then your feels are in the driving seat and you're in trouble. Ultimately remember that vetting isn't about finding out a girl is ideal. It's about getting rid of girls with red flags. That's why you give them time to get comfy, not so they'll suddenly do the right thing (they should be doing the right thing all the time anyway, it shouldn't require time for that to come out), but to giv… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 17 | am i being dramatic or should i withdraw attention from a girl ive been casually vettingI thought things were going pretty well with us and progressing towards a relationship so idk why she thought it was worth the effort to create an entirely new profile on the app. And you were wrong. She is now forever plate material and can never rise above that level. Your vetting worked. That is the purpose of vetting, to observe and disqualify unsuitable girls. She has demonstrated through her actions that she is unworthy of a serious relationship with you. Hit up other girls if you're still… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | She blocked me“He is a good guy it just didn’t workout” Don't be so foolish. Go back and do your reading on the light switch effect. That sort of reaction is for betas of middling value she doesn't find attractive but wants to keep as a last option. Find some of the reading on why TRP is so obviously misconstrued. Women cannot accept that they have slept with a man of low value. It's antithetical to their sexual strategy: Only low value women sleep with low value men. As a high value woman, I could not possib… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 16 | She blocked meThat your value is so low in her eyes you not longer even seem like an acceptable beta provider. Congrats on unlocking omega level. Forget about her and get back to your plate set, whether in the gym or the sheets. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 11:10 AM |
| 41 | Typical THOT encounterI asked her if there was anything I can do to make her feel better. This was a beta move bro. Offering emotional support or trying to nice your way into a chicks pants makes them dry up. Avoid at all costs. You are having fun and she is welcome to join you - keep it roughly to this and you won't experience this problem anymore. She hit you up for money because you told her between the lines that you are a beta provider. Avoid sending that message by mistake in future and this will happen less. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/21 11:07 AM |
| 4 | Unbiased Review of TRPhence the extreme opposite movement. If ever you wanted to demonstrate that you didn't know what you're talking about, this line is it. TRP may be radically different to the mainstream, but it's not the total opposite. Obvious examples are that they call us rapists, but we abhor rape like anyone else. Our philosophy is that she should be eagerly having sex with you, the total opposite of rape. Or that we dishonestly trick women into bed. We openly tell guys to be honest with women that they're n… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Would you ever LTR a near-wall woman in your 20's?TL;DR. Answer to your title is absolutely not. There are no circumstances in which you're winning by LTRing a woman according the preferences of her sexual strategy and you are a moron for even considering it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Asking height before a date?"Taller than your tiny ass lol. See you at X." is the correct response. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What does “I’m not ready for a relationship” mean?Self-disqualification. Nothing more to see here. It's a social defence mechanism. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?This only works if stopping wanting to get laid doesn't coincide with you being a loser who never leaves his home. Yes, but that misses the point. If you understand the point, then what you've just said goes without saying. Did you intend to miss the point? | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:15 AM |
| 17 | Why do girls go so crazy over guys they find attractive?And just like magic all of this pussy started being thrown my way. This is exactly why I remind folks of the counter-intuitive rule that: if you want to get laid, stop wanting to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Good indicators to know your LTR is cheating.I hear some EC's say AWALT, that all LTR's are are long term plates, and some say just vet bro and she'll be a good wife. which is it? It's both. LTR's are about dynamic and maintaining that dynamic. Vetting is about making your life easier in maintaining this but also to rule out women who won't be able to remain stable for an extended period of time, e.g. mental health problems. AWALT still applies, stick her in a hotel room, on her own with Brad Pitt and she's gonna cheat on you, but you shou… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 10:16 AM |
| 19 | Do British women have masculine voices?No. Next retarded question? | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 7 | How do people fuck the same person their whole lives?Because sex is not their primary mission in life. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 02:01 PM |
| 4 | LDR & Sex Drive / No FapI saw LDR, laughed and shook my head. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Signs, that she sees you as AlphaI didn't get the point with surrender to any jealously. There is also no further explanation, but I'm curious. Could you explain that through some examples, that might can happen? This sounds like it's referring to mate guarding. In order for a woman to cheat, she will need time alone with another man... however mate guarding such as pulling her away from other men is unattractive because it gives her all the power. It's no longer you making the decision to be with her, but her making the decisi… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Signs, that she sees you as AlphaAbout the light switch thing, is there any way to resolve it, when it is switched "off"? Some Principles, I should consider there? It's not really worth the effort. Better to just game new chicks. The only examples in the manosphere of trying to tackle this sort of stuff is in the married red pill community where they've completely fucked everything up, but are now tied into a marriage. Due to the significant financial and personal loss of walking away, the huge amount of effort needed to turn i… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 11:18 AM |
| 11 | Signs, that she sees you as AlphaA whole host of things indicate it: IOIs, breaking her schedule or plans to spend more time with you, investing emotional or financial energy, pushing for commitment, the list goes on. However this is all caveated by the fleeting nature of these things. It is why some lads on here will recommend adding "right now" to the end of just about anything she says or does.... she may see you as alpha - "right now" that can change in no time flat. Never forget the light switch and the principles behind i… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Good indicators to know your LTR is cheating.Ie if I lay next to her and say “show me your recent messages”, is that too much? Sounds a bit of a weird way of doing it, but if it works for you, whatever man. I’m just a little bit uncomfortable doing this, it sort of feels like a threat to her privacy. Make your mind up what you want. You don't get to see everything while also giving her privacy. It's logically impossible. You can have one or the other. Where are the guides on vetting? On the sidebar. Where everything is. Sidebar of AskTRP h… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Good indicators to know your LTR is cheating.You pick up her phone for whatever other reason and look through. Same for laptops, go on to do something else originally. See if she reacts or not. If she doesn't, feel free to open stuff like email/texts etc. She shouldn't really give a toss if she's not messing about. This should not appear like you purposefully trying to hold her away from men... you're doing something else and if you don't have her password, you ask "what's the password" If she asks why "I need to get on here for X and cba … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Good indicators to know your LTR is cheating.If you're in an LTR, you should have casual means of verifying whenever you feel like it. (Trust but verify being the rule here. When your gut tells you something is off, verify and if everything is cool then your instincts will adjust accordingly over time to read her better.) | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 11:09 AM |
| 1 | “Text me when you get home safe”Did you give it as an instruction or a suggestion? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 11:03 AM |
| 11 | Ghosted chick because she was playing gamesYeah, that's fine. Now stop giving her space in your head. Your time is too valuable for chicks who mess you about. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:58 AM |
| 2 | How do i help my incel friendYou don't. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 24 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?The vast majority of women are quite passive. So she won't so much "make it happen" as she will go out of her way to help it happen. You can ask much more of a woman who is attracted to you. As usual, Rollo's verbose nature has managed to make something simple seem complicated. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Would you LTR a girl that was previously someones elses plate?LTR guide is on the sidebar. LTR should not be attempted by low experience men. Spin plates for at least 18 months first to learn. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Would you LTR a girl that was previously someones elses plate?It's a red flag, so no. Her dating history should essentially be low number of serious relationships and that's it. That's your green flag. Why are you looking for an LTR and don't know this very basic piece of vetting???? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 08:24 PM |
| 16 | Found out current plate potential LTR is still using TinderShe's no longer potential LTR then. There's nothing else to discuss here. Option B. You could theoretically confront her when she brings up the talk again and basically tell her "you're not behaving like someone who wants a serious committed relationship with me. You're behaving like someone who's playing a game and hedging her bets for whatever she can get. Obviously you can have fun with someone like that, but why on earth would I even consider a relationship with someone who clearly behaves l… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?I've had the opportunity now to re-read that piece. Oh boy, is my estimation of rollo going further down the drains. Essentially that piece has one worthwhile bit in it: All women are sexual, you just need to be the right guy at the right time for the job. As per usual, the typical rollo problems are evident. The prose is awful. Everything he says, he says it in a roundabout way. Vagary to the point of devaluing the statement. I also see exactly why he's causing such confusion. The vague and imp… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?Thanks for the link. I'm going to go and have a chat with others about this. It's the TRP perspective for a long time that men and women are not comparable and it is a cardinal sin of the theory to compare directly - you end up with all those shit arguments about "well it's ok when a guy does this, but you object when a woman." Yes. Because men and women aren't the same. Based on a quick read, Rollo is not helping with this sort of use of the lingo. I'm not making any kind of point with regards … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?They are not spinning plates. They are the plate of multiple men. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?Do you have the link to that? I will probably have to bring it up with the rest of the team. This sort of thing is among a number of reasons I have no further respect for Rollo. I've challenged him on his failures of logic before and he had no comeback. I've said many times, his first year is worth reading, bits of the second, sure... beyond that disregard it as he's just milking it for monetary gain at that point and has nothing profound or insightful left to say. Men and women are playing two … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?She's spinning plates Women cannot "spin plates." It does not fit with the sexual strategy. Use the language correctly or you start to confuse things and suggest parity between male and female sexual strategies. Male and female sexual strategies are non-comparable. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Do girls value height or looks more?Depends on their day of the month. Evidence suggests women will go for more feminine looking men most of the time, but then for roughly a week around the ovulation time of their cycle, they'll take a particular interest in more masculine looking men. Height is just a consistent +2 to your base SMV from what I've observed. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 11:01 AM |
| 32 | 97% of women have been sexually harassed according to UK mediaNever forget the context for this. All harassment is just an unwanted sexual advance. It also extends to include innocent actions thanks to betas trying to beta their way into a girl's pants so frequently these days. A hand on a shoulder because she's having a hard day? Sexual harassment. As a general point these days I strongly recommend zero kino of any kind in the workplace. A joke with a double meaning that she didn't find funny? Sexual harassment. Why? You weren't attractive enough to elici… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 5 | When does staring become weird?Simple answer to the title: When she doesn't find you attractive. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | When my girlfriend and I were first talking she went on a Tinder date, it happened 6 months ago but still makes me madShe told me she “fell in love” with me when we first started to hang out This lie is exposed by her behaviour. You instinctually know this. That's why you're annoyed. She's literally telling you lies to your face in this relationship and you're aware of it. Yet you're still there. Maybe she even believes her own lies. Or maybe she occasionally laughs at you in her head when she sees how eagerly you lap up bullshit. Plate her. Go spin other plates. Let plates break. Repeat. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 13 | My girlfriend had a one night stand one night before we became exclusive.we finally had sex, it was amazing and the connection was so intense that I brought up the exclusive talk. So this is basically the complete opposite of sensible Red Pill LTR theory. There's nothing to really discuss here. You're spending forever agonising over what a chick is saying to you. This whole post is pretty much pure blue pill nonsense. Your gut keeps screaming at you, yet you keep trying to comfort yourself with her words. The words of women don't typically match reality, and half the… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 10 | LTR of 2 years asked if I didn’t want to have sex because she’s fat. I said “yes.” She may have left me... what do I do?She won’t step on a scale near me at all. And if I bring up eating habits, she will shut me down and make it seem like I’m the BAD ASSHOLE boyfriend. Sounds like your dynamics aren't set properly. You raise a point and she shows you disrespect rather than dealing with the issue you want sorted. For reference my GF is 5’4” or 5’5”. She weighs 150-160lbs. Jesus mate, unless each of her tits weighs 10lbs, she's basically a whale. Have some self respect. I love her and would literally marry her Does… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 10:44 AM |
| 5 | Found out my gf had a threesome with two dudes and it's making me sickHowever, never said i've LTR'd her. Then everything you've been writing is irrelevant. If she's just a plate then none of this matters at all. Are you retarded? lol By serious I meant we got emotional bond not LTR. Been together 3 months and I'm considering LTR, thus the post. And you feel this makes you look clever? Like you've somehow outwitted me? Everything I wrote regarding an LTR remains accurate in the "considering" LTR nonsense. It's really simple. You plate, you vet for a minimum of 6 m… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 18 | Found out my gf had a threesome with two dudes and it's making me sickShe claims she hadn't any ONS apart from that threesome Never had a ONS.... except for a threesome with two guys.... if you believe that you'll believe anything. I assume you plated her for whatever period of time. Her original encounter with you could have been a ONS. Did she seem very apprehensive about hopping into bed with you? You can raise these two points with her and say she has this one chance to tell the whole truth if she wants to keep you. You'll then get to observe trickle truth in … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 04:02 PM |
| 18 | Girl is trying to manipulate me into commitmentShe overtly told me she doesn’t think we should hang this week and that in order to feel more secure she thinks she should talk/fuck other guys. So she's automatically disqualified herself as LTR material. Nothing more to see here. Plate her if you want but she's not LTR material. I obviously don’t want her to do this since I am vetting her for ltr The vetting is over. Vetting is a process of watching how she behaves. She's literally trying to fuck with your head and is openly talking to you abo… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 13 | Girl I was seeing for 1.5 months left me because her ex showed up. After 1 month of NC she decided to try to FaceTime me and then sent a message. I replied the next day and she didn’t respond. Wtf? Should I call her? I did like spending time with her."The move" is to begin the search to find where your testicles have gone. Report back if you have any success. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | LTR going to bars with her friendsHave you read the LTR guide? Former party girl, red flag. This latest reply of yours says her friends are calling her boring for going home after reasonable social behaviour, bad influence friends, red flag. How long did you vet her for? How long was she spinning as a plate and how did the relationship formally begin? Did you tell her she can't go out for dinner and drinks with this group of girls? If you've set a boundary, it must be enforced and respected by her. Any open defiance gets one non… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 10 | Demote LTR to plateDrag out the break. See her when you feel like it, texting and contact rules as per any other plate. When she brings up the talk, tell her you've been enjoying your time with her and it's been very positive to pull things back to a more laidback style of dating. You're feeling much more like yourself around her now. You're happy to date her casually but you're not willing to commit to a full time exclusive relationship right now due to priorities at work/career/other major goals in life. Further… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 7 | LTR going to bars with her friendsI trust the girl and know its only my turn anyway. This is not how LTRs work. That advice is for plates. I established from the start of exclusivity that going out for the purpose of getting drunk/going to clubs is a dealbreaker for me. Any thoughts on how to approach this and curb the habit without losing frame? You can't. You do not have frame, she has it. If she has done this after you said "do not do this" then she has openly defied you and the relationship is over. Or you can enjoy your lif… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 10 | "It's just your turn" , "You are replaceable no matter who you are" Best 2 advices from this sub?"Find your mission" is also a top piece of advice. You will live a much more fulfilled life if you have a major goal or set of goals for yourself that women are not relevant to. This helps enormously with maintaining the correct mindset: Women are an accessory to your life, to be indulged at your pleasure. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is OmLaLa the only endorsed contributor on the sidebar?Laziness. He's written a lot of good stuff so the sidebar would be much longer if we started picking and choosing some of his better work. He'd get like 10 pieces on there probably. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Why is OmLaLa the only endorsed contributor on the sidebar?My Comprehensive game series "TRP field toolkit" is also on the sidebar here. As is the recommended LTR reading series from OccamsUsername. Then you've got guys like HumanSockPuppet and MattyAnon who've written some of the key pieces like handling the talk, the managing bitches guide, "there's this one girl" which tops the list of FAQs. The fact he says it's only OmLaLa and that being not just inaccurate, but so far from the truth as to be laughable, would suggest he hasn't actually read said si… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species!I don’t think it’s dumb or naive at all to conclude that the waves our mind produces on a regular basis have immense power and can be channeled and directed towards getting what we want in life This would be the strong take-home from this piece imho. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Millennials & Younger Generations Are Quickly Dividing Into Two Separate Species!Reminds me of Extremistan. Have you read The Black Swan by Taleb? Retain perspective. The people at the financial top in Extremistan don't tend to be the best of us. Due to the nature of the outcomes being so extreme, it has little to do with a genuine meritocracy. God or slave is not the choice. Man or slave is the choice. You get to be God if you're lucky on top. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Are You Overpaying For Pussy?Disagree. Pussy should be paying for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR smokes weed with guys, immediately break up?Then you're not secure enough in yourself to be ready to lead a woman yet. You're unprepared for an LTR. Spin plates instead until you learn and come back to the reading in a year or two when you've matured and learned. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | LTR smokes weed with guys, immediately break up?So you're either mentally retarded or you didn't do any of the basic LTR reading since your list of red flags indicates you don't LTR this girl. (Yet you have LTR'd this girl, while being aware of this.) How to proceed? Well you either need to go do your basic reading and reset yourself or go work on your mental retardation, figure out a way to actually do the things you've read that you should be doing. This has a strong whiff of troll about it. Particularly since you've also posted it in the r… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | hi i been referred here , 33 year old balding micropenis loser male need advice how to improve my "SMV"You are fixated on the wrong bit. You fixate on the micropenis bit. It's the loser bit that's the problem. Until you can reframe that you will struggle. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:51 PM |
| 3 | hi i been referred here , 33 year old balding micropenis loser male need advice how to improve my "SMV"I am not here to do your research for you or spoon feed you. You are a man, start acting like one. You've got the direction required to solve the problem you cite. Now go solve it. Don't ask to be spoon fed the solutions to your life. It's not masculine and it's not attractive to women. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | hi i been referred here , 33 year old balding micropenis loser male need advice how to improve my "SMV"can a guy with a micropenis even have any smv? Yes, SMV is not about dick size. I have little doubt you'll have practical issues to address in the bedroom and I'm not going to sugar coat that. That will require your own separate research. However being an attractive man is down to the same old things. Looks, status and game. Go do your reading on what actually impacts SMV and I bet you'll realise you've neglected all three. Max your looks, do what you can about your status, learn game and you wi… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:32 PM |
| 7 | I lack understanding about RP in a "healthy way" these are my doubts. I am looking forward to your advice, thank you.The red pill is essentially the idea that women are human beings and come with all the faults and problems that are human. Some of which are more prevalent in women because our biology has programmed us differently with different goals and ways of thinking about achieving those goals. The blue pill tries to minimise, defend or dismiss faults for women while not extending men the same courtesy. We just try to look at things raw, except looking to help men. So we advocate men fix flaws. We don't c… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 01:26 PM |
| 10 | I lack understanding about RP in a "healthy way" these are my doubts. I am looking forward to your advice, thank you.Ah yes, the blue pill is STRONG with this one. Your essential problem is you haven't actually used the red pill lens on anything. You've read what's written and then applied the blue pill lens. Let's briefly go through your points. "Using women for short term pleasure." You've taken our conclusion and assumed it is our premise. Our basic paradigm is that the world is set, nature is set and we must interpret it to understand what's going on and then adapt accordingly under the rules nature has se… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 12:44 PM |
| 9 | How do you not let shit like this get to you?But how do you not let shit like this get to you? A wild animal bites you.... "how do you not let shit like this get to you?" Same thing. It's their nature. You've failed some shit tests, probably acted beta in some way, she's lost attraction and jumped on the next dick she liked the look of. She's designed to do that. Being annoyed at her for that is like being annoyed at the wind and rain just because you got wet and you're feeling cold. It's reality. It's life. You deal with it and get on wit… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How should i approach TRP?You should approach it as a man approaches life. You read all you can, you adapt what you need and you tailor it to your life, getting the tools you need to identify and solve your own problems. You become responsible for yourself. I wrote a piece many moons ago on the Bruce Lee principle (essentially taking a quote of his as a useful principle to use as part of TRP.) The kind folks at the top have also labelled some posters as Endorsed, Senior and Vanguard. These are people who been vetted by t… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 10:49 AM |
| 13 | LTR and Alpha Male ApproachWhere's the LTR strategy? What LTR reading have you done in preparation for this? What did you do about your other plates? There's a whiff of red pill strategies for blue pill dreams here. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 11:56 AM |
| 3 | How to handle a flake apologizing to me"No worries. What you gonna do to make it up to me?" Throw an emoji on the end if that's your style | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 02:50 PM |
| 11 | Second date or move on?Splitting the bill is fine. It's not a red pill issue. Save yourself some money. Hell, I've told chicks to buy me drinks before going back to their place. You can literally tell a lass she has to wine and dine you if she wants to get laid. It's actually quite amusing to do that, remember, you are the prize. The money-in money-out approach is how you end up with transactional sex. That's what betas get. If she likes you, she doesn't care about paying her half. This kid had a chick who wasn't that… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/21 09:51 AM |
| 7 | UK - Girl flaked on date because she was 'too nervous' - Low interest or could she be telling the truth?Nah, no need for a facetime or whatever. That would be completely wandering into her frame. Her feelings are her problem. You could message something like "That's unfortunate. Nothing I can really do about that one. Maybe you've had it before with other guys. We all have to face feeling nervous sometimes and either push past it or miss out. Happened every job interview I've done. I had a great walk though! Drop me a line if you wanna reschedule sometime." And then soft next until she shows inter… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Promoted plate to LTR, and she's gotten very clingyOne broke, and I decided to LTR one after dating for 3 months. Too short a vetting time and sounds like feels influenced your decision here. Not a good start. Immediately, she started to get clingy. Women bond fast. Nothing to see here. Remain aloof and sensible. Initially I would see her 1-2 times a week, now she's asking almost every night to come over and cook. A bit fast, but have you issued instructions or set boundaries? She went and bought me some kitchen utensils and started cleaning rav… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?Cheers man | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?Please link the vid and I'll look into it. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?Has Rollo himself endorsed this view? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:33 PM |
| 19 | Why did RP'ed guys started rejecting and criticizing '' She's not yours, it's just your turn''?Red Pilled Guys are claiming that it's wrong and unhealthy? Please cite which endorsed guys are claiming this is wrong and unhealthy. List usernames in reply. Anybody who is not endorsed has not been vetted over time and their remarks should be viewed as "red-pill-in-training" so they can get things right and get things wrong. So if there are no endorsed guys claiming this, then you have your explanation. The folks saying "it's wrong and unhealthy" are not red pill and are incorrect in their ass… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Im being manipulated in a LTRThe fact she's "losing her mind" around you demonstrates the dynamics are not set properly. How long did you plate her for? What period of time were you vetting? What green flags did she display? What red flags did you pick up on and when? Your post lacks basic information on the state of the LTR and your own position within your red pill journey. Without these basic sets of information it is impossible to understand where you have gone wrong because LTR dynamics are multifaceted and varied. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:09 PM |
| 6 | The average corporate workerCorporateLand series on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:04 PM |
| 27 | “Don’t shit where you eat” still applicable to short-term job?Having to reason your way around fairly simple rules to bang one particular chick when there are literally millions of others out there is an indicator of scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 6 | Why does it irritate me / affect me so much knowing someone else is banging my ex?Residual emotional bonding effects. It'll pass with time. Focus on getting yourself in order and ready to get out there and date some more women. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 11:00 AM |
| 2 | How much time do you see a girl for before you go exclusive or move into something serious?Absolute minimum 6 months if vetting for an LTR. How long have you been spinning plates and how many plates have you landed? How many are in your current rotation? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 12:03 PM |
| 6 | An acquaintance is sending my girl heart eye emoji’s to her stories on IG.While he's probably a beta, approaching on IG is something done by guys on here with varying levels of success. Never forget AWALT, even your LTR. Good quality LTR material does not put herself in a position where she can cheat. Whenever cheating happens, it's almost always with plausible deniability where she did something totally innocent, like chatting with a random dude on IG who liked her pic. Like bumping into a guy in a club while out with the girls... she didn't intend to cheat. "It just… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 03:07 PM |
| 8 | Alpha cuck wtf?Well you'll be able to tell us how dominant he was when you meet him. Remember, alpha is a behaviour descriptor. It comes in various physical forms, just like beta does. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 06:09 PM |
| 18 | Alpha cuck wtf?High SMV does not equal alpha. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Trouble with approaching and breaking ice?I'd say the landscape is broadly similar. I've never received accusations of harassment before.... I mean an opener can't be classed as harassment by literal definition. If you ever encounter that, just walk away shaking your head. Everyone around you knows she's crazy if she's flipping out over being asked her name or some inconsequential question about a drink or whatever. I remember years ago in uni I had a chick scream "don't touch me!" at me at a house party. My crime? I tapped her on the s… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | (UK) Trouble with approaching and breaking ice?Then raise your SMV. Much of the detail of game matters less the greater your base SMV is. If you're getting IOIs and the most basic opener in world history of asking a chick her name is getting you "slaughtered" then you mustn't be reading the IOIs right or you've somehow stumbled into the rare bitch who's literally just out to try and bring down guys self esteem for no rational reason. They're not that common, but you'll meet them occasionally simply due to the numbers game. If you've done it … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Holding frame in a healthy LTR?How can holding a frame be healthy for an LTR? Isn't it like we are wearing a mask? This suggests you don't understand the concept of frame. We even make it to the LTR. Whut? "Make it to the LTR" What do you mean "we"? The LTR began because I decided it would. Go do your reading on LTR preparation, vetting and dynamics. What if she falls in love with the frame/mask, and not with me? How can you fall in love with a frame? It's an abstract concept, not a person, personality or mask of a personalit… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Girl at workMaybe. Depends if your industry means you might end up working with her again in the future or not. If there's a chance you could, then you don't do it. What you should find concerning here is that you're dedicating an awful lot of your thinking time to a single chick who is in a relationship. Reflect on that. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl at workBut no this is a different situation. No it's not. Do not shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Girl I hooked up with lied about having a BF, why do I care so much?Maybe you're coming to terms with the fact you appear to have stuck your dick in crazy without realising the crazy? Read all of her bizarre behaviour back to yourself and tell me this is a sane and sensible woman you've been dealing with. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | How to escalate with potential LTR on 1st date after strict lockdown?"1st date" and "potential LTR" being used in the same sentence demonstrate you are not ready for an LTR. I want the escalation to end up in the bed this time. This is a statement of a low experience guy. Do not attempt an LTR. Spin plates until you gain more experience. LTRs get vetted, on the first date they were always a potential plate and nothing more. It's through time together that she shows herself as more and demonstrates the behaviours of a woman worthy of a relationship with you. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Games girl and she likes me, great. Now she’s trying to text me all the time and although I’m not really texting her back(saying I’m busy etc.) I want to get some advice on how I should play it with the texting. Is too little communication gonna hurt me. Tap in please.Scraps of attention and maybe drop in something like "I don't know how you find the time to text me this much XD guess you must like me." Essentially a little something to give her an out to explain her investing more in you than you are in her. Give her the justification to keep building that emotional connection/bond with you over little to nothing. Focus on getting her in person. Isolate. Escalate. Have fun. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 3 | (UK) Trouble with approaching and breaking ice?When you go to these things, don't feel like you have to impress or break down the tense atmosphere. Most folks at new things are trying not to upset everyone else. Just relax. (And I know, I know, it's the least helpful advice in world history there, but seriously, just focus on relaxing. Remember, you don't need to come back to these things.) On the topic of approaching chicks, two things can make approaches a little warmer. First one is to learn your IOIs and keep an eye out for them. A chick… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Reading non-sex psychology stuff makes me confusedThose sound like self-help books rather than psychology books. Psychology books are dry scientific affairs with theories of human behaviour and discussions of evidence around testing those theories. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Exactly how mainstream are Red Pill concepts? Just saw a 2xchromosomes post about a girl’s experience with Trp hit the front page.Had a flick through that too. That XKCD cartoon they did seems to agree with the incel view of the world. It made me laugh (not at the supposed joke), but at the fact they're so stupid that in attempting to mock us, they accidentally take a position that only makes sense if your attractiveness is already set and no action of your own can ever change it no matter how you try. The exact complaint of the incel. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Is there some type of guide to "leagues"?No. Leagues are an invention of women, designed to make their life in the sexual marketplace easier. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?Unfortunately, many modern women need training on how to have sex, how to give a decent blowjob etc. You will come across this frequently and need to put in further effort training her. It becomes tiresome and when you come across a woman who isn't just enthusiastic but also actually has an idea what she's doing... life just feels that little bit better. I think Uncle V did a piece ages ago on training chicks in the bedroom. Might be relevant, I don't know. Ultimately you should already have a g… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 10:29 AM |
| 71 | 24 and got a hookup pregnant, what do I do?Not only are you too stupid to use a condom, you also appear to be too stupid to click on the sidebar article on this topic, located under Red Pill Problem Solver. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do all women hate their ex'es?You need to spin plates for a substantial time before even considering an LTR. Based on your post history and current questions, you should not even be considering an LTR where your current experience and skill set is. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What's your opinion on double first datesMakes it difficult to isolate. So you're basically guaranteeing a stronger ASD along with adding logistical problems you don't need. I don't see any benefit to this. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do all women hate their ex'es?She's not yours. It's just your turn. Enjoy your turn, then move on. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do all women hate their ex'es?AWALT bro. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Friend’s girlfriend is flipping the scriptRight, so you have a chat with him individually, or you take the initiative and organise some plans of your own. Setting up stuff in your own house typically gives you a sort of host privilege. If they then ask why him and his gf weren't invited, you can openly tell them you're not interested in stirring the drama and you're sick of her spreading lies about you so you're keeping a sensible distance. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Friend’s girlfriend is flipping the scriptI don't get what you're saying now. Why would she be at something you haven't invited her to? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Friend’s girlfriend is flipping the scriptSounds like you've lost this battle. The only way to have won would have been to be directly confrontive, esp with your male friends in this group and demonstrate how she was a crazy chick. Guys typically respond well to straight talk unless they're super beta brainwashed soy boys. If the guys don't want the drama then just organise separate hangouts without her or the boyfriend etc and continue as normal. If they bring up her insanity, then you can confront it head on. Always leave it with "she… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 11:37 AM |
| 7 | Why do all women hate their ex'es?Look up the "light switch effect" on the main sub. The reasoning for this is basically tied up in a woman's need to delude herself in order to maintain her optimal sexual strategy. In order to achieve the highest value partner she can get, she must apply to herself the highest value she possibly can. Now try to reconcile this with how she views a man she is breaking up with. He is not high enough value and it has become very clear that he is low value. However, if he is low value, how did he end… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 11:31 AM |
| 23 | Should LTR be "your best friend"?No. Your best friend should be a man who you can speak freely with. Your LTR is your partner and support player on the team - your first mate. Your best friend is Captain on another ship who you'll see in port whenever you dock and take stock. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 3 | 20M my girlfriend keeps disrespecting meYeah, poor lad has been listening to relationshit_advice. I think the appropriate phrase is something like "there but for the grace of the red pill..." | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 03:39 PM |
| 18 | 20M my girlfriend keeps disrespecting meLooking at your previous posts, how long the big red flags have been flying and how long the relationship has been in the wrong dynamic (which you have noticed and has made you sad because you can sense it in your gut)... this one isn't worth saving. Dump her, go lift and get your life back on the upswing. Game some girls and spin some plates for a couple of years, the way you speak you do not seem ready for an LTR. You don't have the skills or the inner game for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 7 | A friend doesn’t want to hang because I went out with a girl in his friend group?Betas gonna beta. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 09:50 AM |
| 4 | is it worth having a LTR with a girl like this?You list all those red flags and then ask such a question? Are you mentally retarded or trolling? Edit: So yesterday you posted about being sexless. So you're a troll. Nothing to see here folks. Will get it reported and the twit banned. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 14 | Driving an hour to fuck an 8.5 - Yes or no?Why isn't she driving to you? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 13 | Got an STD probably from main plate. How to proceed?Approach it as though she's the only chick you ever fuck without a condom. That you're very disappointed in her and her lack of safety means you can't trust her as much anymore. Therefore you're now using condoms. That should be enough shit to give her and will give you some interesting food for thought when she trickle truths you with what's really been going on. Just keep pushing more "I'm disappointed because of your lack of honesty and openness with me" or something like that to keep the tru… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Got an STD probably from main plate. How to proceed?Men are not plates. Male and female sexual strategy is different. Men and women are not interchangeable. A man spinning plates is not the equivalent to a woman fucking multiple men. Plates are called such because they're kept spinning with attention and eventually break if they don't get what they want. Men fuck attractive women because the fucking is available. They don't suddenly break because they didn't get an LTR. Men and women are playing two different sexual games, by two different sets o… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | "Rejection isn't as bad as regret", or how can I forgive myself for my failureThen you need to learn to get a hold of your emotions. I understand meditation can help with this. Stoicism is worth looking into aswell. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl to come over to my place as first message on a dating app? (No time due to self-improvement)Depends on the initial SMV you appear to show via said app. It can work. I've seen it work for some guys. I've also literally had girls turn up at my place in lingerie and a coat or less just because I told them to. None of these things are outside the realms of possibility if you're smart about the way you play the game. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Ignore LTR past if everything else is good?It's like you've never done your basic reading on the epiphany phase. What is the point in you being here? None of this requires a question. It's all covered in basic reading for the hypergamous mating cycle for women who fail to land a true natural alpha and make him commit. Welcome to beta bucks land where the good sex will disappear the instant she's got that serious commitment i.e. marriage or child. Keep spinning her as a plate and pursue other options until she eventually breaks. Refer to … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | "Rejection isn't as bad as regret", or how can I forgive myself for my failureFirst remember that there's plenty more women out there. This one woman and her opinions do not matter in the grand tapestry that is your life. Second, I'd suggest your anger is not so much about her rejecting you. It's more at the arrogance that she thinks she can reject you, but then use you for attention and "friendship" and you're such a weakling that you couldn't possibly say no to this arrangement if it doesn't suit you. It's quite a nasty indirect insult that many men are supposed to just… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 12:54 PM |
| 22 | Coach Red Pill claims that he can get any girl he wants and you can to. True or BS?This is untrue. There are too many variables involved. It is an appeal designed for blue pill guys, those with oneitis who want a specific girl. If you are red pilled, you don't care about being able to get "any girl" because those who aren't interested don't matter - you have abundance. You'll happily swap out one HB7 for another HB7. The guy is a fraud imho. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Chick hit me with the “we just started talking!”A shit test that you promptly failed. This sort of nonsense in "building rapport over text" is why I'm not a fan of text game. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 10:03 AM |
| 0 | Oneitis for longstanding FWBAm I just her plate? Is she dreading me? Why do I feel a terrible feeling in my gut? We need to start off by pointing out you clearly haven't understood your basic reading. Go back to it. Women cannot have plates, they have orbiters. Dynamics from women to men are not the same as men to women. Women cannot "dread" men. Fearing her leaving is called scarcity mentality. The fact that you're even looking at this from that perspective demonstrates who is the dom and who is the sub in this "relations… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:50 PM |
| 10 | LTR vs plate spinningMost women Ive met wanted relationships straight away That's the standard experience of a beta who isn't in control of the dynamic. It is perfectly possible to spin plates in the UK. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 5 | What twitter accounts are popular among red pilllers for self improvement and game?Get off twitter. It's a censored cesspit with little to no value for a regular red piller. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 3 | If a girl is taking 24+ hours to reply to a text, how do you make it known that it's not ok without explicitly calling her out?Soft next. Your dynamics are wrong and need fixing. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Work w/ my exFinish your food as best you can. Clean all the faeces from your dining area. Make a note to not shit where you eat in future. Or more obviously, focus on work while there. Continue to be polite and treat any problems caused by her as silly immaturity while you will behave professionally. Seek a new, preferably better, job. Switch jobs asap. Make a note to not shit where you eat in future. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Unless you're a 10/10 male, how do you embrace our current society? Because it makes me hate life and dread the future...What is your mission? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 10:15 AM |
| 38 | Got more likes on Gay side of tinder in a day than i Did in a yearNo. A shit test is a direct or indirect challenge to your dominance. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 98 | Got more likes on Gay side of tinder in a day than i Did in a yearA reminder that women judge very harshly. Nothing more. Continue as normal. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | I think I overdosed on the red pill now I’m ( 22M ) emotionally not attracted to women, but I want kids. Help?!There is much more to discuss. You're young. Don't be so arrogant. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 25 | What girls am I most likely to lose my virginity to (20-30), as a low value male?Wrong question. How do I increase my SMV? is the correct question. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Copy asian Kpop stars.You can become a Kpop star. That will give you the status needed for the high SMV they enjoy. Looking like one will just mark you as weird and probably reduce your SMV with any chick who's not intimately familiar with Kpop. And the ones who are, it won't help you. Go lift, get a decent fashion sense and clothes that fit properly, learn game. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 10:32 AM |
| 6 | Copy asian Kpop stars.Status. Anybody rich and famous has status and can appear however they want without it having much impact on SMV. Status trumps all. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 10:30 AM |
| 8 | Girl came back to.. friend zone me?Sounds like a comfort test since things didn't work out with another guy she found more attractive than you. I'd reply something like "Always busy lol. Haven't seen you on here in a while. We never hung out, let's fix that." Set up logistics and bang. If you encounter any further resistance then hard next, she's just using you for attention. (I suspect it's this, but just in case you can get a bang, it's worth the extra couple of messages to be certain before hard nexting.) Additionally, stop le… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | How to handle feminism ?Amused mastery or nod head and hard next. It depends on whether you're trying to fuck the chick, screen for an LTR or just pass the time with a chick who's at work. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Don't Have KidsAs a general rule on TRP we try to put things in wider perspective to help the individual. If you get too hung up on "what does this do for me personally" on literally everything, it tends to lead to nihilism (which is a standard risk during the depression phase anyway). The counterpoint to that is found in the wider writings on things like happiness and mission which u/illimitableman has done some excellent posts on in the past. I think he also did a post on legacy/children but I'm not sure whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 12:56 PM |
| 10 | Don't Have KidsTen: Not having kids is amazing for the environment. Look into it. Killing yourself is also great for the environment for similar reasoning. If you truly buy this reasoning and you weren't just trying to find excuses to justify the conclusions you'd drawn ahead of the argument, I hope you're selecting a painless method. Formally, as per reddit's rules, I am opposed to you doing this and you should seek help for your mental illness if you are considering suicide. I know TRP standards have been fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Gf talks to her male friend everydayMaintaining an orbiter is a red flag. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Is talking on the phone better than texting?Text game literally has it's own guides because the new generation of girls have created a whole new area of game which is tougher than before. Those who are dismissing the "use text for logistics only" are being autists. It is most certainly preferable to do that. When I was spinning plates, one of "my style" moves was to eschew text game and do phone calls if she wanted to chat for bit. It's got the benefit of being a little different in terms of behaviour of the average guy (little bit of pea… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 11:31 AM |
| 7 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?First, I am not here to sell TRP to you. That is your choice. Your choices are not my responsibility. Grow some balls and own your own shit. Second, you should feel like shit. Written in the description of this sub: Welcome To AskTRP Here we have Red Pill Discussion for personalized questions about specific situations, people, scenarios. You are REQUIRED to read these before posting. Ignorance of the rules is not an excuse. You have not held up your end of the bargain required to participate in … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?Rollo's early posts are worth reading. First and maybe second year "best-of" stuff. He's mostly been posting worthless shit for the past few years. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I find balance with everyday balance in an LTR?It is impossible to tell from the vague post you have made. Your woman should only be coming to you to request help on things she can't do herself or that you are significantly more talented in dealing with. This list should not be overwhelming, so as long as she is showing the proper deference/dynamics in her request.... it shouldn't be an issue you doing it at your convenience. If she's coming to you with dumb shit then you have LTR'd up a low value girl. Congrats on failing your vetting. If s… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:51 AM |
| 5 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?The fact you don't know this demonstrates you have clearly not done your reading. Something which was suspected the moment you started misusing terms like "frame." The Captain/First Mate analogy is commonplace in all the basic LTR reading. Sidebar. NOW. Do not return to this sub and ask questions if you have not completed and understood the basic reading materials. This is basic foundational shit before you're even considering an LTR, let alone beginning vetting or in your insane case, starting … | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:37 AM |
| 11 | How do you admit your girlfriend is right and apologize without losing frame?This reads like you don't understand the language you're using. Frame to decide what is being done, how it's being done etc. and disputes over factual matters of right and wrong are two entirely different things. If you are a good captain in an LTR, you shouldn't be having "arguments." If you are dismissing the input of your first mate just because you need to "hold frame" then you're a shit captain. If discussions are descending into shouting matches then again, you are a shit captain who isn't… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a flakey women?If a chick turns up late, you ask her what she's going to do to make it up to you. If she hesitates, you tell her what she's going to do. Nothing too heavy, buying drinks or dinner or whatever. If she puts up any resistance to this, hard next. If a chick flakes, you can do the same thing at your own discretion the first time. Again, any resistance is a hard next. Any further plans being changed or cancelled must have her giving you good warning, (e.g. 24hrs or start of the day so you're not wast… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 7 | Question for you guys in LTRs, how far do you take it when flirting with other women?For any guys out there in LTRs: Keep it light and only flirt in subtle ways. You're not looking to start an argument, just keep the hamster spinning in the back of her mind. Simply being around attractive women can produce dread if you're not failing any shit tests. Anything obvious or on the nose is disrespectful to the relationship itself, which (given you've started an LTR rather than spinning plates), you should respect. Most LTR game is about managing relationship dynamics to ensure the att… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 06:52 PM |
| 114 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”Creepy when used by women has always been translated as "I don't find you attractive enough to be saying or doing what you are saying/doing." If Brad Pitt did the same thing she'd be into it. As Warlock says in these comments, it's all a power play. She considers your SMV too low. You probably get the negative reply on tinder because the chick is seeking validation rather than sex. Any up and coming lad will end up with this bullshit being thrown at him. Recognise it for what it is, the standard… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/20 08:51 AM |
| 23 | 631 tinder match, not a single one above an 8I still cannot match with any hot chicks. 8/10 is not hot? Da fuq world you livin' in? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Ex gf reaching out - adviceThe information and question here kinda screams scarcity mentality. You should be aware of this when making your decision on what to do. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | How to pressure flip "Do you have a girlfriend?"Loads of girls are my friends. What would you say makes you someone I wanna be friendly with? (Keep it cheeky in tone.) | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Girl I’ve been seeing for a year, bruisesDisconnect a bit. She's gonna break soon by the sounds of things. If it is that she went out and fucked another guy because she saw your tinder, then that's an automatic disqualification as LTR material. Maybe she thought she was in a relationship with you without any discussion of exclusivity. It's been known to happen. And if that's the case then it's even worse. You could theoretically extend it when she comes to have the exclusivity talk with you by pointing out we haven't been exclusive. Ye… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl I’ve been seeing for a year, bruisesI don’t Then why is this an issue? Standard rules apply. I fail to see how this is something that requires anybody to weigh in on. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Your turn will eventually end. If the dynamics are not to your liking, that is your fault. Change the dynamics. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Should I wait for my girlfriend to call me after we had an argument"Hypocrisy is the practice of engaging in the same behavior or activity for which one criticizes another" Then: but his specific behavior to a females. Men and women are not comparable. You cannot directly compare male behaviour with female behaviour as the contexts are irrevocably different. We play two different games, with different goals and different rules. It is impossible to be hypocritical under that framework. Your statement on his hypocrisy is impossible if you have adopted red pill th… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 02:05 PM |
| 3 | She wants me to fuck other girlslol she's already fucking other guys. Her saying that is her way of telling him this. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 10:01 AM |
| 5 | Girl I’ve been seeing for a year, bruisesis basically like my girlfriend. Why do you only have one plate? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Should I wait for my girlfriend to call me after we had an argumentThere can be no hypocrisy as men and women are not comparable. Everybody who upvoted this has committed a cardinal sin of red pill philosophy. Or is simply blue pill. The kid is a moron who acted butthurt for having his frame challenged and then immediately surrendered said frame. There is no way that behaviour is red pilled. That said, muddying the waters further with blue pill perspectives is not conducive to improving matters. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Any good reads on how to segway a medium-long term, long-distance plate to open relationship?Plate - A woman who has sex with you without getting an exclusive commitment from you. Long distance - An interaction that does not involve any physical contact due to the physical distance involved. Typically long-distance relationship (LDR) a situation where the man has given commitment without sex. The opposite of spinning plates and purest blue pill. Long distance plate - A contradiction in terms. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls use dread when it just makes them look sluttyYou are misusing the language. Women cannot "dread" men. It makes no sense in the context of red pill philosophy. "You're subtly threatening to leave and take your sex away? But this other woman is going to jump into your place. How is this a threat?" You describe a shit test. A more disrespectful shit test than average, that's why it's winding you up. Also an LTR red flag. You should be able to identify all of this BEFORE you're posting on AskTRP. Go away and do your reading. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 09:52 AM |
| 6 | Does red pill hold men accountable for their own actions?But don’t men have faults as well, and why do red pillers like to ignore that men also have flawed natures as well. Depends. Is it relevant to the issue they're requesting advice on? is it relevant to successful sexual strategy? If not, we don't care, you do you. Flaws like financial irresponsibility, we don't care unless someone explicitly wants advice on that. We have advice on financial matters. Things like being violent we have a clear position - i.e. violence is a demonstration that you've … | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | My gut is telling me to just next this girl totally cause she isn't gonna put out...how long have you waited to bang?She told me I was hot and sexy, extremely confusing. Cardinal sin right there. Do not listen to what she says, look at what she does. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | My gut is telling me to just next this girl totally cause she isn't gonna put out...how long have you waited to bang?This. At best he is a backup option to amuse her with attention when her real desire isn't giving her that attention. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with LMRYou can either say you were looking to get to know her privately, not meet her friends and family. It's a bit too fast for you and you're not really up for that. Or you could semi-joke about her friend being keen on a threesome. Does she always try to crash your dates and hook up with your guy? She's welcome along so long as she doesn't bite too hard. Depends on your personality and how you want to play it really. If you're sure it's some kind of insurance cock-block then don't waste your time a… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Why is she being THIS good to me? "Former" party girl pulling out all the stops to get LTR.Damaged goods.... why is this even a subject for discussion? Auto-disqualification for LTR. It's just the epiphany phase for her. This is sidebar stuff. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 11:57 AM |
| 27 | Any of you ever fucked a girl then smashed her friend/ best friend/ sister soon after?but still wouldn’t Fuck me cause “her friend would be mad” Shit test. Proceed as normal. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 12:31 PM |
| 1 | What makes girls fall in love?This "everyone asking questions here is a blue pill wannabe alpha loser" attitude is tiring. Find it as tiring as you like. The reality remains that we see delusional guys in here on a regular basis who deny that they are delusional... and we regularly lose endorsed guys because they can't be arsed to deal with them and their arrogance anymore. I fucked several girls in the last 2,5 years, much more than the average guy. Some were interested in something more serious, but I went super blue pill … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 5 | Need inner game advice after having fixed my life over 5 years (and a big Thank You)Have you read the TRP Field Toolkit on the sidebar here? It's a comprehensive guide to all aspects of game. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 28 | Girl posts snap grinding with her “friend”Ignore. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Automatic disqualification as LTR material. Never to be promoted above plate. Nothing else to see here. Though if you start developing feelings that you can't dismiss then you need to hard next immediately. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | What makes girls fall in love?"Hey guys, I'm super alpha. Whut make da gurls fall in luv wit me? I got everything you all said and I read everything, but girls no like me after I spoke to them twice." This mocking paraphrase of your position should wake you up as to how dumb you sound when you present a common problem from early stages of swallowing the pill and behave as though you've completed your red pill journey. You are not the first guy to have done this. Luckily I have a little bit of spare time to do a bit more deta… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 12:22 PM |
| 2 | What makes girls fall in love?This is a sidebar level question and you should be banned for asking it. Nobody is here to do the work for you. Go and do your reading. Taking part in AskTRP assumes you've at least read and understood the sidebar, which you clearly have not. This laziness and seeking to have your problems solved for you is why you are low value. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 17 | What makes girls fall in love?Answer to your title: Perceived value. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:22 AM |
| 14 | My GF is going on a trip with THREE MALE FRIENDS1 month is not enough vetting time. 6 months absolute minimum. LTR status is a major promotion and a plate must appreciate this. Look at it from her side... 1 month of barely starting effort (and I'm assuming it's 1 month since you fucked her, i.e. you've known her longer, otherwise it's even more stupid.) 1 month of barely any effort and you give away your biggest, most important card in your hand. You're either worthless or her pussy must be the best pussy ever to cause that. Either way, it's … | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 10 | My GF is going on a trip with THREE MALE FRIENDSSo you've been LTR for a month. How long was she your plate for before this? The big question here is whether you've missed an enormous flashing neon red flag so you can improve your vetting. The fact that she's immediately run the emotionally manipulative guilt-trip stuff is grounds for an immediate and non-negotiable hard next. There should have been an instant "I will not be emotionally blackmailed" response to that. She either gets in line or goes. Why this post is titled "my GF" when she cl… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Real talk, is abundance a myth?Abundance is achieved through playing the stats. The average guy will be rejected a lot on his way to abundance. Once this doesn't matter, you will get there. You speak (quite obviously) from a place of fear and scarcity. That place is unattractive to women. It's all down to the counter-intuitive nature of "the guy who gets the most sex is the guy who doesn't need to go get sex." In simple terms: Care less. Focus on your goals and the things that will make you attractive. Make some opportunities… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Super shit testIt's a really obvious shit test, but it's the disrespectful kind. We know that she's checking you out to see if she wants to go have sex on that date. The fact she needs to assert it openly in that particular style of asserting frame. I'd mock her for it and take the piss out the fact she needs to explain dating out loud. Follow it up with her telling you how this BDSM thing works because obviously a good sub spends her time explaining all this to her dom while asserting how much control she wan… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Girls with different politicsPolitics shouldn't be coming up on dates. You're there to see if there's a sexual attraction, not establish a policy proposal to bring peace to Syria. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 04:40 PM |
| 6 | I got the, "My rule I don't kiss on the first time together" speech for the first time ever. Curious about moving forward?I remember this shit test. Last time a girl did it to me, I laughed at her and shook my head before taking a bathroom break. We went back to her place and fucked that night. Your amused mastery needs work. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 10:33 AM |
| 87 | “if you meet an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole, if you meet assholes all day, youre the asshole”Hang out with better people. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Soft next after she flaked on me but she texted me again.I've had good success many times with "how are you planning to make it up to me?" Essentially keeps you in control, tells her she needs to do something for you, she's now in the submissive chasing you, putting in effort, trying to justify her value to you. Ideal dynamics. If she does the shitty "i don't know." Make sure you're able to come back with something you want her to do that requires effort: e.g. "you can cook me dinner, I like steak, medium rare. Make sure the veggies are tasty." or wha… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 7 | Fucked 21 girls since last LTR. Still obsessed about ex. Help.Why is a woman the centre of your world? What does this say about you? You're being led by your emotions and you're coming to us to go "hey guys, help me. My emotions are overwhelming me and controlling my entire life at the moment. How do I stop this?" Since emotions are irrational, you're basically asking us how do you stop being irrational. The reality is there is only one way: get a hold of yourself. Control your emotions. Think and behave rationally and dismiss the irrational. This advice w… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl I’m trying to LTR mad at me and being distant for ignoring her texts. How to patch things up without sounding beta?There's 2 red flags in this post alone. LTR material displays zero red flags. The moment a red flag shows up it's an auto-disqualification if you are playing LTR game correctly. Based on this, it sounds like you're not. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 10:40 AM |
| 33 | Am I wrong to think that fame is the ultimate catnip for women?Status trumps all. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 04:32 PM |
| 7 | How to escalate in a group setting.You can't escalate in group settings. You'll just hit some ASD, waste your time and potentially blow your chances because it can look like you have poor social skills. Isolate, then escalate. Until then, keep it light. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/20 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Had sex with a girl I’m talking to for the first time and she acted super weird.Women do not have plates by the definition of what they are and the base sexual dynamics discussed on TRP. If you want to use the lingo, use it correctly. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | So swallowing the red pill means just being non needy over women and improving your smv and learning game, that's it?In the same way that becoming a brain surgeon is just getting a medical degree, learning some brain anatomy and training in surgery. Plus there's a bit more to the pill than that, but I doubt you're ready for that nuance yet. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 13 | LTR of 4 years broke up with me and she immediately regretted that decision and begged for forgiveness. I am not sure about her anymore. Double check before dumping herThe moment you accept her back she will instantly lose interest. It's proof of scarcity mentality. I experienced this in my blue pill days and it absolutely screwed with my head... why would she beg for me back if she didn't want me? Because she just follows her fee-fees everywhere. Don't waste your time. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 09:05 AM |
| 20 | Girlfriends ex is still trying to harass me 6 years after their break up. What do I do?So you've been tolerating this for 6 years? Well get back to us once you've grown some testicles and got your basic reading out the way. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | ‘No means no’ and sexual assaultI feel like there’s no line between sexual assault and casual sex anymore, and it completely undermines the integrity of genuine rape/sexual assault. Obviously. But don't say that too loud or the feminists might come for you spouting such heresy to their religion. Bear in mind the difficulty. Make sure to get texts after the night saying she had a good time. If she doesn't text back with that or says something that might be used to prove rape against you, respond as she was giving you an enthusi… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 9 | Carousel Damage?women can't better themselves in the way we do doesn't seem right. Right here is the cardinal sin. Men and women are not comparable. We are different biologies, leading to different brains with different objectives, playing the dating game in a different style for different reasons with different outcomes. Stop thinking like you are. This is the insidious poison of the blue pill on display for all to see. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Got stood up today by a girl I fucked last week, she apologized, what’s the next move?"Cool. So what are you planning to do to make it up to me?" | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 09:27 AM |
| 12 | Should I run like hell?How is this even a question? Hey guys, I found this guy in the vatican, he wears a silly hat and keeps preaching like catholic stuff and calls himself the pope. You think he might be a catholic? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you activate her inner slut?I'm watching RSD Tyler videos for inspiration I suppose if your target is below average looking women then crack on. Ultimately "activating the inner slut" is just be attractive, don't be unattractive. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Do WOMEN get intimidated by SMVNo. They just get insecure. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 10 months took off to suck some other dickLTR was very convenient. And that is why it failed. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 10:00 AM |
| 7 | Matched (on tinder) 18 yo younger sister of guy I went to high school withHow is this even a question? You should have already sorted logistics by now. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 09:18 AM |
| 32 | Ex-gf will not leave my houseand hit me once Instant hard next and ghost. Nothing further to be said. You're an idiot for letting this slide. How do I get her to leave my house? Tell her "do you seriously want to save this relationship?" Once she says yes then tell her "then you need to leave, go home, and give me my space to work through your betrayal of my trust. Every day you stay here denying me my space is further disrespect of me as a person." Some emotional-based shit like that should work to get her out the house. T… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR Liking pics of orbiters on social mediaWhy are you in an LTR with a chick who still has orbiters? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR did 180 turn on “our” visionAh the light switch. It's been a while since I've seen one of these. You've LTR'd a girl who was unsuitable for an LTR. Congrats. Now she has demonstrated she is unsuitable, time to either downgrade her to a plate or next her. There's nothing more interesting to consider here. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | First time noticing this: Getting ignored by girls in social circle settingsLow SMV guys are invisible to women. Questions: What would you do in this situation? Raise your SMV. To be honest, I feel like just packing up and leaving right now. I fucking hate being treated like this. Unless you can improve your social status or dress better to up your SMV then this is how the rest of the trip will be. Make solid friends with the high SMV guy and your SMV will rise a little by association. Be aware that if you pack up and leave without appearing nonchalant and with a good r… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 12:28 PM |
| 7 | Female jealousy or are some girls just retarded ?You noticed a chick was crazy and then tried to escalate with her.... enjoy your eventual jail time. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 08:21 AM |
| 9 | My false rape accusation- an interesting battle for over 1 yearThis is the literal damage of the absurd policy of "believe all women" rather than telling women to take some personal responsibility for their actions and think about their behaviour. This also serves as a reminder to stay far away from crazy. While false rape accusations are reasonably rare on here... they happen for a variety of reasons. From you not being alpha enough, from her own urge to preserve her social status (her friends disapprove of you, therefore she never slept with you, you must… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Girl from work asked me out?I mean, at this point you're not just shitting where you eat... you'd might aswell curl one out directly on to your dinner plate tonight. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 01:25 PM |
| 3 | What is the most valuable/important self virtue for men who found red pill?The ability to make firm decisions, set your principles on which you will engage with most things and then stick to them. This is the basis on which you will grow yourself, improving every aspect of your life including your dealings with women. The greatest challenge faced by men who've started getting red pill methods to work, before they become real red pilled men, is to be faced by that BPD chick who is hot and absolutely wants them... and to have enough going on (enough abundance) to refuse … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Matched with my brothers ex on Tinder. Wanna pork her. Any advice on how to playfully get this going?You want this sort of drama in your family life? If your brother doesn't care then yeah, it's a good leading line. Personally I wouldn't fuck up my family ties over one bit of pussy. There's so much more out there and if you are considering it then it screams scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl randomly ghostedOrbiters get reeled in initially. Read that sidebar more thoroughly. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 09:17 AM |
| 13 | Hello, what is the right way to deal with old-friend beta that is been around for years and starting to interject in my realtionship with his ONEitis.Your LTR has a orbiter. And you come to here to whinge at us? This is not an alpha beta story. This is a story of a beta and an omega. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 12:43 PM |
| 0 | Great LTR, but I want to play the field. Should I break up?What on earth are you doing in an LTR? If you still wanted to play the field, you should not have been vetting for an LTR. It's like you lack the ability to process basic logic. You could be female. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 4 | My (20M) girlfriend (20F) has too much power over meShe calls me names and makes up stories about me to see if I react to them, plays pranks on me. Sometimes ignores me for something else. You mostly can't regain any power because you are a weak man who lacks self-respect. The moment any of this happened, a red pilled man would have realised he made a poor choice of LTR to commit to and then hard nexted her before reflecting on his behaviour and failure. Then he would get down the gym and spin some plates for a bit while doing more detailed readi… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 8 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?We do have a concept of a unicorn. We also have a concept of high SMV women. On the practical front, we also have a great big long list of "green flag" traits indicating LTR potential. These are derived from the unicorn concept. We also have a collection of indicators of long term plate value, interwoven with plate management methods. These come from a variety of theories. FDS is nothing like us. We emphasise that red pill strategies cannot be used to fulfil blue pill dreams. This is due to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?You start off wanting to argue about concepts then deftly move into practical applications when you're disproved? You do realise these are separate areas where you have separate arguments? I'll assume you've just made a silly little error on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?There is also the concept of a unicorn on TRP. For someone who wants to appear like they're proving a very salient point, you really haven't bothered to do basic research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Two friends want me to have kids with themYou either haven't read and internalised the pill or you're lying about something here. This is quite obviously a legally enforced disaster in waiting. Not to mention how you'll be fucking your own kids by walking into something intending them to be raised by a single mother. Legacy is highly complex and dangerous in the modern age for any man. You think you've found a simple solution? Don't make me laugh. The only thing you've found here is the part of you that clings to the blue pill. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 5 | "I won't be available for a week"She's a plate, who cares? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:19 AM |
| 1 | The alpha spectrum is hugeThe power of game on show right here. Side-note: Don't shit where you eat. Alonso is not a role model and you should not emulate him. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Feeling bad smashing the innocent onesThey're not actually innocent. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 09:56 AM |
| 1 | DGAF attitude is effective in getting women. But is it also effective in other areas of life?You're describing aloofness. It has its benefits and drawbacks like anything else. There is no one perfect way to play the game of life. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 09:52 AM |
| 6 | Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?Solid theory. I always used to think the thousand cock stare was just a joke taken too seriously by some lads. It's borderline heartbreaking to see a girl you knew as happy and positive gain that stare... see the literal change in the way she looks in her face... and see how her personality has just been destroyed. You then realise this has happened to a lot of women. Huge numbers. It's almost like our grandparents had been doing something right. But that world is gone. Welcome to thousand cock … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Dumb girl says no sex until marriageThe person who requires punishing in this scenario is you. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it pointless to talk to a girl that lives far away?Yes | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Lack of intimacy and conflictedIt's not really an LTR I'm describing (or aiming for) without any prior experience, so I wonder what you mean. And yet you had plans to form an LTR as a method of losing your virginity. What? You've been red pill for 4 years and haven't lost your virginity yet... that is an immediate red flag that you're not as red pilled as you claim. That's before we go onto things like you declaring "going celibate mode" which does not exist in red pill philosophy. Add to that your clear misunderstanding of t… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Lack of intimacy and conflictedI thought this exchange would be the time to lose the v card and get into a relationship for as long as the exchange. You smell of blue pills | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | How to think quicker on your feet for shit tests?Work to your strengths. Focus on the sorts of replies that work for your personality. If you don't tend to be sarcastic much then A&A isn't really your go-to response. I go through this in more detail in the shit tests part of my field guide on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Does blue pill ever go away?IllimitableMan has written something on legacy and an innate desire to make a permanent impact on the world. This being the explanation of the male drive to reproduce and explain the literal change in the male brain when we meet our child for the first time. The blue pill conditioning is about equality of men and women and romantic notions of easy teamwork between equals where you live happily every after. These two sets of concepts are not the same, but some members conflate them. The former th… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 12:11 PM |
| 6 | Experience with LTR's and them being cool with you and other girls.Look at adam22 for instance, he has a hot girlfriend who is basically a cam girl/pornstar. You have clearly not read any TRP stuff. You are confusing plate and LTR. You should not be posting here if you do not understand the basic material. Go away and do your reading. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Was committing to an ltr a bad move?LTRs are not inherently a bad thing. They have benefits and drawbacks compared to plate spinning. You've got to go with what works best for you. The usual problem is that lads give their first plate an immediate LTR promotion for no real reason. You appear to have vetted, but the questions that remain are whether you wanted an LTR and whether you are ready to play LTR game rather than plate spinning. Keep your SMV up and look into some of the LTR guides here. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 01:13 PM |
| 6 | What’s the deal with “Red Pilled” womenOne of the key tenets of TRP is that men and women are not comparable. We play two completely different mating games with different strategies and different goals. The goal for a woman is not the same as a man. It's to gain commitment from the highest value man you can, bear his offspring and live a successful family life. This does not fit with the goals of most red pill awakened men since red pill women are extremely rare. There's no point looking for them because they make up less than 0.01% … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 11:26 AM |
| 19 | What’s the deal with “Red Pilled” womenalways shit testing me You've obviously never read that sub. They try to avoid drama and shit testing their man a lot since it can damage a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 08:00 AM |
| 3 | LTR says her feelings are hurt what to do?The first question here is why have you LTR'd up a bitch who is playing these sorts of games. If she's beyond plate she sure as hell shouldn't be doing the sort of level of disrespect of "other men are interested in me" shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 4 | Girl in a LTR showed me a screenshot of a conversation with her boyfriend. Am I beta if I make fun of her bf?No. You shouldn't acknowledge him as competition. Because he's not. Nor should you be engaging in female-intrasexual-style competition. Leave her to make fun of him. (If she is.) | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 01:56 PM |
| 5 | "you hate me lowkey" weird shit test???That's mostly because it's not a shit test. Go do your reading. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 12:25 PM |
| 21 | How do you respond to a girl who says “make me” playfully/sexuallyShe probably means "spank me." | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 04:43 PM |
| 4 | The current sentiment in TRP is disturbingDat e-peen measurement is over 9000. No question, no useful lesson, no value. Just beta whining about the behaviour of others. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Second Night with Plate: way better sex, but she leaves crying afterThere's a couple of things which spring to mind. First is hormones are sending her crazy. I hope you've been wrapping it. Second is since she lives with her ex, maybe they started to attempt a reconciliation and she then immediately leapt on your cock like she'll never get another chance. After the great sex she realises she's going back to a boring relationship because she doesn't think she can lock you down. Or she mistakenly perceives herself as a moral person but she's acting like a piece of… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.So what to do with this shit test ? The same things you'd do with any shit test. This is not "Do my homework for me TRP" It's AskTRP, for slightly unusual stuff or unclear stuff - this is literally a sidebar answer. GO. READ. IT. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.A tinder thot gives you a standard shit test and you're here analysing it to death. Does anybody read the sidebar anymore? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 16 | My ltr randomly dyed her hair pink and I hate itYou're angry because it's openly disrespectful. Women know their looks are a prime attraction for men. To change her look without caring what her boyfriend thinks is basically a giant middle finger to your commitment to her. That's why you're angry about it, because you're angry at her for disrespecting you and angry at yourself for choosing poorly. Typically this is something that demonstrates low relationship value. You should probably be looking at other options while downgrading her to plate… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | What are good examples for RP/BP movies ?Whats the problem with fiction tho? Focus on the real. Focus on results. Focus on getting yourself right or you'll spend an eternity lost in the void, wishing you were alpha and inspiring yourself without ever actually achieving anything. Plus the whole circle jerk over fiction tends to derail worthwhile discussion. And its not that every EC on the rp sub is super alpha either. Dont really see what your problem with chuck is. I don't even understand what you're trying to say here. If it's argume… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 10 | What are good examples for RP/BP movies ?Movies are generally neither red pill nor blue pill since they're fiction, crafted for entertainment. There is a reason the main sub has had the rule "no examples from fiction" for years. Partly because everybody would keep having a circle jerk over fight club which is a pretty naff film of a nonsensical book written by a mentally damaged beta faggot. There is no red pill knowledge available from the weak. If you're simply looking for inspiration, you could do worse than Gran Torino. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?That's because his point went entirely over your head. So I've concluded that his point is irrelevant, because I didn't understand his point? Wow, I've got a real genius on my hands here. A brief education because I'm bored. Apply someone's logic to your position. If you can concede the point and it doesn't affect your own argument, then it is an irrelevant point that doesn't engage. It's a good way of spotting an idiot who's adding no value to discussion and can't get out of their own head. In … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?That's fundamentaly your position You do not grasp my position. Your comprehension of English is below average. Dealing with you is a total waste of my time. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?Bought my girl flowers for Valentine's day they were like $12 at trader Joe's. I also buy flowers whenever I'm visiting any woman. So if I came over to your house for Thanksgiving I would buy your mom flowers. Boy am I beta. Strawman. I did not bring the alpha or beta concepts into any part of my argument. My point does not hinge on any of that. You could be using a woman for sex she's still a house guest. If a $3.50 Valentine's day cup cake is too much of an investment into your penis wrangler … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?How is buying flowers for Valentine's day any more arbitrary than buying flowers for a funeral? Firstly, you of all people should recall the standard "don't buy her flowers. ever." advice issued by the sub. Terrible choice of example. Secondly, most of the guys on AskTRP LTR up the first chick to give them any interest. When they say LTR, we're really talking about plate material 99% of the time. This particular chap has not provided enough detail for me to think otherwise. Thirdly, the valentin… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Should I give LTR of 5 months a gift for V-day?Valentines day should be ignored by all red pill men. If your woman cares about it, you have selected poorly or she doesn't grasp the nature of being your plate. She will learn in time. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 118 | LTR thinks experimenting with another girl is not cheating.The correct response is "yeah, we should totally go find a girl for a threesome." The rest you put about her disqualifying herself as LTR material is all accurate. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I broke up with my LTR (Painful)Of course. You were quite clearly a placeholder until she found someone else. Why on earth did you promote her from plate? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Dating BPD girl for entertainment valueYes, you're definitely an idiot. This is like removing your trousers every evening with a circular saw because you don't like fiddling with a belt buckle. It will eventually end in tears and have very serious, possibly permanent, consequences. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 7 | Girl starts calling me babe and shit like thatSo you're sorta escalating with a woman you have no interest in... odd. It's easy enough to shut it down if that's what you want to do. Tell her not to call you that and her behaviour is creepy and that it makes you really uncomfortable. That'll pour cold water on things, though remember - many women don't take rejection well. Be prepared to leave if you need to. Also, for future reference, making fun of a girl is flirting with her. Avoid with women you don't want to create sexual tension with. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 5 | I have been with a girl who is probably the closest thing to a unicorn. Should I keep her around and wife her up eventually?Ahhh, the college kiddo thinks he's found a unicorn. The naivety is too delicious for words. You proceed as you see fit, the community will still be here when you come back to piece your heart back together and admit how much of an idiot you've been. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:18 PM |
| 1 | « I don’t like muscles »In other news, straight women rather like a bit of hard penis. You could write a piece on that and it goes in a very similar fashion. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Tabloids and online news are absolutely retarded trash written by fools for other fools. Think before quoting or linking them, as they don't represent reality, only the most fucked up part of the human race.Anything I read in the news on a topic I actually know from proper education or through business experience... the journalist doesn't have the faintest clue what they're writing about. It's a bit of a personal confirmation bias... but whenever I mention the theory to others and have them start seriously looking at topics they know inside and out... they come to the same conclusion. Are we all just confirming our own biases? It's worse than just junk... the vast majority of articles are literally… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 07:04 PM |
| 12 | Tabloids and online news are absolutely retarded trash written by fools for other fools. Think before quoting or linking them, as they don't represent reality, only the most fucked up part of the human race.Gell-Mann amnesia effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/20 03:05 PM |
| -5 | TinderYou're either a troll or the dumbest mother fucker on this planet. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | In a LTR, getting constant shit testsFirst: She's quite high on the crazy/hot scale so this might be part of the reason, If you've LTR'd a crazy chick you deserve nothing but scorn. Assuming you're not a complete fucking imbecile, you're getting shit tested because you don't appear to be the right level of attractiveness for her. Raise your SMV. If that is not the issue, then you're shit at leading. Learn to lead and command. My Commanding 101 piece can be useful for this. I get a shit test every now and then... but it's rare becau… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Are women aware of the wall, do they deny it, does it catch them off guard?They primarily deny it. They just have this vague idea of what makes them attractive. It's why they get confused when women they don't consider attractive get more attention than them. When any bloke nearby can see exactly why she's more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | You only want me for sexCheck out part 3 of the TRP Field Toolkit on the sidebar of AskTRP. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 08:09 AM |
| 3 | You only want me for sexBack when I was spinning plates, I went from 1 month long things to having plates hanging around for 9-18 months instead with no commitment. The big difference was pre-empting and passing comfort tests more effectively. The roller coaster emotions ride is what she wants to go on, but it should always end back where it started. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 24 | You only want me for sexCould have been a bit more positive about her apology if you're trying to build an LTR here. You've got to praise her when she behaves the way you want her to. Right there, she atoned for her sins and submitted. That is behaviour you want to encourage. You could even have helped her by pointing out she ended up there because she managed her emotions poorly and you expect her to manage them better in the future. Alpha aloof-indifference to all her behaviour will eventually make her smash like the… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Hey, I'm recently unplugged and I've been dating my first girl post redpill. I've run into an ldr situation and I need advice.Obviously she's not relationship material at this point. So she will forever be nothing more than a plate and if you start to catch any feels you must hard next. No ifs or buts. Beyond that why are you complaining about one girl? Go bang more. There's plenty out there and you need the practice. Plan to spin roughly 2-3 plates and do not stop gaming until you reach your target. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Finding the balance in LTR? Is it salvageable?So for the comfort tests, refer to my TRP Field Toolkit guide. I think comfort tests are covered in part 3. You'll find it in the sidebar of AskTRP. What I tend to do in order to keep the rollercoaster going is to give her surprises. Cheap presents are pretty good for it too. Something silly, not expensive and definitely not flowers. Little fun shaped chocs have been a winner for me when I've detected she needs a little comfort. It's enough to demonstrate unequivocally that you care about her wi… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 02:52 PM |
| 6 | Finding the balance in LTR? Is it salvageable?Unfortunately your post is a little too vague to give certain feedback. So I've put all of the 3-4 possibilities that occur to me. In the last month or 2, she's been starting fights with me over things This, does not correlate with: I (28; SMV 9) have been w this girl (21; SMV 6) If you're a 9 and she's a 6, there will be absolutely no doubt in her mind about your value because it is soooooo far above hers. Her behaviour indicates that she sees you as equal or possibly below hers and she's tryin… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Friend had his 'gf' come out as bisexualThis is basically the correct response. If she then reacts in any other way than very enthusiastic then you now know she's not LTR material and you can downgrade her to a plate. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Anyone explain this?Serious mental problems. Steer clear of her. Hard next and block her on everything. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Do Not Be Blinded And Ignore Red FlagsYeah, and Scotty was totally beta standing there with a limp head. He was super-duper dominated! Dat handshake demonstrates who got the biggest dick. Such grand challenges of masculinity! Must squeeze harder than the other guy otherwise you're super limp and he be establishing dominance over you. The funniest thing is you're serious about this while I'm taking the piss. You crack on with your insecurity bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Do Not Be Blinded And Ignore Red Flagsand squeeze this guy's hand harder than any hand I had ever squeezed in a handshake before. And you think he's the beta. He provoked an irrational reaction out of you. Weaklings are not worthy of your wrath. Believe me, I know, because I did similar sorts of things to the end of your story in the past. It's just childish behaviour. The beta guy is no competition, why even behave like he matters? Beta guys are stupid and irritating at times, but beating them in the sexual game is like beating up … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it time to hit monk mode?I’m having issues with being alone I think What does this even mean? Is monk mode something that helps this? No, monk mode is not for that. Monk mode is an initial step for men who need to improve because trying to game at their current base SMV is a totally pointless exercise. I’m 22 and honestly doing great in life right now. Good steady job, paying mortgage not rent, minimal bills, decent savings and good hobbies I enjoy. I fail to see your problem. Sounds like it's in your head. Could be wor… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Dignity or Disinterest?an LTR is my best bet for regular sex at the moment Scarcity mentality. The most insidious blue pill thinking out there alongside "but the sex is great." | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Broke a chicks heart - wanna fuck again (TLDR in comments)Unless you happen to be trapped on an island in the outer Hebrides, that is merely rationalising your scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Broke a chicks heart - wanna fuck again (TLDR in comments)Scarcity mentality. Next. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | BP friend won't act on my advice, is going to crash and burn, but keeps coming back for more. I don't want to waste my breath anymore, but don't want to lose the friendship.One of the things about giving advice is that the other person is free not to take it. You really shouldn't be getting frustrated with bloopers acting bloopy. As an EC, I have seen many many men come to me for advice, ignore it, crash and burn, come to me for more advice and feel it's getting more extreme and thus ignore it. Of course, the deeper they dig their hole, the harder it is to climb back out. So why am I still here coming to offer you some advice? Simple, it's two things, one of which … | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Alpha guys and teachersYou oversimplify this to mere dominance and submission, as if paying attention in class vs being a dickhead is submission vs attempted dominance. Alphas aren't always dominating every single social interaction (it's not possible, think about the workplace and your boss as an obvious example - does this mean everybody with a boss can't be alpha?) alphas just aren't generally submissive. They'll still follow or perform actions as instructed by a leader for the good of the team. I wrote a piece a f… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle a physically abusive LTR?I doubt any action you take will show any strength or courage. Based on your post history, you're weak and you've tolerated a huge amount of shit that no red pill man would even consider. The things you're asking about aren't even serious questions to us. You clearly have not read the sidebar or if you have, you have not understood it or internalised it. Based on your current state of mind, you're at least a year from being competent enough to be approaching a healthy relationship with a woman. … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle a physically abusive LTR?If you've already dealt with it the single time it ever came up, why is it still an issue? You're playing semantics here to try and pretend to yourself that you're not as weak as she clearly perceives you if there's been any repeat. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle a physically abusive LTR?Firstly you're probably getting it because you issue "warnings" instead of instructions. A warning is basically a dare to challenge your dominance and she's seen you're weak. Every time she does it and you respond with nothing that affects her other than further empty words is another nice clear demonstration of how weak you are. Secondly, ANY physical violence of any kind receives a single "do not do that" order and if repeated EVER an immediate and permanent hard next. There are examples of th… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Wtf are all the labels that girls are using on dating apps nowadays?These are called red flags for left wing social justice mental illnesses. The more she has on her profile, the less willing you should be to have anything to do with her. There's plenty of normal women out there, engaging with the social justice nutters who'll gladly accuse you of rape is just broadcasting a scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 10:58 AM |
| 5 | I can attract women, but I feel I have nothing to talk about with them and my fucks given for 'entertaining' them just to get pussy is getting less and less the older I get. Normal? What do?I went through this... I'm kinda still there. I wouldn't be willing to put in lots of effort to seduction anymore. I've got bigger fish to fry. This is basically why tinder exists. Stick out some good pics, wait for a chick to call you hot, text for logistics and bang. That's basically as straightforward as it gets. The main effort there is in getting your body on point and then getting the pics on point. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Incels/braincelsYou don't need to become hyper-wealthy or hyper famous. The problem with the incels rejecting the example because it's a famous person is that the demand for an example basically makes the position unfalsifiable. I present someone unknown and the response will be "I don't believe that person exists, you're lying." So essentially the position would be illogical. I do not buy that the majority of incels seriously deformed. They're mostly average (remember that average is 3-4 out of 10 in the looks… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Incels/braincelsAbsolutely right. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Incels/braincelsAziz Ansari. Short, ugly, brown, doesn't even seem to have any game based on that sexual assault thing. Still getting chicks to blow him. I've little doubt he was having sex too. And the factors are beyond good game and good posture. My own list was longer and I stated that it could go on. By skipping this out you identify that you don't grasp the nuances of the pill. You'd be better spending your time doing a deeper dive and actually getting your head around shit than wallowing in the incel com… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 02:07 PM |
| 8 | Incels/braincelsIn essence the incels have caught on to a little bit of the story, failed to grasp the nuance of the game and come out with an absurd conclusion that is very easily disproved. The deeper you dive into TRP theory, the more nuanced it gets. The deeper you dive into incel culture, the more of the same you get. Just shouted louder. It's bit like the SJWs. Any time you bring up a point or fact that indicates their narrative might be wrong, they call you a name, pretend you know nothing and then conti… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | LTR being hounded by a beta-orbiter?She really seems to like telling you about this This is relevant in itself because of women's solipsism. They think having other men chasing them proves how attractive they are to other men. Much like a woman sees a guy thinks he's nothing special, but then he's getting attraction indicators from other women and suddenly she's like "oh he's looking quite attractive." So it's sorta like she's trying to remind him she's got "high SMV." | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR seems to be applying the dread game and I'm not with itWomen can't play dread game you moron. I doubt you've read the sidebar properly, but if you have, you need to read it again until you actually understand it. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Women trying to seduce their friend's LTR... AWALT?Hypergamy doesn't care. I remember noticing this when I was out with a close friend and his girlfriend. Pleasant chats all night, then the second he leaves the two of us alone while he goes to the bathroom, first words out of her mouth "are you seeing anyone at the moment?" The moment you become a more attractive man, the shit women pull that they think is below the radar is hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:17 PM |
| 3 | LTR acting upRaise your SMV. She will either start chasing you or this behaviour will continue. If she doesn't start chasing you then your game has been poor enough to permanently lower your SMV in her eyes and she's already looking for the branch swing. It's merely a matter of time at that point. Then your choices are hard next, become a cuck or watch her move on with the usual trickle truth, it's not you it's me, I need to find myself blah blah blah. The final option is an enormous waste of your time which… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend left because she want to accomplish personal goalsShe's off to ride the cock carousel. Your turn has ended. How is this even a question? Next. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 01:59 PM |
| 23 | Got cheated on by LTR, to next or to plate?This is actually a good example of the blooper scarcity mindset in its most insidious form. "The sex is great." So what? You'll find more women. You will find better sex and you will find worse sex. You'll find better and worse from the same chick. Why are you trying to grasp and control something which is fluid that you have no control over? If you must do something to let her know why she's dumped, then dump her through her hot friend or something and tell them the truth about why she's dumped… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 11:03 AM |
| 9 | What is the RP way of handling your girl going out with her friends and guy friends?Here's a more pertinent question. How many plates have you spun? This questions suggests you are playing relationship level game when you are not prepared or experienced enough for it. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 02:02 PM |
| 6 | How would it make you feel if a girl only wanted you for sex?Lying about not being interested in relationships. She's always interested in a relationship. But it's always a calculating thing for girls. Going after a man who is way out above her league is a demonstration of poor social skills and low value. But mistakenly getting in a relationship with a man of lower value than she can potentially get is also a sign of poor social skills and low value. The whole interacting with anyone is trying to figure out where she sits in the hierarchy. If she's genui… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 01:44 PM |
| 10 | How would it make you feel if a girl only wanted you for sex?If only. She's lying, and if she's not lying then she's broken in a manner that means it's all good. You wouldn't want her for a relationship anyway. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"Bloopers gonna bloop. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"This is sidebar level stuff. In addition you have committed the cardinal sin of assumptions in your thinking. Men and women are not comparable. In anything. They play completely different games with completely different rules and completely different progression paths. Men bond slowly and deeply, women bond quickly but there is little depth to the bond and a deep bond takes longer than for a man. This is designed with purpose by nature. A woman must be able to detach quickly and form a new bond … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | What are your LTR deal-breaking red flags?Part 4 of the TRP Field Toolkit on the sidebar covers this, with links to multiple red flag lists. LTR material usually had no red flags. All red flags are a deal breaker unless you're still operating with scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 10:56 AM |
| 11 | Alyssa Milano Calls For Sex Strike To Oppose Abortion LawMerely showing what we know to be true. Most women can't handle actual equality. They just behave like big children. Politicians put in place a law you don't agree with? - "I'm going to punish my boyfriend. No sex for you! Hey girlfriends, we should all do this." It almost resembles those nasty blue pill women who punish their husbands for not being successful enough, and in the process prevent their husband from being able to become successful because his homelife is so stressful and unpleasant… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Geez it just makes me sick that when my girlfriend post images of herself all the male orbiters like and commentMaybe she didn't want you to see it. Maybe she thought it was dumb and she'd look dumb publicly for posting that comment. There's explanations for little stuff like that. You're avoiding the key issue here which is you. Go do your fucking reading. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Geez it just makes me sick that when my girlfriend post images of herself all the male orbiters like and commentIt essentially demonstrates you can't speak womanese. Demonstration of poor social skills and thus low value. Look up the literature on powertalk. It is possible to go with direct confrontation sometimes, but usually it needs to be in specific situations where it comes off as a declaration that she has shit social skills and can't grasp X properly so you've been forced to spell it out to her. The default communication method should always be womanese. Everything is between the lines and actions … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Geez it just makes me sick that when my girlfriend post images of herself all the male orbiters like and commentYou should never reveal what is behind the curtain to women. If you desperately want to fix this, you'll need to go away and do some reading on pair bonding and how to achieve it. Personally I would just dump her and go find some better quality LTR material. There's masses of women out there and if you are the prize then why are you settling for a substandard gf? It suggests to me you're not really worth much which in itself is a severe problem from the RP perspective that you should be fixing. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Geez it just makes me sick that when my girlfriend post images of herself all the male orbiters like and commentLTR game is very different to plate spinning game. There's huge amounts of stuff on here about plate spinning, far less on LTRs. The goal of an LTR is a successful long-term pair bonding that rewards both of you. If she is actively maintaining orbiters then she has not committed to the relationship and you just gave up your most powerful card for nothing. As above, Matty thinks she might be planning a branch swing.. it's possible, but I think either you haven't managed this correctly and you've … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Geez it just makes me sick that when my girlfriend post images of herself all the male orbiters like and commentQuality LTR material does not maintain orbiters. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:04 PM |
| 9 | How to ask out a girl who has a boyfriend?Her boyfriend is a placeholder. She's interviewing other candidates. Congrats on making the shortlist. Don't ask her out, tell her to join you for whatever and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Slut friend of potential LTRTo make herself look better to you. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 7 | How to cope with having nothing to do all summer?Carpentry skills. Metalworking? Car mechanic (focus on simple stuff there, just little things you can do at home without needing a lift). House renovations? There's all sorts of useful things you can learn. Just think what might be useful to you and then cross ref that with what interests you. Won't take you long to put together a plan to learn it. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Do I wait until I've got my sh*t together?Set yourself a monk mode for 3 or 6 months. Depending on how bad you think things are, then stick to it and have a precise plan for the day monk mode ends so you don't end up in perpetual monk mode. Years ago when I started out, I tried coming out of monk mode a month early and it was disastrous. My ego got the better of me. Make a plan and stick to it. Lay strong foundations if you're planning to build for the future. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 07:56 PM |
| 7 | Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..What was that about not sticking your dick in crazy? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | "You're being very touchy-feely."Alternate angle: No words. Grab her hand and lead her to the bedroom. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 06:36 PM |
| 6 | "You're being very touchy-feely."Yep, stroking hands is what I do when I want to kiss her but pussy out Yes. Never do it again. Ever. If you catch yourself doing it, go cause yourself some pain. (Literally, and I am not joking.) Eventually your brain will get the message not to do that shit unconsciously. I would also recommend you visit the TRP Field Toolkit on the sidebar. Attitude could do with some work. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 11:36 AM |
| 16 | "You're being very touchy-feely."Stroking hands is gay as fuck. It's something a grandma does to a child to reassure them. You're supposed to be pushing her slightly outside of comfort, give her an emotional rush. Betas provide comfort and reassurance. Responses to a touchy feely comment.... hmmm "Testing out the goods is important business practice for a modern man in the dating world." Or "I haven't decided just how touchy I might get yet." maybe "I feel everybody all over, even the guys" if you're cocky enough to pull that s… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 11:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?Yes, because you've already made peace with the fact you're not perfect and you're working towards an answer. There's nothing more that can be done. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Outcome independenceLike another date. Mates you can go hang with instead. What kinda dumb question is this? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you walk up to a girl and get to know her without seeming creepy?Ironically he's right. It sounds like you need to go monk mode for a bit. You can test your progress by throwing out hooks at various social functions and seeing what sort of response you get. If you're just lacking in confidence then this will also figure that out for you too. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Got cucked. What next?Soft next and reinitiate but sex only. Not wise. He's clearly not strongly enough in control of his own emotions to do something like that. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Outcome independenceYou should have a backup plan for her not turning up too. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 12:50 AM |
| 2 | GF keeps making fun of my EXshe says it’s the biggest issue in our relationship. I see you've been failing that shit test. Honestly it's gonna be hard to come back from this because you've essentially been doing the inter-personal relationship equivalent of letting her peg you. Step 1, heavy dread. Step 2, start pressure flipping. "The last guy you were with had bigger tits than you, yet you got wet, you secretly a lesbo?" or something like that. Something which throws the insult back at her and asks a question that you ca… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only one who can't get dates on Tinder?Should I take some pictures to display my physique? Wasn't this like number 1 on all good tinder guides? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with existential crisis?Firstly, I would remind myself that I'm a human being and as such am limited in various ways. In addition, I am not the brightest man on the planet either, so having expectations to solve the meaning of life - a well known eternal question that has baffled men who make you look like a pitiful child being beaten in the boxing ring by someone like tyson - is wildly unreasonable. So we look smaller. How does this apply to my own existence? Well, firstly since the meaning of my own life is a huge qu… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?If you don’t meet an 8’s minimum threshold of value and aesthetic, you will be written off almost immediately. False. Status trumps all. Remember to incorporate all of the factors involved in male attractiveness. I've always viewed game as a sort of way to alter your SMV. That's one of the things, when that alters things and you're dealing with a girl who doesn't get approached much or gets fawned all over frequently, the slightest bit of game can have a much bigger impact. Rejection out of hand… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 05:35 PM |
| 74 | Is it better to game 5's than none?5s and 6s are harder to game than 8s in my humble opinion. 7s are typically the most difficult because they tend to get the most attention as they're above average attractiveness but not so attractive that the average bloke will rule himself out. As a result they tend to get more attention than 8s and 9s do and it inflates their egos to crazy levels. My advice? Just game whatever chick is nearby and not ugly. It's easier to engage the DGAF attitude when you're genuinely just choosing based on pr… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 11:04 AM |
| -1 | How to make her fit my frameWhat are you drivelling about? You think you're putting a girl in a picture frame or something? You may have read 85% of something you clearly didn't understand. Try again, and come back when you don't have dumb questions to ask (which are answered by the sidebar FAQ on AskTRP.) | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterThis. I've said for years the hardest part of becoming a red pill man is not picking up chicks. It's finding good quality male-male friendships. Society has become so feminised that male intrasexual competition has become more like female intrasexual competition. Instead of rising above or building bigger and better with your friends, these numale "friends" will happily tear you down in exchange just a whiff of pussy, they don't even have to actually get some pussy. OP needs better friends who d… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Crazy bitch won’t stop texting me.She had sweets. You took them away. How else is a toddler supposed to react? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:06 PM |
| 8 | The Intellectual Yet IdiotOh don't get me wrong. Taleb is a hugely arrogant individual. But he's one of these people who is arrogant rather than overconfident. He knows his stuff. Psychologists still can't agree on the definition of intelligence at this stage. For the purposes of TRP, I'd suggest it's important to try and be well versed in most things. When you can surprise a woman with knowledge of an area that is considered socially "higher up" such as high end liquor, you can create some tingles in the sense of "this … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Used fat friend to get to hot friend and now the "girl code" has been activated.Why are you listening to words? Think on that. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:39 PM |
| 3 | She Got Back Together w/Ex, but She's Really Into MeAnd no, I'm definitely not stuck on her. I've got a date with another woman lined up for later this weekend. Then why have you written 4 paragraphs about her, wanting advice on how to get her into bed when you have another perfectly good bed-filler for far less effort? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 12 | The Intellectual Yet IdiotIt's a little more than that. I strongly recommend both The Black Swan and Skin in the Game by the same author. It's explained clearly enough that you won't need formal education in statistics to understand where it's all coming from. The TRP relevance is lesser in my opinion, but it's tangentially related. Taleb's writings do reveal hidden truths and allow you to try and bypass your own natural biases, which is useful self-improvement and will allow you to navigate the world better. (Relevant t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 03:28 PM |
| 16 | Girls are using my dick.> full psychopath nofeelings mode This is not a goal on here. Go review the better quality material. Stoicism. Not feelingless nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | What does RP think about psychological therapy?The social sciences are and aren't blue pill. Some of the biggest names in psychology are still trying to work things out based on real science. The Baddeleys, the Loftus's and other major name specialists are not interested in social injustice... or maybe they are but the reality remains their area isn't one that has a natural racial or gender slant to it. So we're still making progress and Jonathan Haidt is a good demonstration that there are scientists in the realms of psychology who are inte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/19 06:40 PM |
| 21 | What does RP think about psychological therapy?Cognitive based therapies have a lot of good science behind them. However, psychology is a field that has been compromised by social justice ideologues who have repeatedly tried to twist things to suit their own conclusions. As a result the question of "does it have value?" gets an answer by an informed red pill man of "yes and no." There's a long list of where you'd go yes and a similarly long list of where you'd go no. If was advising a man about getting therapy I would suggest seeking a man w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/19 04:51 PM |
| 9 | Are you getting her best?You really activated those almonds. Her head started to hurt when she tried thinking about her own behaviour. XD | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Starting to slip back into blue pillYou appear to have come out of monk mode too early. You haven't internalised the attitude (refer to my TRP Field Toolkit, part 1.) Pussy is still the top priority in your life. Until you come to grasp the slightly counter-intuitive logic that if you want to get laid, stop caring about whether you get laid. From your words alone, you reek of desperation for pussy. Nothing dries up pussy and closes legs faster than a man who they can smell sexual desperation on. I'm not a massive fan of meditation… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Purposely "failed" shit tests on date, somehow she's still interested?Then the guy who suggested she's a piece of shit who's prepping you for orbit is probably about right. Unless that "boyfriend" is very low value and a beta version of you is higher value than he is. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Purposely "failed" shit tests on date, somehow she's still interested?The only thing worse than a woman who has the commitment of a beta man, is a woman who can secure no man's commitment. Maybe she has no other serious options and just secretly hates you (and subsequently herself.) Or perhaps she views her SMV as quite low and yours as quite high to the point where you get to play some prettiboi game. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 02:22 PM |
| 135 | Oral but no sex?Oral plate. Gold. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successTake your incel bollocks elsewhere. Your inability to use game well is not an indicator that it doesn't work. It is an indicator of how useless you are. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successTRP is not closed. It is quarantined. You can still visit. You just need to use a proper computer and either type the address to visit directly or click through from the sidebar here on asktrp. Speaking of which, there is also the asktrp sidebar that holds masses of great info for frequent problems. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 11:55 AM |
| 5 | Downgrading your LTR. How did that work out for you?Hard next and clean break. If you've developed any kind of emotional bond to her, she will break it before you do because women are designed to be able to emotionally detach from a partner quicker. There is no benefit to putting yourself through the mental and emotional difficulty of detaching slower while seeing her detach quickly. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 01:09 AM |
| 3 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successBecause why would you want to use a hammer on both nails and screws? Why would you actively choose to discard owning a screwdriver? Game is more than words. If you can't figure out any other aspect to his game then don't drink so much when you go out. You also need to go read the sidebar. Check out the essential guides on game since it's incredibly clear you've done none of the reading. You don't get the results if you don't put in the effort. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 12:54 AM |
| 9 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successImprove your reading comprehension. That is not what I said at all. Do you even grasp game? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 12:32 AM |
| 34 | My chad friend called the girl I like beautiful . Some one explain to me his successWhat happened behind the words. Your SMV 6, she thinks her SMV is 6. (I'm being arbitrary with the numbers, you could both be 4s or 5s for all I know.) She sees him and goes "oh, he's a 7. No point bothering there." He then calls her beautiful. She thinks, "hmmm, maybe I'm not a 6, maybe I'm a 7." You come back and talk to her. She's thinking "ew, this revolting 6 possibly 5 thinks I'm in his league. Gross." Goes out to his car, "let's see if I'm a 7, will he kiss me?" The rest is tedious. You s… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Held Frame. I walked, She's sitting in jail.This story is not a demonstration of "holding frame." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 30 | Last minute resistanceHard next. Don't even analyse this. This is some next level mind fuckery, not LMR. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is lowering my SMVSounds like you moved to social justice central. Time to add some more strings to your bow. It sounds like you relied too heavily on your physique and previous social status for pussy. You're getting a first hand look at how shit changes and why I've pointed out many times that social status trumps all. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Do you expect your LTR to prioritize you over friends during the weekend?You should not be in an LTR. There is no other advice you should be being given at this stage. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Are We There Yet?As a general rule, guys should be spinning plates for at least 12 months before they're even considering LTR reading. The number of absolute imbeciles we see on AskTRP who have LTR'd up the first plate they've ever got within a couple of weeks of fucking them is beyond absurd. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Always a shame when anti-censorship groups take ideological stances for censorship.Okay. I take you at your word. Care to share how KiA has come to be so chill about the new round of quarantines? It can't just be that you're obeying the rules, we're doing that and you guys get accused of bullshit misogyny too. I was impressed when you guys got everything sorted after that problem with the original founder nuking the place. Now we're being illegitimately nuked by reddit admins and you don't have a peep to say. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl i have been seeing refused and said i only use her for sexComfort tests do not need to be passed in a beta fashion. I would expect you of all people to know this. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Girl i have been seeing refused and said i only use her for sexBecause "you only want me for sex" is a well known comfort test. The subtext is obvious "I am worried that I don't have your commitment." If it is a power play then she's weaponised sex and it's game over anyway so the discussion is irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 01:22 PM |
| 6 | Girl i have been seeing refused and said i only use her for sexStandard comfort test. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:32 PM |
| 9 | What do I do now?Of course you cut her out of your life. She's quite obviously trying to fuck with your head and emotions. How is this even a question on here? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Always a shame when anti-censorship groups take ideological stances for censorship.If you can get evidence of that then you have evidence of it being a kangaroo court process. A show trial because the decisions have already been made, and not for honest consistent reasons. Gamergate has constantly had the misogyny slur hurled at it so their reaction that they are safe from this is bizarre at best. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 3 | One thing that pisses me off about red pillBut I'm thinking about men in marriages or LTRs. You have clearly not read the TRP material on LTRs. We also advocate against marriage. Guys on MRP are generally not considered red pill by most of us on TRP ever since the family_alpha turned up to demonstrate how you can lift a large amount and still be thick as pig shit. I've spent a substantial amount of time on AskTRP dealing with silly little boys who jump into an LTR and are clearly not ready for it or simply view it as an easy way to get s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/18 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Always a shame when anti-censorship groups take ideological stances for censorship.I think that's supposed to be included in the piece itself rather than in a separate comment. I dunno. Any more general discussion from the mods over there? They seem to be "we're not at risk so fuck you." Do they not realise that this is precisely the salami tactics that reddit employs? They don't want to fight us all at once, so they'll pick one major sub at a time and we're 3 times the size of KIA. If we go down, they have no chance in the future if the same ever happens to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Sokal 2.0 - The open secret of feminist philosophyBecause my academic background is psychology and he is a jungian. Also his christian faith permeates much of his thinking which is like building a house on sand. Finally, I think it was Whisper who wrote it, but there's an entire article on JBP and why he's putting you back onto the plantation, just now as a happier and more effective worker... but you're still a slave to women. Pretty much all of that applies. A piece was stickied for a while about how Peterson and co just push some tradcon val… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Always a shame when anti-censorship groups take ideological stances for censorship.Rule 9 is "no reposts." What's going on here? Did he mean rule 10? Did you include the 4 points that make our situation relevant to KIA? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/18 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Sokal 2.0 - The open secret of feminist philosophyThe mod team has always been behind a morally ambivalent position. It's the only way to avoid moralising from hijacking the discussion. The price of this is that we must allow those who want to "enjoy the decline" to do so as they see fit. It is not my place to decide upon every man's lifestyle choice. I, and a number of others, have been openly opposed to the enjoy the decline attitude because we find it too nihilistic. The nihilistic element I find to be deeply non-masculine. Even if there is … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineCountry difference perhaps? Maybe a field difference? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 12:19 PM |
| 33 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineMein Kampf where the word jew is replaced with man.... is officially accepted by academic feminism. Who on TRP is surprised to discover this? This is why I am anti-feminist and I consider it a very rational position. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 14 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineMy friend who is a PhD researcher complains frequently that one of the biggest problems faced at the top of academia is that there are simply not enough truly intelligent folks for all the positions available and they are subsequently being filled by people who are just not bright enough, because the standards have been lowered in order to ensure the growth of the sciences. He makes similar complaints about the medical profession, since his research has him in contact with the doctors of the fut… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 11:10 AM |
| 15 | How do you handle other men trying to stare you down in public?I don't generally see any value in engaging in this public dick measuring. I already know my dick is bigger. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 139 | I'm in the gym losing weight and gaining muscle and LTR says " I don't want you to get too skinny"It's an attempt to hold you back and prevent your SMV rising any more. Keep going and she'll soon clue in on the fact that this is happening whether she likes it or not. At which point you will see what sort of girl you're with. She'll either try to keep up and raise her own SMV, or she'll become toxic and actively start expending energy trying to lower your SMV. Any signs of the latter and it's time to dump her and get back out there to find a proper woman... who will likely be more attractive. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 02:46 PM |
| 2 | When A Girl's Beta BF Initiates Break Up - Thoughts?The only way a woman of much higher SMV got dumped by a loser guy is if she manipulated the situation to cause it. Otherwise any blue pilled guy will hold on and try to "fix" things when it all starts falling apart. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 09:04 AM |
| 2 | New prospect's friend interferesThere's this one girl.... | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 7 | When A Girl's Beta BF Initiates Break Up - Thoughts?lol he still believes what girls say to him when it's patently obvious they're lying. That's so cute. She is quite obviously playing with you and watching how you react to her stories/actively attempting to manipulate you in some way. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?Feelings. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 03:32 PM |
| 3 | What Women Will DoIf you want to be picky, you could my statement to "base SMV" rather than SMV in general. I've always viewed game as an SMV adjuster. It'll adjust your SMV up or down once talking. But it doesn't matter if you're spitting the best game ever if your base SMV is so low that she doesn't listen to anything you say. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 07:29 PM |
| 21 | Anyone get a little disgusted by your girl's social media history?Your disgust is a reflection of yourself. My LTR does not have this problem. Why? Because I screened well. Perhaps you shouldn't be having an LTR when you're clearly not ready for one. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 06:42 PM |
| 4 | What Women Will DoNot at all... we don't even deliver the sex! It's a strictly collection-only service. Besides, if you're telling the truth, where's my decades of spiritual enlightenment and inner peace? Did you lose it in the post???! Write the address down wrong? These ECs, they can't do shit right. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 05:07 PM |
| 47 | What Women Will DoThe craziness of a the stories on TRP is more a reflection of how off the rails the guy is. As you read through this you get a clear picture of a man who has raised his SMV and is having lots of fun, but is still searching for himself. Doesn't entirely know what he's doing but he's certainly enjoying it. You should always bear in mind that the higher your SMV, the less game you need and the more you'll observe women going out of their way to make things happen in one way or another. The main dow… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 11:53 AM |
| 2 | I don’t wanna be a sucker and spend so much time and money on a girl who doesn’t sleep with with me, but then I don’t want a hoe. What’s the happy medium?First: Stop asking to be spoon-fed. You're supposed to be a man. Start acting like one and solve your own problems. I'm not the reddit search engine. Second: If you used your brain, you'd realise ECs and mods had already addressed this problem of "where do I go for X" with X being something common. Third: Did you even read my comment? You don't need any of that reading for at least a couple of years. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 04:13 PM |
| 6 | I don’t wanna be a sucker and spend so much time and money on a girl who doesn’t sleep with with me, but then I don’t want a hoe. What’s the happy medium?There isn't a happy medium. All women are hoes, it just depends if they're put in the position to act like one. That wife who you think is excellent wife-material and appears conservative etc... took it up the ass pretty hard on the first date once. Also, being "wife material" is more than being a virgin. Your mind is in no place to be considering an LTR. Go spin plates for a bit and next time you consider this (at least a couple of years from now) make sure you're able to say you've slept with … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Possible shit test? need help asap.It's a nod to the dynamic she expects. She's reaffirming that you're leading the plans. Do whatever you want and chill out. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With HintsImplied insults are passive aggression. I am not in the mood for idiotic hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | LTR refused sexmaybe it's some genius shit, in that case it went way over my head. My bet is that you misunderstood what I or TrolsMan said. This is not "genius shit" it is very simple. /u/TrolsMan told OP that he shouldn't give his GF ultimatums, This comes from (emphasis mine): Her words- “You don’t have to Fuck ur girlfriend all the time. And if you Threaten her she doesn’t fuck you that you will fuck someone else it’s wrong. Women will flat out lie to you. If she is telling the truth, then he is threatenin… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With HintsYour interpretation says more about you than me. Being passive aggressive is a feminine trait. Cut it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 0 | LTR refused sexAn analysis of what she is thinking or feeling here is not needed. Nor do I care if he's an imbecile. I was given a scenario: girl says X to me. What is the correct response? I have answered that question. I am not going to go into further analysis for various reasons. Prime among these reasons is that these are the words of a woman and fundamentally untrustworthy/valueless. Your entire argument requires her to be telling the truth to be valid. The moment we swap her use of the word "threatening… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 3 | LTR refused sex"And if you Threaten her she doesn’t fuck you that you will fuck someone else it’s wrong." Like wtf? You still appear to be paying attention to what women say. What was that about reading the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 10:53 PM |
| 74 | LTR refused sexIt's over. She's trying to weaponise sex. It's a massive luminous red flag that cannot be tolerated. Hard next. Go spin some plates and get your head right before even considering looking at LTRing again. When you fuck up an LTR it reflects upon you and how you have failed to screen properly. Ruminate on this while you spin some plates for at least 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 5 | What's an expected Tinder girl to lay ratio?Match to arranged plans ration won't be great. If you're getting 50% then you're doing pretty well. Plans/drinks/netflix+chill to lay ratio should be pretty high. If you're under 80% then you need to work on your game and/or SMV. These stats are rough, as with many things dealing with the more emotional gender YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:57 PM |
| 4 | Bringing people into my frame and being more dominant/getting people to obey me?Read my Commanding 101 guide. It is a good general guide with examples on how to assert yourself as a leader in subtle or overt ways depending on what you're going for. The underlying dynamic in the social interaction will decide whether you are leading or not. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:54 PM |
| 49 | I Thought Girls Were Supposed To Be Good With HintsThere is a point at which you switch from womanese to straight talk if she doesn't take the hint. You have clearly not learned this lesson yet, which is fine, but your real sin is this whiny sounding post. The shit you are suffering is your fault. You didn't go looking for a solution and you instead came here to whine at us. You have even failed to grasp the nuance of the "gauge how you're doing" advice. The SMV of women you are attracting. Shit breaking down, plates smashing is all irrelevant. … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherYou obviously skipped the follow up point. "Got a few screws loose" adds nothing of value to this discussion. Take some time off and think about what you're actually contributing to this sub. If I see you still posting tomorrow I'll drop the mods a line to get you banned for a bit if you can't control yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 6 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherYeah, I'd heard that bit. I'd also heard that he had like one or two lessons. It's fairly obvious that does not constitute professional. Avoid being passive aggressive. It's a feminine quality. Ultimately, even if you are right it doesn't detract from my wider point about what is and isn't useful for learning here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 07:51 PM |
| 30 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherIf memory serves from what little I'd heard of this story, he'd had some training. I’m not a licensed psychologist but... I’m sure something is wrong mentally Now what you've done here is unhelpful. You are announcing you are ignorant of the topic yet happy to put forward an opinion. Don't do that. Mental health is a complex topic, I know, I've studied it. Random lay-opinions only muddy the waters. What if he didn't have any mental health issues, but just snapped? If that's the case saying he ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 01:50 PM |
| 66 | FR: “I hate-fucked a guy”ICYMI: Shitty Women use sex as a weapon... usually because they don't have anything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 21 | Raising a glass to a fallen brotherInsanity is a sane response to an insane world. When you say he was mentally ill, what do you diagnose? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 01:41 PM |
| 10 | Gf angry that I slept with other people while we were dating.Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Also, how does the whole "I had a fuck buddy at the time, she was a virgin and I was trying to pop her cherry" thing work? I was under the impression we needed to fuck a chick before declaring her a plate. I'm starting to think standards are slipping. "I have this fuck buddy, she even let me hold hands once. So Red Pill!" | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:40 PM |
| 5 | My younger brother is turning into a loser. What do I do?Try taking an interest in what he's doing. Talk to him about it. Sorting yourself out requires you to come to the conclusion that you're a loser yourself. If you tell him that it'll be dismissed. He needs to realise that he's a loser. (Plus you need to be sure... he might turn out to be a brilliant mixer and be going on to have a career as the next Pete Tong.) You'll want to ask questions like "what have you been doing" "What have you worked on" "what have you completed" "what do you plan to do"… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do most girls I meet and "hit it off" with already have a boyfriend ? Does anyone else feel like the odds are stacked against them?You are the dancing monkey for these women. SMV is too low or game is too weak. Your expression of sexual interest is then deflected after they've finished enjoying themselves. Yeah. You've got quite a bit of reading to do. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | FWB got mad I turned down her exclusivity request, now she's posting shit on her social media trying to get me to react. What to do?Ignore and hard next. FTFY. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do most girls I meet and "hit it off" with already have a boyfriend ? Does anyone else feel like the odds are stacked against them?How much of the TRP Field Toolkit do you know? Entertainment as in are you the guy providing interesting conversation and amusing jokes for nothing in return? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Why do most girls I meet and "hit it off" with already have a boyfriend ? Does anyone else feel like the odds are stacked against them?The odds are not against you. You are overthinking things. You are probably being shit tested by a number of these women. You should not be asking women if they have a boyfriend. It displays lack of confidence in speaking womanese. Stay away from straight talk. Have you learnt game inside and out? Have you maxed your initial SMV? Are you misinterpreting a chick using you as entertainment rather than expressing interest? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:05 PM |
| 35 | How do you treat guys who are mate guarding?hey, I really like Suzan, back off. Did you get permission from the feminine imperative first? More to the point, this whole thing is muddled and confused. I'm not even sure you're using language correctly. Mate guarding is referring to a guy or girl who is dating someone. Why are you threatening someone about how you like his gf? We’re on someone’s patio. The girl is beside me and the dude is across the from me. We’re basically all in a group conversation and I’m trying to explain some band I s… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Rian Stone on American Whiner"Everybody has that one thing that you're like they're totally crazy. I think I can see the future." Yup. Crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | First date failure, killed the vibe by jokingly insulting herYeah, you fucked up. You saw it (difficult to miss.) You could potentially have rescued it with something along the lines of "Are you one of those girls who reads too much into every little detail and over-analyses everything?" But there's no guarantees at this point. Women and their fee-fees. Never underestimate how irrational and stubborn they will be. Mentally speaking you seem to be in the right place. You class her as just another worthless bitch. Unfortunately you made that a little too cl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/18 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Vetting for LTR - which qualities should I look for?You've clearly ignored the AskTRP sidebar. The TRP Field Toolkit Part 4 covers red and green flags. There is also an extensive LTR guide, part 3 covers the unicorn checklist. Be aware, unicorns don't exist. Though you may be able to find a white enough horse to hammer a spike through its head. More important than this is your prep for an LTR, whether you are in the right place personally and whether you have spent enough time managing plates to be ready to step up to managing an LTR. When spinni… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 11:09 PM |
| 13 | The Mouse Utopia ExperimentsScale it back a notch bro. One less bump of coke. Edit: For those who did not get the joke, the caps lock amused me. Similar to a friend who gives a sarcastic overreaction, with another friend facetiously telling him to calm down because they're both in on the joke. Vandaalen is of course correct. It was a dumb question about a topic that has been discussed many many times. The well known "beautiful ones" has been compared ever since the Japanese "herbivore" men became a cultural phenomenon. He … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Is it cheating if you're dating, but not exclusive yet?Back in my plate spinning days I would always fuck her on the first date. The main challenge was logistics rather than attraction. So no, 3-5 dates is not a "solid range" to shoot for if you're plating chicks. My record was circa 20 mins from meeting to fucking. I'd advise using that as a long term target to beat if you're spinning plates. LTR is totally different kettle of fish. Something which I am concerned you have not specifically answered and separated. Can you elaborate further on what yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it cheating if you're dating, but not exclusive yet?Depends whether this guy is intending to plate or LTR this girl. If plate, nothing is cheating and the question is stupid. If LTR, and it's going well, why would you want to add potential future drama and more to the point, why haven't you fucked this girl after going on multiple dates over 2 weeks??? LTR material will have fucked you by the 2nd or 3rd date. The LTR should be satisfying your sexual needs. If not then you are failing to lead a worthwhile relationship. If she is then it begs the q… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:41 PM |
| 6 | Clarification: What is the difference between a plate and fuck buddy?They're the same. I suppose you could say a fuck buddy if she's used the term is a chick who's accepted her status as plate. It's a useful term because any woman who has been a fuck buddy is not LTR material. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 3 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?You can't. He's in there by design. His purpose was back when food was scarce and laziness was useful in terms of conserving energy since we didn't know when the next meal was coming. You shouldn't be using energy until you actually need to use it. While today, food is readily available. Energy is readily available, but our brains haven't caught up. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Women ARE capable of taking accountability for failed relationshipsmen can’t handle a woman’s truth. The arrogance of this statement will boil the blood of any guys in the anger stage. By the time you reach acceptance you'll either be laughing at that statement or going "don't be so fucking stupid." This entire piece is a woman openly admitting she cannot be the bigger person and can't learn that lesson. There's a reason they need to be the followers. Such people are unworthy of being leaders. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Can’t enjoy sex anymoreGood is defined by both average and bad. You don't get to know good sex without knowing average sex and even bad sex. When you've had great sex you'll discover you can't even get that all the time, even when you have the same girl and similar situation. It's called life. Some moments are just that, they're great moments. Try to understand this and you'll likely enjoy life as a whole more. If you wish to turn to the dark side... look up boyfriend destroyer game. I can vouch it works... but I don'… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | My new mechanic is asking me to fuck his girlWell that's a better situation than I thought it was. And yeah, he does sound like a complete loser. You now have a role model of what-not-to-be. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Im less attracted to my girlfriend after she gained some weight - what do?Check if she's planning any activities. If not then you need to do some research and make sure you're ready to deal with any situation that comes up. The usual is "I'm bored of x, let's do something else." "What do you want to do?" "I don't know." This is a classic chick thing. Make sure you've got answers in mind. Take plenty of sex stuff, any new things to add to the bedroom in mind? This is an ideal time to reveal them. Buy some handcuffs then joke about handcuffing her to the bed and just le… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Im less attracted to my girlfriend after she gained some weight - what do?She's been looking for leadership. Letting herself go and not saying anything is to see if you're still paying attention. Step up your leadership of her and the relationship and start commanding. My commanding101 guide is a good place to start. The mature response is because you broke womanese to issue direct talk. She responded directly to try and reassure you that her social skills are not as crap as you just implied. She's working in your frame. This is all good. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 07:22 PM |
| 8 | My new mechanic is asking me to fuck his girlWell this is a nice shit situation you've got yourself into. If you do fuck her that could cause all sorts of problems with your boss in the future. If you don't fuck her, she might get mad and make him take it out on you, or your boss might get mad that you dissed his bitch. He's clearly a cuck and women are unstable. His unstable bitch could react in any which way and through him cause your life to become hell at any moment. You're gonna have to act like the most vanilla guy ever to get out of… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Im less attracted to my girlfriend after she gained some weight - what do?And I thought for a minute you'd spent too much time on MRP trying to save lost causes through actions, silence and persistence. The problem with words and using commands is they're heavy handed. If she fights back you've got to walk away, it's the only play. Do you think he understands this? Do you think he'll do what I suggested and figure out the dynamic? - Taking that route might cause some heartbreak. I don't know if he's got the balls to take the pain. I just assume OP won't listen, and do… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Im less attracted to my girlfriend after she gained some weight - what do?To quote the guy making the question: Im in the gym 6 days a week along with sprinting and yoga - muscular and on the way to a full six pack. My diet is strict too, she knows all this, but it seems its not having much of an effect in terms of dread To me that reads "commanding is the appropriate shot here." The direct message that her social skills are poor and she hasn't noticed she has to keep up. Breaking womanese when you've already demonstrated you know how to speak it well is a powerful mo… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Girl says she's scared to look dumb, don't know what to reply?Wow man. I'm not sure whether to be impressed or disgusted that you stuck with it for so long. At least we now have a practical example backing up my point. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:09 PM |
| 7 | Girl says she's scared to look dumb, don't know what to reply?"Don't worry. I got this." Though personally I wouldn't advise training with chicks. They're not interested in the process, they just want the end product. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 01:07 PM |
| 10 | Im less attracted to my girlfriend after she gained some weight - what do?Tell her she's let herself go a bit and ask what she's planning to do about it? You'll get a good flavour of character by how she responds to it. If she responds in a hostile fashion, tries to change the subject, attempts to pin the blame on you in some way etc, then you should dump her on the spot. Is her sport not done during the last few months or something? A good quality gf will respond to your enquiry by noting that you're right. Have a stab at how it's ended up like this. (There's leeway … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingI'm always left with mixed feelings about how sporadically active I am on here. Clearly I'm missing out on things to laugh at. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingRollo got turned into a poster boy? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 6 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingYeah. The difference is crazy. It's also important that we remind guys that n-count does not directly dictate how smart/redpilled or game-savvy etc you are. Otherwise we'd have to invite roosh to take over here... just no. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 12:26 AM |
| 8 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingLet's try to avoid the SJW reasoning of "if you haven't experienced it, you can't understand it." I'm going to stick to my point about him supporting the feminine imperative and using feminine style. Supporting your note of him getting married before Reagan, I'd suggest he's perhaps ignorant of just how much the dating game has changed. He's got some idea since he's aware guys are checking out. But perhaps he's less aware of how low the quality of women in terms of RMV has become. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 12:06 AM |
| 35 | Disappointment in the Lack of Critical ThinkingI sense Peterson never really gave this some thought. When caught out on the gay marriage cake question, he changed his view because he'd not really thought about it properly. Some of his individualism is cool. Some of it is quite obviously fulfilling the feminine imperative and making men assist them in their selection process. The old "be yourself" being the absolute epitome of this style of advice. The funniest thing I see is how "man up" is used in the feminine style by Peterson, but we use … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Pickup Artists are psychopathic.We don't have a GLO for critical thinking. Time we built one. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 23 | I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly?You vetted poorly, started playing LTR game with plate material like a dumb fuck. sweet innocent christian girl, i took her virginity and she was not only submissive but respectful and full of confidence. Congrats, you got duped by a "good girl" type. You didn't take her virginity (given her confidence level.) Looks like you've handled it okay. I mean dumping her on the spot is kinda the obvious bit. Though personally I would have walked over to the table, said hi to her and introduced myself to… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here with experience dating a girl with herpes?This is not the place for your emotional outbursts. Women can receive help for sexual strategy on the RedPillWomen sub. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to create a spark of interest...There are VERY few girls who actually seem enthusiastic about me You have low SMV. Go figure out why it's low and fix it. Typical questions: Are you short? Low muscle? Poor posture? No fashion sense? Unfitting clothes? Shy? Stutter? No eye contact? My ex gave me a comment once, she said that a lot of people think I'm a "Player" and a lot of people judge me saying things like "He doesn't seem like the type of person you could have a deep meaningful conversation with." She said that girls are awar… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 22 | Anyone here with experience dating a girl with herpes?How low is your SMV that you have to settle for an LTR with a chick who has the herp? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:43 PM |
| 15 | Always save your text conversations, record conversationsSidenote: Not only should you avoid putting your dick in crazy, you should also stay away from crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 04:36 PM |
| 4 | im confused. if plates are just holes to fuck, why do so many people here next one for sleeping with other people?Because there are dimwits here who do not use terminology correctly and use plate spinning language to describe serial monogamy. The two are not the same and have different levels of investment and any long term Red Piller will tell you that LTR and plate spinning are two wildly different games that you should play in very different ways. In short: these guys have not really swallowed the pill or understood the material. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 04:34 PM |
| 17 | Met an Asian girl who’s LTR material, or is she? Need some help to decide.When I first met her, she still had a fiancé she was engaged to for 7 years. I met her at a club (she slapped my ass to get my attention) and she fucked me on the first night. LTR material? How is this even a question??? Have you got mental problems or are you just a troll? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 10:46 PM |
| 10 | Girls are sluts and I absolutely hate itThis. The difficulty will then come about when you're trying to filter for bitches who have had the epiphany to settle down after taking it every which way. 'cos those bitches will "save the best" and you'll get to marry the whore who fucks like a prude. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How to Monk ModeYou have personally performed wanking studies.... I have no words. This is almost up there with the time some guy was on here talking about scientific studies trying to turn straight men gay so he wouldn't have to deal with women anymore. Almost. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | "you are very lucky"What is this desperate faggotry? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How to Monk Mode> I'm a Registered Nurse and have done countless studies, Whut?.... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 4 | You CAN get frame back after you've lost itYou're not really getting frame back here. It's more that she's reevaluating because she's a useless fuck up. This won't happen with girls who are more sure of themselves or with girls who have solid options. It's useful knowledge for you.... though stop saying "please" to her. Seriously. Go look up my commanding101 post. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/18 01:07 AM |
| 6 | Earning Indicators of Interest (IOIs): A practical guide to getting sexual attention from women without saying a word.Solid pre-game advice here. Good work. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 07:49 PM |
| 9 | First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next nightI've said before that the actual equivalents between the genders here are her getting another man vs you getting in the gym. (Due to the ease which women can get sex. She can decide to go out and have sex in pretty much the same way you can decide to go out to the gym and work out.) So, now that you know she's already hit her gym, the question for you now is: how far behind do you plan to be? Once you've decided that. Head for the sidebar on the main sub. Shut the fuck up and just read. Absorb. … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Branch jumping, it happens fast.Women are far less subtle than they think they are. I recall a time... (shortly after I'd made it far enough down my journey to have a woman approach me for the first time)... that I went for a night out with my friend and his girlfriend came along too. I didn't pay it any mind, we had fun, chatted. Then the moment came that he popped to the gents and she was left alone with me. Immediately she begins questioning me about whether I'm single, what I'm thinking of doing with my life relationship-w… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 15 | Field report flirting with other girls in front of gf> I control her well Not Red Pill. That is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Forgiving, Men Are Shallowallegedly brutally attacked? Key is in the wording mate. Even some of the old school feminists got that one figured out. Gold diggin' whores. It amuses me that I'm barely even paraphrasing. It ain't rape until it's convenient for them. (Not that it actually is rape when that sort of thing comes into it.) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Lifting and RespectThen my first point still stands. Anyways, try not to get too hung up on size and muscle. You'll still die from one stab wound like anyone else. It doesn't actually provide any better defence if someone genuinely wants to truly harm you. Some self-defence stuff can, but ultimately more muscle is just an attractiveness thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Lifting and RespectFrom my experience, that could just be shyness... and scenario B works for some guys. The number of scrawny tall guys I've seen with attractive women despite dreadful posture and no muscle is almost offensive. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Women Are Forgiving, Men Are ShallowYou guys are talking past each other. He's Brazilian, maybe the subtleties of the English language are lost here. I'd certainly concede this. From the way he's replying to me, he seems to kinda get it, but I can't be sure because of the language. It certainly could be that I'm being a pedant with a ESL gent who certainly doesn't deserve it if that's the case. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 01:14 AM |
| 2 | 18 Red Flags When It Comes to Dating FemalesThis is an excellent post. I'd give you a point... but I checked your history. Seriously, get the fuck out of nofap. This isn't to take a stance on fapping. It's just the religious zealotry of those guys is not healthy. Do it if you feel you should, but don't rely on the nofap community. They ain't healthy either. Anyways, pointers on this post. She’s Passive-Aggressive This point was kind of a meh point. Passive-aggressiveness is inherently feminine and it's how women actually display any aggre… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 01:10 AM |
| 14 | Women Are Forgiving, Men Are Shallowwomen will forgive your fatness in other words, Trust me, they didn't forgive Weinstein his fatness just because he was wealthy and powerful. There's a million ways to fuck attractive women, if you're a man. Be my guest mate. I'm not interested in that. I want women to want to fuck me in that crazy lusting manner they do. I never want to go back to that getting to fuck an attractive woman... but she wasn't seriously after it. So yes, you being fat, or balding, or ugly can be forgiven and overloo… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 12:38 AM |
| 21 | The effects of monk mode for 2 months at age 38During monk mode you're typically cutting yourself off from the world for 1-3 months depending on your requirements. He's talking about picking up phone numbers. That can't reasonably happen in monk mode because you wouldn't be social enough for it to happen without something seriously random and crazy happening. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 12:34 AM |
| 9 | Lifting and RespectHow do you rule out any impact of height or game in this? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 12:29 AM |
| 66 | Women Are Forgiving, Men Are ShallowYou thank god??? for being born a shallow man??? What kind of pathetic pile of shit are you? Women are forgiving? What nonsense is this? Women are not remotely forgiving. They're not even deciding based upon what is relevant to the discussion of the topic. They're deciding based upon whether you're fuckable or not. You appear to have caught some of this stuff but jesus christ your choice of language to convey your points is bloody awful. But this piece of shite: Because women are forgiving. Is c… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/18 12:27 AM |
| 38 | Women and Their Animalsshe will fuck you here and there, She does not fuck you. You fuck her. That is the way of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 02:35 AM |
| 5 | TRP Lessons/observations from my best friends sisterthe HB scale is considered objective. If you are stating personal 8s as HB8s who to most other men are considered 6s, then you are using the HB scale incorrectly. This is the essence of "there are no HB10s" because no large scale of men will consider one woman a 10. However, at worst a 10 will be considered an HB8. At least according to Heartiste. Point being, separating the individual perception of a woman from their personal perception. This is important for note sharing amongst men. How do we… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Long term field report which even boggled my mind...oh wait, not really.She’s never cheated on me; That I know of. FTFY. Never forget that the polls in the 90s set the number of men raising a child who wasn't theirs at roughly 1 in 3. Based on what you've said, you seem like you'd be a prime candidate to be part of that one third in the past. Or at least that is what she might have been planning. Hypergamy is so reactive it's kinda pathetic to watch. Side chick may or may not make a difference. It's probably more of a psychological effect of giving you the differenc… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 01:36 AM |
| 0 | TRP Lessons/observations from my best friends sisterPerhaps you missed the flair kiddo. Objectively there are no 10s due to subjectivity. Hence my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 01:19 AM |
| 2 | When did you become a Man?I'm going to go on a rampage. I love it when you talk dirty. Separately to that. This kid probably needs a month off of TRP. A bit of time in monk mode to come to terms with the fact he needs to live his own life and while other men out there will have ideas and input (and there is no harm in listening to other men), ultimately there is nobody other than yourself who makes that final decision. One of the issues that AskTRP has had in the past is the knobs who try to poll the sub for the best way… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 01:05 AM |
| 4 | TRP Lessons/observations from my best friends sistermy best friends younger sister, HB10 Sounds like the kid's got a crush. There are no 10s. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 12:51 AM |
| 5 | I white-knighted and paid the price... Never be the white knight.+1 point for this clear insight into the social dynamics. I have no idea why you're not commenting here more often. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 09:24 PM |
| 37 | On Freedom of SpeechOn the upside the response is fucking hilarious. Excuse me while I go get my funny-walk-boots on. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | How I Manage My LTRThese beta cucks keep downvoting me. But remember, men like you keep upvoting me. Look at my meagre votes... do I speak lies or am I just saying something the betas hate? Me and my fellow TRP endorsed don't hate you for being beta. We pity you and I know that sounds awful. But we don't want you to be beta. We wish you become men too. Let me issue my greatest call to my own downfall. Become alpha. Challenge me. Bring it on. Come one and all. You are all worthy if you think and believe in yourselv… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Taking your text game to the next levelis there an emotion being conveyed by the message? That's the only question you need ask yourself. Then you will see how this fits precisely with what Rollo says. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Taking your text game to the next levelSee the difference? That :P emoji is by far my favorite. It conveys that I am teasing. Leave those out when you are teasing and you're opening yourself up for problems. There's a thing on text game that it is devoid of emotion. Women feed upon emotion... so much so that the medium is the message for them rather than the substance of the words. I believe it is sometimes accidentally ignored by some guys on here that the stupid smiley faces and nonsense like that (while complete bullshit to the no… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 01:11 AM |
| 7 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowBecause no matter what your end goal is as far as female relations (spinning plates or having an LTR), giving women orders is a necessary precondition to achieving any of those. My precise thought a little over an hour ago. My entire commanding 101 game piece was based around this reality. I'm very surprised you never weighed in on that piece given your position. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 01:03 AM |
| 12 | Seeing Girls at a Long(ish) Distance StrategyThis. There's nothing to gain from LDRs in my opinion. They're purest feminine imperative. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 12:47 AM |
| 18 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowWhen porn doesn't do it for them anymore... they've got to do something while they're masturbating. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 11:37 PM |
| 9 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowAnd that's this idea that you can't tell her what to do, ever. Absolutely. Leadership is key and leadership requires both making decisions, doing things yourself and giving orders. Whisper says her obedience should be normal, I'd like to add that you giving orders and instructions to her should be normal behaviour. This also applies to guys spinning plates. The dynamic is key. It'll save you so much hassle in the long term. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 11:36 PM |
| 15 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowHonestly... the state of this place. Who are the numpties downvoting a link to a podcast? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How I Manage My LTRSo spending time with a plate is not wasting time but time with a LTR is wasting time if she is cheating? You don't tend to spend much time with plates. Or at least I never really have. Sex is the goal for dealing with a plate. Sex isn't the goal of an LTR. This doesn’t make sense to me. You are doing things with your LTR that you don’t like? No... you're really confusing me now man. Bonding with someone takes time. You're not trying to bond with a plate, so you don't need to invest that time wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How I Manage My LTRDrop a message to the mods about this including the specific info you've gathered. If he needs something more drastic doing then they'll sort it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:09 PM |
| 3 | How I Manage My LTRCurious to know your thinking behind this. Women primarily communicate through subtext. The medium is the message. Throw in the way trickle truth works and I suspect they'd leave some kind of tell. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How I Manage My LTRSo you were either wasting your time from day one, since the vetting process failed and you could’ve been plating her and fucking other chicks too instead of LTRing her, or you never wasted any time at all. That is the risk of the LTR. The opportunity cost if you will. If you do not wish to take that risk then just spin plates. Pointing out this risk to someone who is aware of it is a non-point. Every aspect of life is an opportunity cost and attempting to never take any risks is a feminine appr… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 05:28 PM |
| 5 | How I Manage My LTRI’m not really arguing with you but emotionally invested? What is that? I wouldn't know, I never used that phrase. Time, effort and bonding were what I referred to. Imo, it’s foolish to think you are investing in a relationship. There’s no guaranteed returns, she could fuck Chad tomorrow. You could buy shares in a company and it could go bust tomorrow... doesn't mean buying is no longer investing. Arguing semantics isn't going to improve your knowledge or position though. Not trusting a woman ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How I Manage My LTRWhat a sad existence. Thanks for hunting down the info and adding some truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 05:02 PM |
| 3 | How I Manage My LTRHow are you investing in a LTR? Time, effort, bonding etc. Generally the money should be like on a "date" with any chick. (It should either be 50/50 or more from her.) I like LTRs so I’m not shitting on them but women are unreliable. You don’t invest in women. Well don't have an LTR then. I'm just giving the reality of what people are in for. There's a separate reason we don't oppose LTRs, but we don't advocate them either. We advocate spinning plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 04:48 PM |
| 12 | How I Manage My LTRif we make the assumption she’s going to lie and cheat on you at some point and you can never truly trust her Not quite. AWALT says all women are capable of this. Given the right circumstances they will cheat and will lie to protect their reputation/resources etc. She can vs she will is a very important distinction here with a number of variables involved, such as your own SMV, other men in her sphere, your own management of the relationship etc etc. then what benefit is there to knowing sooner … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 04:18 PM |
| 15 | How I Manage My LTRNever before have I seen someone so ardently against LTRs. Literally like 9 out of your last 10 comments has been about you telling everyone never to LTR any bitch. It's actually a little odd. Anyways, the official position of TRP would be that we're not opposed to LTRs. First and only suggestion from us is to spin plates, but we have no interest in controlling your life, so if you want to LTR, we can kinda help with that. There is material on the AskTRP sidebar for LTRs as a for-instance. Addit… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 02:08 PM |
| 6 | How I Manage My LTRMost of the sub does not understand LTRs. They are stuck in the blue pill fantasy of an LTR which cannot happen, where they find a unicorn who requires no effort to monitor, mould or lead, all you have to do is "be da alpha bruh!" and she will follow you forever and ever with purest of heart. The Red Pill still has much to do. The battle never ends and neither does September. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 01:06 PM |
| -6 | How I Manage My LTROnly trust. Trust is absolute or it isn't at all. If you can't trust someone, what's the point? Observe this perfect example of precisely what Uncle Vasiliy points out regularly. The desperation to cling to blue pill dreams and hoping to use red pill methods to achieve them. It doesn't work like that. You don't get to impose your ideas on reality. You must adapt to reality. The idea that trust is absolute requires a complete dismissal of AWALT or an avoidance of LTRs completely. You would do bet… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 01:03 PM |
| 19 | How I Manage My LTRYou have just committed the cardinal sin on this sub. You compared men and women as if they are remotely comparable. Men and women are very different both biologically and psychologically. They have different sexual strategies, different goals in relationships and different strengths and weaknesses. The idea of measuring these two different types who play very different games as if they're on equal footing is beyond absurd. Go to the back of the class. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 12:41 PM |
| 5 | How I Manage My LTRI was about to do the same. Slowly but surely we're starting to get some good LTR posts around here. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 12:03 PM |
| 53 | How I Manage My LTRThe fuck is wrong with you and everyone who upvoted you? Women lie. There is no surefire way to ensure she does not tell you lies. Blind trust is for fools who are unaware of awalt. Trust but verify has been a mantra on here for LTRs since the start. All of you who agreed with this are a very long way from Red Pill. TRP is always about embracing reality, no matter how unpleasant that reality may be. Go re-read Rational Male on this topic of women who appear to be good. Your trusting nature will … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 11:43 AM |
| 19 | Rule Reminder: Why keeping RP to yourself will save you trouble.I was once at a group thing chatting with a couple of guys about dating and the behaviour of women. Casual chat, dropping some RP truth because why not, I'm the god damned Nightwing. Just some simple stuff about the attraction process, women's behaviour in dating and relationships. Anyways, they started pushing back against some of it and saying "that's not true, doesn't work like that, women aren't all like that" etc etc. A quick poll sorted things out. "Raise your hand if you have a girlfriend… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | PSA - what is a plate ?Most of these guys can’t tell plate from oneitis. Agreed. But this does not mean my point is invalid. This is the reason I commented on your post. This reality is needed now more than ever as I've spent the past year (probably more) trying to tell these imbeciles that there's a red pill difference between a plate and an LTR, why there is a difference and how to tell if you're ready to play LTR game. (Hint, they're not.) I have been very much alone in this mission. That said, I was against Jordan… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | PSA - what is a plate ?Let me rephrase this in a way that may be helpful to you. If you have multiple dogs but you are training one for a specific task, you would care less about what happens to the dog who is not being trained. You'd probably pick up another to replace it if something happened? Though you'd probably go searching for a replacement dog while my attitude is to pick one up while doing other things. In this case, dogs are women. But let's not be too on the nose about this. They might smell it otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 03:45 AM |
| 0 | PSA - what is a plate ?Because it implies my point did not include/grasp/remember that distinction. Therefore, if I assume you've understood my point, it leaves 2 possible positions. I'm guessing from this, that you didn't believe in what I was driving at? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 03:30 AM |
| 0 | PSA - what is a plate ?So are you suggesting your own post was wrong? Or are you suggesting it's impossible to reconcile my point? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Academy Award for best double standard: Girlfriend wants open relationship. Boyfriend hesitantly agrees. Girlfriend goes apeshit when he starts seeing someone else.No! Amusing opening... no clear indication of what I stated that was wrong? Usually this would mean you assume everything I wrote is wrong... which is nonsense. In an LTR a man is not supposed to cater to a woman. Managing a woman is not the same as catering to her. You have much to read so I would suggest you reduce your emotion levels quickly. Does your woman cater to you and fear losing you? She's spent £100s on me recently and is well aware she will be much worse off without me. But that's n… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 01:23 AM |
| 0 | PSA - what is a plate ?A plate is held. And cared for. And attention is paid to it. Only if you're training for an LTR. Otherwise what does it matter? As you say, pick up another. They're in the restaurant next to the food imho. But hey, attitudes man. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Academy Award for best double standard: Girlfriend wants open relationship. Boyfriend hesitantly agrees. Girlfriend goes apeshit when he starts seeing someone else.You appear to have missed the point. Your goal in plate spinning is to get sex. This is relatively simple. Your goal in an LTR is to have a successful LTR... if you dump her then you've failed in that goal. You can break a plate while continuing to spin plates successfully. He's talking about an LTR here, do you grasp how your plate spinning logic doesn't fit in this scenario? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameLook up my TRP Field toolkit. It's covers all basic game, provides explanations and examples. If you can internalise it then you'll be ready to deal with 99% of the nonsense you encounter in the field. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 04:32 PM |
| 8 | How do I f-close this meet up?Near her dorm = down to fuck. She essentially wants to head back to her room asap. If you don't trip up when entering her room and fall into her gaping vagina then I will be ashamed of you. Any other game advice will be found on this sidebar in my TRP Field Toolkit series. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a polarizing person?Anything else is stupid. Just hanging out with specific friends more solves this one. The human mind can't actually maintain over 100 people in memory. So whenever you see someone with over 100 facebook friends/linkedin with over 100 connections (like me) you will know they don't give a shit about them. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Incorporating kindness without niceguyism?Try thinking of kindness in the relevance of IDGAF... if you can string those together you'll be fine. If you look at my response with a furrowed brow then you're not ready and "kindness" is not the thing for a recovering "niceguy" to be looking at. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Another dude texting me...Impossible to read this one. You done any research into the guy to see what sort of person he is. Guys act both decently and subversively. This is obviously beta behaviour on his count... but just how beta is he? Though let's take a step back for a minute from your question to get to where my real advice is... why the fuck do you give a shit about this ONE chick who you haven't even been speaking to? Is she worth getting stabbed by some crazy over-protective beta? Plenty more women out there. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Inexperienced (possibly virgin) prospect. How to proceed?Or she's BPD... | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 01:31 AM |
| 7 | Male Feminists (and then some)Douglas Murray suggests in his book The Strange Death of Europe, that we in the west have lost our sense of drive, of being ever since we became atheists. Religion previously provided some drive and meaning to life. If the suggestion is that we look for that meaning in a form of religion then it is no wonder the Social Justice Religion has taken over. If memory serves, u/IllimitableMan wrote thoughts around the importance of religion for cohesive society and sexual strategy in previous centuries… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 12:52 AM |
| 32 | Being controlling doesn't workThink of how your acting in third person perspective. First things first. Go away and learn the difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit. At the moment you are the latter. A quick distinction needs to be made here. Ordering your bitch around is not the same as being controlling. When a chick talks about being controlling, what she means is that a weak man is attempting to give her orders or guidance. She sees this as being controlled because she does not respect the man. Exac… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 12:37 AM |
| 4 | There's a lot of negativity about the culture war that feminism has been winning, but it IS coming around to bite them:Bill Maher seems to be catching on to the feminist trend towards eliminating nuance, public execution, and zero tolerance towards men who approach them... Maher demonstrates the purest of blue pill realities in this. He uses the love actually thing of a guy chasing the girl and never giving up etc and how women want this from men... just only the men they're attracted to... he then points out a feeling which I am sure will be familiar to every man here - that we as men could not work out for our… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameI point to the RSD losers as example of game working regardless. One of their popular ones looks like a troll and gets laid with some decent women and other fatties... but he's still getting laid. The reason I know game works so well is I accidentally gamed a personal 10 who I thought I had no chance with in my blue pill days. As you can imagine that all went to shit eventually but the point was that despite the poor body, poor posture etc, confidence, attitude and accidentally running all the r… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 01:22 PM |
| 11 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gamewhich is often pretty high. The fuck have you been reading? Incels? The bar has never been lower with how pathetic the 80% is! Being social, funny, having game got me very little from women. Your game sucked. Maybe it does still suck and your body improvement sorted you out and chicks think you're the hot retard. Or maybe you were massively overweight and trying to pass that off as not having a problem with your body. Fuck knows. All I know is, the bar for initiating has never been lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 11:05 AM |
| 21 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameThe SMV criteria is as follows: Facial Aesthetics Body (includes height and dick) Game Money Status 1 and 2 get you in the door, and without game, your money and status will be manipulated from you as a beta bucks because you simply dont know any better. A man that is a complete broke drunk who says everything socially unacceptable but still has top tier looks and cock can still be considered a 10/10 (Chad), whereas a man who only possess game, status, and/or money cannot be a 10 by default for … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 11:36 PM |
| 99 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameA brief education. You should work on everything. Status trumps all, but there is no reason to avoid work on any particular area. Your looks, status, indicators of wealth and fashion sense provides your initial SMV that a woman will interpret. (Hence why when it is laughably low, she has no idea why you'd approach her.) Game allows you to alter her perception of your SMV relative to her own. You need to be above hers but not too far above or she will disqualify herself as a social precaution. Ma… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Always Have A Back Up CountryIs there anyone here who can confirm the situation in New Zealand? We can dismiss Singapore since they're a dictatorship complete with blasphemy laws. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | But i just said Good Morning?Bitch shield. Ignore. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Gaming while Conceal & Carrying"Is that a gun in your pants?" "Nah, it's a flashlight." | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 03:51 PM |
| 11 | I thought I was ready... nopeSolid piece of nuance. The reality is that women will still use betas while fucking their alpha. Just because you're the alpha this time doesn't mean she won't stop using the betas and laughing at them behind their back. You'll probably get to hear about it and you'll think to yourself "what a horrible human being." It is what it is though. If you're a good leader then you can train her out of this bad behaviour... but you'll never know for certain because a disobedient bitch doing shit behind y… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/18 02:00 PM |
| 24 | On unplugging all the way: You need to chew before swallowing.Such is the inherent problem with trying to train leaders. In order to learn to become a leader they must follow. However their leader can't tell them to stop following in this environment. Some get stuck following forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | I always get laid on the first date but struggle to keep girls aroundNo, just too much attention to her for free. Nothing complicated. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 12:21 PM |
| 0 | I always get laid on the first date but struggle to keep girls aroundInitial thoughts, you're trying too hard and coming off beta once a girl knows you. The cock carousel is providing a tastier looking cock to her (it's Tinder man, women stop responding because they've found someone more attractive to focus on... and that's pretty easy, it's why men with bad photos don't stand a chance.) Or there are some issues in the bedroom which are leaving her thinking "I don't want to experience that again." - Read Sex God Method to fix that one. It's easy enough to acquire… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Been very red pill with gf, but she isn't lusting over me like she used to or like I lust over her?Best thing for an LTR is to ensure you are that woman's apex alpha. I think there is a discussion to be had around whether it is essential or not. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Been very red pill with gf, but she isn't lusting over me like she used to or like I lust over her?The commanding 101 piece I put together is the basis of all moulding that goes on within LTRs. The higher your SMV, the easier it is because she'll be working to try and please you. Typical double standards I'd advise are things like you can flirt with other women, she cannot flirt with other men. She cannot spend alone time with male friends, you can spend alone time with female friends. You can come home as late as you like, she should be home by a set time. I don't advise this one, but... you… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 06:23 PM |
| 59 | Been very red pill with gf, but she isn't lusting over me like she used to or like I lust over her?Been very red pill with gf Does not compute with I have spoken to her about this slow decline in lust. This is blue pill as fuck. Actions. Not words. Actions. Now then, let's get a couple of things you're going to find insulting out the way first. You are still blue pill. You have attempted to use red pill principles to achieve blue pill dreams whether consciously or otherwise. You are therefore an idiot and need to accept that you've been an idiot. Which leads me onto my next point that you hav… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing this right or am I just being a dick?As a general rule, the best way to cut a chick off is once you have chosen to cut them off, just go completely silent and ignore them. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Am I doing this right or am I just being a dick?This is pure straight talk. Go read the stuff on powertalk and womanese/"the medium is the message" by Rollo in particular. That'll teach you to flirt better. Specifically that one was way too forward for a flirt where you got nothing back. Be more subtle. (You clearly don't have high enough SMV for the opening "want sum fuk?" style of flirting... if it can really be called flirting.) Then you just became a salty beta loser who she successfully filtered out. Cut her and go after other girls. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.None of that is inconvenient at all. Makes total sense. Must have been planned. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.I hope he's been preparing his ass for this impending rape. Where's the "doesn't matter, had sex" brigade when you need them to give a bit of optimism back to the situation? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 12:08 AM |
| 16 | Made this comment on an Aziz Ansari thread in 2X! You’ll never guess what happened next! Oh yeah the thread didn’t go their way so they ended up removing it instead of simply locking it.Think about how many stories you’ve heard about the persistent guy who lands the great girl. I see the bloopers are out today. Persistently chasing the same girl is not the same as repeating an escalation. (Aziz did not escalate, he asked permission... repeatedly. It is a beta tell.) If you are returning to a girl who has already rejected you (not her approaching you) then you are displaying scarcity mentality, not persistence. This is why women are creeped out by it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The Slaughter Of The German GirlsI'd like to emphasize, that I am not one of those people who try to shut their eyes and ignore what is happening. Don't worry, I'm under no illusions on that. I think I'm just erring on the side of greater caution... probably because of the list of cities in Britain with muslim rape gang problems is more than I can count on one hand so if it is going on, I wouldn't be surprised to discover I didn't know about it and had no way to know. We got our own problems to solve right now Tell me about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 12:36 PM |
| 7 | The Slaughter Of The German GirlsThis is a save place, wherever you go. Except the train station on new years eve? Follow my logic for a second: the media covered that one up. Except it was just so big that about a week or so later it all came out. How can you know such a large area such as a city is safe, given that the news which informs you of the bad things happening will withhold the information of any bad things that happen? Secondly, to your own personal experience, I assume you're a pretty financially successful guy. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Asked LTR to do help with a chore. She said she would, then didn't. She doesn't even think it's a problem she flaked on it. How should I adjust my expectations of a woman's word?This is all true. In general you'll find the typical woman is terrible at making decisions. Hell, it became stereotype in the woman who can't decide what to wear. This ambivalence and uncertainty about what the right decision is makes women easier to lead. If she questions your decisions after not making one herself, then it's either a shit test or open rebellion, depending on the situation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Asked LTR to do help with a chore. She said she would, then didn't. She doesn't even think it's a problem she flaked on it. How should I adjust my expectations of a woman's word?A woman's word is as valuable as you allow it to be. You should be the one dictating the terms of the relationship dynamic and from this it reads like those are some seriously loose terms if she can just do as she pleases and doesn't even have to inform you. Let's get one thing straight before we get into the meat of what I'm telling you. LTRs and plate spinning are very different beasts. Have you spun multiple plates concurrently for at least a year? Have you maintained at least one of those pl… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 11:29 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with a hardcore shit tester ?The fact you're even asking this question is a monument to how much of a beta you still are. What kind of man with options, stays anywhere near such a disrespectful harpy? If she is aware you don't speak with your ex, then these aren't shit tests, they are open insults. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Rsd says that i’m already enoughOkay, I'll fuck the 8s and 9s, you fuck the 4s and 3s. That makes sense for me. You are never enough. You will never be enough. Hypergamy decrees this to 99% of men. Every chick you bang or date would leave you in a heartbeat if Brad Pitt walked up to her and asked her if she'd like go for a ride on his dick. The "I'm the prize" and "I don't require her approval" bit comes from genuinely being the shit (it should not come from lies or you will never truly become a RP man) and seeing just how wor… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Rsd says that i’m already enoughHave you seen the low quality women some of those guys get with? Yes, you are enough if you want 4s. The only reason for this bullshit is laziness. Lazinee by them and laziness by the people who believe it. Status trumps all but that doesn't mean you don't learn game. Game is enough to outdo your poor starting-point SMV physique-wise, but that's not a reason to avoid lifting. Do it all you lazy fucker. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 03:55 PM |
| 41 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.Single moms don't get to be promoted past plate status, period. Guys on here are too eager to promote plates. It is a very serious problem when you read some of the brainless stuff on AskTRP. 99% of the "girlfriend" problems are because they have promoted non-girlfriend/partner material beyond its natural place as a plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 10:01 PM |
| 0 | What Traits Should You Look For In a Potential Girlfriend?I ask you to look at this as objectively as you can. There's not a lot of this on TRP for LTR material. I've got a few notes on this piece which I will share. First up: I'm not condemning any lifestyle or any person. If that was your interpretation, that's not my intention and was explicitly addressed in the post. If you do not respond to the points concretely made, I will not respond, because you are responding with feelz, not logic. Don't explain yourself to overly emotional little boys. They … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?It's definitely rare. Not unrealistic. You're intending to put your entire life essentially on the line here by starting an LTR with the intention of moving on to family life. You CANNOT compromise here. It will require going through a huge number of women to find one. (You must also not forget that many women will lie about their N count, so naturally various tactics to make her open up honestly are the way forward. You have no intention of judging her for having a high N count, you just won't … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend Cheated, best stuff to read to get though it?You have to learn game like a motherfucker. Plate a good number of women to gain experience (if you pretend you've got experience after 2 women then you should shoot yourself) there is no set number but you will notice your ability to manage plates improves over time. If you can string a plate along for over 6 months then you can evaluate whether you're ready to take on the challenge of an LTR. In addition, you'll need to learn more advanced game techniques to ensure you're constantly moulding t… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Potential LTR admitted she was raped after just turning 12The title alone gives my answer. She is not potential LTR. Doesn't matter if it's true or not. She's disqualified. Not even plate material. I don't even need to read your post. All those paragraphs are 6 paragraphs too many. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 11:23 PM |
| 6 | Girl reached outFirstly you need to decide if you're bothering with this dumb bitch. Personally, 2 flakes in a row would have been an instant hard next. If you've already got 1 or 2 plates then bitches who mess you about should tend to get hard nexted for pretty minor things. However I know if you currently have no plates or 1 who isn't settled yet then you might give this chick time of day. If your choice is the latter then I'd start off non-committal. This "sure" response is way too eager for a flakey bitch, … | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings?No, I just didn't grasp the nuance previously. As with most science and philosophy, there is an answer. Just because we don't have it yet doesn't mean it's not there or won't be in the future. I am yet to find something truly unexplained by TRP. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 01:25 PM |
| 7 | My female housemate and her Sugar DaddiesI thought TRP had settled the nuance of the morality issue? Now I find a senior endorsed I respected, confusing the amorality of the game and personal morality. There is nothing more feminine than this man. Half the reason some men end up on TRP is the level of mental gymnastics women perform to behave in ways that damage those around them. I sense you've been staring into the abyss too long and lost your perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/17 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Meet Jacq......the StripperYeah, but I think the point is that in going the route she's gone, she's damaged herself beyond repair. Think about the level of man she wants. Now think about the options that man has. She's become red pilled, but at a price that's similar to that endured by an alpha widow. She's unable to respect or bond with men... and the wall is coming up on her. Soon it will be time to settle down into a life of misery with one of those men she despises. Isn't feminism so great and liberating for women? Ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Former EC here. One of the mods banned me yesterday for writing a post that was #3 on the front page at the time (and also removed the post). I'm not here to whine. I just want to know what the hell is going on with that sub?and I'll expose your censorship Now you've convinced me that you were never endorsed. Only newbies and bloopers don't understand the mod policies and why they are the way they are. Go ahead. Go "expose" our mod team for saying they didn't think you were an endorsed contributor to TRP. | /r/AlreadyRed | 09/11/17 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Former EC here. One of the mods banned me yesterday for writing a post that was #3 on the front page at the time (and also removed the post). I'm not here to whine. I just want to know what the hell is going on with that sub?My guess would be whichever mod read this concluded it was "low quality." That's the only rule I can think of that would get it removed. Having read it myself now I think it's a bit... all over the place and full of vagaries which are borderline platitudes in places. Writing style will be to blame for that. We've got a number of things on shit tests and your point on that could have been delivered in the first paragraph. So it doesn't really matter too much. Try messaging the mods, I've always h… | /r/AlreadyRed | 09/11/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with other alphas?Frame. As a general rule, all of year one of Rational Male is gold and should be read along with most of year two. It's a separate thing that you should remain calm in all situations. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with other alphas?I held frame and just said “do what? What are you talking about” I think you need to go read up on frame, because the way you used that made no sense. Ignoring him is a solid move. Though typically if you find gym assholes, you should report any of their behaviour which breaks the etiquette to the peeps in charge of the gym and let them deal with it. (That's if it bothers you enough.) Ultimately, you're there to work out, you should have enough to concentrate on without any needless drama. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a girl that has a boyfriendWell I have been realizing this girl is actually girlfriend material. Uh huh? she has a boyfriend. She did not tell me she has a boyfriend but I know she does You do realise these two quotes do not mesh? You're a moron and this post conclusively demonstrates you are not ready for LTR game. Go spin some plates. Come back in a year or two to read about LTR game. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 03:46 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with other alphas?As an equal would when fitting themselves into a professional hierarchy. I've written an old piece on this ages ago. (Most of the sub is incapable of this.) Search my submissions history for the piece on roles, respect and responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | She's the problem? Seeing Blue through Red Tinted GlassesIt always comes back to you. If she is the problem, it's because you didn't vet and select properly for the optimal chance of a successful relationship. You accepted shit behaviour. You accepted being treated like shit. You accepted being manipulated. You accepted being her personal piggy bank. You have bitched and moaned about it and silently resented it in your head... but ultimately... you chose to accept that state of affairs and allowed it to play out. You have the power. When you find your… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 03:28 PM |
| 10 | You didn't really read the sidebar....Comprehension of the sidebar in order to get your dick wet is pretty minimal. Level of comprehension required to gain an endorsed tag is significantly higher. Level of comprehension required to enjoy reading and learning the things that would get you the knowledge and understanding required to get an endorsed tag is similar. The reality is that the former is far far lower than the other two. The real test of a man is what does he do once he's had some hot chick drain his dick and he's got a bit … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 02:35 PM |
| 17 | ATTENTION: Visitors from CNNHahaha! They gave man some basic tools and to the surprise of the establishment, man began to evolve using these tools to better himself. Now they have to convince us to put them down... nah. We're good. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/17 10:52 PM |
| 3 | LTR Trickle Truthed me about cheatingIs dump the only option here? Yes, regardless of what you do it looks like she's set herself up to go sleep with another guy this weekend. Time for you to go sleep with another girl. Unless you can't... in which case you now have the explanation why she wants to go sleep with another guy instead of you. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 04:06 PM |
| 5 | How trusting my emotions to my GF teached me a valuable Red Pill lessonIt cannot be overstated the difference. Spinning plates is like visiting an orphanage to play with one of the kids there. Starting an LTR is like adopting that child. You've then just accepted all the associated responsibilities that go along with that adoption... not just the playtime. It is that kind of day and night difference. You must lead her. You must balance your passing of shit tests with your passing of comfort tests. You must provide direction for the relationship. You must assist her… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 09:39 AM |
| 4 | How trusting my emotions to my GF teached me a valuable Red Pill lessonCan we have a public service announcement on LTRs please? Don't fucking start an LTR if you have only spun plates and not learned AND internalised LTR game. They are vastly different and the number of guys on here who LTR plate material is astonishing. It really needs to change. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 11:52 PM |
| 26 | Whats the proper way to deflect LTR re-telling stories about Ex/FWB etc..The more pertinent question is why have you LTR'd a chick with such a massive red flag flying from the top of her head? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?Then that's good. Get the ego in line, read more widely and behave more cooperatively with your fellow man on here. (My post history contains a piece on how alphas successfully interact which I reposted a few months back so it'll be towards the top of my submitted stuff.) You'll do well if you can do those things. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Found my GF's porn historyIt has been well established how "racist" women are when it comes to dating. We have had periods of whiny posting from various ethnic backgrounds complaining how they have it harder. This is no different to being considered less attractive because you're shorter. You were born that way and women discriminate on things you can't control. Deal with it. Don't whine "racism." We're dealing with the facts here no matter how unpleasant or un-PC they may be. You use them or don't use them as you see fi… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?They can do whatever they want, I can replace them at any time, but add long as I'm getting the pussy and no diseases, I really don't give a damn what she does when I'm not there. Hell I share them with sone of my friends. So what do you mean "TRP cant endorse that" LOL man. There are levels of stupidity. Then there are levels of unjustified arrogance. Then there is you. First point, you obviously missed the sidebar material on showing respect to ECs. People like you are why many ECs leave. Seco… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?I would never accept her cheating on me. I'd drop her in the blink of an eye and go back to cold approaches, tinder, and bumble. This is the correct attitude. I strongly advise you to go read this. It will answer your following point: but i fuck her reeeeaaaallll good, so i just gotta hope she doesn't wanna lose a sexy guy with a nice body who treats her well and has balanced a perfect amount of danger and rebellion and push/pull just for some dick that might not even be that good. Anyways, it's… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?but for whatever reason the thought pops in my head, i can't help it. The gut tends to be a good tool for guys. There's a reason so much of culture is trying to tell men "don't listen to your gut. Be more trusting. It doesn't matter if there's no evidence either way." I originally asked if there was a way to get the thought out, What do you mean by this? I'd have to know and accept being cheated on to be a cuck You have entertained a scenario in which you are being cheated on and have suggested … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 15 | Found my GF's porn historyIt's obviously time to leave at this point. You're also going to need to grieve a bit for your own fuck up... i.e. you failed the unicorn hunter test in finding an LTR who successfully pulled the wool over your eyes. I say this because white chicks (or in this case an indian chick who might aswell be white) into black dudes is basically broadcasting some serious underlying problems. In all the various things checking womens' interests in men, the races were rated consistently and black men are a… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Better question, if she cheats, does it matter?and i don't ever actually find out, does it matter? "If I'm a cuck and I don't actually know I'm a cuck, am I still a cuck?" That's essentially your question and it kinda answers itself. It's a simple matter of self-respect. The Red Pill will never endorse a position like that. Being able to cheat doesn't mean she will. But that's not really the point when you're running a successful LTR. There's a reason we do trust but verify on that and don't give a shit when it's a plate. (Though personally … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Why the rant flair should NOT be used for typical female behaviourThe redpill is all about being in the real. Everyones version of real and what they do with the knowledge is variable - but one thing we should all accept here is female behaviour. Naturalistic fallacy. Just because a woman is programmed to, more likely than not, behave in a shitty fashion does not excuse her shitty behaviour. Do not bring blue pill shit that excuses bad behaviour by women. If a dude needs to vent, then he can vent. No skin off my nose. Swallowing TRP is a process, some need to … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 03:05 PM |
| 12 | [FR] AWALT - freshly used condoms in her trashcanThe lack of an f-close was actually quite the twist. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:40 PM |
| 2 | I hate you?That's primarily for him. Figuring out if the hate is genuine is simple enough... but if he gets it wrong and she's a full blown can of crazy ready to explode... (Personally I would have used your second line.) | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | I hate you?No. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 03:44 PM |
| 4 | I hate you?But also be aware that this might be an emotionally unstable shaken up can of crazy... | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Can I have a good life at 5'8?" 5'8 is way too much short " One would assume this is over tinder. (That magical place where the 5ft nothing girl demands 6ft tall men.) The reality is you are distinctly average when it comes to height. (I think the average is about 5ft9 for men, it's 5ft6 for women. So you're still taller than the average woman.) I know, because I'm the same height. All it means is you don't get to play on easy mode. So suck it up and work on that basis. First thing to note, girl inches. Most women can't meas… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 12:51 PM |
| 5 | How to defuse this particular instance of "the talk"?At the very least you want to demote her for disrespect. Use the time to gather more options. It never really matters if a plate breaks or not. Ultimately you need to reestablish your authority on the leadership of this. It all happens on your terms or it doesn't happen at all, hence demote for the moment probably with a soft next. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 02:19 PM |
| 11 | How to defuse this particular instance of "the talk"?Essentially this is a nuclear comfort test. This is the sort of dumb scorched earth shit a brainless chick does. Look at the test in detail at its manipulative manner. "Give me commitment or I will take my sex elsewhere... here's another man who's up for it." It's solipsism at its finest. Because this is what a woman would respond to (essentially she's trying the female attempt at dread... which doesn't work on alpha men because they have options and know they're the prize... without realising t… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 01:53 PM |
| 4 | [FR] A (somehow) redpilled HB8?she's a singer or something related - insane SMV. I think you missed the class on how women's SMV is measured. No man gives a shit what job a woman does or what her status in society is. She was smart (or I was halo-ed). You were halo-ed. Every man suffers from it when he's knocked off balance. I've been there a couple of times. Was a little later I pulled myself together. What are your thoughts on the awareness and honesty she demonstrated? I think she's just another chick except this one has e… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness? (Not as simple as it appears...)Plus, women disobey and betray strong men all the fucking time. It's in a woman's nature to constantly seek the upgrade. Well fuckin' durr. Haha. Thanks for reminding me of hypergamy. I've never come across this concept before. Jeez man, you've given me a good laugh today. Thanks. We'll go over the iron rules of Tomassi later. In the meantime, let's amuse ourselves for a minute and assume that I've been an endorsed contributor here for years. I know, for someone who's never heard of the basic co… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 04:49 PM |
| 3 | You want to attract girls? Click here to learn the only thing you need to know.You obviously haven't read as many field reports as me. I am not talking about "world known" DJs or top professional singers. Hell, even Rollo sometimes refers back to his days in his 20s where his position in a shitty band netted him hot chicks regularly. It's a game phenomenon known as situational status. It's not something regularly available but when it is, you grab it because... status trumps all. If, in the face of an endorsed contributor here, quoting the experience of one of the founding… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Forgiveness? (Not as simple as it appears...)I told her if she slips up again like this, I'll dump her and leave permanently. Translation: I am a weak man with scarcity mentality who will tolerate the action that potentially means the offspring I raise won't be mine. If I catch you again I'll be upset but will probably let it pass. When you catch her hiding anything sexual with another man it's an automatic hard next. There's nothing to think about. There's nothing to mull over or decide. The rules are the rules, anything other than a hard… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 01:55 PM |
| 5 | You want to attract girls? Click here to learn the only thing you need to know.It has been long established on here what the hierarchy is. Status trumps all. Be as good looking as you like, if the chick has to pick between you and the DJ or you and the lead singer of the band on stage, she's off to fuck the guy on stage while you admire yourself in the mirror. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 11:34 PM |
| 31 | ATTENTION: Visitors from VICEThis was my personal favourite bit: Except, people on the left generally don't call rape survivors liars, or reckon they know better than the overwhelming majority of climate experts when it comes to whether or not climate change is real. Apparently we're climate change deniers. Not sure what that has to do with sexual strategy but ya know how it is... everything is about sex, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 02:39 PM |
| 140 | ATTENTION: Visitors from VICEShe misses the follow-on sentence: this is because the ideas hold up to real life scrutiny of what is independently observable. You can literally go out and test TRP ideas and get positive results. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants sex constantly, but doesn't take care of herself.I talk about going to the gym with her all the time but she shrugs it off. Do you talk about your feelings too? What the fuck are you "talking" about? You don't talk to her about it. You tell her to get her fat ass down the gym. but she just smacks me and says shut up. Oh wait. You allow total disrespect of yourself. You carry on porking fatties then. You get the level you deserve for your efforts. This is all correctly in line. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Got dumped after threesomeShe would usually suspect me of fucking around, blow up like a crazy person, I would ignore her and she would end up back in my bed days later. Sounds like your leadership and comfort provision is poor. knowing how to deal with her immaturity I would have cut her off by now. Ignoring isn't dealing with it. Amused mastery is the primary tool when it comes to immature/childish behaviour. In terms of feedback I want you to have a look at a few things you've done: I throw my hands up and hope for th… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Commanding 101Disobedience is either a shit test or it is a declaration that your SMV is too low. If it's a shit test then deal with it accordingly. If it is the declaration that your SMV is too low then trying to deal with it like a shit test will blow up in your face. Women don't follow weak/unattractive men. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Relationship-zoned, need adviceCurrently looking for a chick who can deepthroat. Talent is becoming more and more important in modern dating, don't you think? Follow this sort of line with some kino to make things more playful and less serious. If she persisted with this then I'd accuse her of being a boring buzzkill and laugh at her/tease her about it. "Here we are having fun and you're getting super serious about the future when you should be focusing on how you're going to stop me tickling you." "I barely know you and you'… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm 22 and get taken as 14/15 all the time. Anything I can do?Don't look like it in a shirt, Start shopping for clothes that fit properly then. tshirts should be tight around the chest and shoulders to show off the upper body. Dealing with baby face is a different issue. Have you tried growing a beard? Altering your hairstyle can also have a similar effect, you'll want to focus on something which you would NOT be able to sport at school. Use it as a peacock and it should distract. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with a more rational woman than usual. WTF is going on?Anyways, my brother hasn't had the best of luck with the Dread Game. Dread requires you to be desired. If she responds to his absence with indifference then it means she doesn't care about losing him. The very definition of dread is "dreading the loss." His SMV is in question. He needs to up it and fast. She's probably already out looking for a branch swing. to be completely honest, the scheduling mix up was his fault. His leadership is in question along with his SMV. This will be particularly t… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Relationship-zoned, need adviceI said I felt anxious and it doesn't feel right to have this be the end of it. Beta revelation of weakness and open demonstration of scarcity mentality. That's where you really fucked up and sent this from the LMR test that you failed into her viewing you as a non-sexual being. Remember, LMR is all about "I've got this feeling you're not quite alpha enough for me." It must NEVER be treated seriously. It's her stupid feelings which you don't have time for. You took her dumb shit seriously and it … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 12:00 PM |
| 3 | How To Develop God Tier Eye Contact | The real reason why you can't maintain strong eye contact with a woman.Enough bullshit, it’s time for people to really understand the truth about eye contact. Failure to hold eye contact is a deep-seated issue; it’s not a technical one. The reason people can’t maintain eye contact isn’t due to the fact that they don’t know how it’s because of the beliefs they hold that lead them to feel uncomfortable. More often than not, a failure to hold eye contact with a woman derives from an issue within. They say that the eyes are the ‘gates to the soul’, so when someone look… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 02:58 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend wants to start smoking cigsDepends how you wish to handle things. The fact she's even bringing up something she knows you dislike in your presence indicates lack of respect for you. Women don't shit test their men or challenge the man's leadership unless they think it is in question. (This is why, even in an LTR, you'll periodically receive shit tests when she wants to reassess where she's at.) Have you read the LTR guide on the sidebar? If you search my history you'll also find my supplemental guide on commands called Co… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 03:25 PM |
| 6 | The more attractive the young woman, the more she lacks common senseThere are more men who are even dumber. This is because men are the experimental sex, so we get a greater proportion of retards and a greater proportion of geniuses. I think the ratio is something like 320 to 1. So there'll be 320 male geniuses for every female genius. 320 male retards for every female retard. The reason for the confirmation bias is that TRP tends to attract men who are above average intelligence to genius level intelligence. For that group, the vast majority of women will appea… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Don't Hate Women For Being WomenYour opening statement is a naturalistic fallacy. (One which comes up here on TRP and needs to be discouraged.) When a cunt acts like a cunt you call her a cunt because she is a cunt. All women are predisposed to behave badly. It doesn't make it acceptable or (more importantly) tolerable. This naturalistic fallacy comes up from time to time on here from newbies. The problem is that the phrase itself is an extension of the blue pill programming to excuse women. Even here we still have men who exc… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Ask the Redpill side bar suggestion.....The sidebar already contains enough information on AskTRP to solve any such problem. The vast majority of questions on AskTRP do not need to be asked if you've truly understood the material. Which is basically the purpose of this, to help the guys who struggle after first reading to really digest the material. Such guys who haven't truly internalised abundance will need to be told to next a bitch. Others need to be told not to shit where they eat. The third category need to learn to walk away fr… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/17 07:45 PM |
| -6 | Jordan Peterson's 32 rules for being a man.I've seen a couple of his lectures. That is how I know he is a Jungian, because I studied Jung along with Freud and have dismissed them both as interesting but not robustly scientific enough (with additional problems regarding the unfalsifiable nature of some of their theories. I have no time for something so unscientific in the field of psychology.) If you had demonstrated some actual reading comprehension ability, you'd have noticed I did not write him off completely. So I will politely assume… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 09:28 PM |
| 6 | Jordan Peterson's 32 rules for being a man.Peterson is a Jungian and a religious man. His advice must be taken with a significant dose of salt because most rational people do not take Freud, Jung or religion too seriously. Don't get me wrong, I like the man. His stance on ethics, civil liberties and his knowledge and ability to explain marxism is admirable at the very least. But from a Red Pill perspective he is not particularly useful unless you are religious. In the bigger picture, he is an ally to the positive views of masculinity. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | The Utility of Beta MenI know that game is amoral, but we all have some aspects of morality and personal ethical codes, no matter if your a monogamous christian or a plate spinning poly person. The community first dealt seriously with the morality question about 1 and a half to 2 years ago. IllimitableMan did an excellent piece on morality for his blog. The long and the short of the discussion was that while game itself like most of nature and reality is amoral, it does not follow that you should act amoral. Women go … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 05:30 PM |
| 1 | The Utility of Beta MenThe question is, if you don't care, does it count? What about the situation where you don't give a shit cuz she was a plate anyway? If you don't care then it doesn't matter. Though it obviously begs the question, why do you consider a friendship you have to be a friendship if it has no value to you? It actually took me a moment to get my head around your second question because you're viewing this as the beta who lost out and she slept with the other guy. I've been viewing it as the guy who choo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 04:48 PM |
| 2 | UK paternity test.In the UK, you can take failure to pay to smaller courts and eventually get a Sheriff involved if it gets to the high court. They then have powers to demand payment in full and if they don't get that they then have powers to force entry and start seizing property to sell at auction to get the money. It just takes a long time and you need the money for the legal fees (however if you win, these will be added onto the payment owed by her.) I'd view this as a sort of long term investment. If the cas… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/17 02:08 PM |
| 13 | The Utility of Beta Menbro code. Since when does bro code apply to blokes you don't know? I always thought that only applied to your friends. Ya know, because mates don't go around fucking each other over - that's what betas tend to do. (They'll stab their friend in the back in their desperation for some pussy.) The way I read that, he has no obligation to some random stranger. However, if you wish to maintain a healthy male-male friendship, then why wouldn't you walk away from some chick? If the friendship is so wort… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/17 01:58 PM |
| 7 | BP father realizes college-aged daughter has slept with over 13 guys. Last straw before kicking her out? Finds her naked in bed with two other dudes.The OP in that thread is actually being rather feminine. He is looking to the feelings of the internet to make himself feel better about his actions. This is normally a feminine approach to problem solving. A man would use logic, make his case and once convinced of it, (and convincing anybody else/other stakeholders as needed) he'd then enact it. Confident that he was doing the right thing. The real confession here is "I have failed as a father. My daughter has no respect for me." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/17 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Dialogue is ImpossibleThis is one of the issues which has been rearing its ugly head more frequently of late. It is a naturalistic fallacy that comes from the blue pill programming. They give a woman a pass on her bad behaviour because they label it as natural. Then they proceed to declare anybody who has a problem with this to be in the anger phase. I've noted it many many times on here and my answer is always the same: when a cunt acts like a cunt you call her a cunt because she is a cunt. TRP is not the place for … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 04:59 PM |
| 8 | No single girlsThe only woman who is worth less than a woman who has the commitment of a beta, is the woman who can't secure the commitment of any man. i.e. the girl who is single. This is why branch swinging is so common rather than clean time between relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Enjoy the DeclineDepending on your semantics you can come to any conclusion. There's an interesting thesis on nihilism called Suicide Note. It's heavy reading, but having made my way through it I eventually rejected the ideas and concluded that man rises above the base realities of the world and creates things which are more than these. Using these "mores" as a greater justification and once you get into the creation and use of the abstract you will get to ideas similar to the idea that man creates out of nothin… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/17 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Enjoy the DeclineClearly somebody missed the most recent piece by RPS. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | The Story of My LTRI don't think she is a bad person in any way, Are you joking? When a cunt acts like a cunt, you call her a cunt. Take that pussy off the pedestal. Bitch is acting like a bitch. Now call her behaviour shitty and call her a bitch because that is what her behaviour denotes. I notice the naturalistic fallacy used a lot around here. Just because her behaviour is natural, doesn't make it either acceptable or "not bad." Don't fall into that apathetic trap. I'm considering leaving her almost daily. Then… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Even after being confronted this girl still tries to talk to meThere are a variety of potential scenarios going on here. Given that you haven't gone straight for the prize, I'm assuming the social situation is complicated in some manner beyond the boyfriend. (Who may be complication enough.) The IOIs she is giving are just hypergamy and her checking her options. Possibly because the current bf is failing some shit tests. Her telling you about him being angry etc etc is a little shit testy, a little branch swingy and also a little drama addition. She could s… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 11:47 AM |
| 4 | I Found A GlitchThere's still a relationship going on, it's just in her head. She's trying to give some kind of meaning to what was between the two of you so that she didn't literally just give you everything for nothing in return... because that's what a low value woman does. And she couldn't possibly be a low value woman, because these reasons and it meant something and has helped her to develop herself. It's genuinely hilarious to watch. Because I think to myself, I've never actually improved myself by stick… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad sign when the girl you're dating doesn't initiate dates, intimacy, etc?Not really. She'll initiate intimacy when she's around you if she's into you. But she'll look to you to lead when it comes to dates and such. She'll initiate contact in order to get you to do these things and make plans etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 01:32 PM |
| 5 | I Found A GlitchThe moment a woman demonstrates serious emotional instability is the moment she is hard nexted. Sex is never worth the risk of an emotionally unstable woman since they are unpredictable and have the state on their side. This FR is a demonstration of lacking true abundance mentality since he is apparently king of the party but instead chose to go the crazy/dangerous route instead of plating up a girl who didn't have a significant red flag above her head. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 01:17 PM |
| 7 | The Tale of Creepy NickThis is blue pill example, not a field report. It's not even a particularly useful example. Lurk more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Race and Help for Dark Meat Guys Gaming White GirlsYou should seek professional help for your mental health. None of that sounds remotely reasonable or sensible. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/17 08:09 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on Race and Help for Dark Meat Guys Gaming White GirlsThe political opinions of the ECs are actually quite diverse. We occasionally remind people that TRP is apolitical because your politics don't matter when it comes to seduction or being pro-masculinity (except with certain left wing philosophies going around at the moment involving social justice.) We have one or two alt-righters among the bunch, but for the most part I'd say there is a mix of tradcons, newcons, apathists and there are a couple of liberals too. I occasionally take issue when a c… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Race and Help for Dark Meat Guys Gaming White GirlsWould you say that this applies to all races or is there the usual east asian (chinese/japanese woman) exception? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 04:21 PM |
| 11 | Thoughts on Race and Help for Dark Meat Guys Gaming White GirlsThis is essentially it. The idea they're "their women" is collectivist garbage peddled by the alt-right and white nationalists etc. TRP's stance is, and always has been, they're not yours: it is just your turn. That said, race of previous partners is a useful indicator for LTR in terms of red flags. If she's not asian and she's race mixing, pretty big red flag. This is similar to the attitude I take to girls who have been or claim to be victims of rape. The specifics don't really matter, regardl… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 02:51 PM |
| 17 | Thoughts on Race and Help for Dark Meat Guys Gaming White GirlsThis is grossly under-upvoted. I guess straight truth hurts the most and all that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Game is used as an umbrella term but what does it mean? Can anyone tell me what it is vs what it isn't?Tl;DR=oversimplifying | /r/askTRP | 21/04/17 11:26 AM |
| 16 | Oral contraceptive changes preferences for male facial masculinityActually, if memory serves, it simply keeps her in one phase of her menstrual cycle. I remember there's a fair bit of research on this and the long and short of it is, whenever she's not ovulating she wants feminine features in a man. (Hence the tremendous success of so many men who look very girly. See the Justin Beibers of the world.) While when she does ovulate, she becomes particularly attracted to very masculine features, far more attracted than she is to the feminine men during that time. … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/17 01:20 PM |
| 23 | Game is used as an umbrella term but what does it mean? Can anyone tell me what it is vs what it isn't?Game is a shorthand for the "seduction game" or the "mating game." You play the game whether you like it or not (MGTOW's say they opt out, what they're actually doing is forfeiting.) Game is all the behavioural stuff that goes into the mating dance. So everything you are actively doing at the time of seducing a woman is your attempt to play the game... more specifically, YOUR game. This includes everything from attitude, beliefs, approach and style (inner game) through to your conversational ski… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 11:17 AM |
| 10 | Does it bother anyone else to find out that the girl who made you wait 3-5 dates to have sex has had one night stands in the past?She sees you as a beta. Congratulations on your discovery. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 11:07 AM |
| 57 | She acts like a child because she is happyI first observed this about a year and a half ago. After a while, I raised it a few times on TRP that I wondered "do all women eventually devolve into acting like children and doing really stupid childish shit?" and I cited that it'd happened for the past three women I'd been with. Speaking as of now, it's happened with all women but one. The one it didn't happen with was a complete pain in the arse to manage and only lasted as a plate for a couple of months. I imagine she may have been alpha wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Having Female Friends is More Important Than You ThinkThis is an april fools, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Announcing, The Long Overdue, Much Anticipated: **Red Pill Online-Dating Network!**Haha! Good effort! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I TheRedPill material?Passive aggressiveness is a feminine trait. Cut that shit out while you're here. You will also want to consult the sidebar rules if you wish to continue participating. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I TheRedPill material?I think your problem with women I do not have a problem. If you read my comment correctly, you would see that I offered an explanation for your observations. There is no personal commentary besides citing a phrase I like using for explanation purposes. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Am I TheRedPill material?There's a simple question to be asked here, can you hate an individual woman? If the answer to that is no, then you have the problem that pussy is on the pedestal. Part of the blue pill programming. Women are capable of great evil and those women who commit these evils should, rightly, be reviled. This is common sense. The blue pill conditioning demands that pussy is never to blame for anything evil. The second issue you need to cover is empathy. Can you feel the pain of another man? Those who c… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Some guys just can't keep the pill down. They spit it right back up. Because we're a cult! (didn't you know?)Opening nonsense: Aged 17 and a self-described “late bloomer virgin”, he was growing apprehensive about going to college when he stumbled across an online community that seemed to hold all the answers. “I believed in it so much,” the now 24-year-old tells me... Though João experienced two happy years with fellow Red Pillers, his opinions have now drastically changed. If memory serves, the TRP sub is only what... 4-5 years old? He joined this sub 7 years ago and stayed for 2 years. How fascinatin… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/17 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Commanding 101Then either raise your SMV or start asserting yourself more if it's irritating you. Frame it as you helping her out because she's useless at knowing what to do and doesn't do it without you telling her, you're sick of her whinging about it/being ungrateful and disrespectful for your help and you want her to stop complaining needlessly unless it's something which is a genuine bad. (If your orders are good, she now has no justification for this.) The downside to the heavy handed assertion of domin… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Commanding 101That sometimes turns into her saying "you're mean/rude, blah blah" That essentially means you've passed if she doesn't leave you immediately upon saying it. It's basically sarcasm. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 02:45 PM |
| 8 | Commanding 101I'd add that the hard part is that this is usually something you don't want to happen either. This is a problem from the depths of blue pill conditioning. There is ultimately one card in your hand that you must never give up and always be willing to play if things are far enough along that your game requires you to play it. That is walking away. Whether it be a chick you've just met or a 10 year relationship. That card is always in your hand and you must be prepared to play it. If you give up th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Commanding 101How I deal with it and how you would deal with it are two different questions. What you want to know is how you would deal with it because you are not me. I'd probably use a mocking A&A. Maybe you'd do better to ignore it. I don't know you or your personality or style of game. Look at all the game options available and play to your strengths. You'll find my take on shit tests along with comparable examples and reasoning in my TRP Field Toolkit guide part 3. It is in my submission history and on … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 02:26 PM |
| 9 | Commanding 101Disobedience is either a shit test or a declaration that your SMV is too low and she doesn't see you as a fuckable man. If you wish to insist upon it being her having no respect for you, then the question follows as to why you're wasting your time on a woman who doesn't see you as a fuckable man? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Commanding 101Do you believe that entering situations where women have more knowledge of the situation breaks this leading dynamic? This is likely to be very rare because women date up. So she is likely to know that she's dumber than you and knows less than you on the majority of things. However if she's got a job in something like medicine or pharmaceuticals and you're a lawyer or whatever, you'd be a shit leader if you weren't consulting her expertise in those areas. Think of it this way, when a commander h… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 10:28 AM |
| 8 | Commanding 101Treat it like the shit test it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 10:21 AM |
| 11 | Taking the red pill is hard. Feels like I've hated my own masculinity for as long as I can rememberThe hardest thing is going to be finding a new group of male friends. It is likely to take you months and the time inbetween may be a little lonely and demoralising. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterYou too. I notice you've been MIA... almost as badly as me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 10:46 PM |
| 16 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterBecause that's easier to disprove. When she says it about breakfast, you'd need to take her somewhere with CCTV but even then she can say she's faked her smile. With the text, they can check the telecoms info to see where she sent the text from. So if she says you intimidated her into it, they can read the text exchange and find out whether you were physically together. If you weren't and the text exchange reads as casual, then that's about as convincing as it gets that she's bullshitting. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 08:38 PM |
| 57 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterThere is no 100% foolproof way due to modern rape hysteria. However the text is by far and away the best we've got. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 06:41 PM |
| 187 | Take her out to breakfast the morning afterBreakfast won't save you. Waste of money. She'll just go how she was intimidated into doing what you told her to do. Or she reluctantly went along because she didn't want to anger you etc. The text message is the best thing to get. Something which gets her saying how she had fun etc because it's practically impossible to twist that type of evidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | i make emo music, should i change genres/subjects?Aim some of that emotional crap at a woman's perspective and get big in the music scene. Why do you think that fat talentless screeching bag Adele is so successful? It's just female fee fees. They love it. If you're currently fucking 3 different women then you can't be doing a whole lot wrong. High SMV men get held to a different standard to low SMV men. Remember that. Also, as a general rule in the creative arts, if you're not thinking your work is potentially cringey then you're putting no emo… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:53 PM |
| 2 | 99.9% Rejection Rate. HELP!Work on your style then. Ensure you have perfect body language of confidence. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Dread Game too strong?This one you don't. It'd be too heavy of a beta signal to comfort her over her jealousy. She has to prove herself positively to be worthy of an LTR, not just making enough noise/bitch and moan loud enough to annoy you into it. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:36 PM |
| 8 | Girl with a boyfriend (who I know) is giving me signsThis question still gets asked? You've literally laid it out there. You're currently wavering towards a single pussy being more important than your long term social status and all the associated interests that come from it. Do you now see how stupid that is? Take the pussy off the pedestal kiddo. There's millions of other women out there. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 01:33 PM |
| 78 | There Are No Hot Girls! (Or Maybe You're Looking But Not Seeing?)What the fuck has happened to this place? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Regarding the recent Cristiano Ronaldo postThe dude is a true professional and encapsulates everything RP. No he doesn't. Nobody who has wealth of that magnitude can because they're playing a completely different SMP game to the one you're playing. They are irrelevant in Red Pill discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 01:18 PM |
| 5 | There is no reason not to be a slut.Yeah. When I got his oh so witty response of "you mad you not black and got a small dick." The projection wasn't even worthy of a laugh. So looked at his post history and you're spot on. Though I do want to add a couple of points for those who are red pilled and want to know the correct stance on sluts. Sluts are good for emptying your balls. That's it. That's their only purpose. They are not a good thing nor are they necessary because it's possible to find decent women to empty your balls too. … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 01:35 PM |
| 5 | There is no reason not to be a slut.I said excusing. Not justifying. These are different words. Please learn English otherwise you'll have pointless conversations on here when you misrepresent someone's critique and thus give an irrelevant comeback/counter-argument. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 11:11 AM |
| 8 | So looks don't matter?The video actually demonstrates a couple of principles. The way the women can't tell it's actually him just because he's put on a hat and fleece is a demonstration of just how much style brings to the table and how important it is to have well fitted clothing. Don't skimp guys, get those off-the-rack things down to the tailors for adjustments. Ironically, the same video also demonstrates why looks don't matter if your game is solid or your status is high. When Ethan comes up you'll note that he … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 11:02 AM |
| 30 | There is no reason not to be a slut.Look everybody! It's the latest piece excusing women's bad behaviour masquerading as red pill thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/17 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Mid twenties single dad checking in. Just getting started.I'm not doing individual consultations. Try GayLubeOil to have a chat with and get some honest feedback on physique, posture and looks. If you're struggling with style, Christian McQueen is alright or you could check out some of the stuff from Antonio at Real Men Real Style. I've used the latter with great success. Use Google, put in the legwork and you'll be fine. Style isn't as hard as these guys make it seem. My feedback was primarily aimed at your attitude. (Attitude and game is where my exp… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 03:36 PM |
| 8 | Mid twenties single dad checking in. Just getting started.I don't have the kids this weekend and I would like to go out with the intention of getting laid. Seriously considering telling every women I see at the bar/casino "I'm looking to get laid tonight, should I sit down or move on?" That will work... but only under a specific set of circumstances. Your SMV has to be high in her eyes and she has to have no potential social downside. i.e. is her sluttiness going to be known by anyone other than you and her? Also, ask yourself seriously are you really … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 01:42 PM |
| 39 | Women beg to stop the "slow fade", however have no problem doing it themselvesThus watch what they do, not what they say. Words are merely tools to fulfil their emotional desires. Don't pretend that words for women are like words for men, where men use words to communicate ideas, thoughts, intentions and instructions. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/17 12:22 PM |
| 25 | Saw this little "open letter" a bunch of girls on my fb news feed have been sharing.Most of this describes child abuse and paedophilia. That's not the norm, nor does it prove sexism. It proves whoever wrote it and whoever identifies with it is a long way from normal. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Don't Just LiftA few questions to help improve your post. I can't just stand on a soap box and say that all disciplines are created equal. And all places that you can train at are going to yield positive results. Just like anything else in life, you have to find what fighting style fits you. Okay, what advice can you give for people to be able to identify this? What's even harder than that is finding a place that actually knows what their talking about. Not all trainers are the same, and not every person who c… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | A massive conundrum for both TRP and liberals alikeBut on point, RPS's post contained, and I'm (almost) quoting, Trump is endorsed "not in spite, but because" of the pussy grabbing remarks. The key of RPS's endorsement was his attitude towards women, not much else. False. You need to work on your reading comprehension. From the piece by RPS: Let's imagine the next four (or God help us, eight) years with Hillary at the helm. Is there any reason to believe that this war on language and men will subside? The very tools that put her into power will … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Movies Are For Girls: “Terminator: Genisys” (2015)Except maybe “Batman vs. Superman,” because, you know, Batman. On a scale of 1 to pissed off, how annoyed were you by that film? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 10:26 AM |
| 2 | A massive conundrum for both TRP and liberals alikeNot only that, it's again the symbolism of his attitude towards women and what that (supposedly) represents that he got endorsed right here on TRP. Ya pick up that opinion from the blue pill sub on your way here? Because that's almost an exact quote of what they'd say about us. It's also categorically false to anybody who read RPS's post on the matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 10:17 AM |
| 6 | A massive conundrum for both TRP and liberals alikeThen it is too early for you to be making an assessment. Also, for the record, Trump is not Red Pill or Alpha. He has some alpha qualities, but he thinks infowars is a trustworthy news source. You take his opinions with a huge grain of salt. While he may not save the world... he'll at least delay the destruction that would have been assured under Clinton. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 10:26 PM |
| 8 | Beta twitter cryI fail to see what applicable use this is. An inadvertent SMV boost.... should have just titled this post "Pointless dick measuring. No applicable value." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | This shit fucking hurts'You throw your life away for the sake of someone else, fuck yeah the world should shit on you. This is borderline autistic logic. Not only have you strawmanned the kid, but whether one follows the other or one should follow the other are two different questions. Reality is reality. You've followed with a naturalistic fallacy. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 01:11 PM |
| 3 | There are no 'Red Pill Women'Partly. I mean PUAs are not Red Pill because by definition of the way they run their lives, the pussy is still firmly on a pedestal. They're basically just the opposite problem to MGTOWs. Red Pill would tell you categorically that your life mission comes first, but you don't get to opt out of the game without losing. If I recall correctly, Roosh did a rather silly video claiming fathership of all Red Pill stuff across the manosphere. While one can admire such arrogance... to suggest that writing… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 12:09 PM |
| 6 | There are no 'Red Pill Women'This post, for me, is a good health-check of the sub based upon the voting patterns. Very disappointing. Are you the same Donovan Sharpe of Return of Kings fame? Also, just so you're aware, Roosh is not a "heavy hitter" around here. He's done some useful stuff but his philosophy doesn't line up with ours. He would not be considered in the same league as IllimitableMan or Rollo. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Suicidal Friend Tells Me About TRP After I Give Him AdviceSimple, effective. Those first steps are both the easiest and the hardest. To have someone walk the path with him... I wonder if he realises how lucky he is compared to the rest of us who walk alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 10:37 AM |
| 16 | Trickle truth. Watch out.Obviously this chick is to be hard nexted for her behaviour if she's an LTR. If she's just a plate then I'd say why bother with this in the first place. Those are the obvious bits. Anything other than that is not Red Pill. Don't think I'm a fool. I give second chances. No, you are/were a fool. From this point onwards, you don't give second chances for trickle truthers. When you give a second chance, what you do is you legitimise her behaviour by your reaction. She does something shitty which is … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverYeah, mix things up. Prep your reasoning, your plan and execute it. If that means the girl falls by the wayside then so be it. She was always just tagging along anyway. There's always more chicks. The secret to the commanding of leadership is you need to work from the assumption that they want to follow your lead. If you're not even certain of your own leadership then she might pick up on it (as I've said many times before, women are better at reading us than we are at reading them... so we shou… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 02:25 PM |
| 14 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverI'd agree with you to an extent. You're right that not having a good reason to change venue was bad and you need to take a little time and set yourself up with reasons for the future. However the way you wrote it, being her decision, read to me like you could benefit from a little nudge on your commanding/leadership. The decision to quit one place and go to another is not a debate or discussion. It's a decision you've made and if her choice is simply whether she follows you or not. In this way, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 01:40 PM |
| 17 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverWe've sat down with our drinks and the date structure was pretty usual despite being in just one venue (she refused to change it mid-date). How did this happen? Could you provide a little more detail? It might confirm a bit of feedback I'm thinking of. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 12:10 PM |
| -1 | German Women Chanting Allahu Akbar - The West & Islam; Beta Bux vs Alpha FuxIslam is Chad. Hahahahahahaha! European women don't protest, don't care about mass rapes, don't say a single fucking word because they instinctively know and feel in their very essence that the rise of Islam (Islam is interchangeable here with the word masculinity) is the natural order. I would like a pint of what he's drinking. You cannot re-ignite attraction in a woman once you've shown your inherent weakness, your true beta-ness, and she's checked out - deeming you as broken and repugnant. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 01:18 PM |
| 13 | The Female Version of the Beta OrbiterWomen lie. Stop believing what they tell you and instead pay attention to their behaviour. Discussion of female sexual strategy belongs on RedPillWomen. Not here. The female equivalent of a beta orbiter is a slut who becomes a plate or fuck buddy with men and never gains commitment. High SMV does not equal red pill. A man can be high SMV but still beta. These men can end up getting laid but their relationships tend to be awful and fall apart over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 03:03 PM |
| 8 | Be careful of being too Alpha, Comfort Tests are far more lethal than Shit-TestsThat can work. The key is avoiding the sort of beta talking about everything to make her feel better. Trying to be reassuring for the sake of being reassuring does work... but I don't recommend it. Though something like "you're stressing over nothing." being combined with some physical comfort provides stability that she can just indulge her emotions safely. It's really annoying when chicks do that though so I wouldn't recommend encouraging it. Ensure she knows that this behaviour is fucking stu… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 12:10 AM |
| 25 | Be careful of being too Alpha, Comfort Tests are far more lethal than Shit-TestsYou're still asking women for their opinions on how to deal with women? I'm not remotely surprised that she's told you "be a good little emotional tampon." When I say solve her problems, I mean if she comes whinging that she's failing to do something then go do it for her. Don't try to get her to solve her own problems. If she comes to you with a problem that you can't directly solve quickly then that's a case where she simply wants attention. All of these sorts of things are leadership tests. i… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 10:22 PM |
| 28 | Rage.I called bullshit bad idea. Categorically not. Bullshit must be called out otherwise you'll look like an autistic twit when confronted with shit tests. The bad idea was engaging in the argument which gave legitimacy to her nonsense. Call her an idiot, laugh at her and mock her nonsense until she stops spouting nonsense. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 07:01 PM |
| 51 | Be careful of being too Alpha, Comfort Tests are far more lethal than Shit-TestsPlate management isn't a topic we deal with very often. However I do think it should be discussed more as a precursor to whether or not you're ready for an LTR. If your plates are smashing every month and you're fine with that... great. If your plates are smashing every month and you're looking for an LTR, you've got a whole bunch of work to do. A simple way to look at this problem is just see whether her problem is reasonable or not. If it's reasonable then it's probably a comfort test, after a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 05:39 PM |
| 11 | Always Have a "Girlfriend" or a "Wife"This is the most worthless FR I've ever read. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | This is what a Red Pill Woman looks likeShe has the worst scenario though... trying to deal with cucked Canada. At least America isn't completely bonkers. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 12:45 PM |
| 1 | PUSSY PASS: Drunk cunt rage hits ex with car, he's brain damaged & disabled. Thumbs up.Am I the only one who thinks that picture looks photoshopped? (Badly?) I also note that this is only being reported in the tabloids... why have none of the broadsheets picked this up? It's certainly outrageous enough. There's something very fishy going on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 12:44 PM |
| 6 | Night with a "Beta Girl"Comfort tests. TRP Field Toolkit Part 3, on the AskTRP Sidebar. The other guy was right, this is a useful FR for newer guys to get a bit of perspective on why betas are hated so much by everyone. That behaviour is fucking annoying isn't it? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 12:38 AM |
| 13 | Women are so bad now they dont cuck men. They make them abort their own kids in case its Chad'sYup. Though you've gotta give OP some props on that mad ego narcissism. Could give either of us a run for our money. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 12:31 AM |
| 7 | Why you HAVE to be a social butterflyI am perfectly "chilled." My point rests upon common sense and is well explained. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Why you HAVE to be a social butterflyDisengagement. Either you're shit at arguing or you didn't understand the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 12:05 PM |
| 7 | Why you HAVE to be a social butterflyNo, it is not too harsh. I am sick and tired of seeing these guys on TRP that everything is an essential and if you're not a god at X, Y or Z then you won't get laid. Not only is it unrealistic but it demonstrates they don't actually understand the theory if they do really believe that and they're willing to go so far as to say "super ripped, handsome guys... yeah chicks think they're losers unless you do what I say." It doesn't take much to know where the theory rests. Even an idiot should be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 12:05 PM |
| 152 | Why you HAVE to be a social butterflyEven if you're ripped, well dressed, and handsome, they're still going to peg you for a loser. This is the stupidest statement I've ever read. If I could take away points from you, I would. A ripped, well dressed, very handsome guy will have women wanting to get to know him. Through the halo effect, his looks will make them assume that he is very popular. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 08:56 PM |
| 5 | All Complaints and Excuses are Self VictimizationTRP goes through stages of this from time to time where the morons get uppity and go right to the extremes. It's good that some of the regular members are noticing. I get tired correcting this level of blatant idiocy. After all, you can take their work with a good pinch of salt and get something useful out of it. Avoid blanket statements unless they have pragmatic value such as AWALT. This particular post's statement does not have pragmatic value. You'll either be able to take action or you won'… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 05:15 PM |
| 3 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.Relationship Market Value. Sexual value and relationship value are two different things because a man will happily sleep with a woman who he'd never even remotely consider relationship material. We are primarily concerned with SMV because that's where the exchange of sex occurs. The exchange of commitment occurs in the RMP, or Relationship Marketplace. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.If you expect to have the same relationship with a woman seven years in it simply will not happen. That wasn't my point. We know SMV changes over time and I wouldn't say that RMV doesn't alter. I do believe that it is probably more resistant to alteration than SMV, but the point is that it is an indicator of the long term chance of success of a relationship. I've never really been a fan of the whole "arbitrary thing happens because it's arbitrary." I think that in these scenarios it is simply th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.Your argument is essentially that no woman has acceptable RMV? If we follow your logic that all women have the hamster whispering in their ear, reducing their RMV all the time... no relationship would ever be successful. I do not believe this holds to reality. Some relationships are and many more are not. We need to focus on telling the difference between the two. So far, the best interpretation of the differences is our understanding of RMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:18 PM |
| 8 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.The issue is that every woman will try this, I disagree. I think you've conflated LMR and weaponisation. All women will perform LMR at one point or another. That's a regular shit test. It's checking the mate is alpha rather than beta. Weaponising sex in order to try and force alteration to a man's behaviour is not a shit test. It's open rebellion to the dynamic that you've established. (Assuming it has actually been established.) If she's got an alpha and believes he is alpha and holds his commi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 07:09 PM |
| 3 | I feel like dread game backfired, did I use it wrong?sometimes for the entire time I'm with her. If she's more interested in her phone than you when with you then she's not attracted to you. I must have used it wrong? Betas don't cause dread because they're not attractive so the chick doesn't care what you're doing. Dread works from the idea of potential loss. If she's not attracted then there's nothing to lose. 5 days a week What? This does not read like a rational newbie. I've mentioned You've mentioned? This is not a negotiation. You don't nego… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:35 PM |
| 16 | FR: Calling a woman’s bluff can be better than sexYou forgot the line to give her hamster the opening. "I should go. If I stay I might not be able to control myself." This was too heavy on the straight talk. Making to leave is a solid move for LMR, but you've got to give her the opening to pull you back/plead with you to stay etc. Also, a 32 year old HB9? Either you're embellishing and/or letting your own preferences get too much say... or I want to come live around where you are. 9s are rare enough as it is... most 9s have become 8s or less by… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:27 PM |
| 3 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.Also, why has the post been removed? You're SE. That should surely give you a pass? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:23 AM |
| 5 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.You have LTRs for the purpose of preselection? From my perspective, this approach is more complicated. So are you suggesting that this guy's LTR is actually just his main plate? If that's the case then why didn't he just let her smash? I'm really struggling to grasp the logic you guys are employing here. LTR game and plate spinning are two different things in my book, with different goals, different positives and negatives and different approaches needed to achieve success. When I read his repor… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:20 AM |
| 3 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.Go ahead and branch out instead of letting the conditioned term of "cheating" effect you emotionally. I don't have an issue with that. It just does not all logically follow for me. From my own reading I am convinced that cheating is a potential nuclear option for the married red pill guys. This is because they have a legally binding commitment to that woman. An LTR is not legally binding. So just leave her. If she is a plate, then it's not cheating anyway. None of this really fits together for m… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 01:06 AM |
| 16 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.I am not talking about any man though. I am talking about a (supposedly) Red Pill man. Regardless of whether you have actually become top 20%, the theory dictates that you behave like you are top 20% in order to run effective game. Your entire comment is a disengagement. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 67 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.I don't understand the need for this cheating. If you're in an LTR, you should have picked a woman with high RMV. Using sex as a powerplay is a demonstration of low RMV... just next the bitch. What's the point in an LTR with a worthless bitch? You can spin plates instead. If you're a high quality man then you deserve better and won't tolerate such crap. Weaponisation of sex is a massive red flag in my book... it'd get her demoted down my plate order at the very least.It certainly disqualifies he… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | You cannot save your bluepill friends. Has anyone successfully unplugged anyone?I've had a couple of successes, but I don't tend to go looking for people to unplug. Guys tend to come to me for advice on this, that or the other because they know I won't be pulling any punches. Sean will ask me to be the best man at his wedding when he inevitably decides to marry this chick Politely refuse and then refuse to elaborate and just say you just want to be a regular guest. Trust me. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 08:05 PM |
| 22 | [Rant] The Cuckening is real.Worry less about it. I'm banned from the relationships sub... I've never bothered to visit it, let alone post there. Which means some sad moderator of that sub came over TRP, went through postings, found me and decided I needed to be preemptively banned from their sub because of something I said over here, having violated none of their rules or ever participated or shown any interest in ever participating. While I'm not precisely sure how the reddit rules would view such an incident, from a prag… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/16 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Even Alphas get cheated on. AWALTOn the sidebar of the AskTRP sub you'll find a section of series posts. Find the LTR series by Occamsusername, Part 3 I believe is the Unicorn Hunter checklist. I also have an archived version of that and a separate set of "green flags" in one of the parts of my TRP Field Toolkit series. Do a little hunting around from these and you should be able to find plenty of green flag and red flag indicators for evaluating a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Asking a woman out from your group knowing that you will see her almost every day? how can you pull it off?Sidestepped my point nicely. You keep rationalising kiddo. You don't want my help or anyone else's. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with cynicism as a result of reading TRP?Is that ultimate conclusion of TRP that relationships outside of casual sexual relationships not worth it? Not at all. Just that the work is ramped up exponentially and the rewards are not equally great. There are more rewards from an LTR, but the work is much much harder than spinning some plates. The reason most guys stick to spinning plates is because it's just less hassle and at the end of the day so long as you're sticking your dick in some pussy you're satisfied once you've busted that nut… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Asking a woman out from your group knowing that you will see her almost every day? how can you pull it off?What is it with you guys constantly trying to shit where you eat? If you have potential social fallout then you don't go for sex. Why? Because you can get sex elsewhere. There's always another bitch. She is not special. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 01:06 PM |
| 10 | What to do if your girlfriend baits you into cheating on her?You actually think you're going to get laid off a chick who has been put up to behave like she's interested in you as part of a honey trap? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | What happened here, was it me or my text game?You move on. She should be putting in more effort. There is another guy in her phone that she is more interested in texting. That's all it is. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Girl asked if I was a narcissist for: giving her sarcastic answers, calling her petty, being a jerk to her, showing abundance mentality, not taking her seriously,& walking away from her during the middle of the conversation because I wanted to talk to other people and she was annoying me.Critiques?It's a shit test you dummy. Try mixing up your responses to shit tests... it sounds like you always go with A&A or sarcasm. Since you're using the same thing, she's probably shit testing you harder because you don't feel genuine to her. "You're projecting again." is the correct response to her. It's a dismissive pressure flip. Try mixing some of those in. Force her to start justifying her existence to you. She damned well should if she's boring. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Do I need verbal escalation?The game is the game mate. I can't change that. What do I do instead of being smooth? Become a rich celebrity. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Do I need verbal escalation?I can't do the conversations for you mate. Much of any conversation is contextual. Only advice I can give here is to watch more stand up comedy, particularly with sexual jokes in it so you can make those jokes when the opportunity arises. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Do I need verbal escalation?Yeah take things sexual asap. A blue joke of some sort is my go-to. It's when they blush being caught off guard by it that really pleases me most. Brush up on your innuendo for this one. Objective of the conversation is fun and some light kino. Get her to laugh a few times. Find out what she's doing, that'll tell you if insta-date is even possible. If it is, just tell her "come get coffee/drinks with me and I'll make you blush again." If the insta-date isn't on then same goals except you want to… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/16 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Feeling hopeless, i've been living a lieStart reading, but get your ass to the gym as a priority. Focus your reading on fitness to begin with. There's very little point trying to game chicks on nightmare mode. Read up on style. Read up on career change/skills improvement and career advancement in your field. If you can see any way to getting a mentor then get a mentor. What you've just done today is given that first order to turn the oil tanker around. Don't expect any immediate results, but do set yourself some goals in terms of fitn… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Do I need verbal escalation?What the fuck is verbal escalation? Just keep it simple mate. Purpose of day game is either to start an insta-date (i.e. get her to join you for coffee or drinks there and then) or to get a number, maybe a K-close if you're feeling ballsy... there's nothing else to worry about. Calm your tits, breathe, worry less about the outcome and more about having fun. If you're not having fun then why are you doing this? Remember that "I want sex" is not an acceptable answer for someone who supposedly has … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:51 PM |
| 2 | I have a hard time starting a conversation with a stranger.Try "hi." I find that works very well. Environmental cues are another good one. I'm very lazy with my openers so I'll just strike up conversation at the bar about drinks or what stupid thing the chick is wearing or whatever. Just pick something and make a comment. It's a good way to gauge how open the chick is to being gamed. It's about the warmest way to do a cold opening. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Any good red pill podcasts or YouTube links to listen to while driving?Any of the interviews GayLubeOil did and the one Dr Warlock did. Plus that interview Illimitableman did. They're all worth seeking. There is nothing regular that is strictly Red Pill. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:43 PM |
| 3 | LTR question: When she's with me she is great but when she's with her friend's she becomes a pain?So now you know that she has friends who will manipulate her behaviour and that she's likely to misbehave on a girls night out. There's nothing you can do about it. She will pick her own friends and they are a reflection of her. Look at how they behave and you'll get a good idea of how she behaves when you're not around. This bit just helps you make your own decision about what level of investment to make in her. Frankly I am confused as to why it's taken you a year to spot this issue. This is s… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 11:41 PM |
| 3 | All (alleged) fathers should get a paternity test.First, do you all agree that every alleged father should get a paternity test? Yes. If you plan a child for yourself in an LTR then paternity test is essential too. Second, how can my generally Red Pill friend, who knows and talks about how often women cheat and how many men raise bastards unknowingly, disagree that all men should get a paternity test? Because the blue pill programming is stronger than you're giving it credit for. He can't believe AWALT otherwise there are no good women out ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Men believe there are two types of men but women know there are three.This is basically it. When you ask a woman about men she doesn't talk about nice guys or creeps because they don't qualify as "men" in her book. Good men do exist and I'm not talking about the good guys in this post who're basically slightly more attractive beta orbiters. "Good men" are just extremely high SMV men who have this high SMV naturally. Even using beta behaviour can't bring their SMV down enough points to be beneath the woman's SMV, so they're still attractive. They're extremely rare … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Does demographic change your SMVFair shout. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on the Art of Manliness 14 ways to affair proof your marriage?My first thought... why on earth would I need to be taught how not to have an affair? I've liked some of this guy's stuff... but seriously this is some next-level faggotry. I'm taking one of his man cards away for this article. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Responded to a breadcrumb from my ex and now i'm obsessingGood mental health is important. Our attitude is reinforcing. Positive outlook increases chances of positive things happening, reinforcing a positive attitude and outlook. The same applies to the negative. The depression cycle comes from blaming yourself for the bad things that happen in your life, causing a negative outlook and then more negative things happen which were your fault and so on and so forth. There is a distinction to be made between times when it is useful to place blame on yourse… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Does demographic change your SMVThere are two natural things decided by your genetics which affect SMV, your race and your height. Height has a bigger impact than race. However these are just two of many factors that affect male SMV, so you can note them, but in terms of the big picture they don't really matter. Any other "demographic" stuff is irrelevant. Focus on the stuff you can change. Improve your body. Learn game. Become stylish and get the right fashion for you. These are the three major things you can change. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Responded to a breadcrumb from my ex and now i'm obsessingYou appear to be playing the game without knowing why. What are you doing? Why are you doing it? What is your goal here? Until you can figure yourself out and what you want, I can't help you. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Responded to a breadcrumb from my ex and now i'm obsessingThis is bad advice and a good way to head towards depression. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Girl wants to take a break from sexYou've got a couple of options. Firstly, if you do have a big dick then extra lube and extra foreplay or eventually you'll cause vaginal tears. That is not a fun discussion to be having, trust me. Secondly you'll need to fit yourself for proper sized condoms. Look online for some condom sizing charts and check out some online stores that will cater to the larger gent. Thirdly, stopping sex or taking a break from it is not only going to ruin your relationship, but it's not going to solve her prob… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 01:09 PM |
| 5 | What would you tell your 35-year-old self?Damn you good lookin! | /r/askTRP | 26/12/16 12:29 PM |
| 9 | Lots of RP examples outlined last night with plateI mean how could you not laugh at basically all of this? Yeah. This is a fun FR. Leadership needs work, that's about it. Keep having fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/16 12:48 AM |
| 3 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.I was referring to OP's story. Instead of the villain being the dude raw dogging chicks and spreading herpes, it is the girls for having sex. They're all villains in my view. However, from the purely sexual strategy standpoint, you'd say that the guy got his end away despite the fact that he had one of the nastier STDs. Maybe that is why we see the smart dudes on here often say how the marketplace, and by extension this sub is amoral? Essentially yes. But it's also there for reason of clarity. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 07:07 PM |
| 7 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.I'm not pretending the marketplace is demonising women, I just think some of the rhetoric here demonises them for playing the game shitty, or playing at all. If calling a cunt a cunt for being a cunt is "demonising" well... I'mma demonise them. Reality is we're called misogynists because we dare to hold women to a standard that they don't want to be held to... i.e. The Red Pill is acknowledging that women are human beings too and it's not just men that must do things and be better. So, unless th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 04:55 PM |
| 8 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.There are various natural inclinations that don't work perfectly and can be counter-productive to your own success. (Our inclination to laziness for example.) Our psychology is built up that way... if you're willing to look cold-heartedly at things, we're actually designed to kill ourselves if we fail enough in life. Doesn't all the research suggest that women do drop everything for Chad and behave in this way? Yes, in order to secure his commitment. If it was merely for his genes she'd just go … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 04:41 PM |
| 16 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.So, in the story above, it's celebrated that the "new cheated on Alpha" banged the girl, while at the same time she is looked down on for having sex with him? Men and women are playing different games. Our sexual strategies are opposing. We don't win the same way. A win for one can be a loss for another. For a woman, attaining commitment is the key goal. Sleeping with lots of alphas is irrelevant to the success of her strategy. While the dual mating strategy changes this slightly to accommodate … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 03:56 PM |
| 18 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.Yeah Gronk! You fuckin' tell that dumb endorsed guy about the red pill. You fuckin' educate him! You put down your comeback in the most condescending way you possibly can to demonstrate how you haven't read the second post on the sidebar. Thanks, I needed that laugh. Unfortunately, you've now forfeited the chance to learn anything Red Pill from me. Instead, here's three blue pill concepts you're demonstrably following from your two posts here: women are wonderful/pussy pass - you absolve women o… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 02:18 PM |
| 23 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.It's exactly this that is the problem. Men and women are not remotely comparable and you've just made such a blue pill fueled statement that demands implicit agreement that men and women are comparable. And I'll bet you didn't even know you were doing something blue pill... THAT is how deep the programming goes. Even now, even on TRP, we have upvoted sentences that are based on blue pill concepts. It's a constant battle. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 12:13 PM |
| 17 | 2 female friends whom I thought were 'good girls' now might have genital herpes from going raw with same guy.People say here if she came from a good family/strong father figure she's a lot less likely to have slutted it up, I say abandon all hope Actually I'm beginning to wonder if a strict family might have the opposite effect when they come to rebel. After all, there are no "good girls" just those who are more adept at hiding their bad behaviour. You'd need to raise her so that she admires her father so much that she wants to behave in a way that pleases him. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Observation: The Most Damaged Girls are the 6s and 7sErrr no. It's way more complicated than that. Stop posting and go read some more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Observation: The Most Damaged Girls are the 6s and 7sYou're basically lacking the ability to grasp nuance... Edit: For all you guys who're agreeing with him through the voting system, you're going to need to do a similar bit of reflection because you're also not grasping the nuances going on here. Remember that TRP is not a democracy for good reason. Because the masses of newbies compared to veterans would make very bad teachers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 08:41 PM |
| 7 | Observation: The Most Damaged Girls are the 6s and 7sNot really. 6s and 7s merely have a much higher chance of being alpha widowed. That's about the end of the direct relationship between attractiveness and how broken a woman will be. The rest is all indirect and more complex. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Raising a Glass Tonight to a Fallen Friend.I know what you mean. And I'd point out rather than you being disposable, it is your lack of natural value that you mention helps to drive you. A subtle difference between the two. I believe we have no natural or inherent worth. I also believe that society has extended this concept to consider you disposable. That is where I part ways with society. I still believe you don't have a natural worth, you build it yourself. But I don't consider you disposable. You have built your value through blood, … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Raising a Glass Tonight to a Fallen Friend.Even here we have Keyboard commandos thinking if they empathize with OP then its a tacit approval of bluepill behavior It is vital that we remind people that the entire reason for the Red Pill sub and the men who run it, along with those of us who contribute to help teach is entirely on compassion and empathy. In a way, we are a tiny minority of society who don't believe in male disposability. We instead believe in the potential. Perhaps the methods must be harsh... but why bother with the harsh… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:11 AM |
| 56 | Raising a Glass Tonight to a Fallen Friend.Very sad day for you man. One of the things you realise when you learn about mental health issues like depression and suicide, is that sometimes it's actually logical. I recall a case my mentor dealt with where the woman was contemplating suicide for a variety of reasons. The reason the case was so hard, is because her reasoning was perfectly valid. She had a life that was truly not worth living. One of the things that society needs to come to terms with is the way that the legal system can be a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/16 02:53 PM |
| 6 | Gaming too hard/LTR. Alpha/beta balanceI reckon he missed a couple of comfort tests along the way that led up to this moment. This nudged her fee-fees to tell her he didn't "just get it." | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/16 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Bitching about women makes you look like a bitchThat read more like mocking to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 10:55 PM |
| -2 | Bitching about women makes you look like a bitchFailure to call a cunt a cunt when she acts like a cunt shows you've still got pussy on the pedestal. Or maybe you're just trying to rationalise your cowardice to call it like you see it. Try to steer clear of the extremes kiddo. It makes you look like a moron who picked up the pill yesterday and is trying to pretend he's skipped to acceptance because he's just so alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 10:23 PM |
| 6 | My preferred pronoun is 'Master'I wouldn't call it a fake disease... but it is certainly a wastebasket diagnosis. I knew a girl who'd been diagnosed with it many years ago. She was clearly very ill and there was definitely something wrong with her, so I certainly wouldn't call it fake. However the reading on it and the way it swings all over the place is a similar wastebasket diagnosis to physical health as certain forms of schizophrenia are to mental health. (i.e. they're just there as a diagnosis to pick up whatever is lefto… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 02:11 PM |
| 63 | My preferred pronoun is 'Master'Amusingly, it is technically correct too... to a certain degree. If you are a young, unmarried man, your correct title is Master rather than Mr. It is the male equivalent to Miss vs Mrs which denotes your current social station. I recall learning about this because the most elderly members of my family, who were "quite proper" Brits, would address post/cards/letters to me as "Master NightwingTRP." There's not a huge amount of practical value to these things... however, there are some women who w… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Even Alphas get cheated on. AWALTFrom the other dudes perspective, he still got laid.... despite the woman "with it all". My comment was from this perspective. I've never really found this perspective useful. In the field, be the tingles, sure. But post coitus? What does it matter at that point that you got laid? You've done it before and you'll need to again. Our sexual drive is a bit like a dog chasing his tail... there's little purpose in that post-nutting-state. My point being "doesn't matter, got laid" is a statement of va… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Nothing but SMV matters if you want to get laid with young womenIncrease your SMV in other ways and learn game. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 11:21 AM |
| 12 | Even Alphas get cheated on. AWALT"Be the tingles" This is unrealistic advice in this context. You can't be the tingles all the time. You're imperfect. This is why it's so very important to vet like a motherfucker. Any woman you consider for an LTR must be vetted with extreme prejudice. A high RMV woman would never have allowed herself into a situation like that in the first place... it's the mark of a low RMV woman to end up behaving like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Why telling her "How It's Going to Be" is always the wrong move.It's not any of that. It's the fact he's been deemed a beta by her, but a beta with enough social status or looks to be worth her associating with. Once decided as a beta, it's highly unlikely you'll get out of that. The key here is this: Betas do not get to decide how things are. They are the subordinates. A beta trying to declare "this is how things will be" is going to be laughed at. An alpha can do that and just declare this and that. Why? Because women follow alpha leaders. If he declares "… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 02:11 PM |
| 3 | I needed to make a radical change. So I made one.Take some money with you. You don't want to become a beggar. One thing you need to appreciate is that our psychology is self-reinforcing. It's why depression is a such a dangerous mental health trap (real depression, not just feeling a bit gloomy) because it gives us a negative outlook, which causes a greater chance of more negative things, which we also expected and believed in. This shapes our negative view which reinforces the negative things happening and it all just gets worse and worse. Si… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/16 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Recently started seeing a 9...Here's your advice: learn how to TRP and fuck off to AskTRP with questions. Learning yet? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 06:10 PM |
| 60 | Do Something DecemberIt was a joke. We regularly do "No Nothing November" but this is the first time we've done "Do Something December." Jackhammer January must be right around the corner.... it isn't really. There's something depressing about explaining jokes when a number of people don't get it. Welcome to the locker room. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 10:23 AM |
| 11 | Rhetorical question: How many truly attractive, sexually appealing women do you know who can maintain a multi-year relationship?As a last point, another rhetorical question: remember I said 2% was a pathetic statistic? Is that a reflection of the women, or of the men? Your answer will tell you if you are beyond the anger phase. How about both? Don't go to the other extreme and start issuing free pussy passes for all behaviour and pretend you're enlightened. When a cunt acts like a cunt you call her a cunt because she is a cunt. 'nuff said? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Counterfeit Red PillsIt's essential to maintain perspective and not get too caught up in the "you're excusing failure" thing. The reality is that no extreme view is psychologically healthy and it's also counter-productive to blame yourself for everything. That attitude leads to depression. As an example, consider the contradictory attitude we will simultaneously hold when we're running game and get shot down by a woman. On the night, we hold the view it's her fault. She's a dumb bitch. She wasn't in the mood, whatev… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 05:47 PM |
| 76 | Do Something DecemberI am looking forward to Jackhammer January. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Counterfeit Red PillsYes, genetic factor involved. i.e. the complete outcome will be determined by a mixture of environment and genetics. Your conflation is similar to the arguments leveled at evo psych by calling it genetic determinism. By the very nature of the topic it is not that. As a general rule, genetics tend to provide your limits. Mix it with your life, how well you eat, how much you study, what level of help you get etc and you'll find out how tall you are, how strong you are and how educated you are. Eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Counterfeit Red Pillsthe expansion pack. What on earth are you drivelling about? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 47 | Counterfeit Red PillsWhat's more is there are multiple solutions to these problems... which makes the MGTOWs and angry, whiny, bitchy little boys even more laughable. However I, nor anyone else, can prevent the stupid being stupid. (As I recall there's a genetic factor involved so they were genuinely born that way and no amount of explanation or encouragement is going to change the fact they weren't born with enough of the basics required to make the journey.) So ultimately the only reason we talk about this and tel… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 12:39 PM |
| 6 | TRP CultureYou would do well not to underestimate GLO. Intellectually he is something of a dark horse in my humble opinion. Style. This is the key around TRP. There are a variety of styles around the various endorsed guys on TRP and each style will appeal individually to different people. GLO has a particularly flamboyant style that appeals very strongly to traditionally masculine male bonding. It's not remotely surprising that he is as popular here as he is. That said, there are people who are here to lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/16 01:29 PM |
| 8 | TRP Newbie Ready For Monk Mode!Ignore that prat. Monk mode is an essential starting point since half the anger phase will be counter-productive to your game, but excellent drive for the initial lifting gains. As you state, it also takes time to slowly alter your routine and schedule in all the essential new parts of your life. If you're busy chasing girls then you lack the time to add new things, you're still displaying pussy on the pedestal and you don't have the distance to devalue women and sex which is essential in order … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Banned from TBP on first postIt'd just deteriorate into me blatantly exposing and mocking their inferiority. They wouldn't understand that either. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Email from my exThis belongs on AskTRP. I'm going to leave a reply but you need to learn to follow the rules around here. You're fortunate I'm in a good mood, any hardass or guy in a bad mood would not tolerate your not following basic rules, so get yourself in shape and follow the rules. If everyone acted like you this place would be a total mess. A significant part of me wants to die because I don't want to feel the way that I do now ever again, and for the past 2 weeks I have felt like this is the only way t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Banned from TBP on first postNot so much. If you read their stuff it becomes very clear that they don't actually understand the Red Pill principles or the nuances... all they talk about is destroying strawmen and picking out the guys who turn up on here or on MGTOW who don't actually grasp the pill. I suppose if all you're looking to do is reinforce your own values in the echo chamber it's probably entertaining. To me though, it's just openly announcing your ignorance to the other side of the table. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Fundamental Problems with the IDGAF MentalityAnything in extremes is a bad idea... this is such a pointless post. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Found a Guardian article about you guys, apparently you're dangerous (lol)(Including /u/CopperFox3c in the conversation.) I just picked up a response from Douglas Murray this afternoon. It is as full of mockery and abuse of the rag as you'd imagine. Satisfying conclusion to the whole debacle imho. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Girls don't find smart guys sexually attractiveNot quite. The factor that matters is dominance. Are they able to intellectually dominate another man? Much like physically knocking down a man with a punch, I've seen women get extremely attracted to a guy who can land a good put-down on somebody who isn't at the bottom of the social ladder. Same goes for insta-crushing the opinion of another guy with a simple counter-example. It's all just another part of the social dynamics around how women are ranking everybody in the social hierarchy. It's … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 01:21 PM |
| 8 | Found a Guardian article about you guys, apparently you're dangerous (lol)The Guardian is slowly becoming too low hanging of a fruit to be picked. Shortly it will be becoming pomme de terre. It's a good comedy piece if that's what it's meant to be. Sam Harris: that well known loony gateway drug... I'm gonna be chuckling at this all day. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 11:36 AM |
| 32 | [FR] Banged some chick from TBPThis is fucking glorious. You have raised the bar in terms of sex for amusement. There is nothing more to add. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 11:43 PM |
| 70 | Never compare your sex life with a girl's sex lifeMen and women aren't comparable. At all. On anything, not just sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/16 10:29 AM |
| 20 | Signs she might be a former carousel rider looking for a provider.This has been up for 21 hours and only 30 upvotes? That's why I consider the majority of the TRP community to be morons who don't know what they're talking about. This is high quality and a timely reminder for anyone. On the issue of the thousand cock stare... I think you've got to experience it to really know it. I remember a girl I dated when she was 17 and innocent. Gorgeous eyes, so deep and full of love. Three years after we'd broken up when I'd been Red Pilled I saw pictures of her and tho… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Woman on AskMen isn't attracted to her loving/doting beta provider husband, and is planning to kick his ass to the curb. Happy Thanksgiving.You give her far too much credit for positive thinking. Set the bar a bit lower. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/16 12:39 PM |
| 20 | Just unplugged, my story.Get it off your chest man. Here's the only place this will be understood for precisely what it is. On other subs they'll tell you how mean you were or that she was just a particular bitch because of something which isn't her fault. No pussy passes available here. When a cunt acts like a cunt we'll going to call her a cunt. And your bitch was a total cunt. All bitches are capable of being total cunts if they're allowed to be. Time to get your lifting on, get your diet in order and start reading. … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 11:07 PM |
| 41 | Woman on AskMen isn't attracted to her loving/doting beta provider husband, and is planning to kick his ass to the curb. Happy Thanksgiving."was never attracted" The light switch. "I am not attracted now, therefore I was never attracted at all." This is why everything a woman says is utterly worthless. There is no consistency and her words are worth less than the air into which they are uttered. Watch her behaviour instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Transitioning – A Red Pill Lens on TransgenderismThere are some mental health doctors who refuse to fall in line. Cognitive therapy has been proven to have an excellent success rate with eating disorders, along with CBT combinations. I would advise seeking out a clinical psychologist who does not believe in "transitioning." Some cognitive therapy might unearth what the real problems are. Identity problems are not uncommon among boys who haven't yet had chance to become men. Hell, identity problems are common for gay guys until they're able to … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/16 11:56 AM |
| 28 | Transitioning – A Red Pill Lens on TransgenderismTransexualism is our modern equivalent of trying to electrocute the gay out of you. The doctors have got it wrong. In simple terms, we have a diagnosis for eating disorders that says if the factual objective reality of the person does not line up with their delusions (i.e. they see themselves as fat when they are skinny) This advert which was run to raise awareness demonstrates this point quite viscerally. However for gender, they are instead saying that despite the medical fact that you are mal… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:06 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueI don't tend to point the way on the basics anymore. High SMV=good... well fuckin' durr. I am more interested in the nuances at the acceptance stage. My posts are ones you read when you've been going for about 6 months to a year. With the possible exception of my game guide. If somebody isn't going to improve themselves and wishes to deny reality, they'll leave. It doesn't matter whether you shout "raise your SMV" at them or not. Additionally, internal motivation is far stronger than external. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 06:36 PM |
| 3 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueI am not. While you cannot be low SMV and Red Pill for long, it is not my problem or yours whether someone else can't be bothered to improve their SMV. This is not a cult. This is information designed to be used if others wish to. If they do not, that is not my responsibility or yours. To demand that everybody follow your interpretation of what should be done and that to do anything else is inexcusable is to become that beta bully I talked about before. Care less about controlling others. Follow… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 06:06 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueALL taken from the antibiotic nuke thread on the sidebar, I can't link to it because my post gets removed when I do. Yeah, I've read it. Incidentally, it was substantially updated last year and you're quoting from the old version. All you've quoted is the bit that points out why we are doing what we are doing to help betas improve their SMV. At no point does he declare that we don't care. I don't get what you're finding so hard about this nuance and the difference between the world/society/women… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueI sincerely doubt /u/Illimitableman would write something so foolish. Knowing him, I am willing to put money on it that he's grasped the nuance firmly by the pussy, and was writing about how society doesn't care about low value men. The idea that TRP doesn't care about low value men is an absurdity. There are reams of advice on how to increase your SMV. Do you think they're targeted at a high SMV audience? Essentially you're summing up your own biggest problem that I've seen time and again in yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/16 12:49 PM |
| 2 | This is not a political sub. But this is the Red-pill view of politics. This is what the SJW's have done and it's simply fucking realism. What can we learn from it?What would you have me do in Canada, where the largest party, Liberal party, represents SJWs, socialized health care and gun registration? And the conservative party represents low taxes and traditionalism. Point out that they're not liberal. Mock the fact that they're not liberal. Call them the authoritarian party. In all seriousness I would leave Canada asap. If the nonsense against Jordan Petersen passes then your country is truly fucked beyond repair. I'm not from the US so I can't really co… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 07:02 PM |
| 5 | This is not a political sub. But this is the Red-pill view of politics. This is what the SJW's have done and it's simply fucking realism. What can we learn from it?Your intolerant tone and condescending demeanor is cute. Passive aggressiveness is feminine. Cut it out. Your referring to classical liberalism. First it's "you're." Poor grammar automatically undermines your credibility. Secondly, by referring to liberal ideas as "classical liberalism" you are playing their game and legitimising their corruption of language. It would be like referring to yourself as "identified male." Having an debate about a opinion also does not make me or others blue pill, i… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 06:57 PM |
| 6 | This is not a political sub. But this is the Red-pill view of politics. This is what the SJW's have done and it's simply fucking realism. What can we learn from it?BEHOLD! The Blue Pill: Liberalism is based off of collectivism. From Encyclopaedia Britannica.: Liberalism, political doctrine that takes protecting and enhancing the freedom of the individual to be the central problem of politics. Specifically that the problem of government is creating a system that gives government power needed to protect individuals from harms and protect their basic rights as the smallest minority of all, while preventing the government abusing the power required to accompli… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 05:18 PM |
| 50 | This is not a political sub. But this is the Red-pill view of politics. This is what the SJW's have done and it's simply fucking realism. What can we learn from it?What can we learn from the mistakes of the liberals? You could start by not calling them liberals since they are fundamentally illiberal authoritarians who like to moral police society. This is part of their strategy that we must reject. Unfortunately the conservatives rather like it because it splits people into "liberal" (misused) and "conservative." The actual conservatives like having their numbers swelled so they're happy to associate liberalism with the horseshit SJW nonsense. It's a bit l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/16 02:45 PM |
| 12 | Why North American "liberal" women hate the idea of going for guys of minority groups.They are not liberals, they are authoritarians. Label them as either "regressives" or "leftists." we are in the business of dealing with reality on TRP, not following the leftist hi-jacking of language. By following their false uses of the word liberal we continue to legitimise it. Don't. Legitimise. These. Assholes. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 01:05 PM |
| 36 | The most important thing to remember is that as a man your entire life is determined by your valueAhhh, it's been a while since I've seen someone advocating the idea of judging men and their entire existence by their SMV. I wondered when this would come up again. I see the feminine point of view is creeping back into the sub. You forgot the nuance: your bear this feminine judgement in mind for practical purposes. Beyond that, you must rise above it. After all: Remember the general rule that no one cares about the plight of men, especially low value men. NO ONE CARES ABOUT THE PLIGHT OF LOW V… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/16 01:01 PM |
| 11 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberIt's a lot like dealing with women, interestingly enough. When they start acting up and trying to play games, you ignore that shit and refuse to play. Precisely. I said as much in responding to another guy in this topic. I've come to the conclusion the new Overton window that's being used by society (that is obviously inaccurate when looked at objectively) is just a mass-scale loss of frame by western men. Whether this was out of politeness or not, does not matter. As part of the teachings here,… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberNow I'm sure that is what you mean when you say liberal. Yes, that is the root definition. Unfortunately, as "liberal" has been co-opt'ed you must now specify if you mean classical liberal or modern (radical) liberal. No. I'm not playing by their rules. That's why they're winning. Because we didn't hold the god-damned frame of interaction. I will push them towards the discussion of liberal vs authoritarian. The only way to beat these people is forcibly move the Overton window back where it shoul… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 05:28 PM |
| 13 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberI think we need to stop saying classical liberal so much. We need to stop playing by their rules. If we shift the discussion to authoritarian vs liberal, we see precisely where they sit. The entire reason they've redefined liberal is because it was something EVERYONE agrees with. Having your basic individual freedoms, your basic rights, your equality with all others before the law etc. This is why it has been so successful. It's a bit like "social justice" as a phrase it sounds like a positive t… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 05:26 PM |
| 30 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberThis picture explains what liberals and conservatives really are. Liberalism is urbanism. Conservativism is ruralism. Please stop conflating leftists and liberals. An actual liberal has more in common with a libertarian than they do with a leftist "liberal." The left has hijacked the term with illiberal behaviour and you really shouldn't legitimise their doing so by not pointing out the difference at every opportunity because it perpetuates their bollocks. It's a bit like "oh you believe in equa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Slow down, and calm downThere is a gentleman who runs a men-only barbers in Manchester I think it was. He's expanded out into multiple cities. He was reported on as sexist because he told a woman to leave and it just grew his business. He gained more customers. So long as it's not literally a men's club like the old elites used to have in the early-mid 1900s then I see no reason you can't be successful. While we do talk about men being a tough market to write for, men as a market are still a solid market to aim at. You… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 11:49 AM |
| 11 | Post Election - remember the 38th Law of PowerWaste of time on social media, yes. IRL... not so much if your frame is solid enough and you've cranked your IDGAF up to 10. The thing about the social justice thing vs the views we hold, is that social justice works by shaming people and making them feel isolated. The Trump victory shows you're no longer alone. Do not continue to fall for their shit during the time when you are able to go on the offensive. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 09:31 PM |
| 15 | AWALT Reggie Bush paid his mistress 3 million dollars to get abortion, she didnt, now 6 months pregnantOversimplification for pragmatic purposes. We tell you it's your fault primarily because you as a man must take as much responsibility as possible and use it. However this does not allow you to give bitches a free pass when they act like bitches. You call a cunt a cunt because she is a cunt. You get the nuance? Also raw dogging in general is a bad idea thanks to the massive increase in STDs. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The Walking DadTL:DR - Take an active role in raising your kids and imparting positive values. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 03:08 PM |
| 4 | Slow down, and calm downEssentially our grandparents already knew and were taught in that "misogynistic" manner, all the basic things TRP teaches you about women. They knew to ignore them when they were being hysterical/stupid. They knew to take the lead and just watch for agreement/submission from their women. They knew to respect their fellow men and not throw them under the bus for some woman. (i.e. they knew not to be beta.) They also knew the importance of masculine places where men could just be men without the i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 02:04 PM |
| 3 | My cousin is a Blue Pill PunkThe thing about beta bucks guys is that they never really reasoned themselves into their position. They were indoctrinated and emotionally reinforced into it. They never start listening to reason until that emotional reinforcement is removed. So if I was trying to help him, I would be mocking him and hurting his feelings. Can you tell I'm quite big on asshole game? haha. If he can't take being teased then he truly is weak as shit and deserves no respect... so you'll continue teasing him since hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 03:58 PM |
| 12 | Never miss a beatA sadly undervalued takeaway here. Being human means you're going to slip at some point. The less you slip, the better, but realistically you're going to fuck up. You'll make mistakes, you'll fail shit tests, you'll fail to control yourself, you'll fail to maintain your effort levels and submit to that urge to be lazy. What you do when you hit these roadblocks is just as important as what you were doing before they cropped up. Just as positives beget positives, negatives do the same. In simple t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 03:41 PM |
| 2 | After taking the red pill, and seeing it for yourself it's life on easy mode...Obvious overstatement is obvious. Theory is easy, action and outcome are the hard bits. Prior to the pill I wouldn't believe my luck. Now I expect it. These girls are lucky to have me, and my most valuable resource of time. And that there is the beauty of this all, you know what you want and how you're going to get it. It really is life on easy mode. How long did it take you? Nothing in life worth having is easy, hence why women tend to come pretty low down the list of priorities once you've sle… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 03:26 PM |
| 4 | My cousin is a Blue Pill PunkI stayed stoic and refrained from laughing the way I wanted to. Why? There's nothing useful in that. He is quite literally a beta bucks in waiting. She's stringing him along as a backup option if she can't lock down that blond (correct spelling for a man), jacked, football player or similar high level of genetics. Maybe she's even genuinely trying to play the dual mating strategy (that's sitting at about 1 in 4 these days... down from 1 in 3 in the 90s. However, we can assume that figure is unde… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 03:16 PM |
| 3 | This is what we're concerned with attracting?Insulting them for being poor wife material while also refusing to marry them isn't doing us any favours. It's not going to solve the problem. However you called him a hypocrite for his judgement. His judgement was merely the objective truth. He can get a wank off her and that's just him taking advantage of a low quality woman... she is as he described, filth. There is no hypocrisy because we can't compare him to her. He can certainly condemn a woman he sleeps with... otherwise to remain consist… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 09:16 PM |
| 2 | This is what we're concerned with attracting?Men and women are not comparable. Your point is based on this assumption. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/16 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Advice SoughtNormally I would report this post and move on with my day. It's only because you've got kids that depend on you that I'm bothering to reply. This is because I don't believe that children should have to suffer from the failures of their parents. Number one: Maybe I should just opt out of all of it by shooting myself. If you truly love your kids, why is this even an option for you? Think about that. Not only the increased mental problems that kids without a father and strong male role model have..… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/16 03:20 PM |
| 11 | The Well Known Story: How The Blue Pill Almost Broke A Young Guy's MindI remember the way my mindset was not that long ago and this was my own "how to get a girl" pattern for quite some time during high school: Meet (or just see) a girl and think about her a lot Fall in love with her (I once fell in love with a girl I didn't even meet... yeah, I know) Spend time thinking about how great it would be if you two were together Meet her somehow but then don't give her the slightest idea you like her When she doesn't pay attention to you fall into depression and wonder W… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/16 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Please, Break Up with Me!Women do and don't stick together. The deciding factor appears to be whether there is any intra-sexual competition going on. Remember women stab each other in the back in order to get ahead by pulling their competition down rather than raising themselves up. However, when there is no competition, that's when they appear to do whatever is in the interests of team woman. That's the difference and I think we can apply similar to the sorry state of men at the moment. Previously men would compete int… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | "The Red Pill" documentary banned in AustraliaJudge for yourself. This is part one of her interview on the Rubin Report. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 06:13 PM |
| 2 | "The Red Pill" documentary banned in AustraliaNo, that's your opinion and I completely disagree. How can you say that? Is this subreddit about women? Is Rollo's books/blog about women? The whole point of "our corner" is putting men as the MPO. This subreddit is not a part of society. The state does not endorse it and if pressed, would probably prefer it didn't exist. Society, in the loosest sense, disavows us and tries to discredit our discussion at every opportunity. You're talking about a woman coming out of mainstream society, of course … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 04:46 PM |
| 4 | The Culture War Is Being Transformed Into A Hot War - "The population must experience enough fear so that they will accept pre-determined solutions"Control for and perpetuation of the oligarchy is the goal and long-term strategy that makes most rational sense here. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 02:55 PM |
| 4 | "The Red Pill" documentary banned in AustraliaThis documentary is about the chick lol Everything in a gynocentric society is about women. So this particular comment was quite dumb. Now, a woman being deprogrammed... that's something worthy of note. Specifically because they are more prone to the programming in the first place due to their nature of operating on a feelings basis. We don't bother with the MRAs because guys like Elam don't understand that being attractive is important for these things. Nor do they get that they're fighting an … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Donald Trump and TRPI'm also a little confused with the rest of your post: on the one hand you say that there will be nothing that the system can do to control Clinton if she becomes president, and on the other hand you say the if Trump becomes president he will not be able to do anything too crazy... Isn't that a contradiction? No, and your earlier sentence missed my point. Think of it this way, you've got somebody who has corruptly paid off their boss and somebody who has not got any serious pull with their boss.… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Donald Trump and TRPI'm a Brit so I'm not voting in this. I'm just watching from across the pond with interest. Trump displays both alpha and beta traits and has done from the start. The reality is that he's just a high value man so he's been playing life on a much easier difficulty. This typically causes some alpha traits but he clearly wasn't taught these explicitly. As a result, depending on how his life went, he's picked up some beta traits too. You see this as a problem, but from where I'm sitting there's some… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm 16 years old and taking the red pill after being screwed over by girls.That's what I get? I deserve to be kicked out of my honors classes, have my schedule fucked with, and kicked off of the school track team for a month because I stood up for my friend that you insulted? In their view, yes. Welcome to the female mind. They have nothing but contempt for low value men. I'm going to do two things now, I'm going to both prove this point, and demonstrate that we're not some sort of fringe/radical/crazy group. Because this is a place where you will find some of the fine… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Chart of Male-Female Suicide RatesEven on TRP, most people don't get it. Some don't realise just how deep the programming goes. The feminisation of society is so engrained that there's loads of guys on here who don't even notice themselves engaging feminine-intra-sexual competitive strategy instead of the masculine alternative. (They want to hide red pill knowledge from other men because they're concerned they won't be able to compete against them for women as easily.) I also did a repost recently that was largely ignored by the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Chart of Male-Female Suicide RatesWhen men go to commit suicide, they have already concluded that nobody intends to help them... therefore there is no point making a "cry for help." | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Chart of Male-Female Suicide RatesWow... to think we had an epidemic in the west. This is a worldwide epidemic and nobody notices or cares. Let the latter part of that sink in for a moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 11:15 AM |
| 1 | In a bid to continue the destruction of his own party, UK Labour leader Jeremy Corbyn has set a 50/50 gender quota for party MPs by 2020This shit is objectively wrong by their own standards. It's anti-democratic, anti-meritocratic, anti-equality and sexist. While it's amusing watching Labour implode... I am very concerned for the future of our democracy because it doesn't function well without a good opposition. The Conservatives can't be their own opposition and Theresa May has somewhat questionable judgement regarding questions of civil liberties... hence why David Davis was taking the Home Office to court. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/16 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Mod banned my friend for saying a post was dumb?Maybe, but I saw no gain to be made here in withdrawing benefit of the doubt. Would you guys like me to repost my old piece on roles/respect/responsibility? Seems like the sub could do with a refresher. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/16 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Mod banned my friend for saying a post was dumb?Here is an old post I made which covers the appropriate methods of interaction to achieve the best outcomes on the sub, along with reasons as to why. From what you're saying, your mate was rightfully removed. Ask him if he'd gone up to his commanding officer who'd made a bad call and shout at him how he's dumb and he has a small dick? No? Maybe he'd be a bit more tactful... similar applies here. I suggest you take this down before you get yourself banned for pointless rebellious/disrespectful be… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/16 07:15 PM |
| 14 | My sister is a useless bitch. Western culture poisons women.A valid point. If Clinton gets elected then that's it for the American Democracy experiment. Corruption is too deeply ingrained to remove via the system itself. I believe JFK mentioned the next inevitable step. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 06:01 PM |
| 21 | My sister is a useless bitch. Western culture poisons women.This is what happens when you don't hold women to account for their actions. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 12:43 PM |
| 17 | N-count matters. It's how we keep score of how far we've progressed.There's no way to internalize an alpha mindset EXCEPT TO ACTUALLY FUCK AS MANY GIRLS AS POSSIBLE. So Roosh is more alpha than Rollo? You carry on kiddo, you carry on. I'm gonna go try and sew my sides back together. The whole raising of your n-count starts off as a very satisfying novelty. It makes you feel attractive and successful again... right up until you start to realise how much time and effort you're putting into women that you later discard. They're not investments, they're temporary li… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/16 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Potentially Pregnant PlateShe's on the depo shot, so idk what the implications of that are. You'll need to do some research. As for going ultra beta mode, I'm actually in a place in my life where (for better or for worse) I'm not making much money until my career progresses a little further. Does this also include lovey texts etc. all the time? I don't want her to think I want a relationship/family/life with her. All the things we demonstrate in the blue pill examples is what you'd do. Be available for her all the time. … | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Potentially Pregnant PlateDepends how you want to play it. I mean, I've seen posts from dark triad guys on how to cause miscarriages... so you can take it that extreme if you want to. As a first course of action I'd say if she is on a contraceptive that prevents the fertilised egg from attaching to the uterus lining then make sure she keeps taking it. Morning after pills can still be taken upto 72 hours after the sex, so she should get one of them. Another course of action would be to go hyper-beta and hope she'll natura… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Potentially Pregnant PlateIf it's actually two days after her period ended then you're fine. (Do you know for certain? Did you see her bleeding?) Ovulation doesn't occur until at least a week after a period ends (it's meant to be circa day 12 of a cycle, so unless she's had a week and a half long period, she ain't ovulating in time) and sperm only lives for about 72 hours. I think in some cases it can be a little longer, maybe an extra 24 hours. You're lucky, you appear to have accidentally used the "rhythm" method of co… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | The 30 somethings of tomorrow: Bachelor friendly and a lot wilder, think I see a big party coming!It's rare. That's why I have some good LTR pointers saved in case I want to go that way. There are benefits and drawbacks, just like with everything in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The 30 somethings of tomorrow: Bachelor friendly and a lot wilder, think I see a big party coming!This is correct. The idea that TRP takes a specific stance on the type of lifestyle you lead is completely preposterous. TRP is just a set of knowledge and an exchange of tested theories on how to pursue a successful sexual strategy. For example, while it's less popular, TRP does do some LTR information. We don't demand you spin plates. We'll just tell you how if you're interested in that. Turns out that most of us are. We don't demand you spin a specific number of plates. I've heard quite a few… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 01:13 PM |
| 12 | Force fed my friend the red pill by having a ONS with his OneitisFirstly, broken clocks are right twice a day. Don't dismiss the opinions of someone new for an arbitrary reason like being new. Scrutinise them and demonstrate them wrong. Secondly, we typically don't like humblebrag posts because they demonstrate a thirst for validation from the guy positing it. Validation seeking is a beta trait and should be eradicated on the sub. Additionally, most bragging characteristics don't tend to contribute substance, this is why you simply state HB8 or whatever numbe… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Opinions pleaseAfraid not. I left the field years ago because I had a very choppy time there with the internal politics and bullshit. I went to university sold on the lie that it was a place of learning where knowledge is valued. It is not. In my first year undergrad I went about logically dismantling a theory that one of the female professors had been researching for about 20-25 years. It was an absurd theory which had no place in rational discussion, however she'd been getting bits of research here and there… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Stunning 18 year-old princess cheats on her boyfriend with a female friend, loses her mind afterwardsYes. Feeding the hamster is a very useful tactic that I don't see enough about on here because it requires you to use reasoning, (specifically, doing her reasoning for her)... something which is counter to methods of seduction - you can't negotiate or reason attraction. Again, it's one of these things where a little nuance goes a long way. Lack of nuance is by far and away the biggest problem on TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 01:23 PM |
| 13 | Stunning 18 year-old princess cheats on her boyfriend with a female friend, loses her mind afterwardsHalf the challenge in picking up sluts is the logistics and putting her in that situation where her social status isn't affected by her having sex with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 11:11 AM |
| 14 | Stunning 18 year-old princess cheats on her boyfriend with a female friend, loses her mind afterwardsWhen will idiots on here learn a little nuance between all women are sluts and all women have the capacity to be a slut combining with our current culture of excusing bad behaviour and encouraging no-consequence promiscuity has led to most women being sluts. Try to keep up kiddo. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/16 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Opinions pleaseFeminine intra-sexual competition is to hold back or put down their competition. Masculine competition is to excel, rise up and defeat your competition. Which do you believe your statement sounds more like? I don't say this to try and hurt you, but I say it to highlight a point regarding just how deeply ingrained the feminisation of society has become that it has become a natural instinct to be worried about other men having your Red Pill knowledge (and thus by implication, being able to compete… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Opinions pleaseNeither was I when I came here. I've chatted with illimitableman as a fellow Brit a few times on how people get here, this is the essence of our conversations. While most are scorned by women to turn up, I'd given up on women and thought I'd failed with my soulmate and further failure suggested to me it wasn't worth trying. Effectively I'd turned MGTOW without realising MGTOW even existed. I actually came to TRP to have a laugh at some misogynists. However, and I have my professional education i… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Opinions pleaseYou're suffering scarcity mentality over a low-value druggie chick and you've come here to whine like a little girl about how you need "balance." Truth remains truth whether you like it or not. It doesn't care about your feelings or need for balance. Seriously, fuck off. Come back when you've found your balls and some basic self-respect that makes you think "i'm not going accept treatment like this from some druggie bitch." I can't tell you to want change, you need to want it before anybody can … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Sexual Strategy or Self improvement. The dumbest argument there is on here.You don't understand what facetious humour playing on irony is, do you? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/16 08:36 AM |
| 10 | Duke opens one of the first male Re-Education and Feminization Camps in the USThey look EXACTLY how you would expect. No style, no swagger, hell they're not even confident holding eye contact with a camera! I wonder if they've ever stared into a woman's eyes and seen that desire they have, while still being able to intimidate them with just that look... actually I don't wonder that at all. None of them have. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 10:17 PM |
| 17 | Guy spends hundreds on a girl to get what I got for free.She says they got through an entire season of some anime tv-show watching it together (shmuck couldn't even make a move the whole time). There's a couple of ways to interpret this. Yours is a valid interpretation. However you've got to remember, if this guy is loaded then £200 to him is like 20p to you. Would you consider spending 20p on a dinner to be a big deal? Maybe he wanted to have a nice meal and your chick was just the company and the fuck he'd have later when he felt like it? You also t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Sexual Strategy or Self improvement. The dumbest argument there is on here.He's highlighting the irony. It's funny. Try to keep hold of your sense of humour. It's makes seduction, and life in general, easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 02:04 PM |
| 5 | A not so gentle red pill truth: Status, SMV, and why the way others see you matters a lot.Part 2: You don't get it! The cool kids in high school figured it out a long long time ago, that is how they avoided being the ones who were bullied and that is how they ended up being the ones who partied, had fun, and enjoyed amazing experiences. On the other hand, the weirdo loner who decided that his videogames and his nerdy hobbies (that he openly expressed) were what matters, he got ignored at best and bullied at worst. The real world isn't really all that different. Again, more overstatem… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 10:00 PM |
| 5 | A not so gentle red pill truth: Status, SMV, and why the way others see you matters a lot.I'm going to split this in half since it's a long reply. Besides the laugh I had at seeing someone had already upvoted it in a day-old thread, (really shouldn't happen in 200+ comments thing) I've got a few mins spare since it's Sunday night so I'll bash out a more detailed response to help you out on the specifics. Essentially your post falls down on reconciliation, it uses a strawman/black&white thinking, it implies pussy is still firmly on a pedestal (in a similar fashion to how Red Pill men … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 09:59 PM |
| 7 | A not so gentle red pill truth: Status, SMV, and why the way others see you matters a lot.Yawn. "Guys who don't play the game my way are all neckbeard losers who stay in on the weekend playing WoW." That's essentially how you've set up your piece. Please come back when you've got something a bit more useful to contribute. The black and white thinking you've adopted will only hold you back. The irony of your argument stance is that you end up placing so much power in the hands of others that you're no longer able to be a unique self. So at least you've contributed something for me to … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | TRP cold approach dilemma: Women who disengage, act disinterested, etc when in fact they are secretly attracted to you and welcome your advances?Eye pops are when a chick is looking down and then fixes you with a stare a bit like the "I want to fuck you look" you'd give a chick. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Is #Fathers4Justice a scam group ?Cross-post this across the manosphere. This should be investigated by the guys who're trying to work the politics. It's less relevant here since we don't really get involved in the active political fights. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Banged a really hot 18yo girlThis. The field report is of no use to anyone trying to lead and cause anything to happen. This reads like beta pretti-boi game to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 12:34 PM |
| 6 | Women on vacations in LTRsFunny enough this same girl tried pressuring me to be exclusive with her a couple weeks prior to hearing her say that. LOL. Ironically this is probably female solipsism rearing its ugly head again. She probably thought her story was impressive because "look how many men are attracted to me, I'm really high value." It wasn't until she said it and measured your response that her mind changed on that. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 10:11 AM |
| 12 | TRP cold approach dilemma: Women who disengage, act disinterested, etc when in fact they are secretly attracted to you and welcome your advances?No it's not. It's the modern problem that women lack girl-game these days. It's unbelievable how piss poor the average chick is at girl-game. She has very little clue how to signal subtle interest. When you find a chick who can flirt well and send those subtle signals in a clear manner... that's a nice long-term plate. To answer OP's question, the way around it is to begin physical escalation immediately with light inconspicuous touches and gauge her reaction. Arm to arm, back of hand to back of… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why Do I Care about How Many Men My GF has Been With?Previous behaviour is an indicator of future behaviour. In this she's shown she doesn't value her major asset (sex) or that she has no problem lying to you. Neither are good. Both are major red flags in a partner. In addition to this you know that she also has poor self-control when it comes to sex. It's only a matter of time and a matter of the man who turns her head before such a woman will cheat. The biggest red flag of all and one of the worst possible choices in life partner. As a general r… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/16 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Flirting 103It's standard female projection. The reason they go on and on about a man only wanting her for the shallowest of qualities is partly because they've got nothing else to offer and they're desperate for this to be disproved since it's such a depressing reality... but also because they can't get away from their own solipsism of being so shallow in their own choices. Does he have a hot body? - leads to social validation of being high value woman. Does he make bank? - leads to getting stuff bought fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 01:33 PM |
| 18 | A funny exchange with my motherYou have uttered the name of GaylubeOil and in so doing summoned his holiness! If you look into the mirror and say it three times at your gym, he appears and starts shouting Arnold quotes at you for motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 01:26 PM |
| -1 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleWow. You are genuinely retarded aren't you? You've actually managed to miss two points, put them together and still not realise either of them. Go back to lurking before you pass your ignorance on to others. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 12:56 PM |
| 1 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleThis is richer than Bill Gates. The guy actually quotes one of the 48 laws of power to you Yes, all hail the 48 laws of power! We must obey the commandments at all times to the letter. No space for nuance around here. Just read dat sidebar and come out super-duper-mega-alpha who knows way more than an EC could. Damned EC's lowering the quality! /s Think outside your little dogmatic box about the alpha attitude then combine it with picking your battles and you might have the chance to see what I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleYes. However there are two points, you shouldn't be employed with zero options or ability to switch to a new job. And secondly, you should easily be able to win this one given the negative press you'd give the company after a brief proving of how serious PTSD is. As I said before, this is the point where we've got the high ground. She'll either lose the corporate discussion or the company gets to be the company that's pissing all over the serious nature of PTSD suffered by American Soldiers. Com… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 06:34 PM |
| -2 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleI joined Reddit because of TRP. This was a purpose made account, not an additional one. And just for the record, TRP is not the high ground anyway. So your point is irrelevant even if you were accurate. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 06:23 PM |
| -17 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleRationalise your cowardice in whatever way you like. When you surrender the high ground so easily, you're nothing but a beta in my eyes. Get out of my sight. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 02:06 PM |
| 23 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleAnd just like that, they've won. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 01:55 PM |
| 84 | This is the 'Rape Joke' That's Rocking AppleUnless you have been through real trauma , you should not be able to claim PTSD. Yes. Fuck them. As usual feminists can't stick to the real definition of something. I've helped in the treatment of men who've suffered PTSD. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It's a very serious life-debilitating condition. You don't get it from words. This shit needs to end. Dispute it at any opportunity gents and stick to your guns. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Karen Straughan: Female Men's Rights Activist on The Rubin Report 9/12/16I would be absolutely fascinated to see Sam Harris in conversation with Scott Adams. Maybe that's already happened and I just missed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Karen Straughan: Female Men's Rights Activist on The Rubin Report 9/12/16All of those interviews are well worth watching. Good thinkers with differing takes on things who fall differently on the political spectrum but agree with Rubin that the left is now out of control and going against basic western values. Rubin is a neverending reminder of what the left, right and centre in the west have in common - or should have in common since we all believe in freedom and liberty. It's the regressive left that have come in and undermined that freedom and pitted left and right… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 11:36 AM |
| 16 | [FR] How a dumb bimbo almost set my place on fireIt has everything. A protagonist you can empathise with. Drama. Lies. Danger. A sense of urgency. Excitement. Relief as the hero triumphs over the danger. And finally, some real-world consequences of the problem he faced down. In a movie OP could be played by Johnny Depp to add a little humour. In all seriousness, the conclusion of sending the dumb bitch home with a hard next was spot on. Those chicks are a total liability and should be cut from your life as soon as you spot it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 05:08 PM |
| 63 | [FR] How a dumb bimbo almost set my place on fire10/10 - best field report I've ever read. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Extra-Large-Medium: Pervy Cheerleader Observations by an Old Married GuyYou do what you like man. I don't care. It's your life. My note was practical advice. As much as I would love to outright body shame, it is incredibly difficult to get away with now. My note tells you how to get away with it, and I'm not A&A-ing. I'm deadly serious. The underlying exchange is simply them trying to say "you have committed social faux-pas and are therefore low value. Feel shame." to which I go "no, your social skills suck. I'm high value and you're a retarded person currently demo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Extra-Large-Medium: Pervy Cheerleader Observations by an Old Married GuyWhen dealing with flak, double down. Laugh at them. Make jokes about how butthurt they are or how overly sensitive they are. If they continue to whine just shake your head and walk away chuckling. That's how you get your IDGAF to level 2.5 | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 04:17 PM |
| 68 | GaylubeOil's Guide to Using Meals to Give Women FeelsI thought my sarcasm was obvious. I was merely enjoying GLO's usual level of entertaining writing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 01:18 PM |
| 170 | GaylubeOil's Guide to Using Meals to Give Women FeelsAround six weeks into a hookup relationship women start feeling self conscious about getting creamed by a dude that only sort of remembers their name. We have to remember their names now? God dammit! This sub just keeps raising the bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 12:07 PM |
| 14 | Thought I was being beta, maybe not.You hit last minute resistance. You failed to pass it. Nothing else to see here. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/16 02:25 AM |
| 33 | I Keep A Negative Person Around As A TRP Experiment - The Toxicity ReeksIt reads like you bragged to him or point-scored through virgin shaming. Men don't give a shit how many chicks another man is banging unless we're on the pull and it potentially lowers our SMV by association. Men find value in many things. It is only women who declare a man low value because he is low SMV. You complain about toxic negativity and in the same breath you then respond in the most negative put-down you can think of to this "friend." You are a hypocrite and projecting your rationalisa… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 03:31 PM |
| 22 | I Keep A Negative Person Around As A TRP Experiment - The Toxicity ReeksA girlfriend Self explanatory. His response: Random garbage dating advice. My conclusion: "Go fuck yourself you eternal virgin". This one hit him hard. Yet, for some reason he still won't change. What use is this to anybody? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/16 12:32 PM |
| 12 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.For all Red Pill men: if you ever find a 3, please capture it safely. Keep it alive. We'd like to study it and look at how to replicate that. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.You can stick your dick in crazy. You can also put a ring on crazy. However the Red Pill man won't do either of these. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.Essentially this comes back from abundance mentality. Once you have abundance of women, you can be picky. If you're not being picky around a set of standards then your attitude is wrong and it will be a less attractive attitude. All of TRP fits together if you're careful understanding the nuances. There are various reasons that are generally agreed where a Red Pill man will turn down sex from a chick. If she's a work colleague for example. "You don't shit where you eat" is what we'd say. More sp… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 05:32 PM |
| 27 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.On the 1-10 scale of crazy, there is no such thing as a woman who's less than a 4/10. So typically when we call a chick crazy, it's because she's like an 8+ on that scale. It comes from the normalisation of our expectations. So in terms of crazy, 6/10 crazy becomes the baseline from which we measure, and we then call the 4/10 sane (despite the fact that objectively you'd need to be a 1 or 2 out of 10 to be considered sane.) For example, my main plate is probably a 5 or 6/10 crazy. I'm confident … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 02:16 PM |
| 94 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.Am I the only person on here who remembers not to stick his dick in crazy? Has the sub's stance on this changed or something? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 01:30 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tinder Date with more red flags than a People's RevolutionThis is wrong. You're describing an omega, not a beta. If it's a general statement about betas and we lump in all omegas too, you're still wrong and you can go to deadbedrooms sub for proof. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 12:16 AM |
| 81 | FR: Tinder Date with more red flags than a People's RevolutionTalks a bunch of SJW crap (said I was "mansplaining") at one point. As a general rule, if a woman ever uses the term "mansplaining" then you get up and leave in silence and hard next her. Also: She looked like a 7 in her pics, and was a 3 IRL. my plan was to just hit it and screw cause I was horny and she was good enough for a poke. Raise your fucking standards. Only betas and women can't walk away because their sex drive has too much control over them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 02:59 PM |
| 133 | Sweden, the most cucked country in the world says they've had enough.It doesn't matter how many times you deny it... reality will keep slapping you in the face until you accept it. It won't tire. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 11:25 PM |
| 2 | lostgeneration has been taken over by SJWAmusing to note that our mod /u/bsutansalt is posting away in that thread with impunity. You should follow his example on blending in. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/16 11:13 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Recently gave a hard next to my oneitisShe had previously told me that she sees herself settling down with me in the future, but doesn't want to date now. How you managed to avoid bursting out laughing at that is beyond me. I would have told her that she was mentally ill if she's making such implicitly contradictory statements. This is a good post. It's underrated votes-wise. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill - Foster ParentAnd therein lies the actual debate. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 07:24 PM |
| 17 | If you need hard evidence that AWALT, then look no further than this Instagram page.Some days I jump from dick to dick like it's an Olympic sport, other days I drink wine at home alone and cry myself to sleep... It's called balance. They're emotionally aware that the CC is damaging them and lowering their value. But, as with all chicks... "oh look, other chicks can relate. All of them are lower value too so my competition isn't too bad." | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Plate With a Beta Provider Mindset4am? When did the date start? 2am? Jesus man, she views you as beta because you are. You gave her hours of attention for nothing. While escalation can take a few hours, you should be aiming to move from meeting to sex as quickly as reasonable. My current record is about 10 minutes, I recommend you aim to beat it and at a minimum should be down to under 30 mins. If you're taking 4 hours or more then I'd suggest you're taking too long. Focus on escalation and logistics combining better and you'll … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 01:21 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill - Foster ParentImpressive. But I don't see the sub endorsing adoption anytime soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/16 12:45 PM |
| 91 | I went to a high-class escort and thought I'd share some details with you.Being a respectful, courteous, interesting, feminine lady is apparently now a rare talent worth thousands per hour. (In fairness, I have no doubt that the market is almost as depressing for women seeking a confident, masculine man.) How far we've fallen... Fuckin' hell bro, you're gonna send me back into the depression phase. The irony is, I wrote about how we'd become the poorest men in history. I still believe that men want more than mere wealth. We want that feeling of power, admiration, weal… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/16 01:03 PM |
| 47 | Regarding recent influx of beta posts.I think mods should strictly filter bluepill content. It's a sin to lead the bluepill beginner males in the wrong direction. They already do this. However there's a fine line to prevent TRP becoming a complete echo chamber that is devoid of any ability to evolve. It is the very open nature of debate and discussion here which has had the sub evolve and grow, allowing guys here across the board to grow as men too. As a result the rules are broad and while blatant blue pill thoughts will be deleted… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/16 12:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Experimentation & Learnings From on Online DatingI play ‘spot the lie’ where each of us says a truth and a lie, and a correct guess lets you ask whatever you want about the other person. I played something similar in a group, two truths and a lie. In this I make an option "I've dated a professional model" or semi-pro model as a good test of where she sees your SMV. Couple it with some outrageous claims about what you've done with your life, I paired it with a couple of claims around jobs I'd done in other countries. You know your SMV is high w… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/16 04:38 PM |
| 14 | Germany taking a big step against CuckoldryOf all the bloody countries to take action.... | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/16 11:44 AM |
| 2 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.I just looked at that 10 things to say you're doing it right thing.... yeah. This kid doesn't understand nuance either He needs to lurk more and stop posting for a couple of months. He still appears to pedestalise women. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 09:48 PM |
| 7 | The culture of this subreddit is almost completely beta now.succeeding with women isn't worth it. Depends on the woman. Depends on the effort required. Deciding to walk away (that big card at the bottom of our deck that creates the very foundations of dread) is based upon being able to make a call on a situation that says "the sex here with this woman just isn't worth it." Essentially the sub ebbs and flows. It floats from one extreme to the other when the answer is somewhere in the middle. It was only about a month ago I was tempering guys who had sex a… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.I agree with the analysis. He should disappear. But it was never Red Pill to end up in that situation in the first place. Though personally I'd suggest he gets out of the jurisdiction of the family court and not pay at all. That all counts to me as an involuntary absence since he's having it made impossible to stay and he failed to take any of the action necessary to set things up ready to raise a family (first and foremost of which, finding a half decent woman.) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.At least somebody realises the pragmatism today. Thanks. I was about 1 reply from leaving the community. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.You carry on thinking you're smarter than one of the giants of TRP. Also, nice job missing my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.Being an alpha and being Red Pill are not the same thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.Deadbeat was too strong. It's not aimed as a personal attack against guys like you who've done the best you can within a shit system with some of the worst circumstances. The point was it's not something we want to be encouraging guys here to end up doing. My assumption is that you weren't Red Pill when all that crap happened to you? These guys are getting so carried away in seeing the chick making her own fuck ups and laughing at it, that they're endorsing the behaviour as though it's where Red… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.So much morality involved in this. Telling someone not to view things black and white. Saying that wrapping your dick is standard red pill behaviour and thus getting a chick knocked up and exposing yourself to this stupid situation is not red pill... so much morality influencing this. Jesus, has TRP taken stupid pills today? What the hell is wrong with everyone today. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:37 PM |
| 8 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.Most deadbeats are alphas and alpha is what's aspired to be here. How do you reconcile this? With great ease. Corey Worthington is the alpha buddah, but his wreckless behaviour is not endorsed by TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 21 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.But we know this can't possibly be true. Absolutely legit criticism. My primary concern is that OP is building up the actions of a man who got a chick pregnant (not Red Pill. Short of a chick off her pill and your condom failing, this shouldn't happen with a plate) and then is apparently doing nothing to raise the child (thus damaging that child and creating another beta or slut and effectively reversing his positive contribution to the gene pool by allowing it to become a negative one.) The poi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:31 PM |
| -5 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.Did you miss the part where he said 'doing the quota of parenting he needs to'? Would you prefer the guy had unwillingly stayed with this woman like an obedient beta? Does it make your head hurt to view everything in such black and white terms? Possibly you believe he shouldn't have came in her, but then I'd wonder if you are a virgin.. half the point of having a gf is getting to have proper sex without a condom. Wrap it for all plates. Doing otherwise is distinctly the opposite of Red Pill. She… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:23 PM |
| 17 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.Yeah, absent fathers who pay their child support are excellent role models and precisely what we want to be... it's not like we've identified that behaviour as a problem or anything... Stop posting for a month or two and lurk more. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:04 PM |
| 361 | Woman hits the wall at 25, has mental breakdown: single mother with no money comes to realise no one wants to date a single mother, has vitriolic anger towards her ex who's still living a happy life and having relationships.The guy however, he's paying the child support he needs to, doing the quota of parenting he needs to, and still manages to get around having some action. Absolute red pill by the looks of it. Yeah, there's nothing red pill about being a voluntarily absent dad. Try to control your revenge fantasy hardon. (Edited to remove the word "deadbeat." It wasn't the correct description.) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 04:14 PM |
| 10 | You can't be MGTOW or be 'Preferably Monogamous' if you can't get other women.The power of our card to walk away comes from the fact that the woman doesn't want us to walk away. If you're a beta, that card has no power because she never cared in the first place. The base of MGTOW is in exercising their power of personal choice. Unfortunately they haven't noticed that some of them don't have power and have exercised nothing when they've made the choice. That said, I always end up laughing my socks off at the guys who say "all MGTOWs just can't get women" when I remember Lu… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 01:34 PM |
| 3 | US News Article: "Women Are 'Genetically Programmed' to Cheat, Study Says"Overstatement. We're programmed with opposing sexual strategies which are not monogamous for either party... with the exception of a woman who can gain commitment and resources from a top 5% alpha. Monogamy is merely the best compromise for men and women's opposing sexual strategy. In this system more than 20% of men will achieve some form of sexual success and women will not have to share the resources from their man with other women. So we are and we aren't programmed for monogamy. As rational… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Just another warning for you college students out there...The idiocracy is here! I have zero sympathy for anybody in this story. We've all got to adapt accordingly gents. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Can't we just be friends? No. (From blue to red)One of the older ladies commented that she likely communicated an unintended message. Doesn't really matter what she did or how she feels. She demonstrated she's not chill enough to be treated in a casual fashion... therefore she won't be. All these modern sexual harassment laws were put in to mean well (i.e. to stop the old lech from randomly molesting the young women employed for him, knowing they can't do a thing about it) but they're just too subjective and no firm line has been drawn to pre… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/16 11:40 AM |
| 9 | Women are Children.Ever wonder why there are so many gay bars but zero lesbian bars? Interestingly there was a popular gay bar in a town I used to live years ago, run by two lesbians. Never went, but I hear it was very successful... probably due to local monopoly rather than anything else. Speaking of women acting like children, I recently experienced a 5th chick literally acting like a child in my presence... making childish animal noises at me. They never do it at first. I get about four to six weeks of them act… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/16 12:52 PM |
| 4 | The Key Mastersand it is always subject to the Four Horsemen of the Hamster Apocalypse: Natty Dread, the Dread Pirate Roberts, the Grateful Dread and Dread Zeppelin. You're reminding me of a man I knew who owned a big law business... he too had far too much spare time on his hands to come up with these amusingly lengthy jokes. And yeah, Rollo's case here is pure overstatement. The area is far too murky and prone to situational influence for him to come to the conclusion he has. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 03:19 PM |
| 7 | Can't we just be friends? No. (From blue to red)(she 100% couldn't compute my response) No, she can compute the response. She's just lost a potential orbiter and free-favour-doer and she's upset about it. So she'll try all sorts of mental gymnastics to try and save the situation. After that she may get upset or angry about it and lash out. Let's hope you're not the one she lashes out at. Oh, by the by, prep yourself for a sexual harassment claim. If you're lucky it might not happen... but the funny thing is, by the loose definition of sexual … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 01:36 PM |
| 1 | It's Hip to be Square.It's from the poem "If" (and I may have misquoted. But the jist is still there.) Seriously though, you could have just googled that line and come up with the answer. Don't look to be spoonfed everything so much. Act independently and find things out for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 01:04 AM |
| 15 | Women are "naturals"Women can't to learn game. Game is only for men. There is no pua for women. False. There is girl-game. It's just totally different to men's game. (As everything is between the sexes.) The women today have some level of girl-game naturally... but most of them are absolutely useless at drawing the attention of a man they're interested in. As per usual, men are left doing ALL the work. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Women are "naturals"They are pathetically bad at game. Don't start me on the current level of girl-game out there. It's fucking dreadful. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Another myth that is being advocated in TRP: "Getting laid is a symptom of success"They're more subtle about it (make up reasons to be near you, think everything you say is hilarious etc) because they expect you to still be a man and make a move. But they definitely show interest to a high value man. Yeah, whenever a chick approaches it's always a piss poor excuse used. I'm not top 5% so I do have to put effort in... I just advocate putting in absolute minimum effort. But yeah, I've been approached too. If you dress sharp and have the right body language and good posture then … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/16 12:46 PM |
| 1 | It's Hip to be Square.Oversimplification. Call it a sort of interactive self-help for men... where the help is sorta known for the most part but not entirely. Debates still go on around here regarding the minutiae of the philosophical underpinnings of this pragmatism. Sometimes it's relevant to things like inner game or organising your life while other times it's merely pointless and pretentious erudition. Ultimately it's down to you to draw the line and make up your own mind on things. (TRP just gives you the case f… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 12:27 PM |
| 50 | It's Hip to be Square.You need to conform to the in-crowd if you want that pussy. No you don't. And the Chads aren't bad people. The Chads are actually some pretty swell guys, they just aren't beta. Everyone hates the Jocks until you get in on the Jock group and become a Jock; then you realise the Jocks are cool people. Did I accidentally wander into a high school film? All groups have decent people and asshats in them. Nerdy losers, preppy lots, jocks, the wannabes, the prefects, fuck whatever. You'll find cool peop… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 07:21 PM |
| 9 | Catch-22 as Extremely Handsome Alpha: Double OstracismUnder the halo effect, both men and women who are in the top 5% for looks will be liked by the vast vast majority of people. Given your description, have you considered you might just be an average looking, over-confident asshole who comes across as above his station? Just a thought. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | why not dating women who used to be men?Those are defined medical problems. They are not based upon feelings. There are tangible things influencing it and it should therefore be treated as a medical problem not a mental health issue. However, sometimes medical problems can lead to secondary mental health issues such as brain biochemical imbalances leading to depression. It doesn't mean that depression is not a mental health problem or that it is acceptable. Nor does it stop the biochemical imbalances or whatever caused them to no long… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 01:05 PM |
| 3 | why not dating women who used to be men?Because transsexuality is a mental illness that's covered up by the left for political gain. There is a false comparison made between gender and sexuality that doesn't make sense upon critique. It also shares significant similarities with eating disorders and other mental illnesses that involve body dysmorphia. The way they currently treat gender identity problems is the equivalent of treating an anorexic with a course of laxatives and then giving them a stomach staple and liposuction. All becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 12:08 PM |
| 16 | "She's cute though, isn't she?"I had hard nexted her, That was just a lie you told yourself. When you hard next, you hard fuckin' next. Not contact. If she turns up in person, polite greetings, then find a polite way to go talk to someone else. Mentality is the hardest thing to internalise. You think you've got it and then you go off taking one too many drinks of a woman's beauty and suddenly you're off your face doing dumb shit you'd never thought you'd do. The problem you've got is you're still drunk. Given that you've alre… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 12:02 PM |
| 3 | HB 5.5 loses her mind when I don't buy her dinner (FR)Perhaps it's the fact he's banged a personal 9 during this time? So he reckons he's doing things fine. Which if results are what you're here for... I guess he is doing fine by that standard. Not what I would advocate, but my style isn't liked by everybody here. I don't know whether he's telling the truth or not about the HB9, but I do know that I used to date a personal 10 during my blue pill days... (gained inadvertently by not giving a fuck because I figured she was way out of my league) so no… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 05:44 PM |
| 6 | HB 5.5 loses her mind when I don't buy her dinner (FR)If a woman, actually no - if anyone ever texted me saying something like this, I would block their number and never acknowledge their existence. Yes. This is where that interaction should have ended. Personally I would have ended it after she asked for a picture demonstrating how unbelievably dumb she was. Let's be clear, 90% upwards of women are dumb compared to blokes, but this was dumb even by female standards of being dumb. I'm actually struggling to read the whole thing because I've come ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/16 02:14 PM |
| 10 | [Humor] Things Feminists SayDon't pull a No True Scotsman Think about Cypher in The Matrix. Sometimes this shit can just be too much for people. Well noticed. I think that men who fail too many times and don't have the personality to keep going in the face of adversity will rationalise that TRP is wrong in order to save their ego. I would theorise that any who do have some success will end up leaving to go blue pill in the bargaining phase, or MGTOW in the depression phase. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | The lie is easy to believeYeah. Women can't un-sex with a man, but a man can withdraw his commitment. Marriage 1.0 was a good compromise between the two sexual strategies and prevented men abusing our trump card. All they've done by making marriage 2.0 so abusive to men... is we're now abusing that very privilege - heh, a chance to use that term realistically - of ours to walk away and withdraw any commitment after sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 10:59 PM |
| 9 | The lie is easy to believeThe Blue Pill lie is that women are worth committing to and investing in, and that this is an investment that will pay off over time. Not quite how I'd put it. The blue pill lie is that worthless women are worth committing to and that commitment isn't worth much so men should give it to any woman who asks or provides sex in exchange. We can see just how valuable commitment is when we see that women will seek it from beta men as a backup plan and then seek it again after they've hit the wall. It'… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 07:03 PM |
| 22 | The lie is easy to believeWhy is this controversial here? I see a below 70% upvote tally. What the fuck is wrong with the current inhabitants of TRP? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceI've never read this one before. I'm a big fan of Rollo, but I think sometimes he fails when things get tough. It's probably because he's been raised through academia which (modern academia at least is guilty of this) doesn't teach good quality argumentation skills. I'm about halfway through this piece and it's very unconvincing, seeming intellectually disingenuous with the way the logic jumps all over the place without ever really finishing a point. Starts off with the personal but never really… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceMaslow ranks everything as a need lol. I studied him many years ago. Humanistic psychology never really caught on as the "third force" he hoped it would be. I wouldn't use him as a reference/proof in discussions. Refer to my discussion with /u/Mentathiel for an overview of where I stand on this. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceHeh. Makes a good case for the subjective personal bias. And I suppose I am talking from my ivory tower of abundance. Doesn't make me wrong though. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/16 10:44 AM |
| 8 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuance99% of the way there. I would put it as evolution needs sex. The species needs sex. It solves this problem by putting the urge in us to have sex when other survival-focused things aren't distracting us. i.e. it's top of the list of "wants" because "needs" are anything we could die without. Even evolution has told us that needs come first. An individual doesn't need it, but they sure do want it. This is absolutely spot-on: Those few who fulfill that need display a sex-satiated behavior that commu… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceYour pedantry amuses me, Sir. Have an upvote. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceThere is good evidence to suggest lack of sex will impact your psychological health negatively and that regular sex will impact your psychological health positively. Unfortunately we can't pick apart all the different factors around psychological health yet since psychology is still a relatively young science. (It's only a couple of hundred years old, if that, and the application of proper science to it is only decades old.) Essentially the bit I believe needs to be sorted out is the physical as… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceInteresting argument. However the wealth analogy doesn't fit. The wealth is a means to an end regarding purchasing the basic needs. You can still potentially get those basics without wealth. You can go on existing. You can go on existing without sex. You don't want to do either with your existence, but you can. Essentially wealth is a good example of something else which is high up the wants list but not strictly essential. This is the nuance. All that said, you can't go on existing without oxyg… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceIt's an imperative and drive, as determined by evolution. Not a need. Evolution weeds out the low value this way. The low value still exist. Lack of basic needs will weed both high and low value men out of existence. Being low value means they won't get much sex, if any, but they don't suddenly die as someone without a basic need would. There is a very clear difference here and sex ends up in the category of wants like wealth and power, rather than needs like water and food. Remember to factor i… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.Look, I get that English is your second language, so I'm not too bothered that you've got this wrong. However your comprehension in this circumstance is poor. You're either going to take my word for this or you're not. Frankly I have no idea how to demonstrate this to someone who's just quoted somebody and then made a comment which makes no sense in that context, so I'm not going to try. No ill-will mate... but you've misinterpreted him. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 02:50 PM |
| 7 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.What a nice beta revenge fantasy I think you need to practice your reading comprehension. Statements around everybody losing isn't a revenge fantasy. The typical beta revenge fantasy is focused around spite of the girl in her 20s with high SMV who is fucking around, trying to convince yourself she'll be ugly and alone once she hits the wall. I don't believe I should have to go through how this is untrue and doesn't typically come to pass (though it is very funny when it does.) What he appears to… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | This is Not Self HelpYou want sex, you need sex, a lot of it, with young, fit women, lots of them. I don't know about you, but I have no problem following a masculine sexual strategy that will help me get this, not some self help. Good luck when they notice your thirst and you can't get past LMR because you really want that sex. You don't need it, you merely go and get it when you feel like it. Just because that's every day doesn't invalidate this rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/16 08:07 PM |
| 1 | So we kindof die alone?Short answer yes with an if. Long answer, no with a but. The reality is that LTRs are a far more complicated beast than plate spinning. Exclusivity is a very powerful card in the man's deck, playing it as a lure works very well if you're just messing with plates or fucking with a chick. Once you play that card though and enter a serious LTR (and when you enter an LTR, it should be extremely serious. You are the gatekeeper of commitment and you just gave it up) you've effectively just adopted a c… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/16 06:54 PM |
| 1 | [Red Pill Theory] It's all about looks...Status trumps all. Make a plan to achieve high status in a field and go out and achieve it. Then you can do what you like, be king of the betas and you'll still get women throwing themselves at you. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days?Think about how we have a standard response on the sidebar here at asktrp for when your plate has "the talk" with you about turning it into a committed relationship. Then add in the fact that women don't even know how they operate. They don't understand themselves. I've had multiple women admit to me their vagina has more power over them than they have over it. When you state your behaviour is caused by something in you that you have no control over, you are admitting you haven't figured out how… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 05:23 PM |
| 16 | Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days?Still, in the final moments of me ended it she was rationalizing the break up like it was my fault that I couldn't deal with her past. So yeah, it's not stop. Even their rationalisations are poor. I couldn't help but pick up on this and have to add that it is not your obligation to tolerate anything you dislike. You are not required to date anyone. She IS obligated to tolerate the judgements leveled at her for the actions she has taken in her life. That is out of her control. Essentially all she… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 01:15 PM |
| 25 | Why do women say "It was only sex" when referring to their CC days?The essence of this lies in the way women see love differently to men. Their love is always opportunistic and when it comes to explain their feelings-driven behaviour in a rational and logical fashion... they can't do it. Because it was never rational or logical. It was irrational, emotions based actions that, with the help of hindsight, anyone with a brain can see was fucking retarded. But women are incapable of admitting fault for the most part. This is a necessary ego defense mechanism to kee… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/16 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosYeah, I know mate. I don't think it was possible to be clearer with the flaw in the logic. Looking at the points/scores, it appears that the community has picked up on it. So that's something positive. It provides a good example that even those in positions of responsibility can be wrong sometimes and we have a duty to keep each other honest. Always keep your views unified. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/16 11:40 AM |
| 2 | One Night Stand to Fuck BuddyYeah, the "what's up" text was a bad idea. That probably translated to "please respond" if she's not into you anymore. There's a number of possible explanations of this from: a guy more alpha than you suddenly showing interest in her... maybe she has a boyfriend she lives with... all the way to, your first convo/text game was weak. Let's not hover on that and get on with it. Forget about her until the weekend and then on Sunday drop her a text with something concrete to meet up during the week f… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Hamstering? Comfort test? Guys will eventually lose love/passion.Yeah, your arguments sucked mate, but the reality is this is just another example of AWALT. Chick is just absolving herself of responsibility for anything bad. Then she shames you in response to your disagreement. She said that I must have not had many relationships. She even told me to go date more girls. You basically told her that you don't "just get it." Never bother explaining to chicks, they're not interested in knowing themselves because that would break their ability to rationalise and b… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | One Night Stand to Fuck BuddyShe's inexperienced, so you need to up your leadership of her. Just drop her a text to go out somewhere and take it from there. Keep it simple, lead her back into bed again and then make the next meeting at your place for netflix & chill or such. It reads like you're really overcomplicating matters. Stress less mate! | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosYou mean "I have a question", I should've pointed out the feminine instigation tone from your previous comment. It was not a question. It was a statement of fact on what was required to complete the logic and unify your theory regarding irrelevancy of some men. As with my targets in any discussion or argument, I am attempting to get at the truth. Your passive aggressive opening and reinterpretation of my statement through manipulation of tone is an argument in bad faith. You should not do that w… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/16 05:22 PM |
| 12 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosBetas are a commodity at all stages (they're the 80%). Less betas does not make the game any harder for women, the only thing thats harder for them at that stage is acceptance of the fact that they've hit the wall. There is no shortage of victims, no matter what greek letter Vox Day calls them. You need to complete your logic now and explain why women try to shame MGTOWs back into the game if they're so irrelevant and invisible. The flaw I see is that women can't achieve the AF/BB strategy if th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 09:39 PM |
| 12 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosNo, they only want the top 20% who are very very reluctant to leave the game in any case. The MGTOW might as well be invisible. Beta is the backup option. Once she's hit the wall hard enough, she'll accept a beta provider. What you refer to there as the invisible MGTOW are the omegas. I suspect MGTOW has a combination of alphas, betas and omegas. While I doubt they miss the omegas, the others are all men leaving the game that women do not want to leave the game - whether they're the prime option… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How does a brother prepare for court?If /u/Protopill is still around then he might have something useful to say. Otherwise you'll have to wait until someone who works in that setting comes by. You should probably mention your country since legal systems and etiquette differs from place to place - I'd put a guess in that you're USA, but you never know with these things. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Alright, boys. Help me out with a weird situation"well, how am I supposed to get ahold of you?" "By the belt while undoing it." (That question seemed like her really weak attempt to re-engage you after you made to leave. So you needed to turn it openly sexual imho.) Fortune favours the bold mate. In all seriousness, she sounds like she could have been a time waster. She gets off on using the power of her pussy over men maybe? Only you'll know because you'll know how much escalation there was before this. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 10:39 AM |
| 23 | Discussing MGTOW with AnterosMGTOW being attacked by feminist groups does not make logical sense since they theoretically want to be left alone to do their own thing. It makes more sense for them to attack MGTOW because these are the men checking out of the game altogether. These are the men that women have completely lost. Each man removed from the game makes the game more difficult for women regardless of whether they're riding the CC, trying to pin down an alpha or following AF/BB as a strategy or looking to nail down th… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/16 09:43 AM |
| 6 | I used to consider myself a feministIt's practically copy pasta from wikipedia... and you're surprised you're wrong? You are a moron. Let's get that out the way first. Second, if you wish to call me a misogynist for disliking first wave feminism, then be my guest. The suffragettes were terrorists... and fucking stupid ones at that. Emily Davidson who famously died being trampled by the King's horse for the suffragettes... she's celebrated yearly. You know how she died? She was trying to pin a rosette to the horse while it was runn… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 11:25 AM |
| 3 | 10 things guys do to earn the title "fuckboy"Fuckboy - A term used by sluts to describe any man she is a pathetically weak-willed woman around in a desperate attempt to pretend she isn't a worthless slut with barely any relationship market value and thus rationalise her total and complete failure in the dating game. i.e. her entire life. Use of said word is a massive red flag on a woman's LTR worthiness, probably second only to mentioning cuckolding. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 09:59 AM |
| 7 | My Ladies First story and other eye opening every day interactions2 walks up and says to 3: Hi! I was just wondering if I could convince this man to let me get in front of him in line. I say to 2 I only have 2 small items and your basket is half full, I dont think so. Cashier (3) looks at me and says havn't you ever heard of Ladies First? I say "Yes I have but I could never come up with a good reason for it". They all 3 stood without an answer and looked at me with as if I had just short circuited there entire matrix of reality, a look of dissociation or cogni… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/16 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How can you get a chick that's hotter than you ?Women define their own SMV on a constantly changing scale. They don't do it objectively like the men who look at a woman and then say "that's a HB8." Secondly, there is no such thing as a HB10 - only personal 10s. 8-10 starts to become quite personalised depending on your preferences. Be aware of this when chasing women and make sure you never accidentally put a personal 10 on a pedestal that nobody else would put her on. My view of SMV for men is that your appearance, style and any extras like … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/16 03:37 PM |
| 116 | [FR] met an old plate at a party, she now has a LTR (4 yrs, even bought an house together). She asks me tips on how to cuckhold the guy. Then wants the D.This was an amusing read that I'm still chuckling at. I also completely agree with your conclusion: (imo this is exaclty the kind of mess that you should avoid at all costs, you don't want to be around when Bob and reality finally collide. Also that level of sexual promiscuity is a red flag) It's one of those situations where if the beta male went seriously violent, you wouldn't say it was unjustified given the way he's been treated. This is not to advocate violence, simply that I wouldn't have … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesI know the feeling. I've been melting and struggling to concentrate the past couple of days with the heatwave we've been having in the UK. So yes, I shall have a pint of water. Something else can be set aside at Oktoberfest. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesWhat woman has a second family that she supports financially while married? This is the most confusing thing I've ever read haha. I'm assuming you've misread me... but I'll have a pint of what he's drinking! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 09:10 PM |
| 6 | Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer ConsequencesBeta men would like to cheat but can't. Alpha men get exposed for cheating... but it's probably a part of women trying to steal the commitment of an alpha. There is no reverse equivalent for a committed woman cheating, so it's not surprising they can keep it quieter. They'll only bring it out if they're going to divorce the husband anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women are Horses not Unicorns.Unicorn = white horse that hasn't got too dirty that we captured, then hammered a spike through it's head as a makeshift lobotomy to prevent further dumb behaviour. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | knowledge vs applicationRead my TRP Field toolkit series. It covers all basic game with examples. Then just start talking to women. If you only do those two things you'll be making progress in no time. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Go Your Own Way Elsewhere: Why TRP Isn't MGTOW and We're Not MonksFrankly, if someone isn't interested in putting forth effort to have sex with women, he doesn't belong at The Red Pill. Strongly disagree. I believe the end goal of Red Pill is to be able to put the least effort necessary into getting sex from women. They're frankly not worth Herculean efforts. Additionally, this would tally as the end-logic of abundance mentality - i.e. no woman is worth significant effort because there is another slut round the corner. That said, I want to delve into a specifi… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Love: Freud vs Jung perspectivemodern theorists hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Per-lease! I studied psych years ago and even back then the field had all but dismissed everything Freud and Jung have to say by now due to the unfalsifiable nature of much of it. They're basically a piece of history now. The focus for the real professionals in the field (not the politically motivated) is keeping things as scientific as possible and adhering to Galileo's wisdom on measuring. This entire post is not just shit, it's shit based u… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/16 03:46 PM |
| 12 | "My Girlfriend just discovered what Cuckolding is"I wouldn't waste my time talking with her at all. The instant-hard-next is not up for debate with me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 04:21 PM |
| 45 | "My Girlfriend just discovered what Cuckolding is"To say that such a thing is a potential deal-breaker is an understatement. It's instant-hard next for a chick to even watch that shit, let alone mention it. There is nothing to be discussed here, the fact she's even entertained the idea out of curiosity demonstrates she is not LTR material and I'd even go so far as to say this is the biggest red flag imaginable from a chick regarding her long term relationship suitability. There's nothing to even talk about with her. The moment she's said it, yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | It's not a conversation to her, it's combat. She wants to win.To your example I would suggest occam's razor is more relevant than shit testing and dominance/submission theories. You've just got a shitty landlady who didn't bother thinking about things and has tried to bluster it all through for her own convenience. The line between vigilance and paranoia can be thinner than we'd like to think... you might have crossed it. I'd suggest you try to chill out a little more. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 12:48 PM |
| 3 | TRP at a Ballroom Dancing ClassThat would make sense as I was taught at a place that was very "competition minded" as you put it and my mate was a national champion at this that and the other dance. I do recall that they were quite specific about poses/posture/poise and such. "Ladies, we are having tea with the Queen" was the funniest fuckin' thing I heard when she was wittering on about hand placement. It was a fun couple of years. Not really my thing long-term though. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 11:13 AM |
| 28 | TRP at a Ballroom Dancing ClassMy mate used to do dancing in competitions and he had a partner who was known for constantly trying to lead the men she danced with. He was partnered with her, in his words, "because I'm the only one who can tolerate her silly attempts to lead." Quite frankly the conversation in that class should never have happened. When I learned ballroom dancing the female of the two teachers was very clear with the women - "ladies, control yourself. It's the man's job to lead." Also... this... She smiled and… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 09:17 PM |
| 6 | It's not a conversation to her, it's combat. She wants to win.Lessons Learned In many if not most conversations with a woman, she is approaching the interaction as a zero sum game that she wants to win rather than a discourse. Understanding this can give you the upper hand. Shit tests can be interpreted as unconsciously originating from this innate combativeness, and understanding this can help a man deflect and pass them with ease. I strongly disagree with this conclusion. Any woman who is talking to you and shit testing you is doing so because she feels … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Toxic article- If You Choose an Awakened WomanIt's just a shit poem by a bad writer who thinks she's much more than she is. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/16 06:22 PM |
| 2 | feeling like a consolation prizeHow did you get to the acceptance phases? Im stuck between depression and anger phases. Yeah, you're in bargaining. "If I can just improve a bit more to compete with these other guys then maybe I'll be happy." How do you get over the fact you aren't at the same level as the other men that women you can attract have been involved with? I've never known anyone in my life who is better than me in every department. If a guy is wealthier than me, I might be better looking than him. My hair is definit… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/16 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Had oneitis, cut her off, now she wants help with something. What is the best way to tell with her response when I tell her - nopeHow? Ignore her. Pure ghost. Remove her and block her from all social media and just ignore her texts and calls. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 10:03 PM |
| 2 | knowledge vs applicationBut, I have the difficulty of applying it. I can't change my inherent ways. or force myself to change in the moment, it feels inauthentic and not my personality. With what? You need to be more specific than just "applying red pill." This ain't some topical cream mate. There's a lot of nuances and facets to the pill that allow personalisation of your use of the knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Had oneitis, cut her off, now she wants help with something. What is the best way to tell with her response when I tell her - nopeWhy did you let her back in? It's fairly obvious from this where she sees you in her life. To give you a hint - preparing for orbit. Cut her out of your life completely and fuckin' stick to your decisions this time. Jesus, this isn't even a question. You're just looking for someone to tell you what you already know you should be doing. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 09:42 PM |
| 7 | [X-post] OP's reads fiances diary and realised she was Alpha-widowed by her coke-head EXDont date alpha-widowed women (unless your top-tier alpha I guess?) This raises a point which I've kept in the back of my head for LTR searches. You've got to be the apex-alpha for any woman you want an LTR with if you want to make things as smooth as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get LaidI saw this at the weekend. My main plate is obsessed with this game. As we went out to get some food, we passed another couple. I swapped looks with the guy because both our women were looking at their phones. It was a look that said "seriously, these women are in their 20s." It's amazing how women flock towards any fad and trend instantly. The women in their 20s now really are the most worthless women we've ever had on this planet. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 11:26 AM |
| 2 | How do I handle this woman?I'm gonna see her at another event on the 5th of August, I feel like it might be better to use that occasion? Yeah, that can make it more natural. Not trying to find an excuse for not seeing her, but I'm so absolutely terrible at starting a conversation "out of thin air", and an event is always a good starting point. I get that man. This is why I try to make openers as natural as possible and unforced. That's not to say I don't do stupid forced openers like cheesey pick-up lines sometimes for th… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Opinions are like assholes, so who gives a shit?You remind me of the chick who whines that men are the problem when she's had a trail of failed relationships. You blame me for your inability to convey your stance well and then strawman my metaphor in order to construct your defence. Nice one. You're not impressing anyone here who has a brain. Now let's take your specific stance for amusement value. Opinions without proof and no facts to work with. I have a general stance regarding game that I have opined from time to time on here: it is best … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Opinions are like assholes, so who gives a shit?If no one is following you, and you are marching to a band that everyone hates, what's the point. Indeed. The nuance would be that you need to listen to others and be sure in your opinions. However you will not be cowed, manipulated or shamed into holding opinions without a damned good set of reasoning behind it. You can persuade others of your views if you so choose, however it is not of great importance to you. You know what you're doing, and anybody smart enough to listen is welcome to learn.… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/16 11:14 AM |
| 4 | Opinions are like assholes, so who gives a shit?But, the alpha is completely uninterested with the opinion of others. Only a fool is uninterested in the opinion of others. That's how you become a closed minded SJW. Speak with confidence all you like, but if you're saying 2+2=5 then anyone with a brain won't think you're alpha. They'll think you're retarded. Which you might be since you didn't notice this really obvious flaw in your reasoning. Take this drivel down before the mods do. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/16 11:42 PM |
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