Outcome independence

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-20T00:12:53+00:00

Yes.

NightwingTRP · 2019-04-20T00:50:54+00:00

You should have a backup plan for her not turning up too.

StopGaming1234 · 2019-04-20T01:34:08+00:00

If she flakes you look like a fool. Why would you block notifications?

Just set a time and a place and verify it with her beforehand - make a call or write something a few hours before the actual meeting "See you at 4".

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-04-20T03:10:40+00:00

How exactly does your plan align with outcome independence?

Outcome independence would be letting her send messages, and not giving a fuck about whether she agrees to meet, or not. You're cool, either way. Un-invested in the outcome.

And why you taking like two days, two separate conversations to propose definite logistics?

You are a high value, busy man. You suggest the place and time right away and get her answer. I don't know about you, but I ain't fuck'n around at the last second, I need to know before 'cuz I have shit I an do.

bonersNlaughs · 2019-04-20T00:07:28+00:00

You should phone her in the afternoon, if she doesn't answer, send you last msg asking her to get back to you when she's around.

Title	Outcome independence
Author	EliotsPumpedUpKicks
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	April 19, 2019 11:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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