I want to fork it over.

djonmaya · 2013-06-08T09:57:16+00:00

You work 80 hours a week and the pay is ok?

What the hell is your job?

VZPurp · 2013-06-08T05:55:51+00:00

Pick your battles. You have to develop the ability to deliver your message without getting punched in the face.

Someone that outweighs you by a hundred pounds is a bad person to run your mouth too unless you can make them laugh while doing it.

Exactly_what_I_think · 2013-06-08T07:47:39+00:00

If you work 80 hours/week and your pay is not excellent or you have some financial hardship why don't you look for a new job.

GayLubeOil · 2013-06-08T10:47:04+00:00

thataccountabout · 2013-06-08T15:02:27+00:00

You my friend need to learn the art of bullshitting. I may not be the best to give advice to on this regard (I'm seriously lacking male friends), but from my experience with both sexes, you can pretty much say anything as long as it's coming from a fun place within you.

In this case it sounds like you would find yourself in altercations because your comments are coming from a hateful place. You need to realize that in the adult realm most things people say are utterly meaningless and when you're being "pushed around" by your fellow man that they are really just busting your balls for a laugh. Do the same in response BUT from a fun place and you will garner their respect.

Seriously, imagine yourself having a night out with the fellas busting each others balls, because let's face it isn't just YOU being singled out (you may feel that way, but I don't any adult males who focuse on one person the whole night to make fun of unless they are boring), and you decide to crack an insult joke to a friend who takes it the wrong way and acts like a wet blanket for the rest of the night. Now imagine instead that person said something quick witted back and everyone laughed about it instead. I really cannot stress that in the bar scene 99% of discussions are bullshit and the only thing that is important is FUN. Frame in fun and you win.

Also worth repeating is that if you think these people are "pathetic" it will show in your frame. Who and what they are isn't a factor in the present moment. In the present moment everyone is bullshitting and trying to have a laugh, join them or go home.

projectself · 2013-06-08T21:51:26+00:00

Books are good, but action is better. why not use both to work on your assertiveness skills? dont just read it, force yourself to practice the exercises in real life. Your world will change in a few weeks.

http://www.amazon.com/Assertiveness-Workbook-Express-Yourself-Relationships/dp/1572242094

[deleted] · 2013-06-08T21:47:21+00:00

Don't resort to violence. The best revenge is living well. Get a better job, get out of debt, and save money. Be too busy improving your life to give a shit about other people. Eventually your animosity will turn into pity.

uberafc · 2013-06-11T00:24:46+00:00

Read some of Tyler's stuff on dealing with AMOGs. There may be other stuff out there as well.

iamme2 · 2013-06-08T16:06:49+00:00

The strong and the ones who have heart get respect.

The bottom line is you're presenting yourself like a weak fuck. You need to focus on why you're appearing like a push over. I'm sorry to say but it's probably psychological [very hard to overcome] unless worst case scenario you physically look like the weakest fuck around. You need to do a lot of soul searching and mental improvement into why your thoughts and emotions are giving you this cowardly demeanor.

Title	I want to fork it over.
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Date	June 8, 2013 5:26 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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