I have been happily married for almost 3 years. Well before we got married people would ask why I never got jealous of other men talking to or hitting on my then girlfriend. My response was and continues to be "The day she wants to go home with someone else, she should."

My thinking here was always that if I can't make her want me more than some random guy hitting on her, we should not be together at all for failings on mine (beta) and her part. Is this in line with RP thinking?