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1

How old are you? Still in your study years or past that?
/r/askTRP14/10/14 12:57 PM
22

I can confirm this... I changed one of my tinder / okcupid pictures on me playing guitar and I think it multiplied visits and reply rates by x3 or x4. Truth is, I haven't played guitar in a few years, but that doesn't really matter does it?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:24 PM
4

Your achievements should only based on what you do with your life. Don't make woman a goal in your life, make yourself the main goal.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 07:20 PM
8

Believe what she does not what she says. Don't change your behavior, she'll come around if it's not serious. If it's serious just let her go, but don't become a beta bitch or any other sort of source of approval.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 08:40 PM
3

If you are not interested in being exclusive with your girlfriend, why is she your girlfriend? You can't have everything, either invest in making your relationship work or move to something else. Getting her to accept non-exclusivity while she has to stay exclusive is not healthy if you want to build an actual LTR. If you don't care than lower her to plate and accept the consequences. Man the fuck up
/r/askTRP26/09/14 06:03 PM
2

The analogy dates back, you will learn that metaphors are the key to efficient communication. If you explain something with an image it's much easier to get your point accross. Your article sums things well. But what I think you failed to point out is that there is a difference between "this is common knowledge" and accepting reality. Modern Beta men dream of romance.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 03:17 PM
5

Without knowing how the conversation went down at all, it's hard to say. You need to provide more context.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:49 PM
-1

I would just not talk ex-girlfriends unless it is to get her jealous...
/r/askTRP10/09/14 05:35 PM
2

I was once stuck in a club with a group a friends, and a girl I was interested in. We grinded pretty great till an old crush suddenly appeared in the club, she kept trying to go talk to him, the guy was beta and didn't know how to react. Everytime she moved away from me, I would go and just dance my ass off with other people there, she would notice that her being there or not didn't matter to me and kept oscillating between the beta crush and dancing with me. In the end she left with me, but the…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 03:16 PM
2

You cause the issue. You forgot the key rule here, you have to do things you do for you first, and girls can be around, or not, they should not be THE only source of fun. You failed miserably by giving them more importance than they should have had in the first place. Now just ignore it, let your actions define who you are, not what some random girl says about you.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 03:11 PM
11

Stage an accident, even get the local newspaper to talk about you. Hire a few actors to attend the burial. Then change your name and hit on her again pretending your her ex's doppleganger.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 05:25 PM
1

SO as in LTR? Legitimate reason? I think you are just fine answering "K", you shouldn't feel dejected, shit happens.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:46 PM
1

You can always read this: http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:28 PM
7

It's keeping the mindset of : This is how I think, this is how I behave, these are the principles I live my life by Holding frame means keeping your mindset regardless of attempts of breaking your frame. Shit Tests are an example of those attempts.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:28 PM
0

My experiences have showed that intimidating is bad. You will seem as closed and not "open" or social. This can be a pretty bad turn-off. Try and work on playing with amused mastery. The facial expression that should stick from spending time with you should be the one of someone enjoying their life and not someone intimidating or confrontational.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 06:58 PM
-3

Not really but you are not taking control of anything, saying "she does what she wants I don't care" sounds like you being submissive.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:54 PM
2

Turn her into your alpha widow
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:36 PM
1

Well the key take away from my experience is more that looking serious/dark bad boy look does not work on dating sites as well as in social contexts.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:50 PM
1

I have a good face but I was only getting a few matches a week. I switched to a pic of me with a guitar (I haven't actually played in four years) now I get a LOT of matches every day...
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:18 PM
-1

I don't really understand why them being exclusive matters to you?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:43 PM
3

Really? What kind of guy expects a plate (aka FB) to be exclusive? Sounds like you are still looking for unicorns
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 12:41 PM
7

Single mom means you will always be in her mind as the fourth person she will care about: 1 - Her 2 - The kid 3 - The baby's daddy 4 - You? She is no unicorn, I can't believe you needed to ask this here...
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:18 PM
4

Social Media is a waste of time, you can only have a limited number of meaningful friendships/contacts. I personally only use facebook where I have a private group of 12 people, and that's it
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:30 PM
1

There is always a bit of a difference between TRP's message and the people on here. One could easily think it's all about plates and nothing else. And I feel this has been really strange in the few last weeks, month or two. Articles on the main sub are supposed to illustrate TRP in the modern world. And often it's articles that have no place there.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 08:10 PM
3

There is no hate, just acknowledging how human interactions function and behaving accordingly in order to reach your goals (regardless of their nature, TRP is amoral) Hating is letting your emotions get control over you
/r/askTRP04/08/14 03:33 PM
5

The only reason to invest in an LTR is if you want children, and you are willing to go through the pain of holding your frame every waking moment of your life
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:46 PM
1

Again depends on country and culture
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:34 PM
1

You are not spinning if you are only seeing a single girl. TRP preaches, be the reason you are happy and you will have whatever the fuck you want out of life. A lot of RedPillers want many different sexual encounters rather than a relationship. Mainly because getting an LTR to work long term is a lot more work than spinning plates. The only thing that matters is what you want.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 04:58 PM
2

Natural selection. Once you know the rules of the game, you can either play them and swallow the pill, or don't improve yourself, stay co-dependant on attention seekers and get treated like shit(some are more lucky than others, but beta behavior comes at a cost). It's all up to you, but at least now you are enlightened
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:42 PM
3

AWALT, it always comes down to you maintaining frame. Even a 3 will cheat on you if you are a huge Beta. And why aim for easy in the first place lol? Sounds like you are the desperate one.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 12:42 PM
2

You can't force change in people, you can give him info, he has to choose to change. Teach him now, let him fail this relationship, then he will accept change
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:46 PM
1

Get a job, dump her
/r/askTRP17/07/14 12:53 PM
1

I usual make fun of something on their profile, or point out something akward in their pictures. Any chick I'm too lazy to actually send a real message to I usual just send "Where the fuck is my kangooroo?"
/r/askTRP16/07/14 09:19 PM
2

"Alpha Male Programmer" is probably the best career path in the current economy, learn the tech, learn leadership, and you will be fine. Dating girls from your class is just a bad idea, so it's not a huge loss.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 03:43 PM
2

I only use Facebook because my friends somehow forgot you can email for logistics of nights out etc. I don't post anything at all on it
/r/askTRP14/07/14 06:26 PM
6

Listen to what you like, listening to rap music doesn't make you a rapper, listening to pop music doesn't make you Lady Gaga
/r/askTRP09/07/14 07:18 PM
1

I believe the term plate spinning means seeing several ladies at the same time. You are just monogamous and not looking for serious commitment. If it's evident to you that YOU DONT WANT a relationship, then just say what you have on your mind and live with it, no reason to lie or hold information off
/r/askTRP08/07/14 02:47 PM
1

How do you define romance?
/r/askTRP07/07/14 08:53 PM
1

Arguements in public seem a bit like going out of frame. And I would not have posted anything anti-feminist to my social contacts, but that's just my POV.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 06:40 PM
2

OP sounds like a total beta, even before marriage "but afraid to approach them", and also, TRP is NOT spinning plates...
/r/askTRP07/07/14 01:49 PM
1

And I will agree to that!
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:15 PM
1

My answer was purely based on my values, shit test or not, I'm not getting involved in anyone's relationship.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 05:03 PM
-2

"Okay cool, cya"
/r/askTRP03/07/14 01:11 PM
3

I am having a similar feeling, but it's not really being pessimistic but more that I really quickly loose interest and attention with any woman. Maybe it takes time, but focusing on myself is making more and more sense and that at least feels great.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 03:12 PM
5

I just think satire is a waste of time. I'm not taking myself too seriously, I just don't care
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:12 PM
14

This is lame, you should be ashamed of yourself. If your goal is making the average TRPer look like a 12 years old troll, then sure go ahead. There is no war to fight, no trolls to feed, change yourself, know the rules, play the rules. The rest is meaningless
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:51 PM
-2

Just browse the new articles and you are good to go
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:44 PM
18

There is also a big shaming done in the gaming industry since the E3, pretty violent
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:50 PM
1

Girls with a lot of beta orbiters have a hard time making LTRs work, they get so much validation it fucks them up
/r/askTRP19/06/14 05:04 PM
3

Cosplayers are attention whores, they are globally not girlfriend material. Not much else to say. The common answer will be to dread game her, but if she is going slutty at a convention she probably doesn't need you anyway
/r/askTRP19/06/14 03:37 PM
1

Not really, Tyler will be more Try hard till it works Thing is, what Tyler will show is something anyone can do, being the life of the party does not work for everyone, especially introverts, and that doesn't fit what they are selling
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:06 PM
1

Meh no magic solution in all cases I guess
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:18 PM
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I think the dream is finding a lesbian that would accept a sperm donation and your presence when needed. No bullshit feelings or anything...
/r/askTRP12/06/14 02:52 PM
1

One thing I have noticed is, your SMV is what changes the most, culture can impact behavior but globaly, it's how things weight in your SMV that changes. To illustrate: I'm a french guy living in Canada In France, social status and studies out-weight anything else in for girls in Paris (other regions will differ) Here in Canada if you don't work out, you don't stand out, work is cool but secondary Anyway, that's what I have seen so far...
/r/askTRP11/06/14 07:21 PM
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4-5 month is nothing dude You know the rules, thank the red pill, now you fight for what you want. And seriously, if she behaves that way, you have not lost much in that relationship lol. Every post here has the same answer, there is nothing to discuss about, just go and focus on making you the best person possible. The rest does not matter.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 05:12 PM
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You are really needy, in both the way you explain things, and how any ties you asked for info. You really have to push and pull. You know she is attracted to you, and instead of putting some distance when her behavior does not work for you, you keep on pulling pulling pulling, hoping she will be more available. My take on this type of situation is, if people really want to see me, they make the time, if not, I just move on (sport, work, other chicks). Don't over invest yourself on something that…
/r/askTRP06/06/14 03:25 PM
1

You were not clear in your intentions, you failed the shit test, wether your were trying to be funny or not, you still did not hold frame and let go a crappy "Yeah of course". In all cases, crazy boyfriend is a red flag, I'd just next... You don't need drama, regardless of the girl
/r/askTRP05/06/14 05:09 PM
2

I know it's hard, most of us have been there, and sometimes it's easier to focus on a single person, but you will get mixed results if you are over involved into a single person (that's when you show unconcious needyness and she runs away)
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:27 PM
3

Low relationship count, is probably cause you don't try enough. When the opportunity is here you go all emotional. Talk to A LOT of people (men and women), as time goes you will realize there are plenty of people around you, will lower the relative importance of these "once every year" girls. You don't NEED to be spinning to plates to be in a logic of abundance. Take it easy
/r/askTRP03/06/14 05:20 PM
3

Because you care what people think, what you have to ask yourself is, are you at your best? If you are not, and probably no one really is, are you doing what it takes to go towards the best version of yourself? Yes? Then you should use this as a weapon, use that confidence and don't seek validation nor jugement from strangers. Be proud to be who you are
/r/askTRP03/06/14 01:14 PM
3

First question, what's your current goal? Second how are you doing with your priorities (Career, Health, Girls)? Which are accomplished?
/r/askTRP02/06/14 07:11 PM
2

So much irrational anger in your post, you have a few choices, but NEITHER should include any sort of anger. * First thing, try to talk to other girls, you'll see you have other options, previous one will seem less OMGILUVSHER. * You don't need to go to that party, if you go, stay cool, keep your frame, if you feel uneasy don't force yourself Be your own man
/r/askTRP30/05/14 06:07 PM
0

The Red Pill is about self-improvement and achieving your goals. Some men here are only looking to be happy with themselves. But go live your life and do your thing, just know, no one cares here, no reason to rant.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:11 PM
6

Usually confronting and holding your frame works. Often you don't even have to do any actual active game. Point out her bullshit, and you are automatically in control
/r/askTRP26/05/14 08:18 PM
2

Soooo 6 comments from total Beta-Bux? Really? Trust is earned, it's not something you just agree on. TRP is here to show us what the rules and how things really work, bite the pill, improve yourself, move on. If you start thinking "I won't trust a woman ever again" then you just threw up the RP. You can trust woman to always listen to her instinct and react based on emotions and not reason.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 07:00 PM
2

You seem to care way too much. I would play this out dread-game, ignore her for 3 days, gauge her reaction.
/r/askTRP21/05/14 06:59 PM
1

Sooo, I have a friend like this, and some of us have been there. It is hard to talk sense into someone that is in a relationship. Most will think you are the jealous one trying to ruin their relationship. He will need to eat the Red Pill and probably on his own. I would suggest sending him a link to TRP reddit and letting him read up, and see if anything speaks to him. You can't and should not take the pill for someone else.
/r/askTRP20/05/14 08:26 PM
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