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Red Pill TheoryIanIronwood/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:21 PM
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Blue Pill ExampleIanIronwood/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:53 PM
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Good show. Being self-employed is the closest thing to independence you can have.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 03:42 AM
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Art comes from a variety of sources, mostly a couple of collectors on Flickr.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 08:58 PM
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Thanks! It's something I do between videos. I like to think I'm helping - if not the people involved, then those reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 08:46 PM
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Not exactly. My career is going in some unexpected but highly lucrative directions, is all. I still keep tabs, and I'll be back eventually.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/16 05:25 PM
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It's regionally dependent; I'd feel stupid in a Stetson. Whereas a stylish 1940s-style fedora suits me well.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 07:43 PM
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What's wrong with a fedora? Classic masculine style.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 05:28 PM
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Your time is your pussy. Use it wisely. If she isn't giving you what you need, after you've expressed your expectations and given her a reasonable time to adjust, then you need to reassess your strength as Captain and maybe consider redoubling your personal efforts before you expect enthusiastic action on the part of your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 02:08 PM
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Someday maybe you'll swallow.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 08:33 PM
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When women have draft cards, we'll stop treating them "unequally". When women have equal "rights" to parenting as men, we'll stop treating them "unequally". When it is in our best interest to do so, we will treat women "equally". But don't hold your breath. Kermit dumped Ms. Piggy after four decades of "equality". Why do you think that was?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 08:10 PM
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Also, calling TRP "This shit", acting like you DO know anything without proving it, and your calling our successful attempts at self-improvement "ego tripping" is just a dire cry for professional help.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 08:08 PM
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"Hey, Dude...Got a minute?" http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html Check it out, see if it helps. Good luck! Ian
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:42 PM
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"The Wedding Ringer". Saw it last night. Light Bromantic comedy with some great solid RP lessons.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 08:30 PM
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Well done. And welcome to the brotherhood.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 03:18 AM
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My analysis: In every single presidential election since the Kennedy-Nixon debates, the candidate with the higher objective SMV has won the general election (and usually the primaries, but not always). Take a look at both parties' candidates. Based purely objective SMV, who do you think has the best chance? The Donald? Or any Democrat currently running (possible exception of Jim Webb, but he ain't a billionaire). At this point I take Trump to cut a deal to put Jeb on the ticket and gain Bush pol…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:52 AM
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Need to make a counter-shirt: "Still Prefer Skinny."
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:03 PM
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They have: Facebook. It's a female dominated application, but despite their efforts at selling they haven't been able to make it pay the way Amazon has. If they got paid by ton of bullshit they'd all be billionaires.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:17 PM
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Depends on what trips your trigger. For some Alphas, high-stress corporate performance is what they excel at. Amazon gives them rewards for doing that . . . not for being "diverse". After a few years there you can go just about anywhere else and be top dog. Then you can semi-retire into management and start enjoying the benefits. Or reinvest your earnings and become a billionaire. There are all types of alphas.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:15 PM
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No, the point was you can't "leave" a biological relationship. That doesn't mean you have to speak to the hateful bitch, however. Just because she'll always be your mom doesn't mean that she'll be in your personal life in any meaningful way.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:02 PM
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It's not an excuse for her behavior, it's a statement of fact.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:01 PM
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Fill your life with strong masculine role models. You need to re-masculinize yourself in a big way as a point of recovery. Become a Scout leader, join a car club, take a shop class, join a poker night, and keep crawling through the Manosphere to add to your toolset. You still have a ways to go, but you're on the right track in recognizing the origin of the problem. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:07 PM
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Cut as many ties with her and your sister (if she's of like mind) as you can. When the inevitable "What happened?" comes up, tell her you have been abused by her systematic misandry and are seeking counseling for the extreme damage it has done. Don't speak to her for a year or so. Then a Christmas card relationship, at best. She's your mom. You're clearly in the anger phase. She'll always be your mom . . . but you probably need to stand up to her in a big way before you can hope to complete this…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:58 PM
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You've gotten some valuable intelligence on your wife's Brazilian Helicopter Pilot (BHP), and I support the consensus: DO NOT reveal your insecurity to her. It will blow your frame instantly. What you can do with this information is allow it to filter your own perspective. Any residual Oneitis about your woman is eroding with this knowledge. More importantly, you have an achievable goal: to fuck the BHP right out of her. You're clearly on the right track, and while fitness and alpha attitudes wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 09:31 PM
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Here is a resource you might want to explore: the Red Pill Primer for Boys. It's a simple powerpoint presentation. Review it and then choose which parts might be helpful. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/15 01:25 PM
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Point out that when feminism stops using the word "creep" - a way to denigrate male sexuality - you will endeavor to stop using the term "slut". Or you could point out that it's just an acronym for Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Tart. And grin. You may also tell her that men don't vomit their emotional opinions in public without good cause.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 12:43 PM
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Pack her shit up and leave it outside of the door. Cut contact completely. Be an unreasonable dick. What do you have to lose? Show her the alpha that she's been missing. When women are rejected that harshly, it does something to their hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:51 PM
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Start with this one. Search for the others. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/09/wife-test-red-pill-alerts.html
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 10:21 PM
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Addendum: Residual income from intellectual property.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:05 PM
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You may find this helpful. Feel free to share it. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:00 PM
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Wife test. Go to my blog and read every post labeled "wife test". Then think about it some more.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 09:56 PM
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I second Dale Carnegie. If you get your physical under control, then you must move to social and mental pursuits. Money is important, but focus on how it works, first. But social adeptness is essential. Learn how to make friends and influence people. Study kino and "body language", NLP and salesmanship. Learn how to dress well. You don't necessarily have to spend a lot of money, but develop good taste. As far as intellect goes, try to read as many of the 100 Greatest Books on your own before you…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 12:35 AM
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True dat.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 09:09 PM
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Broaden it to include all men to frame it as generally accepted knowledge (and few adept googles should bear it out). But I wouldn't make it that black and white, and soften the tone a bit: "I understand you want physical affection and reassurance (identification with her emotions) and I want to be there with you because I truly do love you (reassurance). But asking a man to cuddle (keep it general, not personal) without the context of a sexual connection makes him feel bad (connect with her emo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 09:06 PM
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No, dude, you conquered. Acknowledgement and respect from masculine elders is golden social proof. It demonstrates that you've moved from theory to practiced to effect. It also elevates your relative SMV to your wife. These unexpected validations are rare. Treasure them.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:14 PM
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You don't make it personal, you keep it general. Just as if you wouldn't accuse her of making her period a personal thing - all women menstruate. She's not doing it to piss you off. She needs to understand the subtleties of male sexual psychology because she's now responsible for one. Polite, informative, and walk away afterward. This is just a bit of information she didn't pick up in Health class.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 08:04 PM
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Yeah, double bonus points for that one. I might have to steal it myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 07:47 PM
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Depends entirely how manfully you deliver it. Much of this is in presentation, and learning how to speak directly, clearly, and forcefully, with a knowledge of good dlivery goes a LOOOOOONG way. If you don't think you can pull it off yet, avoid it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 07:45 PM
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Relationships come in all shapes and sizes. Some women intuitively understand masculinity and male sexuality, some have no freaking clue. Making sure your wife is educated and informed keeps her from jumping to her own hamstery conclusions. When they know the rules you are playing by, they might try to game them . . . but at least they know the rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 07:43 PM
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YMMV. Much depends on the confidence of your delivery. Chose parts that might be of assistance to you and leave the rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 07:40 PM
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I hereby promote him to Red Knight First Class
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 02:17 PM
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I hereby promote him to Red Knight First Class
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 02:17 PM
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Personally, I think this is a brilliant application of engineering methods to the issue. It makes a lot of sense, knowing what I do about female psychology. Just as there are "Captain Save-a-Hos" out there, there are women with checkered pasts who see their sexual intervention in a "bad" relationship where the guy didn't cheat as a bit of personal vindication and a way to morally start afresh. By picking up another woman's wronged man, she becomes romantically heroic, her vagina gains magical po…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 02:16 PM
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Amusingly enough, by shifting your perspective in this manner you are actually objectifying your wife. She is no longer an enemy to be caught and conquered, shes a leaky old boat that you need to fix.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 02:12 PM
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"I don't cuddle without foreplay." "I'm too tired." "Sorry, I'm just not in touch enough with my emotions right now." "I don't feel fresh." If she doesn't get the hint, calmly explain to her that men have a much easier time engaging in nonsexual physical affection after sex. It's in your manly nature. You appreciate her desire not to have sex and her subsequent rejection of you; but the consequence of that is you have a much harder time relating emotionally when your sexual desires aren't met. S…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 02:11 PM
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Well done! Actually, you did better than you realize. SILs are great wingmen for this sort of thing, because it allows you to display a profound amount of OI and gives you a preselection buff because no one there knows she's your SIL. BONUS POINTS: Your SIL will tell your sister every little detail of every woman who was after you. FB pics are a secondary bonus. You not only got the preselection buff, but you compounded it by broadcasting it to your social circle - and your wife's. Not only does…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 12:42 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 10:51 PM
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Wait for her to initiate the conversation about it. Then offer to send her something. If you bring it up without reason, you're dragging, not leading.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/15 10:19 PM
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Perhaps direct links to their Amazon/other paid outlets as compensation? Rollo, any comment?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:33 PM
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Not so certain. It's obscure enough to make it tantalizing. The sort of thing you start urban legends about. If he decides to expand it beyond the immediate sidebar, perhaps The Red Pill Player's Handbook?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:28 PM
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Outstanding work. Seriously, this could be a major development. Copyright is a tricky thing, but as you are the editor, what is your position regarding this work? I'd love to see it freely distributed far and wide. Perhaps with a way to send it anonymously via email. Consider, gentlemen, what would happen if the entire male freshman class at any given university was gifted this pdf? If only 10% of them read it and went RP, that could be . . . very interesting. Comments? Suggestions?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:16 PM
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Actually, I support this. Sometimes the situation gets so bad that the only real solution is to unplug the machine and reboot it. When a wife's perceived sexual power is the primary focus of a dysfuntional marriage, sometimes the best thing to do is remove that power from her and re-assess. In most cases the husband is already in a deadbedroom situation anyway, so the re-focus into monk mode and away from being susceptible to her sexual power doesn't do him much harm - a lot less than the typica…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 01:11 AM
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Uh, yeah. Whatever you say. When I write fiction, I get paid for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 01:30 AM
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I'm deconstructing the experience in a technical way to offer insight and instruction to those who seek to understand it completely. I write professionally. Words are my business. I can simplify it, if you'd like.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 12:06 AM
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"I've been failing to be the man in this relationship. I'm not celebrating our anniversary this year because our marriage has been shitty recently and there's nothing for me to celebrate. I'm going to put in the effort to fix that and maybe in the future, I'll think about doing something when you and I deserve it. You're free to celebrate it how you want though." Good advice. If your marriage isn't much to celebrate, apologize for your role in that and mention that your next one, if any, will be…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 06:42 PM
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Me and the Missus have an agreement: she has twenty uninterrupted minutes to tell me about her day when I get home - 25 if there was a crisis. After that . . . no more. I'll tell her about my day if I feel there was something pertainant to the family, or particularly noteworthy, but otherwise after 30 min. we are DONE. We can talk about just about anything else, but she had her chance to download and it's time to move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 06:39 PM
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Outstanding advice. Also, when she gives you resistance to dancing with you (and she will) smile serenely, lean down close to her ear, and say, don't whisper, in calm, confident tones: "My dear, if you don't stand up now and dance with your husband in front of all of these people, I'm going to spank your goddamn ass so hard that it glows in the dark when we get home. Shall we?" Again, delivery is important. Why is the dancing so important? It's a tangible symbol of your coupling, and her refusal…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 06:35 PM
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Because that's what I'm here for: to teach and instruct.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 06:16 PM
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No expensive gift. Consider something thoughtful but homemade celebrating your relationship. What anniversary? If you usually cook, go out instead. Make all of the plans ahead of time and then spring it on her Monday morning. Go to my blog and look up The Perfect Red Pill Date. Don't be intimidated, but it lays out some good basics for you. Make sure you dress splendidly and control the evening. Don't ask, tell. Don't talk, do. It sounds like you need to remind her, good and hard, that she is MA…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 05:05 PM
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Oh, FUCK yeah. Even if you think it's over, fight for it anyhow. It's good practice. And if you are miserable about it later, at least you know you tried. That alone is worth the exercise. Get pissed off. Get aggressive. What do you have to lose?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:52 PM
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Totally endorse this. Fight for her, not because she's a precious little snowflake, but because she is Yours, and no one else gets to horn in on that until you are done with her. THAT'S the attitude to take. Do it well and strong enough and even she will start to pick up on it eventually.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:47 PM
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Do your best to adopt a strong Alpha presentation: grooming, hair, clothes, shoes, persona. Make a point to find and flirt with other women. This would be a good place to stake your claim to aspirations of alpha, even if you don't have the full chops for it yet. "Fake it till you make it" works. Just be James Bond tonight. And if she won't dance with you, make certain you ask at least three other women. Confidence is sexy, even if you have issues with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:45 PM
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It's all in your delivery. Note I said "confident". If you do it right, it isn't possessive, it's implicit alpha mate guarding. And Chad isn't going to get near ANY woman looking to branch swing into a baby daddy, even if he's fixed. Also might want to mention her massive debt load.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:42 PM
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1) Insist that she dance with you. Don't take no for an answer. 2) You should show up unexpectedly to her rowing club drinks. Come in calmly and confidently, order yourself a beer, sit down uninvited and introduce yourself to everyone there as her husband. Tell them how great it's been that she's finally started to shape up and thank them for supporting her. That should step all over her "new captain" buzz. If you have a gun collection, take MMA, or have a history of mental stability, this would…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 04:34 PM
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Nicely done.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/15 12:28 PM
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I am here to provide resources. Use them at your discretion. And no, it's not war. It's persuasion. There's positive and negative influences. If you feel strongly about something, you have the ability to use those to persuade. Some people need a little more persuasion than others.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 08:23 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/06/curse-of-mommy-bob.html Passive Dread, AM, and AA. Start introducing her to people as "My first wife." Refer to the style as "matronly" and "unfeminine". When she asks "How do you think that made me feel?" counter with "How do you think it makes me feel that my wife is purposefully doing something to make herself less attractive to me? It's disrespectful to me and our marriage. But it's your hair. You do what you want." Keep referring to "my next wife".…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/15 06:56 PM
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Heh. Just wait until VASALGEL is approved. That will be a shitstorm.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:07 PM
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It's fish in a barrel. Seriously, it's like the EASIEST place to plant a flag outside of a cathouse.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:57 AM
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I do write fiction. That was a true story with the identifiers filed off - except for the name of the bass, which I believe was Marsha. I haven't heard from the man in over a year but I'll shoot him an email and see how he's doing. It was a great story. Better than I could have made up. The best ones always are. That's why writers steal them.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 03:29 AM
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Then you still have hand. Keep the threat of leaving/throwing her out on the table. Secure a commitment to cut all contact from her lover. Secure a commitment that she's willing to do anything to save the marriage. Get these first before you do anything other than exiling her to the couch.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 05:15 PM
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What is her reaction to fucking up? Regret? Remorse? Defiance? Guilt?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:22 PM
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Fair point.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 04:11 PM
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Move for an immediate separation and begin divorce proceedings. As was mentioned, you can always drop them later if things improve. This woman has been disloyal and entered into the marriage under false pretenses (her sexuality). Her bisexuality does not excuse her infidelity. I'd take a pretty fucking hard look at this, not extend her the "benefit of the doubt". She's betrayed your marriage, cheated on you, and sexually emasculated you. I don't see much worth in you pursuing the relationship, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 03:55 PM
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Don't let her take the boy with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 04:33 PM
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Call it a "course correction" instead. Ask her if she'd prefer you go find a hot 21 year old zumba instructor to express yourself to, or is she going to support you handling your shit like a man? That usually ends any talk of "mid-life crisis".
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 06:49 PM
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Nah, you handled it like a Captain. At a certain point, your wife (if she's smart enough) may well figure out something is up and realize that it's not an affair or a "mid life crisis" as usually presented. If your investigation of positive masculinity comes to her attention, address the matter calmly, seriously, and hold frame. Don't be afraid to inform her. Some of my best insights came from Mrs. Ironwood after she understood what I was doing. You might also want to scout out the r/RedPillWome…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 05:49 PM
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Try to master the language first and then surprise her.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 12:41 AM
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A sudden clean shave downstairs will often inspire a sudden bout of oral curiosity. And curiosity about why you may have done it. Which brings me to Preselection/Dread Fellatio was, more than likely, an early way for women to detect the pheromones of rivals on your dick in preparation for installing their own, making it useful for mate attraction/mate retention. As a result, the stronger she has to guard you, the more fun times Mr. Happy will have. So double down on the passive dread and presele…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 09:32 PM
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she Jokes "you must be feeling good after all your sex needs are being met." "They're not. But we're making headway." "So far, so good. I'll feel better when I find a way to stop begging for fellatio." "It's a start. But I'm only up to Phase One." "Who said my needs are being met? I've only gotten ___ blowjobs so far this year. I'm just at mildly content - you haven't seen 'happy' yet." Use your judgement, but don't agree that your expectations are being met. That's a shit-test in itself, becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 09:26 PM
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That would be any number of other books I could recommend. You might also want to throw the "Mindful Attraction Plan", a kind of purplepill guide that can break her into the idea gently. But be careful - that kind of revelation can backfire. I usually only counsel it if your woman is genuinely sympathetic to your journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 09:20 PM
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If you really wanna get creepy, you can buy a burner smartphone, activate the tracker, and leave it in the trunk of her car. Just sayin'.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 09:11 PM
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Tape every conversation you have with her from here on out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 08:54 PM
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One of my faves for working me up!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:01 AM
2

Worse, it lowers social inhibitions and brings raw emotion to the fore. Kind of like arguing with a toddler.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:42 PM
2

Exactly. Which is why holding frame is particularly important: consistency. It establishes the new pattern she has to contend with. But as long as the sex holds out, she's still interested.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:39 PM
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When she uses the term boss or bossy, correct her: "No, I'm being husbandly." Don't explain any further. The problem is that she sees marriage as a continuation of the bf/gf relationship with better china. It's not. Husband and Wife are specific terms of commitment that, if you want your marriage to last and prosper, must be eventually understood by both parties. Yes, you'll get direct resistance. Don't avoid it. Address her issues confidently and hold frame like a champ. Don't shrink from accus…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:37 PM
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She's desperate. Your SMV trumps hers, she knows it, and she's lost her sexual power in the relationship, and she knows that, too. Her outreach to Beta Boy is a classic piece of validation, and when confronted that's how she'll pitch it. At this point, I might consider a direct Come To Jesus confrontation about her behavior. You extend your trust to people who are trustworthy, and her lame-ass attempts at concealment and obfuscation are evidence of her untrustworthiness. Her willingness to flirt…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 03:26 PM
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Keep reading this sub. It has a lot for you. Especially the whole concept of being her Rock/Oak. Good luck, and let me know if I can help.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 01:09 AM
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For the most part, yes. There will be a couple of areas of special concern (and some where you have advantages - like more easily attracting other women) but for the most part it's solid for you. Emotional control is going to be key to you holding frame. Mastering that will go a long way toward giving you the confidence you need to be the Captain. Women pick up on subtextual emotional cues far easier than men. When you're giving her a look at your cards, its much harder to keep her respect in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 01:02 AM
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If your wife is white, then culturally speaking you have a better shot at making it, more than likely. I think we both know that's true. It sounds like you need to wrap your head around the idea of Captaincy and invest fully in it. It sounds like fear is your greatest obstacle. And yes, Solomon's Dilemma is galling for both parties. But once it's been said, you have a green light. Retreat, recover, rebuild your frame and proceed like you didn't hear it. If a woman comes out and begs for you to b…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:38 AM
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Find an older black male mentor. Someone who can slip you the generational wisdom you missed. Look around your local barbershop and start learning Game from the old masters. Those dudes can hold frame when they've been busted balls deep. You need a good dose of pure masculinity to charge you up and build your confidence. This is particularly hard for black men. Black women have traditionally resorted to divorce much more quickly than white women, and the black feminist culture you provide is ver…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 12:22 AM
2

Yeah, a RP dude would have said "I used a lot of garlic. I hope that's not a problem when we're kissing later." Big difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:04 PM
2

Sure. BP guys. RP guys learn early on to be Bold in their Game: NO Guts, NO Glory. Eliciting IOIs isn't bad, as long as you can respond quickly. Once you understand the proper socio-sexual cues you can use yourself to elicit IOIs, it can help you make a sorting decision or even rank your prospects for the evening. This can be as simple as doing something showy (playing the piano, singing, getting in a fight, reciting Shakespeare, hitting on the prettiest girl in the room knowing she's married) a…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:07 PM
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"I have a boyfriend/fiancee" while sending you clear IOIs. If you rely on her words she's saying "I'm taken." If you keep those words in context with her subtextual communication, she's saying "I'm taken - unless you can make me think you're worth it enough for me to rationalize cheating". Or asking your wife if she paid the water bill, and witnessing her looking up and to the left when she answers. Her mouth may say "I took care of it," but her body language indicates deception. What she means …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:01 PM
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If you ignore subconscious subtextual cues from a woman you are forced to depend on what she says - and that's a losing proposition. Your ability to read and interpret kino and body language can be a powerful ally, once you become proficient at the subtleties. It's a sophisticated type of communication, and we tend to miss about 90% of it out of ignorance. But I've seen dudes select a target or next a girl based on key demonstrations of body language with ridiculously high results.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 08:40 PM
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This is a hard one. I'd generally say it's up to the man and his wife, and just how much it bothers him. If you want wisdom, "don't borrow trouble" is one of my favorite axioms. But if it is an issue, then I counsel approach the subject with sensitivity and deliberation. You want a positive outcome, after all, not your wife in hysterical tears. Finding the right time to discuss it in a way that doesn't make you look like a petulant bitch to her is difficult. But if it really is an issue, then th…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 02:47 PM
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Yep. They never "like" the changes. Prepare to hear the term "marginalized" a lot. People who like to be in control and suddenly aren't frequently complain that they're being "marginalized". But when she realizes that this isn't just a fad or a phase, and that you are making permanent changes, that is what will really disturb her. That's when the real fun begins. If you really want to fuck with her, make a point on complimenting her openly on her femininity, when warranted. This will make her st…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 03:08 AM
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Either you should have put your foot down and refused to do this at this time, or you should have jumped in and taken control of the entire moving/repurposing process. What happened here was she ambushed you with a "perfectly reasonable" shit test that drew you into her frame. At 8, your son isn't likely to be inappropriate at all - no more than your daughter. Separating them at this stage is more trouble than its worth for something that might not happen. Period. Sister might shove a screwdrive…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 03:03 AM
2

"That's because we can puck all night."
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:35 PM
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Befriend her boyfriend without her knowing about it. Quietly but consistently show him up without making him feel bad about it. When he finally realizes that your his girl's ex, you can have a laugh about it - but she won't be laughing. What you are trying to prove isn't to her, it's to you.
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:34 PM
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She was confronted with accountability, and women hate that. This was a classic shit-test, because she wanted you to "stand up" to a faceless bureaucracy on her behalf, to own her technical fuck-up. It was her way of subbing out her hamster to you and making you responsible. You did well by not breaking frame and arguing the point. You could have done better by grabbing her by the shoulders when you got home, telling her: "I handled it. This discussion doesn't need to continue unless it's just a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 02:38 PM
2

First off, ballroom dancing is like RP in a nutshell. Weak, inconsistent or vague lead and you are getting shit tested in a heartbeat. This. If you want a crash-course in Alpha attitude, take a ball room dancing class.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 02:17 AM
2

"I'm sure you'll get the hang of it eventually."
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 02:16 AM
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It's not negotiation. You are informing her of how things work. She might not know, or think that you experience love and sex the same way she does. Establishing the difference between male and female sexuality and emotional response is an important part of MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 05:07 PM
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"It's hard for men, in general, and me, in particular, to connect to our own emotions without sex. When our sexual security is challenged, we naturally withdraw, emotionally. That's not a bug, that's a feature. I don't mind changing up my approach, but you've got to give me a better counter than 'I'm tired' or 'I'm not in the mood'. When you do that, that feels like rejection. I understand that female sexuality is responsive in nature, and going leaping for the clitoris isn't always going to get…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 04:24 PM
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Outstanding, particularly on the Vision thing. In fact, I'll post this seperately, but I wanted to clarify something about Vision: One rarely talked-about element of Married Game is a subtle thing known as Vision. Most husbands don’t appreciate what a strong DHV possessing Vision is, and they proceed unaware of the power it can add to their relationship. Most husbands do this because they don’t understand Vision, what it is and how it is manifested, much less the subtle but important role it hol…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 03:19 PM
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Sometimes you have to test yourself. That's not a waste. Test passed.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 01:26 PM
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That's what it might come down to. Otherwise, if she asks for something, show her the spreadsheet and ask her to find the money. She might throw a fit, but she can't argue with numbers. Constantly challenge her to grow up and act like an adult. When she melts down, ask her if this is adult behavior. Tell her that unlimited income would be nice, but until she figures out a way to do it, this is how things are going to have to be. Agree that it is frustrating, annoying, and provoking of strong fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 01:23 PM
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"This is how adults act. They plan, they budget, and they stick to that plan. Can you handle that?" You're doing fine. These are spoiled princess shit-tests. Don't worry about what you say, worry about what you do. Do NOT relent. Expect her to start wanting to control "her" money, after she starts getting a paycheck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/15 12:03 PM
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Heh. Easy fix. Flirt with younger women. Start commenting subtly on her age. "You look great for a woman your age!", that sort of thing. Something a friend of mine with a HOT wife (HB9) did as a mate-guarding thing when his woman got too much attention at social functions. He casually mentioned to her admirers that she was having a "good day", thanks to the new meds, and that her symptoms were clearing up (without specifying). After that she got plenty of looks . . . of pity. What you need to co…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:49 PM
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Yeah, she was cheating. Or at least thinking seriously about it. My guess is that she still is. If you don't up your Game, if she hasn't done it already, she will. Read the TRP sidebar and start lifting. And go to this thing with the mindset that you are interviewing potential replacements, not that she's a downer who is dragging you along.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:37 PM
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Nonsense. Look your absolute best, smile, and make a point of practicing your flirting. Let her see you in an Alpha presentation for someone other than her. Seriously, it helps.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:34 PM
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Go, dress to kill, and flirt with every woman in the room. Time to demonstrate some value and rack up some Preselection points. Let her know other women want you and her mate-guarding reflex should kick in. If it doesn't . . . then you will have learned something very valuable.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:13 PM
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I agree, if she's emphasizing her role as WIFE, you're on the right track. Frame holding is an art, and cultivating the IDGAF alpha presentation requires practice and cultivation. Don't expect to ace it overnight. Instead of appearing "butthurt", focus on "thoughtful". Your response to your wife's GNO is interesting. In your place I would have offered to both drive and pick the ladies up . . . though I would have pressed for some post-strip club nookie in the parking lot from the missus to capit…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:10 PM
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Find a nice dinner/bar cruise around the bay at sunset. Don't go for over-the-top, go for quality experience. Dress up big and make sure you get a good photo of the evening. Don't focus on the gift, focus on the date. In short, ask yourself "Where would James Bond take my wife for the evening?" and do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 02:06 PM
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You need to review the Captain/FO works. The FO is subordinate to the Captain, like any executive officer. But when the FO is engaged in her domain, you are not only the Captain, you are one of her resources. This isn't an issue of control, it's an issue of her getting her work done using the limited resources available. Even though she is subordinate, there are times when your role is part Captain part deckhand. As long as she doesn't try to use that as leverage to wage a power struggle, that s…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 01:55 PM
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Repeat after me: "Your control issues are not my problem. I'm trying to run a family, here." Hold frame like a champ. She'll stage a scene trying to out-drama you, but you need to just maintain your stoic coolness and watch with quiet amusement.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 10:58 PM
2

Indeed. It's from breakdowns like this that the young can learn.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:34 AM
2

Yes, and yes. Keep it going.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 10:01 PM
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That presupposes the OP has found his vocation and circumstance. Most men have not, and encounters such as this serve to remind them of that. If the issue was one of merely social prospects, that would be one thing; the OP demonstrates a deeper sense of frustration that just changing pals isn't going to answer. It might lead to something bigger, and that might be to his advantage, but his current social circle seems to be indicative of larger problems. Relocation or merely a good road trip can h…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 06:21 PM
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You can't become a man over a cozy cup of tea. If you aren't challenging yourself, including socially, you aren't building metaphorical muscle. A change of scenery and circumstance is a way to force that kind of challenge on you. Sure, you can do it at home, where it's comfortable . . . but unless you have compelling circumstance, a road trip can do wonders for your masculine perspective.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:13 PM
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Move. If you don't have any constraints tying you to the place (aging parents, relationship) sell your shit, pick an exotic destination, and move. Find a challenge you enjoy. My fundamental advice to all men in this situation is "Find a thing that needs to be done. Then go do that thing." Forget about them for a few years while you re-invent yourself. Change your look, change your job, change your hairstyle and facial hair. Hell, change your name, if you want. You'll find new friends. But you di…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 04:24 PM
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Now you have it. Start trimming the fat and getting the boat up to racing form again. It might not be as fast, but at our age we can still throw a hell of a wake.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 04:15 PM
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It's a metaphor. Cut it some slack. It's useful because in TRP every man DOES build his boat, whether he realizes it or not. The "boat" is a metaphor for the life you've built around your core masculinity. It's a representation of your personal sovereignty. It might have been a leaky rowboat or a sleek deepwater yacht, but the life you built for yourself pre-marriage was your own, bounded by the hull of the boat. You were Captain under your own flag. At some point you invited a woman on your boa…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 03:27 PM
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Congratulations. You've discovered the reason for this sub's existence. Proceed.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 03:16 PM
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The Captain/First Officer metaphor doesn't refer to the Army. It refers to the naval institution. It's your boat. There can only be one Captain. There is no support structure that you didn't build into your boat.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 01:16 PM
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The moment you tell her you're thinking of postponing the wedding, prepare for full-on onslaught. Before you do that, read EVERYTHING in this sub and TRP about Holding Frame. You need to master that before you attempt this, or you're gonna get creamed by her feelz. You haven't made her work for it. She hasn't earned it. You haven't demanded anything of her, and that's going to become a world of suck a decade or less down the road. You pin this shit down NOW, or you are doomed. Mere compatibility…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 04:43 AM
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I'd consider postponing the wedding awhile. Fuck the deposits. Fuck the ring. You need to let her stew and think awhile about this. She doesn't know what being a wife is about. I'd recommend you go to my blog (www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com) and search for every post labeled "wife test". You haven't vetted her thoroughly enough. While you're at it, read this: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/03/your-c-card.html
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 04:15 AM
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That's the point, you can't escape them. That's the fatal flaw with feminism: they're trying to create an ideological world of gender equality by ignoring or attacking basic elements of human intersexual socialization, essentially ignoring human nature. That's like trying to construct an ideal biological world and ignoring the Food Chain. It's not that your theory is wrong, it's incomplete.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 09:51 PM
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She won't bring it up. She's hoping you'll forget about it. Don't. Keep the temperature low, go into Monk Mode. Lift, new clothes, ignore her nearly completely. She'll get frustrated, because she knows something is wrong but she doesn't want to ask what. By the time she loses her patience and does (probably by parlaying a shit test into a full-blown argument over something so "silly"), she'll try to get you to break your frame and admit that it's not important. Don't. The issue isn't anal. The i…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 09:44 PM
0

Not every marriage works that way. Those hard-edged ultimatums are fine for some, but a more subtle approach is often called for about something like this. You aren't going to end the relationship over anal. But you might downgrade her and keep the marriage intact.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 09:37 PM
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It's a place to start. It's not particularly nuanced. Once you start studying the biological and sociological elements of human attraction, and how they manifest sexually in a LTR, things start making more sense. You are acting as if both parties were genderless and equally responsible agents. That's theory, not practice. In practice, gender and emotional issues trump reason or logic. While nothing you said was a contradiction, it's too basic an observation that misses some important points.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 09:35 PM
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Interesting. But myopic. You need to understand that both players are not equal in this game. You can't treat both players like they have the same basic values. Female sexuality is RESPONSIVE in nature. Male sexuality is SPONTANEOUS in nature. They are not the same, and they act and operate at a fundamentally different (and emotional, not rational) level, so ascribing the same motivations, reasoning, and agency to both parties as if they were gender-neutral just doesn't cut it. This is not a log…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 07:40 PM
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Turn down the temperature a few degrees. Subtly demonstrate that you feel she gave "the best" to her ex, and gave you leftovers. And the next time she asks you to do something you don't want, tell her that your ex made you do it all the time and you don't like the kind of person it was turning you into. See what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 07:28 PM
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Good frame. You should have added that you didn't feel you could skip boxing because there was an ass you wanted to kick. It refocuses what you're doing as Mission Driven, not Me Driven - even though "Me Is The Mission". This gives her a little extra Social Proof that you are a strong badass, and when you get home she's gonna wanna know all about it while her panties dampen. You gruffly tell her "Ass was kicked." No further elaboration. Jump in the shower. See if she joins you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 10:18 PM
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My perspective: your problem is that you don't understand the nuances of your wife's sexuality. Why do women stop sex after marriage? One reason, one basic reason, is that women get tingles from succumbing to their sexuality. They need opposition in order to react appropriately. When sex with your husband is allowed and expected, then there is nothing to succumb to - so she throws a bunch of shit tests your way to artificially create situations which she can "succumb" to. But it's like contextua…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:56 PM
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Better: "It's not like it would 'count', you know. We've already done it, and we're really good at it - just think of it as a coda to our relationship, and a token of our friendship." Give the hamster something proper to feed on. LMR is one of the things that make sex better for women, because her "succumbing" is where she gets the tingles. You don't want to directly engage her anti-slut defense, you want to give her an emotional place to use to rationalize her "succumbing". Max tingles, max eng…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:21 PM
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It's actually pretty easy to plate an ex. From her perspective, you don't actually add to her Number, so you're a freebie. Go Conan on that shit. Wear it out. She can screw you all she wants and not add to her total - that's golden. Enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:31 PM
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Don't let her try to guilt you about your male sexuality: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/04/your-alpha-presentation-its-about-sex.html
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 05:31 PM
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Send him here: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 12:20 AM
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"I can't believe you would say that" Responses: "After all this time, you still haven't got me figured out? Aww!" "Is it the wisdom implicit in the statement or your own lack of understanding that's causing the problem?" "It's not that you can't believe it, it's that you're concerned that you've lost control of the situation." "Independent thought and opinion from a male . . . who knew?" "What's so hard to believe? This is the real world, babe, not Narnia." "Stop. If you have an issue, then addr…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:52 PM
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Go to a real, manly barbershop for a straight razor shave and a haircut. Then go buy a new shirt for yourself. If you want to go all-in, buy new cologne and underwear. All completely innocent. Subtextual Dread is the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 06:28 PM
3

Positive reinforcement. When you see her respond to one of your "suggestions", verbally praise her for her femininity and reward her with "sex" - context-dependent demonstrations of attention designed to flatter and inflate her self-esteem and sense of order. This could be something as simple as making her a cup of tea and backing her into the wall for a 10sec kiss, or something as elaborate as a lunch date at someplace nice and public. Failing to give positive reinforcement risks keeping the ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 04:59 PM
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http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/06/alpha-move-break-television-and-play.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/beta-move-take-bath-or-bfe.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/04/your-alpha-presentation-its-about-sex.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/04/alpha-move-fingerpaint-your-passion.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/09/red-pill-marriage-romance-is-verb.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/05/red-pill-marriage-art…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 08:26 PM
2

You might want to find out who ELSE showed up for beers that night. It might prove instructive. Check social media accounts. It all sounds just a bit innocent. And it might be. OTOH . . .
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:08 PM
1

Also brush up on your medical Spanish. Many large university medical centers offer free on-line courses in medical Spanish, and that can make you dramatically more marketable. But don't put all your irons in just one fire. Just as women love opportunistically, men work opportunistically. Those men who are truly successful are usually those who capitalized on their opportunities, not those who meticulously plan. Capitalize on any talents or hobbies, interests or enthusiasms you've developed over …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 01:01 PM
3

You're actually not the first soon-to-be-former pastor I've counselled, believe it or not. Dixie is a hard place to make an easy living as a pastor. However, I think you're in good shape. I would recommend looking into non-profit administration and fundraising, particularly involving some medical or disease-related charity, with your background. You won't get "rich", but some of those positions can segue into much more lucrative positions with medical-oriented companies, if you play your cards r…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 10:17 PM
3

Eh, not as much as you'd think. (working in porn, that is).
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 09:59 PM
6

Try this for a Basic Version: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 10:37 PM
1

My fall-back is "I trust your judgment." She hates it, but it returns the decision making responsibility back to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 10:31 PM
3

Read it: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/09/the-housework-issue.html
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 12:45 AM
3

It was reposted by a man, I believe. It originally was on a mommy blog.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 10:16 PM
1

I encourage everyone to start making the point in such forums that Men Are Not Broken Women. Meme it up, fellas.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 10:14 PM
2

Curious: what is her exact objection to you reading the news in the morning? I might be able to help you respond to that more effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 01:57 PM
1

Think of the issue of Fame. There are plenty of women who will be happy to fuck you if you're famous just so that they can throw it out as sexual proof within their social circle. A ten-minute blowjob with a rock star turns into "We dated for a while" in the Matrix, elevating her status as sexually powerful enough to have gained access like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:17 PM
1

"I am so glad to hear you think that. Because I'm pretty certain she thought was flirting. I'll be sure to speak to her about it, next time we meet."
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 08:15 PM
7

Exactly. It gets easier with practice. And it's a whole lotta fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 03:36 PM
8

Too hot, too obvious, too in-your-face, too early in the process. You don't need to rub her nose in it. Once the Hamster is engaged, you need to shut it down and let it work on its own, not goad it over the edge. Agreeing that the woman was attractive shows you're not a whipped beta who can't see the boobs in front of his face. But after that, leave it alone. The Hamster will work for you. The better tactic for a married man to use here is Amused Mastery. Yeah, she was hot. Yeah, you would bang …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 03:14 PM
5

Passive Dread always helps pull the trigger. For bonus points you should have asked the girl to take a selfie with you to send to your wife. All very innocent - but when she sees you relaxed and comfortable with a pretty girl, that initiates her mate guarding sexual reflex. And yeah, the woman was likely flirting with you. Sports wives are natural Alpha Widows, even though they married the Alpha. There is an art to a married man flirting with a married woman in such a venue, a kind of joust that…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 02:43 PM
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https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/51/2c/ce/512cce97b11e5d1fb1836dc3112c157b.jpg
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 05:52 PM
2

There are those who don't like the implications of what I say. That's fine. I'm not here for my ego.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 01:34 PM
1

You're thinking about it from a male perspective, not a female one. The date night lures her into security mode. The shift in plans to somewhere slaps that switch off in a big way, and pre-loads plenty of reluctance and excitement at the same time. Her admiration for hot male strippers on screen is meeting the gritty reality of the stripping world, Masculine style. Crisis mode. Hamster is in the house. Removal of wedding rings is another jarring move that forces her to consider not just the over…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 02:03 AM
4

That is the ideal. Not all men have an ideal existence or circumstance.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:24 AM
0

But easier to disentangle yourself from.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:24 AM
0

Kinda demonstrates her fungibility, doesn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:16 AM
3

I'm 47. If you're butting heads against the system, then you need to understand it more . . . systematically. Some change takes decades, some happens overnight. Think about the time you've spent in the MHRM, and how futile it feels sometimes . . . then think about just how many more MHRA there are now than there were a decade ago.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:48 AM
2

Yet you argue for rhetorical and intellectual complacency for us all. Interesting. And dude, if you met me, you wouldn't worry about societies standards of masculinity. I do just fine.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:09 AM
2

Some of us went up a few levels. And aren't bound by one reddit sub. There's a bigger world out there.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:07 AM
2

The fact that you regard it as rhetorical ammunition demonstrates that you do not understand the weapon. Which I shall not attempt to explain to you further.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:07 AM
1

I did improve myself. I went through the Gym Rat phase. I figured out I could do more than that. It's not about "anger", it's about social construction and cultural maneuvering between multiple poles of force. I do it because of a lot of reasons, and the fact that I and others like me invested the energy toward a higher purpose does not diminish the validation you should get from iron. I'm pretty damned improved already, not sure I could take much more, so . . . this is my hobby. Indulge me. I'v…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 12:06 AM
1

Depends on your delivery.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 12:00 AM
2

Read more. Just . . . read more. A lot more.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:59 PM
3

Try to invest a little more imagination into than that. And try to see beyond your own fears of being uncool. There are a lot of things going on right now, and while you don't see the benefit, others do.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:58 PM
2

I suggest you broaden your perspective of masculinity. My body is satisfactory. So is my income. Yes, yes, yes, yes, and I haven't figured it out yet, it just keeps getting bigger. So time to kill. It's nice. Maybe you'll get it some day.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:57 PM
2

Back to the gym, Bam-Bam. We'll let you know when the revolution happens.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:55 PM
1

It's been happening for years. You just haven't noticed.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:54 PM
2

Satire and propaganda go hand-in-hand. You can do both at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:53 PM
2

Then you don't understand the cultural context in which you are practicing TRP. If you're worried about the "reputation" of TRP instead of harvesting the practical nuggets of wisdom, then you're missing the point. TRP's very existence is both a response to and a result of feminism. The idea that it wasn't every going to come in conflict with it is naive. Controlling the course of that conflict is the important part.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:51 PM
3

Your perspective ignores the value he sees in this elemental pursuit of a masculine ideal. Not everyone can get by through lifting heavy. Some of us have more sophisticated personal goals.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:48 PM
4

That's one perspective. Some of us have time to kill.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:46 PM
3

Now. (Actually, "now" has been since 2010). Us. ("Us" has gotten a lot bigger since then).
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:45 PM
1

For you: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/49/d4/54/49d4544afb2bd7bc6eb609cf383e6ea6.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:43 PM
2

It's not an internet battle. It's a cultural battle. If you are only seeing it as twitterwarz with feminists, you aren't looking at it with a wide enough perspective.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:42 PM
1

That's why we carefully observe, test, and provide a multitude of various perspectives, so that the ones that are popular and meaningful will float to the surface. Why are you worried what feminists say about you?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:41 PM
1

TRP is about Sex. Sex Sells. Some of us use TRP to do that, and in turn help guide TRP's greater culture by using our RP understanding of sex to improve the climate and cultural attitude for men, everywhere. It IS evolution.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:40 PM
3

Memes are cheaper. And there's no reason you can't do both. You can redefine the internal perspective of an apparently "simple" meme like Misogyny, for instance, like this: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/fd/a3/da/fda3da6ae41de51a274d0424cd779db2.jpg (Caption: "Misogyny: When A Man Repeats What He Heard A Woman Say About Another Woman") A simple joke, a simple FB throwaway or Reddit comment. But everyone who sees it will - whether they like it or not - remember and recall that meme and…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:37 PM
2

You stand on the shoulders of giants to whom you were once a pathetic specimen. Keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:32 PM
3

Here is the Manosphere equivalent to that: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/69/66/d6/6966d6b68a51e3dc4ac54aebf86461d6.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:31 PM
1

Similar groups inspired the Flying Monkey Squad.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:30 PM
3

No guts, no glory. This trend only has inertia because of the tireless efforts of self-directed activists beginning to work together toward mutual goals. If you can't see the Big Picture, don't panic. Others do. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/f7/d7/bc/f7d7bcaf299cbabfd577ab35a5163eb8.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:29 PM
2

TRP is many things to many different people. This is an expression of the Puerarchy, an important and necessary element of masculine culture. Don't worry about what feminists think. They are not the intended targets of the message. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/17/b2/95/17b29533570b3da8e6f4c6d3906c197e.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:24 PM
2

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/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:22 PM
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Or spread counter-memes: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/51/dd/65/51dd655ee7fce8023ef36bc377dfd0f9.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/5c/a7/88/5ca7885e65433fb8cb79236cff9e800b.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/d6/4c/82/d64c828a8188e29524bbbb16e281e84e.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/98/27/e7/9827e74af14d16645661ebf351dcefc3.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/53/e5/25/53e525c044cc401f08d928ce0bbbc287.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.co…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:16 PM
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Some things it's hard to argue with: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/7c/e7/02/7ce70248ec179d0570fd198ffc755ba0.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/7c/e7/02/7ce70248ec179d0570fd198ffc755ba0.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/8c/64/d9/8c64d93d7e0a475d2ba165750ede254b.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/34/dd/41/34dd41a49985f6ea17bf4dbda9fd24cb.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/06/94/99/069499e67c48109249435fb267813074.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:13 PM
2

False Flag can work, but it has to be done with subtlety and as part of a larger strategy of information, disinformation, propaganda, and effective meme manipulation. In the midst of that maelstrom a good FF op can do wonders, if managed properly.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:10 PM
2

Or even better: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/b2/a1/bc/b2a1bcfc1fff93b3924ad3c09fe0a146.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:08 PM
1

Nah. There is another way.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:05 PM
3

Hear, hear! https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/0e/0b/ff/0e0bffaa65d716951e21ff63dd3233ee.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/bd/2c/c3/bd2cc339fd00f0da2e97084e327517ac.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/9b/02/a8/9b02a887970c9b45f68714b32852243d.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/04/45/1c/04451c8440b487c18c9bab669e180db7.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/af/94/11/af94113527f4446482f1142b79994c8c.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/af/45/…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 11:04 PM
3

For you, Sir: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/8f/98/2e/8f982e37540128ca0de00da75e1e79e3.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:58 PM
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Then educate them, my brother! https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/07/4c/42/074c424532c865dbc704cc3c25cf7277.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:56 PM
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/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:56 PM
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/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:54 PM
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/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:53 PM
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/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:50 PM
11

Try this one: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/0c/35/ad/0c35ad097c33c026905cc594d5176d7c.jpg
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:48 PM
2

Welcome to the world of Subversive warfare in the Digital Age, fellas! There is more than one way to fight a battle, and PsyOps is always a helluva lot of fun! See just how far you can pump the rage machine until you can see the strains in the structure! Realistically, that's the best chance to yank the chain of the metaphorical beast, and the one that requires least effort.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:46 PM
2

Completely agree, see above. Most men misunderstand the art of Dread and often screw it up by overcommitting themselves or pushing too hard, too fast. But other guys are so mired in the Beta Pit of Despair that they need something - anything - to jump-start themselves. Yes, this is a PUA tactic. But when you're trying to salvage your masculinity and your identity from destruction, sometimes you have to employ extreme tactics.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 10:40 PM
2

Note the Use At Your Own Risk, and the For the Desperate points, above. Not everyone's situation is the same, and while I tend to agree on a personal level I am here to advise men of as many options as possible. Even while they might not stoop to this, it may give them ideas and insights that they can use to their advantage. Hence the disclaimers.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 10:38 PM
6

You should always record your hookups, if not on video than by audio. That has save more than one young lad from a false rape accusation later.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 09:17 PM
-9

Well done. For extra points, practice gaming your SIL in front of your wife. That kind of sisterly competition can be golden.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 09:07 PM
3

Your best bet is to shut the hell up and fuck her like Conan after she gets back. Any other response is going to be seen as weakness by your wife. That being said, if you want to take it up a level and make a strong point, I would counter her passion over the professional pecs with a covert response. Tell her you're taking her out, look nice. Then take her to a decent dinner, and instead of following it with drinks or a movie . . . take her ass to a strip club. INSIST on her going in, even make …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 03:46 PM
2

"My girlfriend canceled. Guess I'm coming home." "Considering going to Fight Club. How is our insurance deductable?" "Depends . . . what kind of underwear will you be wearing when I get home?" "Yes. So are you. Meet me at the pub at 6:00, wear a skirt, skip the panties." Amused mastery, if you respond. This is a probing question and a potential shit test in the making. Your "aberrant" behavior isn't necessarily being met negatively, but she's probing to determine what it means. Simple beer with …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 01:35 PM
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When the castle is overrun by peasants, that's when it is time for the lord of the manor to take control. You were quite right to castigate your wife over not informing you, but you should further hold her to account about not getting your positive assent before she brought such a disruption to the domain. That being said, play it off. Be a good host. Don't let them see any overt sign of acrimony between you and your wife from you, and act like the whole thing was your idea. If nothing else that…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 01:24 PM
6

Time to deconstruct and reconstruct your masculinity. You can't force your wife to change, but you can be a stronger leader and stop fearing her displeasure.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 01:05 PM
1

Yes, it's a frequent point of kino. Most of you aren't looking at kino, because it's mostly concerned with pick-up, but you'd be surprised how valuable a tool it can be in social situations in general. Kind of like having an additional super power in your utility belt. Women, especially, use non-verbal communication in their multi-layer system, so understanding the nuances of their body language can be a massive aid in comprehension. But it takes some study and observation.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 04:14 AM
1

AWALT. She just hides it better. Keep tying her insecurity into your need for sexual validation. Preselection, even with mythical women, can work like a champ for improving your position.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 06:43 PM
1

Depends on how fast you want to move and how far you want to push it this early. To go balls-out, keep her guessing: "Date went well; need to buy new underwear" would put it on Hyperspeed. "It will cost you a blowjob to find out" is the next level down. Below that "Not as impressed as you were - do you wanna piece of this hunk of man when I get home?" is below that, and dead silence is always a winner. But you've managed to demonstrate High Value and increase your presentation to the extent that…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 06:20 PM
3

Outstanding observation. Brilliant. Just brilliant. (See what I did there?)
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 07:28 PM
1

Get thee to my blog and search for every post labeled "wife test". You'll thank me later.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 02:41 PM
26

Every dude needs down time to refresh his soul. Let her stay with the kid, you go see your friend. She needs to miss you more.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 02:22 PM
1

Oh, mais ouis! The way to deal with this is to Hold Frame like a mothafuckin' CHAMP. Look her in the eye and say, "Every team needs a captain. I took initiative and got the shit done. I'm not going to apologize for that." When she brings up her dad? "Your daddy issues are your problem. I'm running my family, here, and you can either help or be an obstacle. Which is it?" Stand firm, don't apologize, agree and amplify. It's all one big shit test. It's not like she consults you before selecting tam…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 02:20 PM
1

Well done. Excellent observation about feet.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 07:57 PM
1

Soft dread and Preselection. Hang out and be charming around other women in ways she can see. And read the background information until you understand it by heart. Once you understand your situation and her reactions to you, you can expand upon that. For now simply open up the possibility that other women want you, in her mind. A good place to start.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 07:52 PM
6

Poker. It's a masculine skill and opportunity for talk and it bores most women. If the ladies want to join, cackle evilly and delight in the prospect of strip poker - House Rules, you explain, sadly. Alternatively, you can do Video Game Night, Dungeons and Dragons, Sports Trivia, Fantasy Sports, Boxing, Action Movie Night, War Movie Night, or a Civil War Retrospective. Keep the themes aggressively masculine and most of your work will be done for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 07:48 PM
3

Good show. Hold frame like a champ - but throw her a bone. After her display, and to test the theoretical "reset", start upping the sexual requests to see how committed she is. This isn't as self-serving as it sounds - she's freaking out on you, you need to give her some tangible sign that you are at least interested in her efforts. Sexual expectations are an easy-to-deliver test of the seriousness of her resolve and provide an opportunity for you to give her the relationship comfort she's despe…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 07:39 PM
3

Consider illegal black-market testosterone cream, Indonesia has a booming internet market on the stuff. Works, too. Easier to dose than injections. And illegal.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 07:25 PM
2

Let me give it some thought. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 03:47 AM
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My pleasure! Glad to be here. I live to help.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 02:23 AM
2

I've actually been thinking of doing underground seminars in my area this fall. I think a "speakeasy" sort of environment, with proper security and background checks, would screen out most of the haters. I'm just wondering what I could do to improve the Game of five Duke University undergraduate men, if I had the chance to pour RP concepts into their brains. I could see a speakeasy style social network, but doxxing is a big issue.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 08:49 PM
7

Check out my blog (www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com) and search for "Office Game" posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 08:43 PM
2

Mrs. Ironwood has gotten so that she knows to prompt me in her verbal cues: "Where would you like us to eat, tonight?" After four years, she's become accustomed to my leadership and doesn't hesitate to prod me, if I'm being reluctant. That's my cue to "Shut up and Captain", and it's helpful. In fact, it's ridiculously helpful if your wife understands the new dynamic and knows what to do to support it. Once this was standard practice, but now wives are encouraged to fight any hint of masculine co…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 01:12 PM
5

Give it time. Until she's sure you're committed, she's going to be watching to see if it's just a fad or if you're serious. Also, try initiating more.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 02:10 AM
0

This response is not tailored to a woman you are interested in bedding.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:08 AM
2

It's all in the delivery. If you can't manage it, just mumble "Yes, yes I am".
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:07 AM
9

Good frame. You're on the right track. You're also a loooooong way from being in good shape. The affair accusation was (as you said) predictable. Continue hitting the SMV buffs, continue holding frame. Hamster is gonna be hamstering. Let it spin. Some advice: 1) Any further calls from your in-laws should be handled with "it's a private matter between me and my wife. I'd like to keep it that way." 2) The next time she pulls the "bad father" card, drag her immediately into private and tell her tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 10:46 PM
5

Seen this happen as a shit test/rejection repeatedly in the field. Best responses usually sound like this: 1) Do you not see the way i dress? No self-respecting gentlemen would be attracted to this. Babes, yeah, all the damn time. I'm clearly flaunting my heterosexuality . . . and your gaydar is clearly busted. 2) Not gay. Just have standards. High ones. 3) Nope. Heterosexual, and better at it than you are. 4) If I say yes will you leave me alone? 5) Why, you want a chance to 'turn' me? Men's ba…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 10:25 PM
2

Masterful. Thank you for the extensive field report. Holding frame in a crisis like that is a true test of your Captaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 06:08 PM
1

Good show!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 04:17 PM
2

Also good advice. You need to miss her more. Another old post of mine: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/alpha-move-hit-road-jack.html
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:12 PM
3

Not arguing this, but Mrs. Ironwood and I have a system. I'm her Bartender. She doesn't get a drink that I don't prepare for her, unless it is purely a work function. She ceded this control to me at my insistence, early in our relationship, and it works for us. If I don't think she needs a drink, she doesn't get one. Yeah, it's "controlling', but it's also kept her from getting out of control sometimes, or making bad decisions. After almost 25 years, it works for us.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:11 PM
1

Apropos to the book, go ahead and read it - on your own. Then come up with several RP reasons why the book sucks, and be prepared to discuss them with your woman. Fathering isn't rocket science, but it's not mothering, either, and that is likely what this book is trying to do: turn your attempts at paternal fathering into "second rate mothering". That's not your job. Your job is to be a father, and that's a very, very different thing. Make your wife understand that. "While I appreciate the attem…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:07 PM
2

It will. Our male sexuality regularly makes us "discontent" with what we have. It's part of the "spread your seed" biological programming. Understand it for what it is . . . and understand how to deal with it. Human sexuality in general craves novelty, so I encourage you to undertake an exploration. Here are a few old blog posts of mine that might give you inspiration: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/04/alpha-move-fingerpaint-your-passion.html http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/05/r…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:02 PM
7

This is going to sound odd, but you both need to re-investigate your sexuality and then re-invest in it. You're getting the physical reaction you want now, but you need to work on the fine-tuning. If her yammering pisses you off, limit it (you'll never eliminate it). Ten minutes in the morning for "plan your day", then twenty minutes at night for "how was your day?". That's it. So what the hell do you talk about the rest of the time? That's what the reinvestigation is about. You are an older man…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:06 AM
1

Well played, Sir. The proper response to "Is there anything wrong?" is "My penis appears to be unoccupied."
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 11:38 PM
7

Easy. First, you need to Captain Up. You can respond with Amused Mastery or Agree And Amplify: "You think I'm bad with money because of that? I'd say my lack of financial judgment goes back all the way to our wedding day." Harsh, but sometimes its necessary. "Yeah, I did call you a bitch, didn't I? Three years? Seems like only yesterday . . ." As for the second, try "And what if her real father shows up?" Confused look. "Oh, I am her real father? Guess she's gonna be fine, then." Don't let her c…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 11:31 PM
11

Hold frame. Cultivate an abundance mentality. Stay focused. Let her come to you. You're just getting the first taste. Understanding why she's doing what she's doing, in reaction to what you did/didn't do, is the important part. It's not about winning the race, at your stage, it's about mastering the skill. Before you plunge into the pussy party you so desperately desire, pause and evaluate yourself, your motivations, and the objective facts of the situation. What red flags have you seen? What mi…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:10 PM
1

Dude. I don't have time to read all the comments, but . . . you need to Captain Up, in a big way. Her mindset is going to be a reflection of your leadership. You are giving in to her rationalizations and suffering as a result. I'm not telling you to dump her or anything, but you made some compromises on your mate selection that you're going to have to deal with. Mrs. Ironwood has PCOS, and it's not insurmountable. I'd suggest Married Monk Mode and a serious evaluation of your leadership dynamic.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 04:10 PM
3

For Newbie Red Knight: not the way to bed a feminist. However, if you want to short-circuit their basic argument, point out that until the most basic gender-based form of discrimination with the most existential issue: compulsory military service/Selective Service/draft registration. Tell them you only fuck feminists who support Universal Selective Service registration, because all the others are intellectually dishonest brain-dead cunts. Further, if you want to go this far, proclaim that any wo…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:13 PM
2

Vaselgel. It's our best hope.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:54 PM
225

Wow. She made Art. So do 200 people a day at XHamster and PrivateHomeClips. Better art. This is attention-whoring at such a high level that "Daddy Issues" doesn't even begin to cover it. And she thinks she's helping. Adorable.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 03:38 AM
20

Mention you thought you recognized her from a porn you once saw, years ago. They'll never speak to her or of her again.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 01:44 AM
10

They try to infiltrate - there is a regular group of them. But the tend to reveal themselves quickly because they don't understand what they think they're mocking. As one of the "TRP Elders" by virtue of longevity alone, I'll give my $.02: Roosh's perspective is a product of his position. The issue of a marketing motive is fair - he's making money at this, we're not - but I think his perspective is more colored by his position in the sense that he is a voice around which much of the Manosphere h…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:03 PM
3

It's what I'm here for.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 03:23 AM
3

That's hard - everyone is different. If his mother was controlling, that's one issue; if his father had high expectations that he feels he failed, that's another. It really depends on their relationship and history. He might be thinking about all of that in context of you moving in together, and that might be hitting his brakes. Of course he's considering marriage, and likely kids, but he can't talk to you about that yet. Even after 18 months, you're still relatively new, and the vetting process…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 12:34 AM
2

Everyone has issues with their parents. Even those with good relationships. These pop up as a man hits that spot in life where he starts comparing and contrasting himself with his forebears. Sometimes it can be a little thing, sometimes a big thing, it depends on the situation. But don't discount the possibility, even if they have a good relationship. It might be pretty subtle, and not something he's ready to share just yet. Or it might not be parent-related at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/15 12:18 AM
12

A follow, after consultation with Mrs. Ironwood: "Relax. Socialize with your friends and give him the permission to do the same. If you've invested this much time and energy in supporting him, and you are that close, he may fear that seeking outside perspective would seem like abandoning you or such; giving him the permission to seek elsewhere for answers, support, and counsel frees him to do so or not. Sometimes a dude just needs his boys. And it sounds like you could use some support, too." I'…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 11:42 PM
25

If I may . . . You might be reading too much into his reactions. It's quite possible that he's got something else troubling him, or a restlessness that needs to be explored, or an issue he hasn't shared with you for some reason: shame, embarassment, confusion, it could be a lot of things. There is a tendency of some women (and I believe all women experience this at one time or another) of thinking that a man's emotional presentation is directed at her, when it is, in fact, something else entirel…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/15 11:22 PM
1

Well done, Sir, well done. I promote you to Red Knight Banneret. Work on the production a bit, don't get discouraged, and plow bravely on. Men dare. We'll support you. Ian
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 10:35 PM
6

Get thee to my blog: www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com. Search Marriage. Spend three days reading. Then let me know what you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 10:31 PM
1

Rollo Tomassi's website, www.rationalmale.com. High level, straightforward, comprehensive.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:39 AM
2

Sexual Market Value. Distinct from Marital Market Value.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 01:40 AM
6

Do a screen cap. This is anti-MGTOW, a softball, mealy-mouthed BP attempt to coopt the success the MGTOW movement has demonstrated, to keep the flood of dudes in their circle from wandering off to more compelling narratives, i.e. TRP and the Manosphere. They threw several digs in our direction. On top of that, they've got they're archetypes screwed up like a first-year Bambi Wiccan struggling through her first read of The Spiral Dance . . . pathetic. The Green Man is a sacred archetype, but they…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:49 AM
7

Brilliant. Utterly brilliant. Well-spotted.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:33 AM
2

There's good reason to boycott: Mad Maxipad is Theron's bitch boy in the movie, an addle-headed brute who she apparently blatantly uses like a disposable feminine hygeine product in the service of the wimmins. From what I can tell it pitches that masculinity is best when it capitulates and sacrifices itself for femininity without regard for its own interests . . . or even its own self-preservation. Same ol' White Knight shit, fellas. And when the lead is described as so absent from the plot and …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:45 PM
5

I've written the authors of the article. I'll see what they think.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 07:51 PM
1

trying. Should be this link: http://toddkshackelford.com/downloads/2015/Sela-et-al-PAID.pdf
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 07:50 PM
1

Thanks for the response, I found it very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 07:27 PM
1

Fascinating! Thank you, you've been truly helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 07:25 PM
1

Thanks for your candor. It looks like the thread got cut, but I found it useful. It's interesting that you (collectively) place such a value on something that men, too place a value on. Yet when put objectively, you're repulsed by it. Not trying to pick, but if you did something your man liked (say, got a promotion or an achievement you were proud of) and he rewarded you by taking you out to dinner, a movie, and a hotel room in fine romantic fashion, would you consider that "bargaining" or a "re…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 06:47 PM
1

Thanks for the reply. Serious answer? I trust y'all to be candid and forthright, understanding that I'm seriously trying to do casual social research without the benefit of a grant. There is so little study of this subject, and such a bias in self-reporting due to female social constraints, that it is hard to get good data to interpret. Essentially, I need to hear from y'all so I can analyse the data and break it up into small, easy-to-understand pieces for the benefit of both you and the RP men…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/15 06:42 PM
3

Thanks for this link - I'll look it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:16 PM
6

Exactly! This provides the underpinning for Dread Game as an effective strategy for a low-sex marriage. But it also provides potential guidance for men to respond. If fellatio is understood by both parties as a mate retention strategy, then it implies what happens when there is no fellatio.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 03:37 PM
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Some other juicy fellatio-oriented scientific observations in the study: "Oral sex is a common sexual activity (e.g., Santtila et al., 2008) that is positively associated with sexual satisfaction (Brody & Costa, 2009) and relationship satisfaction (Ashdown, Hackathorn, & Clark, 2011). " "Men desire oral sex more often than women, and men’s (but not women’s) relationship satisfaction is positively correlated with the frequency with which they experience oral sex (Santilla et al. 2008). " "Fellati…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:34 PM
1

I'm looking into larger units, that can mold in concrete, and smaller units that can build in chocolate. Endless possibilities.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:18 PM
3

Depends on how you do it. 3D printing allows you to build components of far more complicated things, the construction of which is itself highly satisfying, if not lucrative. But your point is well taken.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:59 PM
11

Look into 3D printing, Gentlemen. It's the wave of the future for dudes who want to innovate.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 06:29 PM
-1

Not only won't I spend a dime in the theater, I won't even illegally download it after what I've read about the plot. I encourage any so-minded Red Knight to consider clandestinely using a Sharpie or other implement to help the marketing by changing the signage to read MAD MAX: PUSSY ROAD. Let's see how much mileage we can get out of that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:46 PM
21

You'll get over it. Monk Mode is all about stoicism, sacrifice, and commitment. Your sperm is viable until you're 70 - ignore that bullshit about "all downhill from here". You're just getting started. I encourage you to maintain, see just how much squawking you can coax from them about your emerging physique. Other commentors are correct: they can't help but compare themselves to you, and want to sabotage you to make themselves feel better. Take it as the sign of success it is, observe the resul…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 12:18 PM
4

Check out this post referencing feminist fears and fungibility: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2015/05/amanda-marcottes-nervous-titter-double.html
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:25 PM
-10

Mr. Rogers was a US Marine during WWII and involved in some of the fiercest fighting in the war. I see this as a powerful counterpoint to his public nurturing side, which in my opinion increases his gravitas tremendously. And Lady Elaine Fairchilde was kinda hot.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:27 PM
1

Well, you can't have Amused Mastery without the Mastery.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:36 AM
17

Love it. /rollotomassi could have scripted it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:07 AM
68

I wouldn't worry about that. That would require some faciity in the kitchen.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:20 AM
4

Thanks. That's what I'm here for.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:40 PM
25

Don't think of it as being Machiavellian . . . think of it as being the Charming Boss. Make a point to praise him in front of the group in a way that makes him just a bit embarassed - but it will elevate you still further in stature for your recognition. The next opportunity to give him a gift, make it a pocket-knife. It's decidedly masculine and something his wife would never buy for him, acknowleging his (lesser) masculinity in your eyes. These kinds of subtle validations, while maintaining yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:29 PM
3

Then just smugly smile with regal self-assurance when you are proven right again and again. Not getting pissed off and losing frame irritates the hell out of them, and makes them doubt their firmly-held beliefs. After all, you seem to be doing pretty good . . .
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:11 PM
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He's not an enemy, he's a foil. This is where Amused Mastery and Agree and Amplify really start kicking in in social circles. The more unapologetic you are - but always unfailingly polite - the more it will grind his gears. The key is holding your frame past the point where he loses his. The essence of Alpha. It's ALL about control. Once he loses frame he'll either slink off or (more likely, due to his Beta nature and demanding wife) grudgingly apologize. Dismiss it as if were nothing and then C…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:06 PM
2

They do care about the reputations and treatment of their active frat brothers. And they donate because they have more money than god and they're about to die . . . and for tax reasons.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 12:16 AM
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That's only operational expenses - institutional giving runs to the millions every year. That's what builds new buildings, funds professorships, and pays for all the progress. A university without a pool of alumni contributing won't be in business too long.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 05:08 PM
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You really want to punish these schools? Convince their wealthy male alumni (most of whom were in frats themselves) to withhold their institutional giving until change is made. Universities could give a shit about the students - it's the rich alums (mostly male - women give far, far less than men) that's where the money is. When I worked at Duke Alumni Affairs for a brief temporary stint, the files they had on each alum would make the CIA jealous. You want change? You merely have to convince a b…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:38 PM
1

I disagree. When the upper class men see this as a way to protect themselves, it will become a sign of status the BB will copy. But we shall see. The low cost makes a difference.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:11 PM
2

Of course. But who wouldn't want ten worry-free years?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 12:10 PM
2

Nope. AF WILL get it done, but not publicize it. BB will get it done because socially that puts them in a class above the low-status males who clearly aren't responsible enough to get it done, confirming their low status. A woman would rather not have Joe Dirt fathering her child - paternity will become even more of a status issue. So she's in a bind: low quality Omega, or try to convince Chad to settle down, get the second shot and knock her up (HA!) or she'll have to do the same with a BB. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:48 PM
1

They're already opposing it, as they become aware of it. Just go to any feminist forum and propose the idea that MEN be the guardians of fertility, and see what happens.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:43 PM
1

We're animals, but we're opportunistic animals. Vasalgel will change the SMV just as radically as the Pill did.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:42 PM
7

That's the beauty of it. Suddenly men will be making the reproductive decisions as well as the commitment decisions, and that's going to drive the little cupcakes nuts! Only low-value men won't have it done . . . which will confirm their low value.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:40 PM
3

This procedure is about $1000 and will likely be covered by insurance. I'm going to have both of my boys done when it's approved and they are of age. You spend more on dental work.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:39 PM
3

It's in Phase II clinical trials, now I believe, being funded with individual contributions. Google it and give!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:38 PM
9

http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 05:11 PM
1

I disagree. Security is naturally part of the feminine equation. Understanding their own hypergamy, as many do, helps them keep their marriages steady, and most of them are trying to adapt their current relationships to RP orthopraxy after years of BP life. I give them props for doing that.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 01:01 AM
2

It's already happening. Hard to get tricked into marrying a plate through pregnancy when you're already "married" to your BFF. There are other advantages too. Might be the best bet yet for institutionalizing patriarchal power.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:54 PM
9

Chill out. Read more. Don't be a dick. Discouraging RPW ignores the reality and utility of TRP. It may surprise you that there are a lot of women out there who actually want to get married and have kids with one man, without all the feminist BS. And yes, their advice will not adhere perfectly to this sub, because it's ADVICE FOR WOMEN, not men. It shouldn't surprise you that the two are not going to align on many points. And that's okay. Read more.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:52 PM
-3

Brilliant. I tip my fedora to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 01:49 PM
1

Essentially, yes. It's when one man takes a stand on behalf of all men, using the established anti-male "fairness" doctrines against those who use them against us. Best Black Knight I ever met was a 50 year old black gay man. Brutal.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 08:57 PM
1

DANGER, Will Robinson! This has a lot of potential to be a bad situation. Any time you let yourself be supported by your woman, you risk losing her respect. If you're smart, you'll keep hustling somehow on the side so that you can contribute. But you MUST continue to act as if you are, indeed, making most of the money, or she'll lose faith in your leadership. Difficult problem, complex solutions.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:53 PM
1

Not for banging. It is for taking on established power structures, not seduction. Different part of the Red Pill.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:50 PM
1

Tell them both that you're considering a commitment . . . but will only upgrade to girlfriend the one who is the hands-down biggest sexual freak between them. That will at least make your decision more interesting.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:44 PM
1

Change your venue to meet more girls. Just get into the car, drive to the nearest resort sort of place, and start introducing yourself to everything with tits. Be charming - without social context, you're automatically more attractive than the boys they're used to. You haven't missed a thing. Don't be angry. Were you angry about all of those diaper years, once you learned how to use the potty? Of course not. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:40 PM
3

Next time she says that, reply with "Only if you ever want to do this again." If she puts up any LMR, dump her ass. You've played it out too long, and at this point she's using you like a cheap tampon.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:37 PM
1

Let her twist, then reply with "I was busy not hurting you. That's what you wanted, that's what you're going to get. Good and hard." Ideally this will get her Hamster spinning at record speeds. It clearly states your emotional position (pissed off and done with her) and holds her accountable for her words. Next step will be for her to call for you to "be reasonable" and "be friends". Respond with a curt "You aren't interested in a relationship with me. Others are. They get my attention now." If …
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:15 PM
5

No guts, no glory.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:07 PM
1

This has merit.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:06 PM
1

This is how you get anal.
/r/askTRP08/04/15 04:05 PM
1

The Red Pill isn't a philosophy, it's a praxeology.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:07 PM
1

Your first mistake is to see TRP as a philosophy, or in a moral context. By doing either you are misunderstanding both the purpose and utility of TRP. TRP isn't a philosophy, it's a praxeology with the stated goal of revalorizing positive masculinity in alignment with men's self-declared interests and goals. As many of those goals tend to revolve around our sexual and reproductive strategies, TRP is supremely useful in actualizing that aspect of our masculinity. Your casual observations on one h…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:05 PM
4

Gotcha. That explains a lot, actually. Back to your drawer, sockpuppet. When "a lot of people" take the same issue, with the same bullshit perspective, down to the same spelling and usage errors, it smells like puerile troll, not reasoned argument. I would say "I get this a lot", but recently it's all sounded suspiciously like one voice. You may not know my credentials, but among them is the fact I currently make a good chunk of my living writing. I know the English language. Certain usage patte…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:47 AM
9

Dude, I get paid over six figures a year by one of the largest adult products and entertainment corporations in the world for my knowledge and understanding of human sexuality and the science of relationships. My observations are the basis for literally tens of millions of dollars of business. And no, you don't get that sort of gig walking in off the street without a couple of very specific and useful degrees and a whole lotta publishing creds. Now, why didn't I debate you in long drawn-out scie…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 10:07 PM
11

I can tell. I've been published. I've got degrees. I've written books. That's immaterial. I've devoted the last 20 years of my life to studying this issue in several capacities, from several different angles, under several career paths. Make of that what you will. But if you disagree with my assessment or my reasoning, then state why you think it's faulty and propose a counterargument.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:25 PM
10

Dude. They're our best recruiting tool. Don't engage them, engage AROUND them. Give them just enough fuel to flare out, then watch the people who watch them. THAT'S who you need to talk to.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:43 PM
2

Depends on what, exactly, you're looking for. This is interesting data, suggestive of more study. And I'd like to see that, too, but I'm not certain I could handle knocking boots in an MRI. It might damage my calm.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:41 PM
12

What you know about me could fit on an index card. Get over yourself. I'm explaining a complex, cross-discipline phenomenon in layman's language. To make it useful to the people who most need to make use of it. That's what I do. What do you do?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:38 PM
2

My take: AK is right, you need to be able to mix the alpha (arousal building) energy with the beta (comfort building) energy like an expert bartender. Part of it is cycle-dependent, of course, with more alpha during estrus, but without the beta (mostly subtextual - do not talk about your feelz) to sustain her comfort level the excitement of your alpha will careen into a temporarily exciting but ultimately challenging place. A woman in a committed relationship does, indeed, want the best of both …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:08 PM
4

Shower. Really, turn on the water, lock the door, and have at it. You won't even hear them screaming. Conversely, set up a tent in the back yard. Or go sneak out to the car and do it there.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:04 PM
5

Yeah, that one deserves an especially good treat. In front of your wife. Buy that kid a black fedora.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:03 PM
10

"Hamstering"? Really? I've studied human arousal, attraction, and sexuality for over twenty years. Please explain to me why "I can't" understand whatever it is that you think it is I'm not understanding. It's not "confirmation bias", it's education and experience.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:59 PM
9

If you want to be really technical, sex isn't a "drive", like thirst and hunger and breathing. Sex is a "biological incentive reward system". While not absolutely necessary for survival, it's essentially the next most important element of human existence. But yeah, apples and oranges. Nothing equal here.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:45 PM
3

Nah, it's a lot deeper than that. Regardless of your initial mentality, orgasm allows you the means to process deep emotions, even if you aren't displaying them at the time. Women often mistake the fact that men do not display or communicate emotions as readily as they do as a sign that men do not actually have or feel emotions. A proper understanding of both male and female psychological processing can lead to a more comprehensive approach to your sex life. And it also explains why BPD girls ar…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:37 PM
5

It's emotions during ORGASM, not arousal - two separate and distinct phases of the process. Think of it this way: men need orgasm to access and process their emotions, women need orgasm to momentarily stop the accessing and processing of their emotions. Psychologically speaking, men need sex in order to feel, women need sex to experience one blissful moment of NOT feeling. That's a little simplistic, but it describes the basic situation. It's not a matter of "crying during sex", its a matter of …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:33 PM
5

It's not a bad article, it's just limited. It inspires more questions than it answers, but if you understand what it's actually saying, it's pretty important. Sure, it's dumbed down for the layman, but the science is accurate enough. Had a long discussion with Mrs. Ironwood about it this morning (she has an extensive background in neurobiology) and came up with about 20 burning questions this study doesn't answer, including some of the points you've made, but the science is sound.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:30 PM
13

Not "next to useless" at all. It provides some very groundbreaking insight into the process of arousal and orgasm, and gives us context for the different approaches of men and women from a neurological perspective. It also successfully demonstrates that men and women do not experience sex the same way at all. That's not "bro science", that's basic science that has a profound influence over the whole idea of "equality" between the sexes when it comes to the sexual arena.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:26 PM
6

It's likely a subconscious slut-defense response. She may not actually even be aware of what her subconscious is doing. When her moral judgement center gets reset, during an orgasm, immediately after the subconscious can forcefully reassert itself. Or, conversely, you might just be that good.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:05 PM
23

This is actually pretty fucking important. It provides scientific evidence that men need sex (or at least orgasm) in order to emotionally process, while women need orgasm to enter into an emotionally peaceful state. It suggests that, in general, without sex men become emotionally constipated to the point of pathology, and that women become emotionally complex to the point of pathology. The suspension of moral judgement suggested in the text also demonstrates where our old friend The Rationalizat…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:03 PM
1

There are still 100-250,000 Zorastrians in the world, depending how you define them. They ain't going anywhere. Either is violence.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:33 AM
2

Do it. Wear it proudly, as your Nazi-fighting ancestors did.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:26 AM
1

Don't bash the fedora.
/r/MensRights12/02/15 02:25 AM
63

That's what discipline is: the willingness and ability to do something you don't really want to do, because you know you need to do it. Fuck motivation. Get committed. Motivation is a feelz. Commitment is a rational decision that you must force yourself to stick to. Feelz are unreliable, but reason rocks.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:07 PM
9

Then turn your computer off. Unplug it. In fact, unplug everything until you've reached your goal. Either you're committed, or you're not. You just have to decide if you like pussy more than Netflix.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:06 PM
13

Sounds like she hit the Epiphany phase and her anti-slut shield went up to convince you she's wife material. Heh. LJBF doesn't work the same way with women, but you can pressure her with a soft ultimatum while holding ironclad frame. Some examples: "I don't need to waste my time with a Middle School relationship. I'm an adult. I respect the fact that you are waiting for the right moment. I'm thinking that moment has passed." "You clearly don't have the same feelings for me that I have for you. Y…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:05 PM
9

I heartily endorse this proposal.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:36 PM
195

Ask her to next do a seminar for the ladies entitled "How Not To Kill Your Babies." Women are responsible for 98+% of infanticides. Do it for the children.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:35 PM
7

Either ignore her completely or plate her. It would be easy enough to leave the door open for a return ticket. I'd just tell her you were on a date at the time and the CRV was being put to other uses. That would be enough to incite her hamster. If she continues texting, she's fondly remembering the fun parts of the relationship, and is comparing it to her current situation. That's the sign that she'd be open to more games.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:34 PM
3

No shit. And that's just the beginning. But yeah, there are ways to attempt to verify the number and get a halfway decent assessment. And seeing how forthcoming she is often helps determine character.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:26 PM
1

Please. You overestimate the rationality of the common female, and underestimate the importance of Preselecton. This is hamster fuel.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:25 PM
1

Did that in college, myself. A WHOLE LOT of Women's Studies, Sociology, and Psychology papers, at a flat rate. Including two masters' theses. It's a lucrative way for a writer to make beer money.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:46 PM
1

You didn't lose, you learned. Drunk dial her one night acting like you think it's some other girl. That's always fun.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:41 PM
1

Don't put up with that shit. If she's a serious LTR, you had BETTER be vetting her for permanent status by discovering her Number and her sexual past. Seriously, if a woman isn't willing to be forthright and honest about her Number to her future husband (and yeah, they all lie a bit, but . . .) then she's unworthy of being a wife. Her lying to you AT ALL about her past is another big red flag. And yeah, they do count as lies. You deal with a persistent interrogator by a) obfuscating through adep…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:39 PM
-8

"Wait, isn't this Jennifer? Sorry, thought you were the girl I met last time I was back. Must have gotten the contacts confused. SHE sure cares when I get back. At least two or three times a night."
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:36 PM
14

I love gay bars. Being openly straight ("flaunting my heterosexuality" by the way I dress) and unconcerned with getting hit on helps hone your IDGAS attitude, and observing how gay men approach is instructive. Occasionally I've gotten shit for being there by militant dudes, but mostly they don't mind. I don't mind being eye candy. The girls who hang out in gay bars tend to be ridiculously easy. If they are there with gay male friends (highly likely) then your ticket is to introduce yourself to t…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:49 PM
2

Yeah, and Nietzche stole his ideas from other people, too. You have an inaccurate understanding of the Red Pill praxeology and don't comprehend the role of this sub. If you have an issue with a particular point of the praxeology, and can make an argument that it is wrong, then do so. Otherwise you come across as a whiner.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:35 PM
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It's in Phase II clinical trials now, which means healthy human test subjects. But the funding for the project is being done on donations. I see this as a pretty worthy cause. And think what it will do to society . . . men will have control over reproduction.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:19 AM
2

I'd tell her to buy an apron and a cookbook and start hunting down former Boy Scouts. If she wants to be a wife, she should have some skills in that direction. Dudes who are ACTUALLY looking to settle down are looking for that sort of thing, and former Boy Scouts tend to make the best husbands, in my experience. It's not a universal, but it's a place to start. Seriously, what does she bring to the table that a man values? If the answer involves her education or job, she's already lost. What cont…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/15 04:32 AM
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Google Vasalgel, or look it up on my blog. Safe, effective, cheap (about $1000) temporary male birth control with a simple minimally invasive procedure that lasts 10 years then goes away naturally. No more unplanned pregnancies, with men who are smart enough to do it. What will feminism do without reproductive coercion?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:09 AM
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Sure. Lean In all they want. But don't complain when you go into a predominantly male field that "they're behaving like a bunch of guys!" I'm not advising women, here. I'm advising men.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:07 AM
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I understand. I'm actually politically Progressive in many ways, but my RP perspective got me kicked out of the club. If you say that you're a Progressive who hates feminism, you get creamed. I feel you. Of course, to any real conservative I'm considered liberal, despite my support of the 2nd amm. and other issues. I'm pro-choice, pro-gay marriage, pro civil rights . . . The key to balancing is to understand that feminism is, actually, a kind of perversion of the general humanistic ideal that is…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:16 PM
2

Excellent commentary, thank you for the addition. I should have listed the Merchant Marines with the others. And your observations about being a Marine and SMV are dead-on.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 10:20 PM
11

"I don't think you'd enjoy that much anal."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:04 PM
2

Yep. We've gotten much better at it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:03 PM
1

Time for a Road Trip. If your "friends" aren't responsive, make new ones. Get in the car, drive three hours in any direction, and have a few adventures with people who don't know you and have no history with you. Hell, use a nickname you like but no one calls you. Just change your venue, re-initialize, and plunge forward. Happy birthday, man. It's my daughter's birthday, too. You're just starting to get your second wind.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:23 PM
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Yeah, right. Who am I scamming? Why? The "money"? Please. Again, you've added nothing, you've got nothing, and you've proven it to my satisfaction. My track record speaks for itself, and if you were bright enough to realize who you were talking to, you'd be embarrassed. Instead you're just a pissant troll who apparently gets off on blanket criticism of anyone who dares claim authority. And it's almost your bedtime.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:56 AM
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And you keep trying to provoke me while having offered ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to the conversation but criticism. One wonders why you're so obsessed with me. I don't need to make "baseless accusations". If you knew anything, you would have had the presence of mind to state it, by this point. You haven't, so you're a null point. And demonstrably trapped in adolescence.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:29 AM
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Then you would continue your astonishing streak of being wrong. Keep it up and people will mistake you for a feminist.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:12 AM
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"Today" is a relative term. Trying to apply reason and civilized restraints to one of the most primal forces in human biology is almost always a losing proposition. That's essentially what feminism tried to do to porn in the 1980s. The advantage of porn now is that it makes a sexual outlet available for men who do not want to engage in relations with other people. That's actually a pretty important development, giving some men an option they did not have before. Whether it's your choice or not i…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 01:10 AM
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Particularly the ignorant data points who think they have the pretend credentials to criticize me. I get a few of those. You've hurled opinions at me like a woman, haven't done shit to put up, and then called me names. Isn't it almost your bedtime? It's a school night.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 11:03 PM
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Heh. If you haven't figured out that credentials are for women, you might be NoMoBluepill, but you're still a lightyear away from Red Pill. Men care about what you can do. Women rely on credentials as social proof for positioning. Read more. Your opinion of me is irrelevant, and your phrasing suggests an immature perspective. The fact is, you've offered no alternative advice or constructive analysis, and are merely cruising for "cool points". Such criticism indicates an improperly masculinized a…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 10:21 PM
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They painted it on cave walls, wooden carvings, and any other method of artistic representation. I've studied this exhaustively. ALL human cultures create porn - mostly men. Even when it could mean execution, they continue to do it. There is no known human culture that does not create porn, (art intended to elicit an erotic response). Just as there is no naturally occurring human culture without religion. Normal male sexuality is dependent upon our ability to observe (it is highly visual) and ob…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:46 PM
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If you aren't planning on screwing her, don't bother. She's doomed, and nothing you can say will make her less doomed. Move on. If you are planning on screwing he, then being a feminist is great. It's a built-in justification for casual sex. Clarify your motives, it will help you set better goals and keep from wasting energy.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:37 PM
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As opposed to your credentials . . . ? My kung fu works. I stand by it. Only women are concerned with credentials.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:34 PM
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Um, I've been married to the same woman for 23 years, studied human sexuality exhaustively, and have written a blog on Red Pill concepts, particularly as they apply to LTRs and marriage, at my blog: The Red Pill Room: www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com. I've also written several books on the Manosphere and RP concepts. I've counseled both men and women on their relationships and reproductive strategies for at least four years now, and the very first AMA on this sub was with me and Mrs. Ironwood. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 06:07 PM
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They painted it on cave walls, wooden carvings, and any other method of artistic representation. I've studied this exhaustively. ALL human cultures create porn - mostly men. Even when it could mean execution, they continue to do it. There is no known human culture that does not create porn, (art intended to elicit an erotic response). Just as there is no naturally occurring human culture without religion. Normal male sexuality is dependent upon our ability to observe (it is highly visual) and ob…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:52 PM
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You're young, you'll learn. Porn has its place. You might not be at that place right now, but porn is essential to male sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:24 PM
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Let me lay some Cosmic Wisdom on you: if a girl really likes you, she won't fuck around. This girl is fucking around because while you're on the right track, you're still "playing", and she's milking it for the attention. You want sex? You're going to have to inject some Dread into the equation. Sure, she'll try to shame you - that's a basic Shit Test. You respond by holding frame. "Oh, so you only use girls for sex?" Respond with a) Amused Mastery: "Were you unaware that we are in a sexual rela…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 05:20 PM
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Technincally incorrect. And don't be afraid of big words. Science implies use of the scientific method to establish and prove theory. While TRP is informed by science, and occasionally uses the scientific method, it isn't, technically speaking, "science". It's more like engineering, using pre-established principles of understanding toward a specific goal. Why use "praxeology"? If nothing else, it makes feminists mad, because they don't generally know what it means and have to look it up. Secondl…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 11:53 PM
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As I said, the difference is telling. TRP is a toolbox of observations and applied theory that can be tested under real-world conditions, not a bunch of ideals and beliefs about the way things should be. Keeping it a praxeology, not an ideology, changes the frame of the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 10:17 PM
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It's a different thing, with a different goal. Measuring it with the same yardstick as TRP is unfair, and unappreciative of the complexities involved. True, most of the dudes who end up there are in a bad way, but with some guidance they learn their way out of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:15 PM
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In general, perhaps. I don't, as a rule. But those of us who do see value in building strong families and high-quality children know that there is no substitute, and that what risk is involved can be mitigated with foresight and due diligence. Being RP aware is key, as is knowing and defining your goals. It turns it into less of a crap shoot, and more of a high stakes poker game. But you can't win if you don't play. We teach them to play better.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 09:06 PM
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Word.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 09:00 PM
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You are being an agent provacateur - a perfectly reasonable and acceptable method of instigating discussion and debate. All you've done is identified with a pro-male gender movement. I'm thinking this would make a good vlog, actually.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:59 PM
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You just helped make it a real thing. And the MHRM is very real, as is the message of positive masculinity found in the Manosphere. Men learning to be men in service to their own interests and issues, not those of women. It makes radfems positively explode that we're so happy bein' dudes. If you haven't, pop over to my blog, the Red Pill room, and check it out. I think you might find a lot of helpful advice over there, if not some inspiration. www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:57 PM
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I had that. It got even worse in college. The stand you are taking now is impressive, and they don't expect it from typically dumb high school boys. Pay particular attention to anyone who seems strongly positive about the shirt. If you run across the inevitable "Why do you wear that shirt?" you might toss out a couple of casual responses: "It's medically necessary - my testicles are too big for a regular sweatshirt." "I find it pisses off a lot of reactionary, ignorant idiots. What do you think …
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:53 PM
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They will once they sign their Draft card. Selective Service is the single largest piece of institutionalized sexism, and it's something that feminists are strangely quiet about. The Draft, while not active, still presupposes the disposability of men, particularly men of this young Red Knigt's demographic.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:43 PM
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It's not courtesy, it's tactics. This is guerrilla ontology at its finest. Keeping careful track and absolute control is the key.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:39 PM
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Good show, kid. I dub thee Red Knight, Junior Grade. You should keep track of any inflammatory responses and report them to your school's guidance counselor. Most schools have pretty significant penalties for bullying these days, especially online bullying. Let the Manosphere know if you need any support. This, Gentlemen, is not the road for everyone . . . but those brave few who are willing to take a stand for positive masculinity deserve our support and praise.
/r/MensRights07/02/15 08:34 PM
1

This is not philosophy. TRP is a praxeology, not a system of belief. The difference is telling.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 08:12 PM
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Some of us aren't scared of a little well-managed risk. If you do your due diligence in mate selection, that's more than half of it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:27 PM
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r/marriedredpill. Also check out my blog, I focus on a lot of Red Pill Marriage issues at the Red Pill Room (www,theredpillroom.com). u/bluepillprofessor is also working om a book and has some good insights. Married Game is Advanced Game. Don't ever think things get "easier" with marriage. The stakes go up.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 01:25 PM
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I remember seeing this film in elementary school. I don't recall the title. but it was made in the late 1960s or early 1970s. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. (Evil plan begins to form . . . )
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 01:25 PM
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TRP is a praxeology, not an ideology. That is a telling difference.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 03:20 AM
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Back to Art History class, bub. Your latte is getting tepid. You can come back when you discover a clue about reality-based human reproductive interaction..
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:00 PM
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Flair now included. So, taking a predominantly masculine pursuit, long derided by critics as useless and pointless, and monetizing it to allow men to thrive based on their mastery of it is somehow not related to improving yourself? Hmmm. It's not a commercial, I don't have a dog in the fight. Don't even like sports - really. But when men can take their hobbies and use them to insulate themselves from corporate slavery and the vagaries of the female imperative by doing what they enjoy, I see that…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:54 PM
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Good advice here. Here's some more. Take an acting class. Part of your issue is your self-control: if you had it, approach wouldn't be a problem. But it is, so you still have a lot of residual fear lingering around you. Taking an acting class, even if you have no talent, will bring you a few important things: first, it will help you "get out of your head" by teaching you to both perform in public (thereby reducing inhibitions) and becoming someone else (thereby removing the fear factor implicit …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:00 PM
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Depends on what you're looking for. Not every man is sold on genetic fatherhood, and some would see the tradeoff as more than worth it. If you were going to marry a pornstar, she's not a bad one to marry. We don't all have to be alpha. That would be boring. This dude has a good thing going, better than most, and he probably knows it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 09:32 PM
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First, I'm happy that my little blog was helpful to you. That's why it's there. It's very gratifying to read this sort of thing about it. Now, on to your questions: I'd advise not saying anything until you are completely washed out. This will require even more discipline to maintain frame, as your emotions will be all over the place and you'll be tempted to emote. Resist that temptation. Stoic resolve and silence, as much as possible. Once you've washed out and had a week or so clean, you can me…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 06:18 PM
1

You married?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 01:34 AM
1

Forget mere admission. Agree and amplify. "You're terrible!" "That's not what the girl at the supermarket says!" "Yes, but I'm studying for my horrible exams. Wish me luck!" "And you married me. What does that say about you?" "I'm terribly good looking. Other than that, watch out." "At bowling, sure. But I can lick a clit like a dog licks a bone." "Luckily for you, my warranty is almost up." "I'm the man you married. You can respect that, or you can choose not to. What you do is telling on your …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 01:28 AM
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"You can earn a kiss. What did you have in mind?" "If you can hold it for more than ten seconds." "Are you done being pouty?" "Do you deserve a kiss? Or are you just being needy and insecure?" "Really? After your behavior you want me to act like it's a boo-boo, all gone, all better? I'm a man, in case you've forgotten. Not your daddy." "I save my kisses or when I'm inspired. Not feeling it." "Yeah, you don't get off that easily." "Can I have a blowjob? Thought not." "Grow up. I'm still pissed at…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 01:21 AM
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When you have the balls to love yourself more than someone else's crappy ideal, accept the reality that you are given and not the fantasy you desperately want to believe, then you gain the insight that love for a man can only come from a place of power. All else is pity disguised as compassion. We didn't make the rules. We just observe that they are there.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:07 AM
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I think you wandered into the wrong stall, Miss.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 03:30 AM
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Correction: happily married people are happier. The rest are miserable. Carry on.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 02:21 AM
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The idea is to understand the complex nuances of human intersexual relations towards a goal of maximized return on personal investment. So no, it's you who seems pretty dumb.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:05 PM
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What an idiot. Like, not just an average-level noob idiot, but a wallowing-in-the-own-ignorance-like-bathwater, self-loathing-to-the-point-of-pathology, eternally-friend-zoned-gamma-rabbit idiot. Piece of advice, girl scout: Stop thinking. If you can't do that, stop communicating what you're thinking. You have no standing, credibility, or insight, and I think it's time for you to get back to your fingerpainting class and stop bothering the adults. There, I feel better.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:03 PM
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Depends on the woman. That's where social awareness fits in. Making a good assessment on a particular woman's socio-sexual position and attraction cues - and every woman has different personal attraction cues - and then tailoring your approach to that is part of the art in Game. Unfortunately, far too many dudes focus on lifting and cocky arrogance to the exclusion of all else. This is a somewhat effective "spray and pray" approach that does yield some automatic results in the right circumstance…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 01:49 PM
2

Practice taking what they say to you and turning it around on them. Or just going with a shaken head and amused mastery. But give us some examples, we'll help you with specific responses.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 11:13 PM
2

Interesting perspective. I may follow up on this.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:14 PM
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This might help explain it: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/09/the-tangled-chains-on-swing-set-of.html
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 07:01 PM
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It's a common metaphor amongst those in the Manosphere. Usually this metaphor is used for discussing LTRs, but the point is the same: lead, and she follows. Or she's not worth leading.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:52 PM
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To Mrs. Ironwood? Yes, definitely. To 99% of the rest of the female population? Hells, no. Mrs. Ironwood is exceptional. That's why I married her. If you can find a decent woman, early enough, and vet her religiously, it can be done. If it helps keep things in perspective, I met her when she was 19. In general I don't recommend marriage to men these days for obvious reasons. But for those of us who are Wolf Alphas, family men for whom raising high-quality children is our top priority, then I cou…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:47 PM
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Uh, happily married for 17 years, together for 24. Have more sex now than ever. Better at it, too. Butterflies? We've got pterodactyls. LTRs aren't the antithesis of TRP, they're just a sophisticated permutation of it. Advanced Game, if you will. There is a difference between infatuation and love. You can have both, if you do it right. But it takes effort, preparation, and iron will. Not for the faint of heart.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:24 PM
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Different men have different approaches to the art of Game. He does enjoy fucking with their heads, I admit, but that's part of his Game. 2/3 of Dark Triad. If he wasn't such a nice guy, he'd be truly deadly. He can't quite hit the sociopath mark, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:51 AM
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Welcome. Read the sidebar, of course, then do a little exploring of the Manosphere. Get intrigued. Get pissed off. Get angry. Get motivated. Then find something that needs to be done. And do that thing. When you do, you'll understand what we're really talking about. Until then, enjoy the exploration of your newfound masculinity. Be certain to read first before offering your opinions, as much of what you'll be thinking has already been thought. While fresh insight is welcome and valuable, we pref…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:08 PM
5

Sometimes I wish he was. He owes me $500.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:04 PM
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That's what I'm here for. I'm just impressed that so many have helped pick up the torch in the last year. A few more years of this, and things will start to happen For Real. But enjoy this part. This is the fun part. Guerrilla Ontology.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:03 PM
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(And I've watched his Game, and occasionally run wing for him for years. There's no "supposed" about it. Even kept him from getting married, once.)
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:01 PM
4

No, she looked it up on her phone. It apparently only took her seconds.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:00 PM
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My comment on their site: "What utter BS. If a woman is in a relationship that has not been clearly designated as polyamorous, she's cheating if she gets sex outside of it. If she made a personal commitment of her sexual fidelity to her partner, then violating that commitment without prior communication is CHEATING. Doing it without her committed partner's consent is CHEATING. You don't get a "bad sex" pass, and rationalizing it after-the-fact by some crap about owning your own vagina and patria…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:38 PM
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He swears by it. Women are so predisposed to think the worst about their fellows that they have no trouble buying in, once it is suggested. This is also the dude who gave me another nugget of faux preselection: the Panty Play. That's when your date "accidentally" discovers a pair of panties in your car that were, apparently, discarded in a moment of passion with a previous date. He says you can only use the dodge on a certain kind of woman, but the results can be magical. He's had the women scan…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:24 PM
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Everyone plays the game differently. What works for some won't work for all. I offer this as one of many possible angles.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:17 PM
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Not magic, but it might be the difference between closing and not closing. The preselection and other options is what did this - she was afraid of losing out to a competitor, after she had clearly invested the effort in the date. It's not exactly jealousy, its the fear of an opportunity cost. It'd be one thing if the OP was a gamma nerd or something, but the clear and immediate options for physical intimacy set the bar for her. All she had to do was acquiesce. It's like putting "LIMITED TIME OFF…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 05:38 PM
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It wasn't a video interview, unfortunately, although she's drop-dead gorgeous in person. We actually discussed the development of rhetoric and debate through the centuries and its impact on Western Civilization. I recall she quoted Cicero, kinda off-handedly, like I wouldn't notice. She had just finished Thank You For Arguing (?) book on the subject on the plane and was all enthusiastic. very intelligent young woman. I envy the BB who ended up with her - unless I miss my guess, she's the kind of…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 04:24 AM
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Check out the RPWomen sub for a group of ladies who won't.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:59 PM
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Asia Carrera did just that, when she retired. She's a pretty decent one too, from what I understand, though she doesn't usually take clients outside of the industry. Not all pornstars are idiots. The smart ones can be really, really smart Alpha Females.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:58 PM
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Actually, I've met and interviewed Ashlynn Brooke (for either A&E or High Society, forget which) when she was active. I called her "the Thinking Man's Pornstar" for good reason - she's one of the 2% or so of performers who were not only really good at what they did, but also really wickedly smart, too. We had one of the best intellectual discussions I've had with a star regarding a number of impressive topics. I'd put her in the same class as Asia Carrera or Stormy Daniels (honestly, probably sm…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:57 PM
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Do not be concerned, either by the number or the quality of posts. The quality issue will wax and wane, just like any decent content cycle. The mods are do an admirable job, and the larger number is indicative of our market penetration. DON'T expect a sudden adoption of the RP praxeology by the mainstream. DON'T expect people to suddenly start looking at you like you know what you're talking about. DON'T get evangelical about TRP . . . yet. Just keep doing what you're doing and point maybe one o…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:03 PM
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TRP is not an ideology. Feminism is an ideology. TRP is a praxeology. Look it up. The difference is essential.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:33 PM
1

No, that's not what I'm saying at all. The question you asked can only be answered once you have the context to understand the answer. Rollo Tomassi is one of the leading (if not THE leading) Red Pill theorist on the internet. Even when I disagree with him, he's brilliant. His website is www.rationalmale.com. He outlines more about the objective, practical implications of TRP and Game than any man alive. He is a comprehensive theorist. Along with Vox Day and Dalrock, Rollo remains one of the mos…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 10:49 PM
1

Yes, but their perspective and perceptions of sex are very different than ours. Read the sidebar and every word over at Rational Male for more details.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:07 PM
2

Read the posts on my blog labeled "wife tests". It will help you begin the vetting process.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:58 PM
4

I concur. Mrs. Ironwood was exceptional.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:57 PM
10

It's also social proof and preselection, all rolled into one. THAT'S the kind of wingman a dude needs.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:32 PM
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Well played! You approached and poached from an Alpha with true Sigma cunning. You used preselection, amused mastery, outcome independence, and social proof to out-Game the natural. Game is an Art. You just made Journeyman.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 04:13 PM
3

Feminism is an ideology TRP is a praxeology. The difference is telling.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:13 PM
3

I think it's important to make the distinction between Equity Feminism and Gender Feminism, that is, the First and Second Waves which were dedicated to actually establishing reasonable standards of equity by law and in the workplace, and Third Wave Feminism, which injected the Marxist language and automatically conflated gender with oppression. Unfortunately, the 3rd Wavers took over the activist portion of the ideology leaving millions of women thinking they were supporting workplace equity and…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 03:11 PM
2

Hear, hear.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:42 PM
2

Which is why I cautioned only those who felt confident in their presentation to attempt it. For newbs . . . keep your mouth shut and observe. Everything.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 03:21 PM
1

We don't care what other people think of what we say. We are here for a purpose. Either you are contributing to that purpose, or you are inhibiting it. Either way, you clearly understand neither the purpose or the process. We're not here to get people to like us. We're here to learn.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:50 AM
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It's not "stereotyping", it's "generalizing". It's a tool used by science, engineering, and even the social sciences. It's what you do when you recognize common behaviors in a particular group. It doesn't have to be all the group, but if the shoe fits "in general, then it becomes a helpful observation. Somewhat like the clever "stereotyping" you did above. If you actually had the wit to read and comprehend, you wouldn't be befuddled by language intended to keep the stupid at bay. Many of us know…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:48 AM
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3rd Wave feminism's shattering of the gender expectations for our generation liberated us from giving a shit about what other people think. Our kung fu works. You're actually spending Christmas Eve concern trolling? I would consider professional help.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:29 AM
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I want women to feel, too. Only in this case, I want women to feel insecure and unsure about the jingoistic ideology they're parroting. And, for bonus points, I want them to feel foolish in front of large groups of people. Not every RPer is designed for this. But if you're so inclined . . . have at it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 11:42 PM
3

If I thought it was pointless, I wouldn't waste my time. You'd be amazed how many RP-interested folks pop out of the woodwork after a conversation like that. Besides, it publicly exposes feminists and helps warn off the desperately thirsty men from going there. If nothing else, that helps your brothers.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 05:45 PM
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It's "applied microaggression", as opposed to the Black Knight's Full On Aggression. "standard MRA" is often hampered by a rational attempt at persuasion through logical argument and facts. This is guerrilla ontology, where you are poisoning the context of the SJW by publicly opposing them with masculine style. The difference is that the Red Knight mode is designed to persuade everyone else of the SJW's shaky grasp on reality, not the SJW. The goal isn't to rationally persuade feminists that the…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 01:09 PM
3

Not to mention attracting some attention. Being able to hold your own with a SJW in front of non-alligned women frequently leads to social proof and a bit of preselection ("Why would she be arguing with him if she wasn't really into him? Sploosh!").
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:43 PM
3

If you're in a position to Black Knight, more power to you! But not everyone is, and these exercises in Red Knight errantry help. Especially the younger dudes who are just getting their legs. But yes, it is fun. Too much, sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:42 PM
5

Because some of us are not afraid to be men regardless of who we're talking to. And it's not about the feminist. It's about everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:39 PM
3

Yes, I'm serious. But clearly this is beyond you. It requires subtlety, wit and a little charm. You are excused.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 12:39 PM
8

Yeah, yeah, you're very manly. But some of us understand the art of guerrilla ontology and understand the broader implications of our actions. And it isn't the feminists we're trying to reach.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 07:40 AM
7

You rifle through a bank's trashcan to get social proof. The social proof is what gets you the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:35 PM
29

RECORD EVERYTHING. Period. And #dateoffcampus.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:44 PM
2

Writing, maturing, watching my kids graduate from school and enter the wider world. Oh, and having a lot of sex. And tracking down SeaLab.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:43 PM
1

Somehow I'm thinking the fellas at UVa are going to be spending ALL VACATION considering their options.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:37 PM
1

Heh. Allow me to amend: I'm a Master Class Sex Nerd. Do you know where and when the first vibrator was built? I do. Do you understand the oxytocin/vasopressin cycle in human mating? I do. Do you know the heterosexual consequences of the Stonewall riots? I do. That doesn't mean I've never done it in a bouncy house, dressed like Darth Vader. But that's Freshmen Year Sex Nerd stuff.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:37 PM
5

Take it from me: if you glamorize pornstars for fappin' DO NOT meet them in the flesh lest you shatter the illusion. 90% of them are in the industry because they lack the skills and abilities to excel elsewhere at this age. The other 10% are just as gorgeous but SMART, willing to exploit their sexuality for as much as possible before retiring. Both types of performers can be difficult to deal with, but the latter are difficult and extremely shrewd. That being said, there are also some real sweet…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:34 PM
1

I'm somewhat familiar with the FDA approval process. The two statements are not contradictory, it's just a labyrinthine process even if you are well-funded. If you're subsisting on donations for the necessary research, things are going to go more slowly.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:31 PM
2

No, I am but a humble pornographer.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:45 AM
6

Reproduction and sexual health are big deals in the porn industry.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:44 AM
4

Just Black Knighting. 'Cause sure would be seen as a hate crime if the genders were reversed.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:43 AM
3

Heh. Mrs. Ironwood wouldn't like it. And as regular readers of my blog know, Mrs. Ironwood will cut a bitch. Besides, you don't shit where you eat. Especially in porn.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:11 AM
5

Ha! There's a LOT more to the industry than that. Think of how many people it takes to make any kind of mainstream movie, and most porn companies have at least half of that. I work in marketing. Among other things. I'm a kind of Sex Nerd.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 03:09 AM
7

She hit on me once. Before Sheen. I politely declined. Sweet girl, and sexy (loves anal - no lie) but she's not the brightest bulb on the tree.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:54 PM
11

Honestly, we should keep quiet about this outside of the Manosphere. Once it gets full FDA approval, THEN we can start publicizing to the general public, because it will be too late to put that genie back in the bottle. Then we start on mandatory paternity testing . . .
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:52 PM
5

That's a rather pessimistic perspective . . . particularly since it seems to be picking up steam. Don't know where you live, but when it comes to "what the state wants", most of the time it ends in disappointment . . . for the state.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:51 PM
17

As a member of the pornography industry, I wholeheartedly endorse this proposition.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:50 PM
6

Quit your whining and learn Game. Yes, it does happen. I see it all the time. If it's not happening for you, you didn't learn it right. Simple as that. What you "cannot imagine" is the very thing that's holding you back. Go back and start remedial Game Theory and DO THE FREAKING WORK. Because all of this "false hope" garbage is just that. Our Kung Fu works. If yours isn't working, you're not doing it right.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:48 PM
9

This is what happens thanks to four decades of feminist indoctrination. Improperly masculinized males with an overdeveloped White Knight complex. With the VAW act and other massive punishments for males who get physical, even in defense of themselves, it makes it very, very hard to respond in a "socially appropriate" manner to such abuse. Regardless of the masculinity of the male in question, however, scorn and derision are not the proper responses. We are here, as a community, to assist our fel…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:55 PM
1

Which is why I posted this: as a warning to others. Sure, this guy screwed up big. Learn from his lesson. And don't let your friends make his mistake. It's never to late to fix your life.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:50 PM
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The thing you want is called Vasalgel, a 10 year temporary vasectomy at low cost (around $1000). It's essentially the injection of a microscopic crystal into your vas deferens, where it happily shreds your sperm into un-procreative pieces. It's been successfully tested in India, and here in the US it's now going through 2nd Stage trials (healthy human subjects) after a successful 1st Stage trial (animal subjects). It appears utterly safe and effective, disintegrating naturally after 10 years. Or…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:48 PM
1

Not all religions are text-based, just the ones with the most popular fan clubs. Wisdom is wisdom, regardless of the source.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 03:31 PM
5

MGTOW and OMG are both perfectly acceptable and admirable paths of positive masculinity. As men we desire and pursue different things. Understanding that another man's passion is just as motivating to him as yours is to you helps build common understanding of our collective masculinity. Think of a priest who has dedicated decades to service in the Church and his community. Or the career military man who has devoted his life to his country. Neither one is necessarily enobled by the presence of a …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 12:07 AM
1

Thank you for your service. You have no idea about mine. And you just waved your dick at a pseudonym. We're all so terribly impressed.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:51 PM
-1

You're a "navy pilot" . . . for how long? And you're "formerbluepill"? Every pilot I've met has been thoroughly RP. Combat pilots, that is. Considering the way they're retiring pilots, I look forward to hearing you tell me how to lock my tray table at some point in the future. Keep waving that dick. I'll see it from first class. Maybe. I've been a professional writer for more than twenty years. I'll be one for another twenty. As well as plenty of other fun you'll never know about. And you're onl…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:44 PM
-1

I've written twenty-three. Including my first, which was a NYT best-seller. Now I work in porn, write sf-fantasy on the side, and do this as a hobby. Can any idiot do all of that? What do you do, pray tell? I'm here for research and education purposes. Anyone who has done any amount of research on me knows why I'm here and what I bring to the table. What do you bring to the table? My life is fucking GREAT. I work in porn, I write what I want, I'm happily married and have three outrageously brill…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 11:01 PM
12

No military (US protects it), highest standard of living in CA, great medical (plenty of US docs retire there and work 1-2 days a week to keep their certifications) miles and miles of pristine beaches, cheap beer, cheap, pretty hookers, and decent internet service. Plus you can hacky-sack on the edge of a live volcano in the morning and surf the afternoon away. If that ain't Valhalla, it's Valhalla-adjacent.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 10:00 PM
2

Personally I'd prefer Costa Rica, but then I dislike cold weather. Of course, I also love lumpias.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:53 PM
6

It's more complex than that. And there are more forces at work here than you realize. "The powers that be" can't control this anymore than they could control the drop in oil prices and the crash of the ruble. Some things are just larger than conspiracy theories. You don't need to change human nature. You just need to understand it enough to know how to exploit it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:49 PM
1

Middle school is hard for you, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:47 PM
5

How about "I get paid more than you do to study human sexuality and human attraction for a living, I've got two degrees in applicable subjects, and I've written five or six books on it"? What the hell have you done? Do some fucking research, son. You're embarrassing yourself. Now go tell Rollo and Heartiste that they're hopeless amateurs. I dare you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:46 PM
6

We don't live in a movie. We live in real life. TRP is a metaphor and a praxeology, not an ideology.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:07 PM
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My comment: (feel free to add one of your own): Sure, this is a good thing. Like high divorce statistics or infant mortality. The Herbivores have been on the radar of the various men's movements for awhile now (I profiled them in my book on the Manosphere) and while they might seem like a harmless cultural affectation specific to Japan, they are in fact a leading indicator of what the West can expect in the near future. Post-industrial society has left no place for the masculine, and when allowe…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 09:05 PM
1

Just realized that. Hopefully someone will pass it along.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:28 PM
1

PLENTY. Go to my blog (www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com) and check out my many posts on Wife Tests. I think you'll find them instructive.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:45 PM
4

Your therapist is correct: she's having an emotional affair with him. Your best bet is Dread Game. Call her bluff. Let her know that if he has captivated her attention more than her own husband that you can do better. Drop the temperature about 30 degrees and start working out like a fiend. She needs to know that her relationship is in serious danger. No pussy-footing around about feelings, now is the time to hold frame for dear life. He goes. Period. Or she goes. Period. You're getting too old …
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:45 PM
2

Sorry, but the two are too closely related to deal with separately. You have to understand that sexual strategy is implicit in the struggle for Men's Rights, and that Men's Rights advocates also advance and defend the interests and issues of men, up to and including issues of sex and sexuality. The feeling that the two are exclusive means that you need to take a step back and appreciate TRP in a broader context. MRAs, MGTOWs, PUAs, OMGs, RPWs, and other interested parties have large areas of cul…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:38 PM
1

I'm a marketer. Sometimes you have to define a market before you conquer it. It's there, you just have to find a way to tap it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:02 PM
4

Ask all of the for-pay PUAs out there if there's a market for teaching dudes how to get laid. Then see what they charge. If you can put together a cogent, useful app for a fraction of that, you'll make money. I've already laid out a lot of the groundwork for this sort of thing with my Red Pill Primer for Boys.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 04:02 PM
13

(sigh) It's not an analogy for "growing up", it's an analogy for preparing for your life as an adult man. The metaphor involves the idea that, someday, you will be Captain of your own boat, and that you may (or may not) elect to invite a First Officer aboard. The quality of your "boat" often determines the type and quality of First Officer you attract, so a man who wishes to pursue a family should build his boat with that in mind. A man who decides that fatherhood and/or permanent LTRs are not f…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:10 PM
12

You're young. You're in training. So . . . train. It will help get rid of all of those feelz you've been having. At this point in your life, you're building your boat. If your dad's boat sucked, learn from his mistakes while honoring his effort. If you feel an emotional attachment to your mother, acknowledge to yourself that you will always love her even if your relationship with her must change. These are all difficult transitions to make, and in a better society you would have a company of men…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 01:45 PM
15

Now wouldn't it be great if someone came up with a Red Pill, reality-oriented dating simulator that figured in partner count, education, SMV, MMV, hypergamy, preselection, etc. into the equation . . . that, my friends, would give every young man the tools he needed to learn Game. Someone get on that.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:27 AM
2

Lay it on us, my brother. Let's see what you got.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:25 AM
15

Yes. They're red. Here, have another.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/14 10:45 PM
1

For happy marriages (note the exclusion), the benefits include husbands living longer and making more money. It also ensures long-term continuity of filial culture and welfare, as well as conservation of institutional assets and genetic legacy. There are risks, just as there are risks in any worthy investment. Risks can be mitigated with knowledge, intelligence and foresight. The key is to understand what marriage is and what it isn't, then ruthlessly search and then vigorously vet before consid…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:45 PM
14

Clearly you are new here.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 06:58 PM
11

(snort) Exactly. Agree and amplify.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:29 PM
6

They're whistling in the dark. Look up the Japanese "herbivores". This is our future, without TRP. It won't matter how balanced the workplace is, if more than 30% of the men take themselves out of the SMP/MMP, the ladies are SCREWED. Problem is, they can't take responsibility for their role in the clusterfuck, so they try to legislate themselves back into attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:10 PM
1

Your "way" is just avoidance of a legal technicality, at the expense of the legal protections it affords your offspring. I know plenty of single dads who have been forced to do it that way. The results are usually . . . discouraging. But soldier on. I'm sure you have it all figured out.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:07 PM
0

Prove it. There's plenty of data around, particularly at the National Marriage Project. Show me how kids raised by non-married parents fare "just the same" as those raised in 2-parent households. Show me data that proves that single men do just as well as men in happy marriages. Because a long, long list of studies, starting with the Grant Study, says you're talking out of your ass. But if you have data . . . "White Knight"? Just because I managed to figure it out, and most don't? How am I defen…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:23 PM
1

Understood. But I also understand that they aren't the only ones reading this. I can appreciate what they're saying, but "no guts, no glory" - if you aren't willing to take the risk, then you don't deserve the potential reward. But thanks.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:20 PM
1

And you realize that kids who are born outside of marriage do significantly worse, statistically speaking, than kids who come from a stable 2-parent family? I'm a scout leader. I see the sad, pathetic results of those unions every week. If you actually make the conscious decision to be a father, why would you handicap the results of your decision because of your fear of "government intervention"? Either you're all-in, and you're willing to do whatever it takes to raise your kids into legends, or…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 06:19 PM
1

Gosh, that may mean you have to (gasp) work on it. Married Game is Advanced Game for a reason. Marriage is an art. If the only tools you have are fingerpaints, don't expect any masterpieces to emerge.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:32 PM
2

The state has a vested interest in being involved. That's how taxation and inheritance issues are determined, both of which involve the law. And while a business may be a sole proprietorship, it is still regulated by statute and with general contract and tort law. The issue with "the State" being involved in marriage these days lies almost entirely with the subject of divorce. Actual state interference in the conduct of your marriage is (almost) nominal, with the exceptions of child welfare and …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:28 PM
1

http://www.rand.org/pubs/research_briefs/RB5018/index1.html http://www.columbia.edu/~yc2444/Why%20Do%20Married%20Men%20Earn%20More%20than%20Unmarried%20Men.pdf http://www.cbsnews.com/news/why-do-married-men-earn-more-than-single-guys-doing-the-same-job/ Note that the benefits accrue only to those men in "happy and fulfilling relationships", not those in acrimonious relationships with their wives. But regardless of the cause, the stats are solid: happily married men do better and live longer than…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:35 PM
2

Family. Your "successful relationship" is a surrogate for marriage, whether you like it or not, once you bring children into the relationship. A stable marriage as the foundation of a supportive family life is the single greatest factor to the success of children. Marriage is the quanta of family. If you don't want kids, fine, but if you do want kids then you handicap them mercilessly by enjoying one of these post-modern relationship-parenting schemes. And just what would qualify one as an exper…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:29 PM
2

Do some damn research. The married vs. single stats have been established for years, and the gap between them seems to be increasing. I strove to make myself exempt from the "vast majority" category. And there's nothing beta about my bucks.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:23 PM
2

Here you go. This will get you started: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/01/office-game-alpha-move-formal-fridays_7.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/10/office-game-primer.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/10/office-game-primer-part-2.html
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:56 AM
2

Marriage is a social, as well as a legal institution. And yes, statistically married men both live longer and make more money than single men of the same demographic - a well-known statistic. I can attest to it andecdotally. You can whine about how the evil ol' state is interfering in your marriage, but that's an excuse. If you don't want to get married, don't. Don't blame "the state". You might as well blame "the patriarchy". People make marriages work, not laws. If you can't figure that out, y…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:37 AM
5

So sorry, it's not. It's the result of someone who has spent literally decades in consideration of a subject that most men think about a few hours a year, at most. I'm not about to take shit because I did the work decades ago that most of you guys didn't even think about until recently. If you're too scared shitless of losing half of your comic book collection to some bitch in the divorce, fine - don't get married. It's unlikely you'd be suited to being captain of a ship that can hold more than …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:31 AM
2

Bullshit. I knew I was going to be married, someday. There was no "society's pressure". If anything, the pressure was against us getting married. Her friends even tried to stage an intervention. Good times.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:24 AM
2

The marriage "market" pays dividends to married men, statistically, socially and professionally speaking. While their individual unions may suffer, on the whole marriage adds years to your life and money to your paycheck, among other more subtle things. Of course, if you married an aggressively hypergamous hosebeast instead of someone who actually wanted the job of "wife" and not "bride", the statistical advantages might be hard to appreciate. How about "I wanted to raise high-quality children, …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:23 AM
2

Come back to me when you've done a little more research. Marriage is an investment, one that pays objective returns to a man - longer life, higher income . . . statistically speaking. Now, if you want those advantages AND you want a happy life, that may require an investment in the relationship. If your goals require procreation, then adjust your parameters accordingly. But don't for a moment believe that it's impossible for a man to be both Alpha and married, happy and monogamous, because the l…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:13 AM
1

So you take the "legalistic" approach? I take the social approach and don't depend on the Law to defend my relationship or do my work for me. The legal aspect was minor, compared to the social and filial. The role the State plays in n your marriage is going to vary by jurisdiction. Part of good due diligence is understanding and knowing the laws of your particular jurisdiction. But again, not for the faint of heart.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:54 PM
1

(I've sold considerably more than "a few". And if you skimmed my stuff without context then you might as well be commenting without reading the sidebar. You don't master Advanced Game in a few minutes.)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:24 PM
-1

So just how would you define a successful marriage? Because mine is superlative by the only standard that matters.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:21 PM
3

I'm Alpha enough to know I don't have to control the actions of another person, particularly my wife. The odds of Mrs. Ironwood freaking out in menopause and doing anything to rock our domestic boat is eclipsed by the chance of impending asteroid strike. Why? Because I chose wisely, did my research, did my due diligence, and then vetted the hell out of her. I understand the dynamics and metadynamics of my relationship and know that I have done everything in my power to mitigate any potential iss…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:02 PM
0

Quite a bit, actually. Check out my "Wife Test" posts on my blog.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:49 PM
4

If you are an idiot and don't do your due diligence, including adequately defining your parameters and ruthless vetting, then yeah, you're playing the tables in Vegas. But if you approach the subject with a tithe of the concern you show about making an investment, you can usually avoid undue risk. So I take it you're against investing in the stock market, too? Some of us aren't so afraid of losing what we have to risk gaining more. The difference is in educating yourself, knowing what you want, …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:48 PM
-1

I have studied the matter. It appears you have not.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:59 PM
3

Posted about it here: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/50-shades-of-game-why-feminists-hate.html
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:56 PM
1

Thanks, my pleasure. The hardest part is for me to remember that this isn't even my real part-time job, it's just a hobby. But I have several large posts coming up that I think would benefit many here.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:52 PM
1

Because I'm smart enough to know that the best way to raise high-quality children is in a two-parent home. And I rigorously vetted my wife for 6 1/2 years before we got married. Most men aren't that thorough or judicious. Being married isn't Blue Pill. Treating your marriage like an unwinnable death sentence is Blue Pill. Some of us are brave and bold enough to see marriage as our way of Going Our Own Way. Yes, Virginia, there are Red Pill marriages. Mine has been going for over 2 decades. No th…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 01:49 PM
3

Serious, if obscure question: have you indexed any data according to the relative location of the galactic hub? Look especially for spikes in activity around 13.5 local sidereal time. If you think about it long enough, you might realize why. Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:30 AM
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Give it a rest. Marriage might not be in your particular master plan, but a few of us know how to do it right and do it well. Yeah, it's a risk. But if you're not a damn idiot to begin with and you're willing to do the work, then marriage is a perfectly legitimate choice for a man to go his own way. But it's complicated. And hard work. If that scares you, them yeah, don't get married. But just because you can't manage it doesn't mean some of us haven't mastered the art.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 02:26 AM
7

Good luck! But remember that from time to time every man must need to return to dip his bucket in the well of collective masculinity to renew and reinvigorate his own. When you're ready for more, we'll be here. That's what we're here for. Go forth, my brother, and make thyself into a weapon of thy own will.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 02:58 PM
12

Stop trying to get her attention. That's the surest way to get her attention. She's lost attraction for you and is hanging on for opportunistic reasons: her Plan B didn't work out, most likely, whatever that was. Now she's trying to ensure she didn't burn you as a potential lifeboat. That's not to say that there aren't legitimate feelings on both sides, but if you want this thing to work you have to quit worrying so much about whether this thing is going to work. Instead embrace your life in a p…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/14 02:50 AM
1

Look up "office game" and "black knighting".
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 05:19 PM
1

Then do it in a manly fashion. But don't count a "burn", yet, in my estimation. I'm predicting a dramatic retrenchment of male-female relations in conjunction with some dramatic readjustments in the post-industrial economy, due to some specific technological advances. You can waste a lot of time waiting for the world to burn without realizing, eventually, that civilization is an alembic, not a crucible, most of the time. Me, I'd rather focus on building something strong enough to survive a burn.…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:42 AM
9

Dude, we did do something. Starting a few years back. We called it the Manosphere, a clearinghouse for ideas and discussion about men, masculinity, and male issues and interests. And it was good. And now you're standing on it. This is the fourth or fifth intellectual generation of this particular proposition. When it began, it was a few dozen guys on a few sites and newsgroups. Now it is a social-intellectual movement spanning hundreds of sites and thousands of avid adherents. And from that frui…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:35 AM
2

There is plenty of good content and great mods at /marriedredpill. Not every post will be a gem, but then you have a darn-sight less folks posting over there. It will come along, in time. Your best bet is to be a good contributor and give advice where you see it's needed. TRP Advanced is a lot harder than TRP Basic. There are more subtleties and more nuances because of the nature of the beast. Believe me, these guys are just as passionate and committed to TRP as any, they just have to apply it d…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:46 PM
3

Not everyone is where you are. Let these guys learn where there weaknesses are and how to correct them from those who have been there. The Marriedredpill should, of course, exist. It's Advanced Game. Much harder, and much more variable. But it's even more vital than Basic Game.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:43 PM
1

You're good at Basic Game. You need Advanced Game. Not for the feint of heart, nor is everyone cut out for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:40 PM
1

Gentlemen, We are all men. We are not all Men. The distinction is slippery and prone to relativities and such, but when one needs the distraction of semantics blown away to make the determination, it comes down to this: Are you handling your shit? I don't judge a man's masculinity by the number of notches or his lifting, his position in society or the money he makes. A man is determined by his ability to handle the shit that the universe throws at him and not only surviving, but thriving. It doe…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:38 PM
4

At Stately Ironwood Manor, the kitchen is MY domain.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:13 PM
2

Black Knighting and Red Knighting are just two more tools in the Red Pill toolbox. Use them or not, your choice.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 02:35 PM
2

http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:15 AM
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Just remembered a few others: Had a real tyrant in an office once, a control freak who made no secret of her loathing for her male colleagues. Management was breathing down her neck, worried whether or not she'd complete the project, upon which her bonuses were based. She had nearly killed herself trying to prove her loyalty. A fellow Knight anonymously had a $75 Kiss My Ass bouquet sent to her boss' desk "by mistake", ostensibly to her, with a card that said "Thanks for a great interview! Can't…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:21 PM
5

This is a sophistication, and a means of fighting repression.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:02 PM
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Black Knighting isn't for everyone. Ideally, only a man who is confident enough in his position and job security can get away with publicly using the Matrix's rules against itself. Best Black Knight I ever knew was a 50 year old African American gay librarian. But when your position and security is not enough to allow publicly challenging the Matrix, then the alternative is subversion: what I call Red Knighting. Subversion and sabotage, in other words, sometimes in conjunction with a Black Knigh…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:01 PM
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I find this delightful. Keep it up. I particularly approve Biological Warfare. My favorite, after working in female-dominated industries for years, was the Carb Bomb. Working in a cube farm with 30-50 women and a handful of skittish dudes, one can quickly figure out who the biggest crabs in the basket are. Inevitably someone declares their stalwart intention to join WeightWatchers or work out or something to reach a particular dress size. Their cubesisters solemnly swear to keep the temptations …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:54 AM
2

Perhaps. And they are frequently misunderstood. But that doesn't mean that they should be jettisoned. They are apt descriptors of specific behavior, and useful (when understood properly).
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:39 AM
2

For the sake of this discussion, consider Alpha to be "characteristics that inspire arousal". Beta is "characteristics that inspire attraction". ("Gamma" is pure obsequious desperation, and doesn't pertain to this part of the discussion.) In the art and science that is human mating and attraction, you must have terms-of-art to discuss the matter. Learn them properly and much becomes clearer. Like not worrying about who else is Alpha or Beta. Kinda defeats the purpose.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:36 AM
0

I did. I'm a proud neo-pagan.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:49 AM
14

Stuff from Korea: I rarely recommend such things, but this site featuring wholesale Korean fashion had some really great stuff cheap. Reviews seem pretty positive, and in bulk the shipping charges aren't bad. Particularly look at outerwear. Also check out the men's coats . . . there's some tasty SMV buffs in there at bargain basement prices. http://www.rosewholesale.com/
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:34 PM
3

Word. Periods when you want to emphasize something, nothing when you want to indicate you don't give a shit. Question marks when appropriate.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:21 PM
1

Been at this for over three years. Still have much to learn. Have a lot more to teach. We return because here is the community of men, unsullied by feminine voices, and it is here (among other places) that we return to dip our buckets into the well of our collective masculinity, from time to time, and take that refreshment into our daily lives. Never stop learning.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 02:01 AM
1

Wife test. It's not foolproof, but no guts, no glory.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 08:46 PM
5

Thanks for the promotion. I tried my best to keep the Primer full of actually useful information, and there will be more sections as I get to them. The section on Consent has been in limbo a in light of YMY. I've waited to hear what the various Old Wise Men had to say about it before I finished my recomendations, but I'm hoping to have it up by the beginning of the year . . . and maybe a few more. My ultimate goal is to run the slide show as a series of YouTube videos with appropriate music, to …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/14 01:32 AM
0

http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/09/the-tangled-chains-on-swing-set-of.html
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 11:58 AM
3

I've been involved in two different Alienation of Affection cases (not mine, but others') and studied several others; while it is a grueling process it does give the wronged spouse some recourse . . . and in a couple of cases the threat was enough to end the poaching, though it didn't save the marriage. It's a staple of Southern culture, and an insurance against hypergamy, but the legal qualifications are pretty specific. Consult an attorney. But Gods I love the South.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 03:20 PM
5

It's not a "mentality", it's a praxeology - a method of doing things with understanding. TRP doesn't "believe in" anything, we observe, we learn, we understand, and we do what works. Idealism is for starry-eyed college boys who don't get laid. Men are pragmatic in their approach to their goals. The fact of the matter is, we have studied this realm, and you have not. We have understanding of the reality of human socio-sexual mating, and you have . . . Disney. We don't dissuade skeptics here; skep…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 03:05 AM
2

The Pill is in your mouth. You haven't swallowed yet. You misunderstand the essentials, yet. When you blame "society" for the plight of women, a more careful historical analysis reveals that the very same social issues that feminists wail about now were originally put into place for the benefit of women, and that women, more than men, profited and prospered under the Agricultural Patriarchy. Once you understand more about the real nature of feminine psychology, and feminine sexual psychology in …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 05:42 PM
1

Dude, I've been doing this for two decades, now. I have my reasons.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:40 AM
1

I'm not picking up. I'm speaking of normal social events. But my situation is unique. But i you ever are confronted with that line, use "or what?", give a contemptuous sneer, and THEN walk away. It does work, I promise. And it gives you social proof to women observing. For a single guy, it's a win/win. Cocky arrogance drops panties like broken elastic.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 02:44 AM
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I engage with a lot of young feminists. And a few older ones. I'm used to it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:44 AM
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I hear it all the time. OP is right: "Or what?" is the only legitimate response. It points out their powerlessness in scheme of things. Their next step is shame . . . when you point out that shaming only works if you respect the opinion of the shamer.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 01:43 AM
2

My therapist (yes, I have one, don't giggle) once tried to re-frame my issues as me "feeling overwhelmed". I stopped her. I explained that I didn't feel overwhelmed. I felt challenged, but well within my capabilities to contend with. I am never overwhelmed. I don't see that as a relevant state of being. I am strong, and my strength may not be enough, but it will not fail because I "feel overwhelmed". I'll go down swinging and cussing, not whining and whimpering.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/14 02:42 AM
1

Send him a link to this page, anonymously, if you need to: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html And then send him one to this page: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/male-dominance-beginners-guide.html See what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/14 02:38 AM
2

My advice? Instead of trying to be "more social", go for "more socially dominant". Start dressing better, and formalize - not casualize - your interactions at work. Convert your "shyness" into quiet confidence by learning subtextual communication that improves your presentation. Start with "How To Win Friends And Influence People" for the basics, then investigate the Manosphere's wisdom on projecting social dominance. You'll end up getting what you want. Or a better job. Win/win.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 02:07 PM
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And, heck, even this. It doesn't have to be "another woman" to trigger preselection. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/02/anatomy-of-perfect-red-pill-date-phase.html
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:05 AM
1

And this http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/05/the-hard-sell-preselection-and.html
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:04 AM
1

http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/10/the-lambda-factor.html
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 01:03 AM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/03/dread-and-preselection-what-you-need-to.html
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 12:59 AM
7

I wouldn't say "lazy" - Sigmas run cost/benefit analysis on everything they do. If there isn't a payoff, they can't be bothered to invest.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:11 AM
1

A Sigma presenting Gamma/Delta, mostly. Of course his IQ and social impairment push him toward the Omega, but they fixed that by writing in a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:09 AM
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Uh, it involves mustaches, rainbow flags, discriminating taste in pocket squares, and leather chaps. Gay men, in other words. Definitely part of the Manosphere, they just operate under a different Socio-sexual regime. Gay men can be some of your best allies in sorting out your masculinity and understanding it - and women - better. No one has better advice than the dude without a dog in the fight. And they know how to present better than anyone. A Sigma who presents Lambda can be a powerful and t…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 02:08 AM
1

(Uh, candy corn is a secret feminist plot designed to upset legitimate female competition by injecting the weak with a steady diet of high-caloric carbs disguised as a simple grain. Nothing is more obvious and sinister than its pertinence to the plight of the common man. Really.) As for weed, make your own decision. Personally, I experimented with weed back in college. Some experiments work.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:18 PM
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Ah, once you discover the magic of Preselection, it's like having fucking superpowers. Works on married women, too. Mention to your wife how a woman at the store tried to pick you up (which does happen) and she goes into mate-guarding mode. For a single guy, it's as close to a "pussy magnet" switch you can get without actually being rich and famous. Played with subtlety and wit, you don't even need to actually have a real woman to play off of. True story: when Mrs. Ironwood and I first started d…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:13 PM
2

No, there is specific nuance to this term. I'll do a separate post about the whole Alpha/Beta nomenclature thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:56 PM
15

See Vox Day's Socio-Sexual Heirarchy for a complete description. Sigmas aren't "unicorns" (Purple Pill/Beta With A Side Of Alpha/pretty horse with a nominal horn), they're centaurs (Introspective chameleons who make their own rules/body of a beast and the head and hands of a man). Think Mr. Spock/Sherlock Holmes. I did a whole post on Sigmas at my blog. TL;DR is that Sigmas can often morph themselves into a variety of social niches, depending on the situation. They are the Wizards of the Manosph…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 09:54 PM
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It's probably legit. I've met Bree several times (she was the contract star for one of my major clients) and she even propositioned me once (before Sheen got a hold of her). Bree freely admitted she likes hooking up with strangers ("Stranger Danger", she called it) even to the point of hitting Craigslist when she was on tour. Nice girl. Slammin body. Kinda bitchy at times, but this industry makes you that way. But she's definitely not in danger of being co-opted by MENSA. As pornstar wives go, y…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:47 AM
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Word. You're in high school. You'll heal. And the confident and articulate expression of your ideas will no doubt translate into some Alpha respect, after the haters are done hating. If you're deciding on a life as a bull Alpha, this is an excellent way to start. If you want a career as a cube-bound Beta, knuckle under. No guts, no glory. No risk, no reward. Exercising your first amm rights is educational, and chicks dig a rebel.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:48 PM
1

Well, yeah. Red Pill Marriage is a valid option for MGTOW, if they actually take the time to do proper mate selection/vetting. Nothing wrong with that at all. If a man is a Wolf Alpha or High Beta, that's the direction he's heading all along. Fame and social status provide more impetus than mere jawline and musculature. And it really doesn't matter if they fuck a football player or not. Of course they'll fuck a football player - that's the point of becoming a football player in the first place. …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:12 PM
2

That's BS. Every dude in college I've ever heard speak out against feminism got into horrific fights with feminists over it . . . and then got laid like he was in a women's prison. It is better to be known and despised than unknown and unliked.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:05 PM
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Nah, do it up. Do it up big. Dig deep into their freakin' psyche and expose the festering hamstering and mis-applied idealism, and then project out what life will be like in a few years when feminism has driven men from universities and away from marriage, leaving yet another generation of women miserable and unhappy. It's feminism. You can't win. So you might as well lose like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:03 PM
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You lack the sophistication of RP knowledge yet to understand fully what you're talking about. The SMP and MMP are very complex things, and where you are and what your intentions and goals are mean everything. The fact is, girls don't go for Alphas. They go for an Alpha Presentation. Game is the conscious adoption of an Alpha presentation, regardless of your objective position. The marriage-minded Beta (and that's not a bad thing, if you do it right) can use Game to make a far better mate choice…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:08 PM
1

See Vox Day's Socio-Sexual Hierarchy for details.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:25 PM
1

It's metaphor, dude. Our ancestors did behave this way, and our social conditioning is a thin layer of frosting over this brutal truth. By embracing the passionate pursuit of masculinity our ancestors did (without the raping and killing result) you help revalorize your own shamed masculinity. It's not about being violent. It's about being strong. And having the capacity to do violence.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:24 PM
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I heartily endorse this. Also consider a drama company or theater class to help with social issues. "Fake it till you make it" works best when you actually know how to fake it. Masculinity is a skill that you develop. It covers a lot of territory.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:22 PM
2

I disagree. There is such a thing as Girl Game, and this chick is the equivalent of a clueless Delta. She's focusing so much on looks, as women often do, that she's not playing to her strengths and cultivating her femininity. A 5 can present as a 7, if she has the right attitude. A woman who understands that femininity is about more than physical attractiveness has a huge advantage over the stand-there-look-pretty-have-a-vagina girl. This woman would have had a much better time, and better resul…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:13 PM
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This election will prove to be the final end-game Ragnorak battle for the feminist culture wars. They're going all-in on Hillary, and they're going to get their ass handed to them because of it. I'm doing my part. By seeding destruction in the feminist movement a year or so before the election begins in earnest, the chances the Clinton campaign can somehow energize the electorate are thin.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 08:56 PM
4

Check out my blog - lots of good RP marriages stuff there. And it sounds like things are going great. I'm in Year 3 now, and it just gets better.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/14 03:25 PM
1

Check out the Ironwood Rules of Engagement on my blog for mine and the missus' rules for arguments. Our shit doesn't go down like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:59 PM
1

1) Comments that begin "I deserve..." should be shut down with an icy interruption, and then a grueling dissection of her rationalization of just how she "deserves" anything in particular. Cutting to the heart of her female entitlement before she can use it as a weapon is key. What she "deserves" isn't the issue: what she has, is. And what she can lose. 2) Discussions that involve emasculating language should be met by dropping the temperature to sub-freezing levels and barely concealing your ra…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:54 PM
1

Welcome to your Captaincy. You've got a good 6 months or more of rocky territory, but once she settles into the new routine things will be splendid. And yes, eternal vigilance. You won't always succeed, but when you stop trying, then you never succeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:45 PM
4

"I'm here to kick ass and chew bubblegum . . . and I'm all outta bubblegum!"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 06:43 PM
2

Game is ALWAYS relevant. I know plenty of dudes with huge self-respect who still can't close a deal.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 06:34 PM
2

She's doomed, but she's been too brainwashed by EPL divorce promoting culture that she expected her kids to be "okay" with it. I foresee lonely spinsterhood and the revilement of her children in her future.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:40 PM
3

And a dude would have put more sexual details into it. We can't help it.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:39 PM
12

It keeps them from being to blame. That's the entire point of the Rationalization Hamster. Therapy is an advanced hamster, in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:38 PM
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My 12 year old daughter could do it in her sleep. No one understands social vulnerability more than a middle-school girl.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:37 PM
13

My 12 year old daughter would have no problem pulling that off without a hitch. She'd use bigger words, and be more acidic in her slut-shaming, but her sense of propriety, values, and the meaning of commitment is iron-clad. I'd say it has a decent chance to be legit only because she didn't mention explicitly sleeping with any of them, and that's a detail that most men wouldn't be able to leave out.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 03:21 PM
5

Heh. You ALWAYS need Game. Don't kid yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 12:29 PM
5

Included in these "small businesses" are franchises and networked marketing businesses like Pampered Chef, Avon, Mary Kay, and the like. Most of these are ephemeral, economically speaking, and rarely do they sustain a profit over time. They're low-risk, off-the-shelf "opportunities" that capitalize on the strength of feminine business acumen: networking. The larger your social circle, the larger your success. But as far as designing, building, and producing crap for sale? The kind of stuff that …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 04:23 PM
5

Word. Fame trumps everything else in SMV.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:01 AM
5

It's all about the presentation, fellas. If I can go Meta for a moment, ideals are the basis of all ideology, and how we describe and label - brand, if you will - a package of ideals matters significantly. The thing is, TRP isn't an ideology, it's a praxeology, like marketing. Marketing dudes are engineers of human perception, and they use a big toolbox to craft a brand or campaign in a particular direction by recognizing elemental truths about human reaction. With marketing, you use that praxeo…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 01:57 AM
11

Fucking brilliant. I will recommend this tactic explicitly. Black Knighting of the highest order.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:06 PM
4

Oh, she knows. We negotiated this early on in our marriage. Works like a charm.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/14 06:54 PM
11

Yeah, know her cycle the way your tongue knows the back of your teeth. It's that important. Admirable frame-holding. Shit tests often accompany her cycle, so keep it in mind. And the flip-side of this is clearly the fact that in two weeks she'll be ovulating, and that gives you some time to ramp up your Alpha sexual attentions. Side note: one tactic I use with Mrs. Ironwood is the Marital 20: every day when I get home, she has exactly twenty uninterrupted minutes to tell me everything she desire…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/14 04:59 PM
2

With proper mate selection, vetting, and careful adherence to RP principles, marriage is a perfectly reasonable alternative expression of MGTOW. It really can't be beat if children are something you want and don't want to screw up. If you don't want kids, get a vasectomy and bang your heart out. Wait until you're a highly successful 40 year old and then find an utterly devoted 25 year old and enjoy a pleasant decline into your dotage. Marrying primarily "for love" is a sucker's game. Check out m…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:52 AM
3

Yep, she's into you hard, whether she admits it to herself or not. Hence the shit tests and criticism. While I agree, pursuing her as a plate would be unfair and dishonorable toward your friend, I've found that such situations can actually be very useful for practicing Game basics. Knowing that a chick is into you, but that you are "safe" from her because of her ostensible commitment, gives you a unique opportunity to act and observe reactions without severe consequence. Preselection, for instan…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 01:37 AM
1

Just comment and ask to be added. I pointed out that this could very well be construed as internet harassment or bullying under statute, punishable via criminal or civil penalties. I didn't point out to hum that I know (and the Manosphere is replete with) a whole raft of lawyers who like to do stuff like sue people over stupid crap for fun all the time. Allowing a plenitude of rope will make the knot all the more entertaining to tie. And yes, pure intimidation . . . of the most lickspittle, pass…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 12:24 AM
4

"You're going to have to convince me it's worth working for."
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:27 PM
1

The book is a great introduction, and the blog has some helpful stuff. Funny, too. But yeah, you're better off lurking here than there.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/14 05:38 PM
78

An inspiration to all. Understanding the social nuances between women is a key component to good Game, and Physist nails it, here. He effectively uses the preselection of a random, the post-BB Orbit transformation to Alpha, and the coolness-under-fire that would scare a lesser man out of a golden opportunity, and he gets his oil changed by two flirty babes curious about bisexuality. Expertly played, and he can easily get a return ticket for either Sam or Ashley, and possibly both. Hell, he could…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 05:30 PM
3

It is VITAL for any married man to remember that FEMALE SEXUALITY IS RESPONSIVE IN NATURE 70% OF THE TIME. Ignore this at your peril. If you want nookie, YOU have to inspire the desire before you whip out Mr. Happy. The more regularly and forcefully you make a sexual opening to your wife, the far, far better results you will get.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/14 05:13 PM
2

Listening to your mother for relationship advice is DEATH for a son's relationship. Ignore everything she said. Well, 99% of it. Pay attention to what they do. Not what they say.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/14 05:12 PM
3

I heartily endorse this method.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/14 05:11 PM
8

"Please! He wrecks me so often I need a talking gecko telling me how much I could save on gynocology insurance!" or some sort of re-affirmation. Nothing more is needed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/14 12:31 PM
1

Your sperm is viable until you're about 70. You've got time. The women don't. That's one major advantage we have. Don't be afraid to walk away and start over if you have to.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 02:30 AM
14

It depends where you are and who you are. Where you are in your relationship spectrum, and what your goals are. The most basic question you need to answer is: Do I want to be a Dad? Everything else flows from that crucial decision. Once you figure out what your reproductive goals are, you can passionately pursue your mating goals. If you are seeking the future mother of your children, your goal will be to find the most ideal wife possible. If you are not interested in reproduction, then get a va…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:32 PM
2

If it were me, I'd go talk to him, without her knowing about it. I'd let him know about all the horrible things that would happen if he actually followed through. I'd let him know about every little bad thing about her. And I'd let him know what the fallout would be socially. Then I'd discuss my gun collection and history of anger control issues. But that's me.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/14 01:45 AM
7

My take: "Inequal" doesn't mean "inferior". We are biologically complementary as a species. Seeing either men or women as inferior or superior is always going to rely on the metric you use to establish that grade. In a RP marriage, the husband leads not because he's superior in some moral or mystical sense, it's because biology has programmed him to specialize in the set of traits necessary to make decisive (if not always inspired) choices, ideally in support of his family. Women were biological…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 03:17 AM
0

I disagree with this. Check out my blog post on Your Masculine Power to Destroy and Defend. Your definition of chivalry is off. It's not niceness. It's a warriors code among warriors. Once you jettison the "politeness" element of it, it can become a powerful tool of masculine empowerment.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 01:48 AM
3

TRP is not an ideology, it's a praxeology. It is amoral. And the response to cheating varies depending upon which element of the praxeology you are making use of. It's a toolbox. You pick which tools you need for the occasion.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 09:17 PM
0

There's "Tuesday night married people sex" and then there's "My personal MILF just remembered where she kept the overdrive button on her libido" sex. If you're running Advanced Game, it's important. One thing I've noticed about pussy, over the years. Ain't a damn one of them that's going to give you superpowers.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 02:08 PM
3

There's more than that: Christian conservatives, OMGs (Old Married Guys, like myself, your LTRs), RPWs, Neo-Patriarchs, Puerarchs, Essential Masculinitsts, MRAs, and more. The Red Pill is a praxeology that most men find valuable in one way or another. Taste the rainbow. It tastes like testosterone.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:54 PM
4

Just riffed on this: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/10/breaking-beta-ending-female-social.html
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:19 PM
3

When confronted by someone more Alpha than you are, the respectfully masculine thing to do is to defer to their leadership and be supportive of it . . . until they fuck up. There is no dishonor in following a competent Alpha leader, and if he's better than you, then trying to pretend he's not is going to reflect poorly on you and diminish your own respect. Knowing how to follow competently is an important Alpha characteristic.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 02:13 PM
3

Good show. You faced your inner Hamster and it backed down, because you recognize the quality of the relationship and don't want to imperil it. Thing is, it will happen again, despite your best efforts. Mrs. Ironwood is highly aware of her inner hamster, and it still pops up from time to time. Understand it, temper it, and don't allow it to mess up your relationship . . . but don't beat yourself up over it. Believe it or not, the ability to rationalize as a means of rectifying your emotional wor…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 01:20 PM
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I get to Vegas every couple of years for business (AVN show is there every January) and I save a lot of money by bringing my wife. No worries about picking up women, and staff are quite curious to a happily-married couple freely spending their children's inheritance. Plus, I've got a sure thing. Look, women love opportunistically, and that includes your wife. When you take her to Vegas, see a couple of shows, take her to a couple of clubs, and have a Vegas hotel room to come back to, that's an o…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:10 PM
1

If you think he can handle it, consider emailing him this link: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html The technical term for your problem is Solomon's Dilemma.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 11:02 PM
2

Me, I'm a Neo-Pagan Druid and initiated Witch. But I'm strange.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:56 PM
1

She's the one exposing the most skin.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:51 PM
17

Being able to point out the ovulating women in the bar is kinda cool, too. And deconstructing your friends' failed relationships and telling them exactly where they went wrong. They won't listen, but it is satisfying.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:46 AM
5

Not in this case. Hypergamy only works when there's stability where she is - or dramatic instability. When she see's her hubby losing weight and looking good, her first priority is to deal with it, not jump ship. Her hamster is running on medium high, headed for boil. She's in no position to do jack.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:34 PM
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This might help. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/03/difference-between-leading-and-dragging.html Stay strong, brother. It's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:25 PM
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It's a process, but it pays off huge dividends in the end. It's also a great entry-point for breaking her attempts to control you. If you've started to get thinner, she's getting worried, and her shit test was a response to that. If you had scarffed down the carbs, you would have failed. As it was you maintained frame admirably, depriving her of leverage. Diet can be one of the best, first things for a man to do to swallow TRP. You can't get much more personal than the food you put in your mouth…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:23 PM
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Welcome. You've taken the first few steps in a long, hard, complicated journey. It will challenge you, piss you off, make you depressed, make you angry, make you introspective, and make you grow. But at the end of it you get superpowers.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:11 PM
5

We were all overdosing on Joseph Campbell back then. Sometimes it got out of hand. We're feeling much better, now, really.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 09:36 PM
1

Then let this scare the hell out of you: one of my editors has a MA in Journalism and is an Asst. Prof. of Journalism at a prestigious school. She's desperately trying to get out of the field. After examining the potential career options she had, she came to the conclusion that there's just no future into it, boring or not. And certainly not if you want to have any kind of decent family life. Just sayin'. Thought you'd appreciate the perspective. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 10:20 PM
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Contact me at ian dot ironwood at gmail dot com and I'll send you a copy of my book on the Manosphere. I'm also happy to answer any questions you have regarding the evolution of TRP and how it has extended to women. I'll also be glad to pass along any questions to Mrs. Ironwood you might have. I understand that these ladies are - quite rightly - cautious about exposing themselves to exposure and criticism. This is shaky ground for them, in this day and age, and what they're trying to do is both …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 10:17 PM
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When there's a hole in the boat, it doesn't matter whose side it's on. There's a hole in the boat. Good show! Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 03:56 AM
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It is a serious issue. But the right woman, properly vetted, can keep that from happening. If she's worthy, let her know. Then start vetting the hell out of her.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 09:13 PM
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On it. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:15 PM
1

Yeah, I'd be prepared for some reproductive coercion about now. Is she just not wife material?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:13 PM
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Being broke just makes you hungry and creative. Nothing stifles your ambitions and dedication like an overabundance of resources.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:09 PM
3

It ain't too late, brother. Time for your second wind. Make a man out of yourself and enjoy life. That's the best revenge. And you've come to the right place.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:08 PM
8

"No, I figure we each have two kidneys, we can get about $40k each, and we only need one. Now, are you going to keep applying adolescent solutions to adult problems, or can you agree to watch how many lattes you have this week?" "We need the car so you can get a job delivering pizza. And I don't want my wife going into bad neighborhoods after dark without a dog. Now, do you want to take this seriously, or should I just put you on an allowance?" "If that's your best solution to a serious issue, t…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 08:06 PM
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Thrilled you came to this realization when you did. Personally, I think you ought to boink her just to prove you can, after what she said. And it would ridiculously easy. All you have to do is challenge her hamster, establish that your SMV is higher, and then Alpha out until she's begging. "We're going to get married when we're 35!" "What gave you a crazy idea like that?" (disbelief, maybe a little offense. Sell it. Hamster engages because suddenly there's something wrong with her - she's assumi…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:50 AM
2

Rollo Tomassi, Vox Day, and Athol Kay (among others) have covered the science behind this, from evolution to neuropsychology. Start there.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:33 PM
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Thanks for the support! I wrote this awhile back, but i anything I'm even more firm about this. See also: the circles in your wife's matrix. It's on the blog. I'm to lazy to post a link at the moment, but there's a lot of FSM stu on there.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:24 PM
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You're getting it. But to address the "The Red Pill Is For White People" meme, I disagree. I think black dudes have quite a lot to gain from TRP, although to be frank I've copped a lot of RP stuff from the black guys in my community. Feminism has been no friend to black men - check out the Manosphere blogger Onyx for all the exquisite details - and TRP seeks to counter that. I've noticed myself the tendency of women, particularly black women, to delight in attempting to emasculate black men at n…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:09 PM
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Be sure to check out the posts on my blog entitled Wife Tests. Properly vetting your bride is essential.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:54 PM
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Start here, with one of my earliest posts: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/01/game-as-tool-towards-recovering-lost.html Then read Married Man Sex Life Primer and No More Mister Nice Guy. Then the sidebar at The Red Pill sub. Then The Rational Male. Then get back to us with questions.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:17 PM
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I listen to Big Band music - music of the Prefeminist Era. Listen to Sinatra for an hour and you'll be slappin' babes on the ass and ordering your scotch neat.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:10 AM
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Yes, it can be, if you do it right. Properly vetting your bride is essential. But don't despair. Your sperm is viable into your 70s. And they make a new crop of young lovelies every year.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:09 AM
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"I bet she does anal." Tends to shut down the conversation for the rest of the show. Or move it into very interesting directions.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 11:44 PM
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Word.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 11:39 PM
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Tell her she's adorable when she gets all worked up like that. Then kiss her. Then tell her that violent video games are a masculine art form with a male aesthetic in mind. If we didn't want boobs and compelling storylines involving damsels in distress, we wouldn't buy them. We'd play Farmville.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 11:38 PM
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I concur. Either she's on your boat, or she's off it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 11:33 PM
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Agreed A pregnant woman's hormones make her temporarily batshit crazy for awhile. It sucks, but part of it is injecting the right amount of Beta. I would have agreed to pick up the papers after a make-out session, but what you did was fine. Additional comments about her radiant beauty are also recommended. Yes, it might be crap. Do it anyway. And remember, judge by her actions. You got the handjob when you wanted a kiss. Her feminine pride won't let her admit to you that she's feeling attraction…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 10:01 PM
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Send your friend this: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html And I humbly suggest these posts from my blog as well: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/male-dominance-beginners-guide.html http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/08/there-is-only-one-boat-there-can-be.html I might have more of particular interest to this sub. Perhaps I'll do a "best of" post for us OMGs.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 09:42 PM
1

Anyone can captain in the harbor. When you're at sea, sometimes you have to grab a cutlass to save the ship.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 09:32 PM
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Maintain frame like you're a freakin' hoplite on the battlefield. Increase your SMV dramatically. Doubt is the handmaiden of Dread. Don't act like Petruchio, BE Petruchio. And keep us posted.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 09:29 PM
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(Would you really want a unicorn that didn't?)
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:24 PM
3

On it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 09:22 PM
2

I heartily endorse this sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/14 09:22 PM
2

Understood. I'm a writer. I wish I could have made it up. Thing is, I get letters like this all the time, from RP men and women, who have had dramatic turn-arounds in their relationship because of TRP. Y'know, I might turn this into a romcom screenplay. Now that Jennifer Aniston has hit the wall, I'm sure she'd be reasonably priced. I've done worse things in my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:20 PM
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In my experience they can't fuck worth a damn. Dating a sorority girl is like ordering a hernia with extra baggage. Bang one if you get the shot, but . . . just don't. Sororities are the FSM institutionalized.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:27 PM
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There is such a thing as a high quality woman. I married one. HOWEVER, I did that only after a fair amount of (mutual) vetting. That's why the secret of TRP is not to memorize a bunch of routines, but to use Game as a method of development of a deeper, positive masculinity. Game is a vital pillar of your masculinity, but it isn't the only one. Become the right man, and the right woman will recognize it regardless of how good your Game might be. And yes, even unicorns prefer dominant men.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:25 PM
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It's a marathon, not a sprint. You just have to accept that you are the Captain, and act accordingly. It's your boat that she got on, not the other way around. Being the Captain isn't something you can delegate. At most, the FO can take over temporarily while you rest or are otherwise occupied. But you are in charge, and once you accept that - really accept that - it changes your perspective dramatically. Yeah, Married Game is hard. That's why it's Advanced Game. Incremental changes and gradual …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:20 PM
2

This says more about your perspective than TRP. Come back when you are ready to face the reality.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:08 PM
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If no one else says it, I will: Well done, Sir. Keep at it. Your marriage will not just survive, but thrive. Three years into TRP, and it's like having superpowers. And it only gets better.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:02 PM
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This might also be helpful. Perhaps my first "RPW" post. "You bet on the horse, not the race": http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/you-bet-on-horse-not-race.html
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 03:43 PM
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In the few instances where I've gotten resistance from my married BP friends, I take them aside and ask them when the last time they had sex was. Then I ask about the time before that. Then I point out that I've had more sex than that in the last forty-eight hours (their answer is inevitably measured in days or weeks). Now, sure, I work in porn, and all of our friends think Mrs. I must be a stone freak or something, but the fact of the matter is that despite my job our lives work like any other …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 03:12 PM
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Agreed. This wasn't a shit test. This was an emotional outburst. If you have an 18 month kid, consider the psychological issues the woman is going through. You do, indeed, have to maintain frame (ALWAYS) but that doesn't mean dick-out. What she's looking for is a tangible emotional sign that she's relevant to you, emotionally. To her, your willingness to sacrifice five minutes would mean that you were invested in her emotional well-being. That was on her terms. Make it on your terms. It is your …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:06 AM
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Actually it does validate one very important RP concept: there is almost no successful examples of BP relationships out there. Reason?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:35 PM
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The next one will be called "The Red Pill Experiment" and chronicle the rise of the RP praxeology, through my relationship with Mrs. Ironwood.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 08:27 PM
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Get a hobby that will make you money. A craft, a trade, some specialized knowledge that can help you make your way in the world without a degree. Small engine repair, auto repair, construction, painting, ceramic tile, electrician, carpenter, whatever. Trade knowledge is far more useful than the university variety for a young man. And the pursuit of such trade knowledge often leads to adventure.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:33 PM
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I'd say Mrs. Ironwood consistently Games her close female friends. Women don't limit their shit-tests to the men in their life, often their circle of friends gets these challenges, too. It's usually about establishing female social dominance and controlling the consensus, and once I pointed that out to Mrs. I she understands how to shut them down a lot more. That can be problematic ("rude!") but ultimately it establishes Mrs. Ironwood's own social dominance. When her time is too valuable for her…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 03:31 PM
5

Jubal Harshaw. Serious cred to anyone who gets and understands the reference.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:55 PM
1

You play the Harley dread Game right, and you can make her airtight.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 08:36 PM
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Nah, you're actually in a good place, IMO. I could be wrong (it happens) but in general you've played it well. She wouldn't have brought up an imaginary "girlfriend" if she wasn't worried. The fact that you didn't BP deny it sent her hamster spinning. I would stay on this course, hold frame, and keep her spinning. The fact that she said she didn't want a divorce speaks volumes. She's freaking out. Actually purchasing a Harley isn't advisable, but threatening to is. Indeed, instead of making the …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:12 PM
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That's entirely too much work for a prospect without more to go on. The flippant answer has the benefit of discovering her level of commitment early, and avoiding the torturous crawl through her hamster-infested valley. Better to next her and move to greener pastures, after lingering just long enough to secure her preselective buff. It's not immaturity. It's efficiency. Besides, ignoring a woman's sexuality after she's voiced a commitment for another man is a panty-dampener in its own right.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:30 PM
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No guts, no glory. If she isn't worth a slap, she's probably not worth a tumble. And that can be a bold lead to establish just how committed she's feeling. If instead of slapping you she says "Funny, now that you mention it, he's not going to do anything about something he didn't hear from me," then you know there's opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:27 PM
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As an argument contra, these FRs provide valuable insight into the process, and specific elements of TRP better than posts on theory often do. We learn from our mistakes and failures far more than our successes, and while this seems like "dwelling on" them, this stream of FRs suggests patterns of behavior that can only be identified and deconstructed in aggregate. I don't like obnoxious, whiny fucks any more than anyone else, and - let's be honest - we can all tell a lot more about the character…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:24 PM
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"Is he gonna stop me from kissing you?" usually works.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 04:39 PM
7

Nope. Female psychology is as straightforward as a pretzel.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:17 PM
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Remember, women love opportunistically. You must place yourself in a position where they have the opportunity to proceed without apparent consequences, and if you're a married dude that can be hard to arrange. Further, there has to be a decent difference in your relative SMVs, and clear advantage to poaching you. You're probably not broadcasting that yet. Once you do, and start putting yourself in rich opportunities, you'll see some more interest. But remember, while poachers abound, many aren't…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:49 PM
1

There are a few blogs: Mine, the Red Pill Room (sidebar), Married Man Sex Life (although Athol has been tinging bluer lately, his Primer remains a solid intro to Advanced or Married Game) and I also recommend The Average Married Dad for some good pointers.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:45 PM
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What's funny is I'm writing my own book on RP wives, including some of the better material from the blog. It will be fun to compare the two books.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:39 PM
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I wouldn't sweat it. As ZombieKitten said, different people have different libidos. If you and your husband are cool with your sex life, that's no one else's business. TRP isn't about making every man into a stud Alpha asshole, it's about allowing every man to pursue his interests and goals. I don't lift often, and I'm hardly a studmuffin, but Mrs. Ironwood seems satisfied. And she's the only judge that matters.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 01:38 PM
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I don't, but the OP didn't think it had. Of course you never really know. But most wives are hesitant to cheat while things are chaotic with their husband. Cheating out of boredom and need for excitement, yeah, but cheat because you're about to lose your meal ticket? Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. If a woman feels her relationship is threatened, she'll try to repair it even if it sucks, more often than not. And most dudes aren't going to want to spin a plate that's in a t…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 01:25 PM
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Depends upon what you want out of life. That's the great thing about RP, it allows a man to pursue his own goals and interests irrespective of what he's "supposed" to do - either by feminists or the Manosphere. MGTOW makes sense for a lot of dudes. Married Game makes sense for a lot of dudes. The key is to support each other in the pursuit of our goals, understanding that one man's passion may differ in expression but not in importance. The Manosphere includes both the Patriarchy and the Puerarc…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:54 PM
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Ain't gonna happen. Let me explain why. In every presidential election with a strong visual component (starting with the Kennedy-Nixon election), in every single contest without fail the candidate with the higher perceived SMV won the election. Unless the GOP runs a naked Christie with a nasty rash, Hillary's not going to make it. My prediction is that she struggles with the primary, and may lose it all again there if the electorate proves tepid enough about their support for her. Has nothing to…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:48 PM
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Real simple: Boys and girls are different. Yes, it's a double standard. Yes, it's an accurate reflection of how sex functions in our society. Yes, it's sexist. And yes, we're TOTALLY okay with that. There are studies that support this viewpoint as being the best way to run your family. Anecdotal evidence tends to support the view. Our kung fu works.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:45 PM
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Nah. In my experience, when you start running Advanced Game in a relationship after the initial 6 months of inevitable shit tests and hamstering, there's usually a singular moment that re-contextualizes the relationship. A kind of sudden shift or development that indicates a new status quo. After that the shit-tests decline dramatically, there's a period of contentment that follows the crisis, and things are fine for another six months . . . before the pressure she feels from her inner circle st…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:39 PM
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"Buying himself new underwear" has consistantly been towards the top of the list of classic Signs He's Having An Affair in women's magazines for the last fifty years. Women purchase more than 70% of men's underwear. Dudes will wear the same pair until they're threadbare . . . unless they're trying to impress a new woman. Hence purchasing underwear without consulting your wife often raises serious alarm bells in a woman's mind. Subtextual relationship kung fu.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:35 PM
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I think it was subtextually implied in his actions. Dread Game implies that the man is considering other options, and has made this fact known. RP isn't misogynistic, it's true - but feminism sees any attempt at a man to pursue his own interests as misogyny.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:32 PM
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He's in a jazz combo. A fedora is appropriate. For that matter, I can rock a fedora myself and often do in the winter. Not every man can, agreed, but if you do it right it can be bad ass.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:29 PM
11

Crazy? No. You just have a different perspective. Being "open and honest" was what got his ass betafied in the first place. That's the core of the BP. Being "open and honest" is what allows her to dictate to you. This was something of his own, a skill and talent he cultivated for himself. Yes, he implied he was having an affair, but it was his wife's hamster who filled in the details. I can see his point. Picking up the bass and exposing yourself to criticism as you tried to master it, and give …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:51 AM
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It can be, if you don't do it right. There are plenty of men out there who just plain want to get married, either to have stable families for their kids or they like being married. If done properly, marrying is just another option of the MGTOW. There are plenty of others who wish to pursue their natural polygamous bent. THERE IS NO RIGHT ANSWER. There is only YOUR answer. You may not have the patience or aptitude for advanced Game, or just plain want to devote your life to something other than a…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 12:45 AM
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That's a bit simplistic take on the subject. Rather, we must understand both their influences as well as our own, and be ready to act according to that understanding to our best interests. The "weaknesses" you refer to are not bugs, they're features, when understood properly.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:57 PM
3

Is she even remotely suitable for a LTR? Is she worthy? Or is the pussy just that good? That's what you need to answer for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:44 PM
3

Beautiful! Mind if I steal that "A club of girls who aren't afraid to be girls" line? That's priceless! Welcome to the family. Let us know if there's anything you need help with.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 10:41 PM
4

Hit the road, Jack. Third world schools would kill for your credentials, and you can be as RP as you wanna be in many cases. You might consider India, South America, or Southeast Asia. Use it as an opportunity to broaden your horizons while following your passions. Even one year abroad will give you enough stories for a lifetime.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:38 PM
1

http://marriedmansexlife.com/
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:35 PM
2

Go forth and conquer, young man. Do us proud.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:35 PM
4

IMO, it's worth the sacrifice to save up for a cheap hotel room periodically. It's about as much as dinner out, in most places, and you can always bring your own snacks. If you have a full evening of unimperiled sex to look forward to every couple of weeks, then making it through the frustrating interim becomes more bearable. As a stop-gap, consider showering together, if feasible. And if you can't afford a hotel room, find a local campground and invest $20 in a tent from Wal-Mart. You can alway…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 05:02 PM
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Relax. Stop what you're doing. Do something else. What you are suffering from here is not a lack of ambition or motivation, but a lack of helpful context in which to express that ambition and motivation. I'm not dissing your devotion to body building, as that is a good avenue for a young man to start with. But it's also merely a tool. Now that you have developed yourself to a certain extant, it is time to test that tool in reality. As Bilbo Baggins discovered (yes, I went there) you cannot find …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:55 PM
2

Then put a permanent relationship with any one woman out of your mind until you're ready to retire. You'll get mad pussy from your specialty, but trying to cultivate anything long-term with anyone is unfair to both you and your woman. You are, at the moment, what I term a Bear Alpha: an aspiring Alpha male who is more devoted to duty or an ideal than either family or notches. Nothing wrong with that, as the qualities you develop during your dedicated period will often translate well to either Wo…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:45 PM
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Check out Athol Kay's excellent posts on the role of dopamine and oxytocin in female mate selection at the Married Man Sex Life blog. It will help open your eyes to the importance of knowing which one she wants and which one she needs at which time of the month.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:40 PM
2

There's no need to walk away from a salvagable relationship. Once the initial spate of shit-tests subsides (about the time that she realizes that your Alpha presentation is a permanent factor, and not a passing fancy) things get better. Depending on the woman, and her ability to confront her own role in the new order and her new domestic reality, you can see a profound 180 degree shift. It's like fishing. Sometimes the struggle to get the fish in the boat is worth it, sometimes it's not . . . an…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:36 PM
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Understand I don't condone actually having an affair, nor is this drastic step likely to resolve the situation in all but the most extreme circumstances. The goal here is to open up the very real possibility in her mind that you have nexted her and are looking for a replacement. As women understand that other women mate opportunistically, your unaccounted time and change in behavior should be enough of an incremental step in escalation to communicate, subtextually, to most women. A key to this i…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:30 PM
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Amid the chorus of "dump her", allow me to offer a few moves which the non-LTR dudes may not appreciate - nor would I expect them to. If you've been using Dread properly and not getting a response it is because she has not seen a tangible sign of you making good on it. That doesn't mean consulting a divorce attorney. You aren't there. But neither are you where you need to be, and the issues you describe are troubling and ultimately destructive. You need to cash in a little of that dread in to ge…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:31 AM
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Excellent overview! For more extensive introduction to Red Pill concepts, see the Red Pill Primer For Boys: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:06 AM
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We do. And we do because we've tested these things time and time again. We're not idiots. We're actually very, very smart people. And the alternative schools of thought are abysmal when it comes to what is in a man's best interest.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 12:46 AM
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Conversely, you could raise him by exposing him to the Red Pill Primer for Boys . . .FREE! http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 04:04 PM
2

yeah, I'll tell my wife of 23 years that. And the thousands who read my blog and buy my books. That's "nothing". What the fuck have you done? Really?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:57 PM
5

Read the goddamn post or you sound like an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:18 AM
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Nah, you're good. Expect some friction for the next few months - hell, expect a few major shit-tests as she emotionally freaks out. You're headed into prime hamster territory, so be prepared. You don't let your frame slip. That doesn't mean you don't give her enough Beta to keep her feeling relatively secure. You're doing fine. Just maintain your frame. First, last and always. The dividends are coming.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 02:51 AM
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Why? Because the Red Pill is the Toolbox. Let me lay it out simple for you. Read this: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/06/aunt-giggles-doesnt-get-it-red-pill-is.html TRP is not an ideology. It's a praxeology. That makes all the difference, when you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:08 AM
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What he said. The Red Pill encompasses many, many houses, including MRAs, PUAs, MGTOWs, and guys like us - OMGs, "Old Married Guys", the Fraternity of Paternity, Patriarchy 2.0. It falls to us to instruct and order the younger men. We're just as Alpha as the plate spinning masters, we've just channeled that same energy into our families. Check out this post for more: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-three-alphas.html In essence, the goal of the Manosphere should be the betterment o…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 01:03 AM
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What you are describing is the Wolf Alpha. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-three-alphas.html
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:41 AM
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As much as I'm in favor of an endless sexual buffet, except for certain rare individuals such a constant pace runs the risk of encouraging complacency. To this end, Ladies, consider this potentially helpful tactic in the face of relentless libido: (bite lip, look at his crotch - you know the look I'm talking about) "Um, tonight I want to watch you Perform for me. All the way to the end. Make love to yourself in a way that will make me want you all week. Show me the sexual animal that you barely …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 10:19 PM
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Discussing a more balanced approach to sex is certainly on the table. Being aware of TRP does not excuse you from the necessity of communication about your intimate life. Mrs. Ironwood puts out like a champ, believe me, but if she tells me she needs some PTO, I listen. How does he feel about masturbation? Serious question.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 06:53 PM
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Believe it or not, I know a LOT of feminists. Especially from this age demographic. The sad truth is that nearly all of them (the straight ones, at least) are single with no hope of a relationship, ever. Only now they're starting to get bitter about it and blame men (shocker!). It sounds like your BF's stepmom is letting age and experience finally replace ideology and dogma, and realizing her mistakes. I only hope we can prevent another generation of young people from joining the folly. Good pos…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 06:28 PM
2

LOVE me some Maggie! Best retired prostitute blog in the universe. She's my go-to girl when I need info in that direction.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:56 PM
9

Some perspective: If he stood over you while you were doing your laundry and lectured you that you weren't doing the delicates properly, that you needed to separate out the bras and items with catches and secure them in a zippered mesh bag to do them properly without fear of messing up the rest of your wash, would you find such a suggestion helpful . . . or annoying? Your knowledge base matters far less in his mind than your ability and willingness to support him as he's trying to get things don…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 05:14 PM
2

I thought I was pretty explicit about what it was about in the title. If you didn't want to read it, don't click it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:08 PM
3

Was that inspired by my link?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:02 PM
3

Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay. Start there. And if you actually get married without reading Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male, you're an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:39 PM
4

Let me break it down. Roughly 70% of cishet women prefer dominant men 70% of the time. Roughly 70% of cishet men prefer submissive women 70% of the time. There are those who lie at either end of the bell-curve, preferring either all male dominance, all the time or all female dominance all the time. If those people are very lucky they will find each other's complement. The actual numbers are left as an exercise to the student, but you can get my drift. Most women prefer dominant men, but not all …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 03:58 AM
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Women don't want to risk the kinds of nuclear rejections men face every time they open their mouths. The first time some sluggoth hosebeast corners you in Starbucks and demands your number, you're going to reach for the holy water and pepper spray and nuke her hamster until it glows. And they know it. They can't take the social penalty implicit in failure the way men learn to.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:47 AM
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I've seen more dicks than all of you put together. There are plenty of Indian dudes swinging pipe. While the average penis size thing is true, mathematically, remember that there are 500 million Indian penises in the world. Diet also plays a role, as does testosterone at early puberty. An Indian man raised in America will in all likelihood have a penis comparable to the American Standard. So stop it. NEVER DIMINISH THE PENIS. Ever. Penis size has nothing to do with it. It's all in your Game, gen…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:18 AM
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"Rude? Maybe. But you'd be fuckin' adorable if you'd learn to apply make-up properly. Did your daddy dress you this morning? Because if he called me rude, I might care."
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:57 AM
16

Tell them "if Indian girls could orally perform as well as American white girls, you might have something, there. But so far I haven't met an Indian girl who can give decent head." Hold frame. Outcome independent. Amused mastery. Watch their hamsters explode. Their issue is that they know that their white boyfriends are unlikely to marry them, and will jettison them just before they hit the wall. Indian girls have bought into Western feminism like it's on sale, and fully expect that the "nice, u…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:09 AM
2

This is what we're up against, gentlemen. Not antipathy. Willful apathy. If it is understood that the only real path to the kind of Happily Ever After this would-be rotund Romeo is the Red Pill, then this self-loathing whining and despair would recede, to be replaced by a resurgent positive masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 06:01 PM
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Sweetie, do you wear a backless little black dress without any panties to go out and not expect to get your ashes hauled? Of course not. Red Pill Rule: Pay attention to what they do, not what they say. If he's talking job/house/car, he's probably already got a ring stashed somewhere. That being said, don't pick out a dress just yet. This is a critical time. Consider looking at my blog at the Wife Test series, for help in self-evaluation. But more importantly, consider buying him a copy of Athol …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 05:57 PM
2

I live in the region. It's seriously plate-rich. Morrisville, especially, but with Duke, UNC, NC State and other schools around, there's nubile, low-mileage chicks aplenty.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:53 PM
2

Dude. No pussy in the world ever gave a man superpowers. Do what you want, but there are better ways to spend your time. Just sayin'.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 01:27 AM
2

You know all that bullshit about "just be yourself"? Don't. Be someone else. A badass. Watch Las Vegas (TV series) and check out James Caan's character, Ed Deline. Pure Wolf Alpha who almost never, ever loses frame. (also a whole lotta eye candy and great RP themesong.) Be him. Or Elvis. Or whichever Alpha you identify with. Cultivate the ability to project an Alpha presentation, and you won't lose frame. Feelz are for Grrlz. Grab your rocks and get cocky, son.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:38 AM
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I'd say that's what's more important than a particular class of girl is maintaining the Two Point rule: always be two points SMV higher than she is for a stable LTR. Rich white girls are trouble. Trust me.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:32 AM
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"One time, at band camp. . ." Sorry. Couldn't resist. Played oboe. My embouchure could bend steel bars. Comes in handy. Keep us posted . . . and hit that. Give her an inch for me.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:29 AM
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It is feminism. But they see it as a feature, not a bug. They think that there are plenty of BB waiting to line up and give them children and families. Most are finding out that ain't necessarily so. The Wall loometh for all women. Nor do they see divorce as bad. A "healthy divorce rate" indicates that women are "improving themselves" by leaving "bad situations" ("I'm not haaaaaaaapy!"). Feminism's tacit approval of hypergamy is telling. But show me the blogs about all the happy feminist marriag…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:23 AM
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Have you not seen what's happening on RPW? Femininity is attracted to masculinity. That's a Fundamental Red Pill Rule. If men learn Game, then women will adapt their strategies to it. Including thing like fidelity and such. I mean, don't hold your breath for the revolution, but the social soil is ripe and the seeds are being planted. Just add water . . . . . . and a whole lotta bullshit . . . . . . and watch what grows. It will be better. We won't stand for worse.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:53 PM
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Beautiful. And beautifully related.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 10:46 PM
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Don't sweat it. Our best days are ahead. What happens if suddenly there are dudes spouting cocky arrogance and holding frame all over the place? Where the access to a good Alpha presentation begins developing at puberty, and male birth control renders reproductive coercion obsolete? When the only clear choices in society a woman has is to become a corporate feminist and cultivate a passion for changing the litterbox for the rest of her life or a dedicated, devoted, highly sexually-active wife an…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:41 PM
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A very moving story. Yes, trust is hard to cultivate. The way Mrs. Ironwood and I explain it to our children, Trust is a sandcastle that's built one grain, one simple act, one word at a time. Every day it grows a little, and every day you risk messing up the design and the size. It only takes one error, one clumsy foot, one careless word to dash a large part of the sandcastle away. Then the only thing you can do is start rebuilding it, one painstaking grain, one action, one promise fulfilled eve…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 10:10 PM
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What, you don't want the challenge? Believe me, your Game improves with age and experience. Learn it first, know it best. Guys with slightly-worse Game running around can only make you look better.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:55 PM
3

If it wasn't a challenge, it wouldn't be worth doing. And the stakes are too high. I have two boys.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:36 AM
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Depends on the man, depends on the woman. That's the thing: there are variables that can't be easily stated here. A dude who can't manage to deliver that in a Dread-ful way might want to consider a shorter version. But not everyone can pull off amused mastery with a facial expression. The emotional content is what is important, however you deliver it: You and me? Together? Like, for ever? Are you serious? What makes you think I'd let you in my boat permanently? You'd better have the feminine coj…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:35 AM
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You bet it is. Pigtails and inkwells. But . . . they don't have the best marketing money can buy. I AM the best marketing money can buy. Look at the Google Analytics stats on terms like "Red Pill" and "manosphere" over the last five years, and you'll see where the trend is going. I figure we'll top out at about 20% of men, eventually. But more than enough to be a social force.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:15 PM
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Yeah, I found that kinda disturbing when I first heard it, and that was back in my BP days. You're right, it's the young guys we need to reach. Your demographic. Feel free to share this with anyone who might benefit from it to get them started: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html I've been tweeting under the hashtags #redpill and #manosphere to get dudes to come here, among other places. Spread the word quietly, but spread it. Ask them "Haven't you always w…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:07 PM
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It's cool. I'm not above that sort of thing. You'd be surprised just how open to TRP that can make a man. Not for the faint of heart, however. Hearing "I would have committed suicide if it wasn't for you!" feels great, but hearing what they went through to get there is rough. And it doesn't always work. But I've convinced 6 other guys to start Manosphere blogs, so it's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 10:03 PM
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I cast my net far wider than that. And by that point it's often too late. I've been working on this since 2010. We're right on schedule.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:59 PM
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I have that effect. Don't worry. I won't tell.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:56 PM
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I agree. Throw her a little Beta as a reward, non-sexual, for good behavior. It will also keep her confused. If she's not worrying "why is he in such good spirits when I haven't put out in weeks?!?" then you need to adjust your approach. But you also have to give her just a taste of good ol' capital-R Relationship to remind her that you haven't gone anywhere . . . yet . . . and that you're still a great guy even if she's choosing not to see it. When she breaks down and bakes you cookies, you kno…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:55 PM
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That's a perfectly reasonable perspective. BUT . . . ...imagine a world where every struggling Delta learns that there's a secret society of men who know what they want to know, and suddenly we're ass-deep in Game-savvy dudes who can shatter LMR with a glance and spin plate after plate after plate. Just how would the world change when male selection becomes the largest factor in intersexual relations? Add in male birth control on top of that, and things start looking VERY different. But first th…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:51 PM
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Nah, you don't let it get that far. That's part of holding Frame. You establish you know YOUR worth, and it is up to HER to qualify, not the other way around. It's not up for negotiation, and if you do it right (and it's not hard) it sets her hamster spinning in your favor.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:39 PM
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For everyone else, yeah. I'm a special case. It's my job to help recruit.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:37 PM
4

Please. The guy IS an amateur. You don't take it over the line until you know what you're doing. You can paraphrase it any way you like, or ignore it entirely, but if a response is needed, that one is the essence of what you say. Crawl before walking.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 09:37 PM
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I'm working on that. Recruiting on Twitter now.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:09 PM
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It's coming. You can't deny Evolution for more than 2 generations.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:09 PM
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Well done. Maintain Frame. That's the secret. When a wife discovers that her husband is changing, one of the very first things she will suspect is that he's cheating. That should be the next thing on her hamstery list: "He's . . . different. More Alpha. There must be Someone Else!" This isn't a bad thing. Preselection and passive Dread are powerful tools. To assist this process along, go buy yourself new underwear. Why? Because it's almost a universal in women's magazines that one of the first i…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:58 PM
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The best answer to "I know what I'm worth!"? "Please tell me, precisely, how you came to that conclusion, and explain by what metric you base it?" Long, blank stare. "If you think you have what it takes to consider a LTR with me, let me know. Personally, I don't think you have it in you. I think you'd probably be better off with a guy you could push around whenever you like. If you're still thinking you have what it takes, we can talk about it . . . but if you 'know what you're worth', I can gua…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:22 PM
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We define our own self-worth.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:07 PM
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Get him Athol Kay's "Married Man Sex Life Primer" as a "joke". Make sure he reads it before the wedding.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 04:13 PM
3

Testify, my brother!
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 12:12 PM
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Get thee to my blog, go: www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:52 AM
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His loathing for the people who pay his bills is palpable. Let him go spend his time reviewing Candy Crush. Forever. "Female oriented games" don't work for the same reason that "Feminist porn" doesn't: women don't purchase the majority of games or porn, even if they play and watch. Men do. Therefore the medium is skewed toward the demographic that spends the money. This petulant white knight needs to be replaced by someone who actually loves his job and doesn't want to take a good healthy dump o…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 03:50 PM
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Send him this link: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 02:24 AM
1

Ballroom dance. No, really.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:35 AM
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Got it. Let me work on that. (wonderpill powers activate)
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 04:40 PM
1

Here's how you should consider the Red Pill. It's a toolbox. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/06/aunt-giggles-doesnt-get-it-red-pill-is.html
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 01:40 AM
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No, I see your frustration. That's where your inclination toward extremes originates. It's perfectly natural and understandable. And yeah, orgasms rock. There is nothing wrong with a woman asserting her sexual needs in a marraige. Far from it - one of the benefits of a good Red Pill marriage, from the man's perspective, is the increase in libido his wife usually demonstrates. And . . . at certain points in the process suddenly it really does threaten to be a disparity in desire. When a RP wife n…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/14 01:36 AM
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Start them here: http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:51 PM
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FRAME MOTHERFUCKER FRAME! That is all.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:09 PM
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Here's your airdrop: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 08:59 PM
3

EVERYTHING. That's my job: being a Sex Nerd, so you don't have to.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 05:04 PM
2

Excellent point.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 04:41 PM
3

We're talking about baby steps, here. After a year, this stuff becomes second-nature. This is what the Blue Pill does to a man - and this is how a woman can help encourage a man to break his Beta. Baby steps.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:40 PM
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There's a difference between "trying to change" him and encouraging him through your response to him. That's what I tried to play up in the post. Thanks for the platform.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 04:19 PM
3

To answer just this issue . . . I wrote a post. Here: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2014/09/girl-game-encouraging-your-captain-to.html
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 03:57 PM
1

I favor . . . the Boob Test. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2013/03/breaking-beta-boob-test.html
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 02:29 AM
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You don't need to be either. Be his MILF. http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/06/my-favorite-milf.html
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/14 02:22 AM
2

His first book is still good. Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Primer. After that . . . The big question is just what element of TRP you want advise on with your marriage.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:06 AM
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Yes Now. Do it. She'll hate it, but what can she do? Stop being your mom? This is an important first step toward resolving your issues with masculinity and women.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:34 AM
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I think that Married Game works best as a component of Basic Game. There are plenty of good resources for married men, my blog included. But a new sub wouldn't suck.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:33 AM
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Options. Start talking to other girls. She'll tighten up. If she doesn't . . . other girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:44 PM
0

Check out my posts at the Red Pill Room on Wife Tests.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:25 PM
2

Two SMV points lower than you. Hold frame. You're golden.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:37 PM
2

I love all my gay friends dearly, both masculine and feminine, but I would be remiss if I attempted to apply TRP to gay sex culture. Despite having watched hundreds of hours of gay porn, and socialized with gay men repeatedly, I still cannot say that I have a good handle on how gay men actually interact, sexually. That being said, I think a gay section of the Manosphere would be FABULOUS!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:59 PM
2

I'm still working on formatting. Eventually I'll do it as a YouTube video series.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 03:57 PM
2

Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Primer. Best intro to TRP for Blue Pillers out there. What married dude doesn't want more sex?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:28 AM
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Mostly I take care that Mrs. Ironwood has no reason to even be tempted, but there have been a few instances where she has been orbited against her will that I had to intervene. Sometimes that just means a "gentlemanly" chat about how I value my marriage and my relationship with my wife, in which I calmly and matter-of-factly over-Alpha the dude to the point where he's sufficiently warned off. Mentioning things like I lost my front teeth to the butt of a shotgun, or how quickly a human body can d…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 07:23 PM
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Thanks for the link-love! Section on Consent coming soon. Had to revise it in light of "yes means yes".
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 02:03 PM
12

You have no real idea what the hell the Red Pill is all about. Clearly.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:22 AM
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You can't "change" him, all you can do is make the environment conducive to change and then invite him to do so. Remember that sex is an incentive reward system. I'm not advocating holding out on him - on the contrary, your easiest course of action is to use your sexuality and your support to allure him into a more dominant lifestyle. That's easier said than done. Think of it as rewarding positive moves and not rewarding negative moves. If you haven't read Athol Kay's Married Man's Sex Life, it …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 11:23 PM
3

Is this a sexual relationship? Do you intend to have children? Is the issue his behavior or is it his perspective? That will help.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 09:21 PM
3

Totally. I would have added ". . . I'll have her stuff placed conveniently outside the door."
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:55 PM
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A couple of low-concept suggestions: Wear skirts. It ups your SMV a half a point and doubles down on your femininity. Guys see skirts and think a) pretty legs and b) easy access. Keep the talk about work LIGHT. The last message you want to subtextually send is "my career is more important than family". Work is something you do for a paycheck. Unless you are committed to your high-value profession, skip the shop talk. Be patient with men. Most are scared to death of dating and sex, no matter how …
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 08:51 PM
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Kids raise your SMV to a woman, not lower it the way a single mom's do.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:11 PM
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Good point. I'm designing a new marketing program. Need merchanidising/organizing ideas.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:39 PM
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What they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:29 PM
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Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Rational Male Roosh's books and my own humble (VERY humble) book on the Manosphere: http://www.amazon.com/Manosphere-New-Hope-Masculinity-ebook/dp/B00D74DQ8E/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1409321837&sr=8-1&keywords=manosphere
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:17 PM
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Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life Primer. Read it. Learn it. Love it. Get more sex. The Kung Fu works.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:05 AM
7

Exaggerating? I consider it elegantly understated . . .
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:24 PM
14

Topple feminism. And screw. Prefer to screw.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:49 PM
7

Our Kung Fu works. 23 years with the same woman, still blissfully happy. How many Blue Pill AFCs can say that? Go ahead and laugh . . . all the way to divorce court.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:02 PM
6

Dude. Run. Dump her again. And again. Make it hurt. Tell her she's unfeminine, uncivilized, and unsuitable for a heterosexual union of any quality. Seriously, I guarantee for every ball-buster out there like her, there are three girls who would do anything to have a boyfriend. Her boyfriend.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:40 PM
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Tell her you prefer "receptive" girls to "sassy" girls. Because if you wanted to live in a sitcom, you would be doing so.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 02:40 PM
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Can't blame a guy for having standards. Every dude has a different "acceptable" number for his future wife. Learning that she misled you about yours is a HUGE danger sign. If she won't tell, no ring. If you aren't good enough to share that "personal" information with, you aren't good enough to decide whether or not to pull the plug on your spouse someday if necessary. Ladies, the Number matters to many, many guys. Calling us douchey for being sensitive about it merely confirms to us why a woman'…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 11:11 PM
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Dude. You did well. take it from me You didn't let the conversation wander, you stayed on-point, you demonstrated emotion, and you walked away in a timely fashion. She's wondering if you're calling your attorney or were out hitting on women. Now is the time for you to HOLD YOUR FUCKING FRAME and persevere. Alpha-up. You didn't do or ask for anything unreasonable. Holding frame doesn't mean not displaying emotion. Far from it. Some shit is worthwhile to get pissed off about in a demonstrable way.…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 11:04 PM
1

One subtle but important verbal distinction between your two personae: when in a romantic situation, stop asking "can" or "could" he do something. Ask him If he "will" or "would" do something. The linguistic difference is minor, but profound. The first (which you probably use interchangably with the second) questions a man's ability to do something. The second challenges his willingness. When you as if a man "can" do something, you get him on the defensive automatically, whether either of you kn…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:31 PM
3

Actually, if you want to see a solid Alpha, check out that show Las Vegas, and examine James Caan's character. Brutally Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 09:18 PM
3

Luckily, as I have pointed out to Mrs. Ironwood with greater and greater frequency of late, the Goddess compensates for a woman's loss of perfect skin by diminishing a man's eyesight as he gets older.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:41 PM
3

Look, you're husband is going to look at other women, but as long as he's got plenty of reasons not to go there, he's not likely to. Your fears are not irrational, but allowing them to influence your self-image to that extent may be. The next time you start worrying about losing your allure for your husband . . . go find him. Shut the door. Take off all of your clothes. Sit in his lap. If he doesn't look up from what he's doing, you MIGHT have a problem. Also, wait until the general contractor h…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:21 PM
2

Thanks. Now, what are you going to do about it?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:53 PM
1

Ironically, I'm actually making more money than her for the first time in a decade, thanks to my fiction writing. But yes, in general her career pays more than mine. She also comes from an affluent background, while my folks were decidedly working-class. Yes. I also do the lion's share of the laundry. I'm just better at both. That being said, she has plenty of chores that don't involve either. She COULD be independent, or fake it reasonably well, if she wanted to be. But she's honest enough with…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 03:27 PM
1

Nope. Our Kung Fu works. If you have the gonads to face reality.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:14 PM
10

You . . . are in for a challenging time. You've been conditioned over time to resist the idea of following a man's lead of your own free will. You are in a highly volatile, highly competitive industry - trying to rein that in when it comes to matters of the heart is going to be as much of a challenge as being an aggressive businesswoman. Part of you is always going to see yourself as weak for that vulnerability. The only way to get out of this rut is to accept and acknowlege the fact that, in or…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 01:00 AM
7

Come read my blog, if you haven't already. I won't say Mrs. Ironwood and I have the perfect RP marriage, but we do okay. She's a globally respected member of her highly technical profession, I'm a writer (who reviews porn, admittedly). She's one of the strongest, most resolute women I know. We've been married 16 years, together 23, 3 kids. Done properly, TRP has made our marriage far, far stronger. Not because I dominate my wife. I am merely dominant. She can decide whether or not to follow my l…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:47 AM
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You are, in fact, messing things up a little. But the fact you realize it, instead of rationalizing it away as his fault, is a HUGE step in the right direction. How do you redeem yourself? Affirm his good, positive influence on you. Accept his leadership, when he offers it, and don't second-guess - either him, or yourself. If you find yourself wondering about his devotion to you, stop . . . take a deep breath . . . and KISS HIM. For a good ten seconds. Don't stop until you can feel his heartbeat…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:32 AM
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http://www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:28 PM
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Go to the Red Pill Room. Click on the section entitled "The Red Pill Primer For Boys". Start there.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 03:06 AM
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Earlier in our relationship, just before we were married, Mrs. Ironwood and I lived apart so we could both work in different cities for a few months during our transition. It was hell, but we found different ways to pass the time and keep thinking about each other. At the time, she had a job where she had to slog through an evening's worth of irate, evil voice messages from customers. It was grueling, and easily the worst part of her day. She mentioned this more than a few times. So I called her…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 12:00 AM
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Thanks for the plug!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:31 PM
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Sex isn't just a tool - it's an incentive reward system. If you treat it as such, all sorts of possibilities open up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:30 PM
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Extend him an invitation to reconsider. Get creative.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:30 PM
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Mrs. Ironwood and I have been together 23 years, married 16, and have three kids. It's always been good. Since taking TRP, it's been great. I'm in my third year of the Pill, and write a blog about the experience of the RP Marriage, among other things. No, there's not a lot of BDSM. From an outside perspective, we just look like a happy couple. But Mrs. I and myself know the nuts and bolts of how we tick as a couple down to the molecular level. That doesn't mean things are perfect. In the last th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:27 PM
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Other folks have said much the same thing, I think, but here's my take: The Red Pill is a personal response to the observable realities of intergender intimate relations that focuses on the practical, not the ideological. For single men, that means deciding on whether to have kids or not, and if so, finding a suitable wife. But if not - or until such a remarkable woman makes herself known to him - pursuing a wide-angled mating strategy with the Red Pill gives him some severe advantages. But that…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:10 PM
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Had to jump in here. You've done good work, if you're being honest. Don't give up half way. I think you're selling the process short. Too many women who get serious about finding a mate get frustrated and start listening to the other women in their lives (their competitors, past and present) who aren't going to be that helpful. You need to take the initiative. If you want to fish . . . go to the river. Easier said than done? Perhaps. But that's one of the things that sets a RPW apart from others…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 10:34 PM
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Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male. Read the Book. Read the Blog. Athol Kay's Married Man Sex Life. Roosh V's blog. Vox Day's blog. And you can always root around at The Red Pill Room for additional assistance.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:40 PM
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Well done, young padawan! Time to start preparing a few plates.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 12:54 AM
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Her HB#is relevant only in relation to yours: it should be 1-2 pts. lower than yours and you're golden. That's where "True Love" hangs out. If you do have the courage to marry, then I suggest you check out my series of Wife Test posts over at The Red Pill Room. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:23 PM
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Good Goddess, yes! Go to my site and look up Red Pill for Boys. It's still in progress, but it is a place to start. wwwtheredpillroom.blogspot.com
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:26 PM
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Come see me at the Red Pill Room. You are just starting the journey, young padawan. If you want to know about LTR and Married or Advanced Game, check out my blog and Athol Kay's 2011 book Married Man's Sex Life Primer. Also The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. We'll get you pointed in the right direction. That's what we're here for.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:19 PM
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I think it's fine the way you played it - but you should have punctuated the concession of "please" (which is a very important one) with a kiss to establish your dominance. Reward good behavior. And maintain frame. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 02:45 PM
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Better response: "I'm too worked up from the trip to be able to come over for anything less than pounding you senseless. Sorry, need to work off this energy." The "I'm too Alpha to put up with cuddling" sends a strong message. The "apology" for being too Alpha is the proper response to a mild shit test like this. It also implies you are considering other ways of working off that energy, which means you have options. That makes you more arousing to her. Since you knew you weren't going to have se…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 02:42 PM
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Thanks! Let's take this thing MAINSTREAM!
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 06:53 PM
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The Private Man is having a meet-up of Manospherans this March, in Florida for Spring Break. Deets at his site. I'm thinking about going.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/13 04:56 PM
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Fuck football. While I recognize sports as an inherently masculine pursuit, it's one area where I'm apparently just not clocked in. The only sport I follow is (wait for it) professional ice skating. No, really. My grandmother got me into it as a kid, and considering the Tigers pretty much sucked back then, it was better watching hot chicks in tight skirts twirl around. I actually always have sex instead of watching football. It's kind of Mrs. I's way of celebrating not being a sports widow.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/13 04:02 PM
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Thanks, Cupcake, I appreciate your concern. If that's your simplistic, snapshot view of the Manosphere, I think we can safely continue our plans in secret. Your ignorance of the subject is indicated by your attempt to shame us, somehow. The fact is that not everyone -- actually probably not even a majority -- of the Red Pill folks are into BDSM. The fact that you felt compelled to stick your tongue out at us either means you're bitter yourself because you can't find a dominant man or that you're…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/13 01:49 AM
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Depends on the woman. If she sees hypergamy as "evil", then that's probably counterproductive. The best defense is to ensure that she doesn't see another dude as an improvement over you.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/13 05:09 PM
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It's not that you "aren't an alpha", you just haven't learned how to present "alpha". Big difference. But you'll get it. Feel free to stop by the blog and ask questions if you like.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/13 05:08 PM
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It's essential. Athol lays it out.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/13 02:34 PM
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"Until a movement has a complete ideology and rulesets that are treated as truths it can't be a cult." I'm working on it. Give me time.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/13 02:32 PM
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Heh. Why are we not a cult? We're just not that organized. Quit worrying about the possibility of stuff that hasn't happened yet. The Sphere is what you make it. GIGO.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 08:59 PM
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Yes, but very subtly. Mostly, we'll teach by example. We plan to send them out to the world with as many "survival tickets" as possible, and understanding the realities of human mating is high on that list. Mrs. I will handle most of the biological stuff, I'll handle a lot of the social and cultural, but between the two of us we're pretty thorough. My oldest boy reminds me of me when I was a kid, which means he's a hopeless geek. But he's not bad looking, and very protocol driven, so I'll phase …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 08:42 PM
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Don't be depressed. That's your fault, not theirs. Allow me to explain. One vital thing you MUST remember under the Red Pill is that men and women are different, yet complementary. NOT equal. You're trying to apply masculine standards of behavior and attitude to them, and that's just not fair or wise. They're not bad men . . . they're just being women. Remember, Game is based on EvoPsych and EvoBio, not an idealistic ideology that makes you feel warm and fuzzy. It describes the mating behavior o…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 08:21 PM
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Nah. The more the merrier! Seriously, as Roosh and Roissy have pointed out a few times, a woman's knowledge of Game is no defense against Game. Indeed, my PUA friends feel like the more a woman knows about Game, the easier it is to Game her. Hell, I tested this theory in the field a couple of times. It works. The more a woman insists she's not the kind of girl who can be Gamed, the more her Hamster is willing to let her be Gamed. Stupid Hamster. But Beta won't become Alpha and vice versa. Game t…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 07:54 PM
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Why, I'm glad you asked! I just put together a whole book (mostly recycled blog posts, fair warning) on just that subject. Alpha doesn't just happen, you have to cultivate it. The best way in my mind is to systematically challenge your own limitations, abandoning your fear as you go, and gradually but surely increasing how far you come out of your comfort zone. Alpha is, in essence, the ability to project a fearless presentation. If you actually feel that way, it's a bonus. Beta is about fear. B…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 07:49 PM
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Oh, yeah, he fits my "Mad Scientist Alpha" perfectly. It helps I'm essentially raising a Sheldon myself.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 07:43 PM
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I'm back! Hey, Roosh! Everyone, if you don't already know, Roosh is one of the top Seduction Artists in the world, the Marco Polo of Poon. He's also one of the leading voices in the Manosphere overall, not just the PUA community. Always a pleasure. The book (Manosphere: A New Hope for Masculinity) is still sitting in editorial review committee, which mostly blew it off over the holidays. I'm going to dramatically re-shape it by removing the Mythopoetic elements and publishing them seperately. At…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/13 07:40 PM
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Dude, you're doing it. Really. Mrs. I agrees. The fact that you've made a change and she's noticed it has her Hamster in high gear, even if you don't see it yet. She's going to start handling her business on her own, unless she's clinically depressed or something (in which case Dread Game isn't going to help, it's just going to end things). She won't want you to see it, but she'll start doing things on the sly and hope you don't notice she's doing anything until you notice the results on your ow…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 09:47 PM
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She appreciates that. And I'm not worried about Hypergamy, because if she has a free moment in her schedule for screwing around with someone else, I've already booked it five weeks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 09:27 PM
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In aggregate? No. Retail? Maybe. You have to hold them to account for so long that they start doing it on their own. It's hard, especially with the FSM influencing everything they do.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 09:25 PM
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1) I work in porn. I could win the lottery and tomorrow I would still show up at work. Why? I work in porn. I have a DREAM JOB. I'll keep doing it until they tell me I can't anymore. As it is, I am a successful novelist (NYTBS author) on my own, and had a really good year last year. I love blogging, but it's hard to make pay. Hence me cobbling together the Alpha Moves book. I can make some pocket change, and maybe give some clueless Betas some help to break out of their chains. 2) Both. Things w…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 06:15 PM
3

Basically, I try to resurrect old pre-feminist commercial art and pin-ups, which has actually inspired me to look into the old pen-and-ink commercial artists of that age, a fascinating experience. But I just go to Google Images and put in "1940s commercial art" with perhaps a little qualifier -"men", "women", "marriage", or such, and see what comes up. If I like it for the site, it goes in the archive. When I do a blog post, I'll go through the archive and try to find pictures that actually kind…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 06:10 PM
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They're as confused as men, if not moreso. They have swallowed the Blue Pill just as thoroughly as men have, only for them that's the way it's supposed to be in their minds, and we are the ones screwing it up. I think it depends on the age of the woman. The Gen-X women are starting to hit the Wall and panic -- there just aren't any dudes who want to get married or even want a relationship anymore. Once I point out why, the poor things usually just stare at me blankly before resorting to tears an…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 06:06 PM
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Mrs. I wasn't exactly aware of what I was doing for the first few months. It was important that I make changes and incorporate them in myself before I tried to inflicted them on anyone else. That doesn't mean she didn't notice -- although at first she just thought it was a little uncharacteristic assertiveness. When I finally explained what was going on, and sweetly asked her permission to destroy feminism, she shrugged and said "Feed me, fuck me, and keep me warm and I don't care how the hell y…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 06:00 PM
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Married Man Sex Life Primer. The FUNDAMENTAL Red Pill book. Athol is a genius, I don't care who hears that. Buy a copy for all of your friends. They'll thank you later. I'm hardly in a position to approve or disapprove of much, but here's my take on it: for the last three decades, we've seen a huge number of books trying to help men and women get along. Along the way we've seen some jerky progress. Most of that has been almost accidental, but there are a few books that leap out as decent reads, …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:55 PM
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I can think of a couple that are "Red Pill Descriptive" if not really "Red Pill Aware". And probably not the ones you're thinking of. Big Bang Theory is actually quite good about the Red Pill realities of dating. Leornard is a slowly-rising status nerd, Penny is a street-smart blonde "actress" who's aware of the Wall ahead, and the Game-inspired quips from Wolowitz are inspired. Of course, it would be better if Leonard would just learn some tighter Game, but he's getting there. My second pick is…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:45 PM
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No problem Talking about myself is rarely a chore.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:41 PM
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The only one that occurs to me is one over on the free erotica site Literotica, called "Bean Counter". The writer's style is a lot like mine. It's a kind of proto-Red Pill book, in which a Betasized accountant discovers that his wife is cheating on him, got pregnant by her lover and wants a divorce. Instead of the usual descent into cuckoldry, the dude gets some revenge, and starts discovering the Red Pill on his own. Oh, and it's wickedly explicit, too. But that's the closest I've seen to one. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:40 PM
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I'm generally in favor of pleasing women sexually. :) Crap, you made me do a smiley. OK, this is important: the focus of the aloof Alpha Male is <i>outcome independence</i> not selfishness. While the latter can be mistaken for the former by a woman, she'll figure it out eventually. If you're a player and it doesn't matter whether you will boink her again, it's not as big an issue. If you're crawling into the same bed with the same woman every night . . . it becomes somewhat moreso. That doesn't …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:35 PM
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That's a good one. Men and Women have always had their separate Mysteries, but in this day and age such things as procreation, menstruation, and how to tune an engine are general knowledge, not carefully guarded secrets. When it comes to the Red Pill, both genders are exploring ways to navigate inter-gender conflict, and both have access to that Deep Knowledge that can give them insights that, to outsiders, might seem like superpowers. In a case-by-case basis, for a man just starting out with th…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:30 PM
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From Mrs. I: "In the medical field you work with people with very diverse backgrounds. I do gravitate toward and focus on diversity in everything that I do, and that lets me keep an open mind. I don't think my development was hindered by any programming in terms of a gender or cultural bias. I'm open to exploring the Red Pill concepts of the Manosphere as a scaffolding to enhance knowledge of sexual relationships. I feel that the templates and constructs provided by the Manosphere are a very use…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:26 PM
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1) Not exactly in the mainstream yet, but it's almost there. In the next 18 months you'll be seeing a lot more about it. 2) Can't hurt. But that's only about 10% of attraction. Of course, if she's bored with the other 90%, throw some biceps at here. 3) oH, MAIS OUI! I think it's a very, very important development. I loathe Facebook and I'm ambivalent about Twitter, but Reddit has a lot of legs in my opinion. For Mrs. I: "I have no problems maintaining relationships with other women. The majority…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:21 PM
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I do hope I did this right. Y'all correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:03 PM
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Hi, I’m Ian Ironwood, Professional Porn Review for VideoGold (www.videogold.com) and AdultMovieMart (www.adultmoviemart.com), and proprietor of the blogs The Sex Nerd (www.thesexnerd.blogspot.com) and The Red Pill Room (www.theredpillroom.blogspot.com). As you can probably guess, I’m mostly here for the Red Pill Room, which deals with relationships more than sex (but we still talk about sex an awful lot). I’m a professional Sex Nerd, I give advice on all things tingly, and am damn good looking. …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/13 05:02 PM
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RedPillWifey and Mrs. Yes. They both run blogs.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/13 04:21 AM
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Yeah, I'll be more concerned about that when I see feminists starting to drop terms like "rape culture".
/r/TheRedPill07/01/13 05:40 PM
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