19yo needs some guiding

IanIronwood · 2014-09-17T16:33:33+00:00

Get a hobby that will make you money. A craft, a trade, some specialized knowledge that can help you make your way in the world without a degree. Small engine repair, auto repair, construction, painting, ceramic tile, electrician, carpenter, whatever. Trade knowledge is far more useful than the university variety for a young man. And the pursuit of such trade knowledge often leads to adventure.

svogliate · 2014-09-17T16:42:17+00:00

When you're asked what college you entered, say "I'll be attending <college of your choice> next year, this year I'm taking a year off to do <x>." X can be whatever you want it to be, but it should be something more interesting than the daily activities you lifted.

However, you should not do X because you need an answer when people ask you a question. You should do X because it furthers your personal growth. Get in the habit of that now.

BrunoOh · 2014-09-17T16:48:55+00:00

To be honest, you should reconsider going to college. It's not all that useful and lands you with a huge debt. Think about learning a trade.

2014-09-17T17:14:38+00:00

You're doing just fine. You shouldn't bother yourself with spinning plates at this point. Focus on your career and keep lifting regularly. Once you've moved out of your parents' you can start to bring in girls. (I assume no girl would be willing to "get back to my parents' place" to make-out).

lovethebottoms · 2014-09-17T20:19:22+00:00

First, "Guy", "you need to ask yourself 'What do you really want?'". You talked about a wide range of issues, and at the end, you asked how you can improve your SMV. What exactly is the problem?

It sounds like you have a great family life, are healthy, and are pursuing a job you want.

You do sound insecure, and it's more than likely due to the lack of sex/relationship, which sounds like you are getting next to none.

Personally, since you failed to enter the PA, you need to prepare more. You also need to reexamine if that's what you really want. I think your reaction to that question is more due to lack of s/r, but it could be that you really don't want to be a cop. What do you really want?

Since your final question is about SMV, and your personal life seems great otherwise, I'm going to assume that's the focus. As for SMV, you don't need it. Instead, you should learn how to give a girl emotion. You're still at an age that you only need to give a girl one or two and she'll look at you like the man equivalent of a hot slut. But I highly recommend taking a flier on a cougar from time to time. It's a very different experience.

There is nothing else a woman wants from a man other than emotion. She can get everything else you think you're supposed to give her everywhere else. She gets no emotion from men. That's what she wants.

Post a new question with more specifics on where the girls you want are, and I can give you a detailed blueprint.

Also, my older posts have examples and theory etc.

Miamiheat87 · 2014-09-17T20:26:18+00:00

I think if you start learning how to dance and then going out to clubs, it'll be good for having more fun and meeting girls. Plus whenever music is on, you can have even more fun with it because you got the skill to move to it.

Focus on moving to music in general rather than learning a particular dance style. Check out Matt Steffanina free style and night club for a basic start as well as takesomecrime cat groove on YouTube.

Also learn a lot about cooking. Not going to help meeting girls but any girl appreciates a good cook. You can the The Science of Good Cooking and Gordon Ramsay's Ultimate Home Cooking for that.

Title	19yo needs some guiding
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Date	September 17, 2014 4:18 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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