This is a really brief summary of a very important lesson I have recently internalised. TRP always so gave so many advices. Many wisdom.

One of the oldest tricks in the book was, "Outcome independence." Oh yes, the OI. Trust me when I say that when most of you think that they have completely mastered OI, there is a lot more to learn.

It is easy to get caught up in advices, overwhelmed by all of it, overthinking each move.

The thing is.

You don't have to think, what did you write "wrong." You don't actually have to bother thinking could you have played it "better." You should not bother thinking "whey she did x,y or z." You should not bother thinking, "why she did not come to the date?"

And you should never bother thinking, "am I good enough?"

Truth hurts. And the truth is. You can play your best cards. You can bring your A game. Your best line. You could have gotten the most clear signals from a girl. You can still be the best version of yourself and still get ditched, flakked, LJBF-ed.

This does not mean you should never bring your A game. This does not mean, you should not pick up on signals. This just mean you should focus on something that will always (or in most cases) be 1/1. That will always give you back when you bring your A game. It's you.

Because. It doesn't really matter. (What you do)