Summary: After all those years of hard work, I can finally say that it paid off and that it was 200% worth it.

 

Body: I can finally say it: The hard work paid off and it almost feels surreal. First, a little background:

My life wasn’t always bright; indeed during my teenage years I got bullied, contemplated suicide a few times. I was small, weak, addicted to porn and video games, etc. you know the whole package. Surprise surprise I was practically invisible to girls during those times.

Fast forward a few years, I’m now 18 (age of majority where I live) and my friend introduces me to lifting. I make progress fast and after only a few months, I’m close to ottermode. I was good-looking, lean and I was going out pretty much every week with my buddies. Despite all of that I wasn’t getting any girls and I had no clue why. Needless to say, it was really rough on my ego. The thing is, during those time, I was extremely needy. I wasn’t confident in myself and I had no mission. My only drive was literally fucking girls. And I can fucking guarantee you that girls smell that shit instantly. Loads of good-looking, tall, buff dudes aren’t getting any pussy because they’re extremely insecure inside, and I truly think that, in getting girls and in life in general being secure with who you are and confident in yourself is the single most important thing.

So yeah after I hit rock-bottom once again, I went into monk mode. During that time I started reading a lot, meditating, trying new stuff, dieting, cutting out porn and lifting harder than ever. I worked the whole summer in a lumberyard carrying stuff for tradesmen. It was only guys there and that shit really helped me get in touch with my masculinity, working with other guys and speaking with old carpenters and such.

So here I am today, just moved to a new city for uni and holy shit… Girls are giving me IOI’s non-stop and for the first time in my life I can say that I’m feeling that deep inner confidence, not that fake it till you make it bullshit. I feel like whatever happens I’m gonna be fine and that if a girl doesn’t like me… whatever her loss lol I’m just gonna go talk to that cute hipster brunette right there. It sure helps that the average guy nowadays is effeminate and low-t so we RPers instantly stand out from the rest. So yeah boys I made this post to motivate you to stick to the grind. Stick. To. It. Trust me it’s going to pay off in the long run. I wanted to give up a few times but I didn’t and I’m infinitely grateful that I didn’t because I wouldn’t be where I am today.

Happy grind

 

Lessons learned :

*Stick to the process

*Focus on yourself and your mission, women will come

*Never give up

*Be disciplined above all, fuck motivation