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It's only ok when she abuses him. Also, more ring hamstering...

culofiesta
June 7, 2013
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Title It's only ok when she abuses him. Also, more ring hamstering...
Author

culofiesta
Upvotes 6
Comments 30
Date June 7, 2013 7:05 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1fvp7f/its_only_ok_when_she_abuses_him_also_more_ring/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/its-only-ok-when-she-abuses-him-also-more-ring.234354
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[–]AlwaysLateToThreads5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

Should've manned up and bought her a bigger ring!

[–]ANALGAPE11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

I hope this guy realizes that marrying this women will be the biggest mistake of his life.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Look at that wall of text. He's beyond clueless throughout. We can't save them all.

[–]creativebiz-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

not necessarily.

they're in confused gender roles. society says they should have "equality", and they're both trying to navigate their relationship based on gender neutral values.

but she's a woman, and she wants a big ring. that's absolutely fair for a woman to want. its a status DHV and she deserves it if she's going to be his wife.

he's a man, and he wants to be dominant. he has to be a good provider to earn that.

a good dose of red pill for them both could make the relationship work well. instead they will probably break up.

score another point for the blue pill.

note: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/15q8vw/a_very_insightful_analysis_of_the_nature_of/c83z3qx

[–]enticingasthatmaybe1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

she deserves it if she's going to be his wife

Wait... What?

[–]creativebiz-2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

whats your point?

[–]enticingasthatmaybe2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. A woman deserves a ring worth thousands of dollars simply for being a wife? That is so wrong.

[–]creativebiz-3 points-2 points-1 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

of course. she's giving up her freedom, she's going to bear him children, she's going to take care of him emotionally, she'll probably cook and clean.

women care a lot about status, its a standard DHV. the ring is a very important DHV. you can ignore it, but its hard wired in.

i'd encourage you to read the link i posted, above. if you want to be a masculine red pill guy, you need to PROVIDE. its a 2 way street.

[–]enticingasthatmaybe5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Buying some useless trinket is not providing, are you high?

[–]creativebiz-2 points-1 points0 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

i'd encourage you to spend more time studying the game and learning about DHV's. you're a little behind the ball on this one.

[–]enticingasthatmaybe3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Likewise my man, likewise. You are poorly deluded and bordering back on blue pill pedestalization.

[–]creativebiz0 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

haha.. i don't think so.. maybe you should go live in Afghanistan, sounds like you would fit in well there.

anyways, i appreciate the exchange, have a nice afternoon

[–]lono122 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And what is the guy getting that requires not only providing for the woman but also buying her an expensive diamond ring as a token of affection.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

score another point for the blue pill.

I lol'd.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

There seems to be a theme that men who didn't establish the dominant role in a relationship from the outset end up resorting to physical violence to try and get it back later.

Unfortunately, by the time they do this it's already too late.

[–]pirateundies4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Reading through the Guy's perspective, it doesn't sound like he was "resorting to violence". It sounds more like it was a tense situation, she shoved him to get out him out of her way, and he responded by grabbing her.

He probably wasn't even thinking something like, "How dare she shove me?" It was probably more like, "Why is she shoving me? I don't like being shoved." and just responded in a way that felt automatic.

And then this girl only interpreted from her perspective and didn't bother to acknowledge how it might feel to get shoved by someone...

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes, but she says the words, "Don't you dare ever do that again." She is issuing commands. Does this sound like a man who has established his role in the relationship?

[–]culofiesta 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She pushed by him. She was getting violent against him. Some would say he defended himself.

[–]yankeetiger2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Diamond rings are actually helpful to us red pill men, I've realized. When a woman makes a big fuss over one, it's a convenient indicator of how the relationship is going to play out.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes. They generally care more about that diamond ring, the big day, and his salary, than anything about him.

It's the signal to get some other pussy.

[–]creativebiz-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

so you're saying you'd like a women who ignores her red pill imperatives, while you focus on yours?

[–]yankeetiger1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Sure she'll be attracted to a hunk of mineral that I'd buy for her.....but she'll be more attracted to me sticking to my beliefs on diamonds (refusing to buy a real one) and not caving into her like a beta.

[–]creativebiz-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

its clear you haven't studied the game very much by saying this.

one of the things i'm seeing here is that people aren't realising feminism came in to COMBAT poorly socialized guys. so we have the game to socialize ourselves better which they certainly didn't have in 1960

[–]yankeetiger0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

huh, that's a good point that has absolutely nothing to do with my response.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd only buy a ring that's made from a metal used for catalysis. Maybe I spent too much time in organometallic catalysis (chemistry), but to me that a DHV ;)

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That kid basically sealed his own fate if she goes to the one time.

[–]culofiesta -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Am I the only one that thinks rings are pointless and stupid? I'd rather buy her mutual funds or something that increases in value.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Rings are all right as long as they're made from a metal that's a good catalyst.

[–]Eifersuchtig2 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i love you

[–]HarleyWalker -1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She sounds like she has a victim complex. I love passionate women who wil try to hit me if I piss them off enough but if she's going to claim "battered wife" over me restraining her then we just aren't going to work.

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