TL;DR

I applied TRP theory to get a girl home, she fucked like a wildcat, best sex i've ever had in my life. After being spent, i found it hard to find the strength to keep frame, and messed up a post sex shit test. This is more of a discussion starter topic than me imparting my personal opinions and experiences because i've only been RP for a month.

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So I picked up the girl at the campus cafeteria. We kept in touch, we eventually met up 2 weeks later for a night out. I played my cards right, disappeared when i had to, dragged her off for a make out session halfway through the night (where i overcame her lmr), passed every shit test she threw at me and threw compliance tests at her left and right. Then towards the end we decided to head back to my place to smoke weed. Everything went well and we fucked hard.

After we were both through, i was in a state of post sex bliss, i was completely relaxed, exhausted and satisfied at the same time. And that's when i felt the dynamic started to shift. She was now leading the conversation, she was deciding what to do and what not to do (she didn't want to cuddle for example) and i know if i was dominant enough i could get her to do what i want. But
a) I didn't have the energy or strength to impose my will on her anymore and
b) i also didn't really care. She decided not to sleep over and walk home late in the night. I shrugged it off and gave of an "i don't care if you leave or stay vibe" she apologized for not staying over before she left.

The shit test where i lost frame was briefly after sex when she put on her clothes to go to the bathroom and i told her to take them off after she came back. She put up some ressistence to which i repeated a phrase i've been uttering throughout the date night "i see what i want and i take it". To which she suddenly got upset saying that it made her feel like we didn't just share something profound and stuff like that. To which i backpedaled a little bit and mentioned that i was just talking about the pants.

We met a day after and after i got my energy back i was back to leading.

Conclusion/Questions
How do you guys deal with the girls directly after sex? I read often that that's a good time to show some affection to minimize slut shaming, and build long term attraction with plates, but at the same time you don't wanna go full beta and tear down all the hard work and game you've put in throughout the date night.

edit: formatting