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[–]AspiringMathsGuy10 points11 points12 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Making girls jealous works if they're somewhat reluctant to admit they're into you.
She threw herself at you and you made her look dumb, OP.
[–]KartagoPill2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women hate when they look dumb remember that
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[–]JonMan2190 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The club is just the venue we went to. The girl would been into me despite where we went. I'm just a little disappointed in myself for not escalating like I should of.
[–]Mpcfiend0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pride is not something to be happy about. Pride only causes suffering, never does it actually help. I do agree with your advice tho, go all in or dont bother showing up at all
[–]DouglasPR0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
agreed, clubs are shit test temples. one must act accordingly
[–]Atlas-XIII2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Your mistake was that you categorized in your mind as hb9 and the "hottest in the group".Probably the reason you couldnt escalate.Been there,done that lost the deal as well.Making her feel jealous is a good move you lost it by not gaming her afterwards. Take it as a lesson,next time wont happen again.
I mean I wasn't shy or anything. The thing is we're Dominican, and Dominican women LOVE men that dance. The fact I didn't dance with her and danced with her friend instead probably made her feel like it was an official rejection based on my actions. But yes, escalation is a problem for me period.
[–]hawk44331 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The mistake I see is that you made the girl jealous which is good, but you never reengaged with the "hot" girl. She was being a bitchy jealous girl and you obviously took offense. No emotions in game brother. Good learning experience though, next time you'll do different I bet. Curious though, why didn't you try and hook up with the girl you danced with?
I wasn't feeling her. I've known her for years and she's married. She wasn't that into me either we were just dancing as friends. She was trying to put her friend on with me the whole time. I never really took offense, but I did exude a little bit of bitterness in my tone when we were in the other venue.
[–]Jakei340 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You win some
You lose some
[–]JonMan219-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I guess, but I just feel like an idiot.
[–]evileddy-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But you tried and learned something. Idiots don't do that. :)
[–]JonMan219-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I was surprised that a cute girl like that was actually into me. But now I feel bad because I won't have opportunities like that again. This was only a one time thing, my friend is leaving back to Indiana tomorrow, my social circle sucks, and i'll probably never see that girl again.
[–]MaxManus-1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ey man.. you did everything right.
You did your thing and as you said yourself you don't need that low energy in your life.
Sex is defenitly better if you have a connection and she is submissive in some kinda way.. and not salty.
I have turned down a few HB 9s in my life aswell and I think it is fine if your standarts are more than physical to even just fuck. ( I like fuckbuddys).
Why didn't you try to get the other girl home that you danced with instead?
She was just a friend. I've known her for years and she's married. I wasn't really into her that much, she was trying to put her friend on with me throughout the night.
[–]2kez880 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He didn't do the right thing, he failed to escalate, acted liek a lil bitch, was insecure, in scarcity, fucked up his timings of when to apply dread or not, and pretty much screwed up a sure thing. In his own words he thought she was really hot, implying he wanted to fuck her.
At least you've realised your mistakes OP. Next time, just fucking go for it, get out of your head and go have some fun.
Honestly, this went to shit because I didn't dance with her...
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