Intro

Three things I've noticed after taking the pill for two years.

Body

Be very grateful for The Red Pill

Most likely every member of this community has been in mental masturbation mode. When I was in that phase I was also looking up other content, namely from the pickup community. Now that everything is going right in my life again, all I can say is thank fuck for The Red Pill and no other community. The key thing about The Red Pill is that it advocates you to fix yourself before getting laid. For instance, getting in shape, finding your mission and whatnot. Pickup however is simply don't be a bitch, go out and talk to women. This only partly fixes your conversational skills and nothing else, while The Red Pill fixes everything. The most successful dating coach out of the few I know is the only one who applies Red Pill principles to his clients.

Two months ago, I had no idea a woman I went out on a single date with was an Instagram model until she told me and showed me (it lead to nowhere as I was kind of shocked). I told a pickup group I'm part of, as well as my red pilled friends, proud I was able to get this date. Instantly the pickup group turned against me, while my red pill friends congratulated me. This is when I realised that the guys into pickup never really wanted to fix themselves and just wanted to use girls as validation, and it seems an Instagram model is the highest level in that case. Since that date, the only other person I know who has been able to do anything with model quality girls is a red pilled friend. I wouldn't say it's a coincidence. The people in that pickup group continue to hate me whilst writing shitty field reports and ignoring their personal issues.

TRP is also completely free. Programs will try to string you along with garbage so that you end up mentally masturbating to a product from them. Honestly, TRP's structure is unmatched, simply because it's reality. Be grateful. It helps you stay humble too. I put TRP into negative visualisation as such.

Do not introduce TRP to your chodey clueless friends

This point is very specific. Naturally when we become red pilled we want our friends to know. This shit is unmatched. We want to form our own Avengers. Don't. Only give it to friends who have already shown potential and similar ideologies.

When I was less experienced, I shared this sub with three friends. Two of them were absolute chodes with zero success with life in general, while one of them had some success in the past and good ideologies already. I'm much closer with the latter one now. However, the two chodes not only did not swallow the pill, they spat it out and now think I'm the devil. Side point: You don't really have competition. Under the Pareto principle (80/20 rule), 80% of men will dry up women's vaginas themselves as well as keep failing at things, blaming other people. I directly observed this from the two chodes I shared this sub with.

Do not get too comfortable, revisit the sidebar

I hit a dip in my success with women a few months ago. I started failing shit tests, and unknowingly. Simply put: If you're in this sub, your subconscious state is probably highly cringeworthy beta behaviour. I'd say until it has been at least a decade, you have not yet trained your subconscious to be aligned with The Red Pill. I've had to hit the side bar again twice now.

Conclusion

This has all been written from personal experience. At one point I became incredibly cocky after my first string of successes after swallowing the pill. After everything inevitably went to shit, I observed the Dunning-Kruger effect in myself (the less you know, the more you think you know). Which is why my first point is gratefulness. I regret sharing this sub with those two friends, as they might now use the knowledge that I'm a red piller to hurt my reputation - summing up my second point. The Red Pill is so real. And honestly, I owe my life to the founders and the man who linked me here. After so many ups and downs, everything in my life is going right, this time hopefully for good. Thank you all, and I hope my post has provided strong value.

Take away points:

  • Stay humble
  • Don't try to fight a basically mathematically proven force of nature, chodes will be chodes
  • Read the damn sidebar