I had good day today. It was a lot better than yesterday for sure. Work was good, wasn't that bad. Right after work I was heading to the gym, back and bicep today. I didn't feel stifled today. I immediately approached this girl who caught my eye. Gave her a compliment and left. It was a warm up set.
After that as I was crossing the intersection to head to the subway another girl caught my eye. Thank god there was a red light. I opened her directly, teasing if she was tourist. She was heading to work and I was teasing her a bit. We walked and talked and I got her number. It was a fake number but nonetheless it proved that I was on a better track than yesterday.
Same block, another gorgeous girl appeared. I used a direct opener. Teased her being a tourist, talked a bit. Got her number, possibly a date for this weekend, but my gut says no, ha. There were other girls in that area that I could have opened but I had to get to the gym other wise I wouldn't have time later after my workout to go approach.
On the train platform I saw this cute girl with a nice jacket. Guess what? I approached her, used a indirect opener. She was receptive and we chatted, didn't go for the number as she had to get off at the next stop and I felt like I didn't create enough rapport to pull off the quick number close.
The gym session was good. Got a good workout in. I'm definitely going back to Strength training. Short story, I'm skinny fat. However I am kinda strong. Been lifting for years but nothing. The main issue is my yo-yo dieting. My goal is to look decent by September so three months of solid dieting, and strength training. Going to run a variation of Starting Strength. The big five, but swapping out back squats for front squats for one day, adding weighted chin ups and incorporating Romanian dead lifts, Reverse Pyramid Style training.
After the gym I went to go get a quick post workout meal. Yams and basa, which actually tasted really good. I was flirting with the cashier, I held eye contact and I felt like she was kinda into me as we were just small talking back and forth, making her laugh. I know shop girls are supposed to be nice but it was a good boost to my mood, made me feel good. As I sat down to eat there was another sitting right next to me. I opened her, direct, told her she was cute, maintained eye contact.
She was blushing and I know for 100% I made her day. Turns out she worked there, haha. As I left I turned to the cashier and we both said bye, she smiled and gave me a little wave.
As I left there was a girl that was on her phone, approached her. I guessed everything right about her, her nationality, major everything, however it wasn't enough, as I wasn't building attraction. It felt like the conversation was on thin thread, about to snap any moment. She said bye and left, oh well.
Opened a few more girls, approached this cute white girl and was teasing her. She had an accent and was trying to make the conversation a little sexual. Turned out okay, still felt a little uncomfortable but played it off cool. Got her number and moved on.
There were other women that I wanted to approach but my approach anxiety and the people around got the best of me. It's frustrating seeing these women and I can't act on it. I ended the session short as I was heading back home. As I was waiting for the train I decided to open this girl who was on her phone. Turned out great as we had a good conversation. Bantered with her and got her number as she got off her stop.
Got a good session in today. I need to work on my eye contact a little bit more. I want to get to the point where I'm super comfortable looking at someone in the eye. I'm slowly getting there. Tomorrow is going to be nice out, going to go for a longer session.
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