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Elbow bump, you're thinking too much.
/r/seduction29/10/20 07:43 PM
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Good summary, learned a lot, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 03:31 PM
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Fantastic advice.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 05:45 PM
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I see someone been watching some Jocko.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:23 AM
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Facts. It's not good to have a reputation.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:22 AM
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Definitely. You're right on that point.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:21 AM
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Go for it. You may never know what's going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:21 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 02:19 AM
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Assumption are good. Kino not so much.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:10 PM
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Great advice. Will try it out.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:44 PM
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Thanks. Go for it, man. What do you have to lose?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:41 PM
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Oh, honestly I don't pay attention to that. To me those are things that are irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:39 PM
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Thanks bro, appreciate it. Are you in NYC?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:36 PM
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It's really fun if you make it fun. Having a wing will make things easier in the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:35 PM
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Haha, I say something similar.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:03 PM
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Definitely. You pointed out a flaw in my game, I'm not qualifing her, I'm simple seeing I'm fit for her while it should be the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:02 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:59 PM
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Usually what she does for a living or what she's wearing. Teasing her and so forth.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 01:58 PM
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Yes! Thinking about the bigger picture is important. I forgot about that, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:23 PM
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I have the book. I have to re read it again.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I'll keep that in mind and experiment.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:21 PM
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Interesting. I have the book at home. I'll take a look at it again.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:20 PM
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Just go for it. Start small.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 12:20 PM
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The "prize" mentality is still something that I need to work on. With that takes time.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:00 AM
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It's all in your mind and preception of things. Pickup is not easy. The most important thing when gaming is HAVING FUN. If you're not having fun then you're not going to have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:59 AM
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I'm definitely going to try that. Thanks. Good points as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:56 AM
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I like your advice. I will have that mentality instilled.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 09:56 AM
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Either you can make the club more pleasing to woman or just accept it and do things solo.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:44 AM
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Good, be the best one there.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:14 PM
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So join a club or better yet, organize one. Be a leader of men and start a group. People respect others who take initiative.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:13 PM
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What she does etc. Or talk about what's going on at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:12 PM
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Yeah you're right. Never thought about that untill you pointed out. It made sense last night when she became quite and closed off. You live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:11 PM
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If you think talking to women is shameful then you really need to fix your beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 08:06 PM
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I stop thinking in HB. The way I perceive it is 1 and 0, hot or not.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 07:59 PM
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Facts. That will take time but I will reach there.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:14 PM
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Cold approach is one of many ways. If you want to do both then go for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:13 PM
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Like my name and a compliment about them. Talk about what she does or something and go from there.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:12 PM
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Thanks. The girls I met were all on the street. You can approach anyone, you just need to muster the courage.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:11 PM
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Thanks bro. It's a little less than 50% but getting better.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:10 PM
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True. That will come with time.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:10 PM
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I'd recommend you do it somewhere not your campus. You will get rejected a lot. The last thing you want is the be labeled as "that guy" who tries to hit on every girl on campus. Instead go to another well populated area and game. At school join clubs and fraternites and build that social value.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:07 PM
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Go for it. It's a nice warm up.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 09:05 PM
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Nice Field report. Any advice for being a successful lone wolf?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 02:49 PM
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It's a nice refresher. Being reminded of the basics always help.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:24 PM
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No more books. Go out and approach. To much information will cause you to overthink. Don't fall into what others do, theorizing. Go out.
/r/seduction21/06/18 02:13 AM
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That's good to know. I'll have to think about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 01:53 AM
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I felt like I asked this before but is a paid live stream available? Or next day VODs? Once I make it in life I am definitely going to attend these events. Thank you, Anthony and I appreciate all the hard work you put in for the red pill community.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 08:32 PM
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How do you build a rock steady inner game? I finally understand that being alpha is a mindset. Yet, I find it really difficult to build a solid inner game and mindset. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 08:35 PM
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I'm sure Leo doesn't give a fuck about gaining a few pounds. The dude made it. His god status alone compensate for everything. If he really wanted to he could be big and shredded.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:13 PM
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I guess this a female equivalent to "Alpha fucks, beta bucks". These women are just mad that they couldn't score a man like Leo. It's a shame, instead of complaining and being a victim they could of use that energy and make themselves better.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:11 PM
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It's the internet. You get a wide variety of people.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:05 PM
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Depends on your goal. At the end of the day it's your body.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 04:05 PM
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Then go for it, bro. Post when you have your channel started. I'll subscribe to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 07:23 PM
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Super saturated and dry. Do people really need another chest video? Probably not. I'm guessing you don't want to go that route and use your phsyque to draw people in.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 04:56 PM
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Yes, I agree with you. Let's go further and take drawing for example. If you draw the same thing over again you won't grow, in order to be a better artist you need to challenge yourself and draw that object either in a different angle, perspective or move on to a different object. If you're not progressively overloading in your life then you won't be the person you aspire to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 05:16 PM
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Do you guys have a self improvement routine besides the gym? I'm curious to know some of your guys routines.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 05:46 PM
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Can we leave the front page like this for a good solid month? What else is there to post? Advice that's been repeated over and over? No thank you. Basics and re reading post is better.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:32 PM
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When learning and building a habit out of it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 04:11 AM
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I have been doing well in improving myself everyday. Learning 2 languages, coding, reading more books as well as re-reading older books, drawing and designing. It's tedious and there are times where I don't feel like I'm improving but it's the micro things, the 1% daily increases that add up.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:50 PM
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Well, that something you have to figure out on your own. You're going to have to do some introspection and self evaluation.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 09:09 PM
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That fear is going to stay with you unless you work out your inner beliefs. I used to be like that. I've learned to take everything(relationship, women, dating) with a grain of salt. Always have a backup.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:32 PM
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It could be both. Tease her back for being old and ignore her. Honestly do you really need people who put you down like that? No. Tease her that's she's jealous and that she couldn't deflower you and this young girl is with you. Stocism, pay no mind to sheep.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:30 PM
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If you study and prepare you should be feeling more confident. Stress is normal but it all comes down to hard work you put into studying. There is a saying when you set a goal it actually takes a bit longer than you initially set. When you think you studied enough you're actually just half way there.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:27 PM
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Do you. They already established you as BP, it's going to take a long time for them to see you as something different. Ignore them, change and when you meet new people in the future they will hopefully see you less BP.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:23 PM
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You have to take people on NoFap with a grain of salt. It could be the law of attraction or it could be someone else. Test it for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:22 PM
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My advice, prioritize what's important. Lifting and nutrition should be up there. When it comes to heavy studying and papers have the mindset of being the best in your class. Secretly make everyone an academic rival of some sort. Being in med school is tough, hang in there.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:20 PM
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What are some of your guys favorite book? I just one of the Dresden File book, now re-reading The Forgotten Highlanders. Fiction, sci-fi whichever.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:15 PM
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It's more like saving face. A woman reject you? Say a warm goodbye and vent your frustration somewhere else. Boss at work is up your ass? Deal with gracefully and deal with the anger elsewhere(gym, boxing bag etc.). It's holding frame and dealing with the feeling of suffering(emotion pain, sometimes physical) in private.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:23 AM
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My problem is finding like minded people. I want to surround myself with people with the same drive but don't know where to look.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:39 PM
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Suffer in silence. No one cares about you. Do not give a fuck. Always strive for improvement. Be optimistic. These are some that I remind myself of.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:28 PM
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This hurts my heart just reading it. I can only imagine the amount of pain this person is going through right now.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 05:21 AM
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Reminds me of the foreveralone sub, give advice but they believe that changing is impossible and that good looks triumphs everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:08 PM
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Agreed. It's how you say it. Say it like a dork, you'll look like a dork.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:04 PM
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Tease them. Talk to them normal but add light teases here and there. Practice makes perfect.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:01 PM
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Did great this whole week. Was able to be disciplined and worked on the things that I needed to do to be successful. Read my fiction book, 2 chapters a day. Took notes while I read the 48 Laws of Power. Practiced drawing. Started coding. Meditating everyday and done a week of NoFap. I feel like I'm doing way to much and I need to cut down on certain things in able to fit time for other things. Goals for next week: -Spend no more than $100 -Eat clean and whole foods -Continue with my self learnin…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:21 PM
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Tips to dealing with sass and attitude? I'm trying to incorporate law 4, always say less than necessary. I find it hard to hold my tongue, I feel like I need to stand up to myself when confrontation happens. My job has a lot females and the sass is real.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 02:15 PM
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Not butthurt at all. I don't really care about strangers over the Internet.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 01:20 PM
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I'll write whatever I want. Like I said before, if you don't like it you can fuck off. I'm amazed that my post is bothering you. You really must be "alpha".
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 12:28 PM
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How do you become more confrontational? Is it better to confrot people or ignore them as they are a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:04 PM
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If you don't mind. Frame is tricky, I always thought it was stocism and that you just be to yourself when people challenge you(verbal banter, etc)
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 08:39 PM
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I'm asking for some reference on frame, that's why this thread is created. You're not answering my questions so why the fuck are you replying?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 04:31 PM
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Anyone here can give me a basic plan to build frame? Like a ELI5 version. Any good guides out there that are a must read? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 11:05 PM
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I needed to read this. Got bitch slapped by the truth yesterday. I cried last night and I want to use all of this frustration to prove this bitches wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:04 PM
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How does one meet like minded people? Or like people with similar goals. It would be cool to find and meet people in similar situations.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 03:36 PM
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That's what I've been thinking. With a number it can be fake but with an IG you know it's real. Thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:47 PM
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I just started an Instagram, any tips to build my brand up. Would getting a girl's IG be better than a number? Thoughts?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:41 PM
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Bro, I've approached well over 200 in my journey. I got one lay but instead of thinking to negativitly of my results I thought of it as a learning process. Seduction is NOT easy. It's a takes a while to get good.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:01 PM
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Dating has been rocky for me. I never see the girl after the first date. It's getting frustrating. I would take them out, drinks or coffee. Sometimes I'll get the make out and other times I don't. If I go out with a woman, there is a 80% chance that she'll either ghost me or text me that she's not interested. Any ideas? Tips? Not kiss on the first date? I had many dates where it went well, she's enjoying herself and I don't hear from her again. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:00 PM
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Thanks you for the support bro. I really appreciate it. I'll try to update more often.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:27 AM
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I'm cutting weight right now. Eating at a deficit and carb cycling.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 01:26 AM
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Thank you for the advice, really appreciate it. You're right, I don't have much confidence in myself. Lately I've been feeling depressed and it takes so much effort to stay positive. I've been listening to stand up comedy lately but the effect is wearing off. I've tried a lot of things to stay happy but it just doesn't stick.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:45 AM
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I know that chasing women is not the best thing to do. Will keep your advice in mind.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:42 AM
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Thanks bro. She wasn't my ideal type, she more petite. I believe it was my diet that caused me to have a low libido as well as nervousness.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:41 AM
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Porn is not the issue, masturbating is. I can masturbate without porn.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:40 AM
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Yes, that is true. I do have goals.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:39 AM
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It took about 4 months of constant approaches. Everything was cold approach.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 12:38 AM
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Thank you for the support. I did give myself a pat on the back but I'm the type to be pessimistic about things, trying to change that part. I will definitely try your advice out, however this girl didn't shave and eating her out was kinda uncomfortable, haha.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:59 PM
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Your actually really, really right. I've forgotten my mission and I'm glad I realized what I need to do.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:57 PM
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Thanks man, really appreciate the support.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:56 PM
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I'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:56 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it. I find it hard to keep updating and posting but will try to.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:55 PM
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Nerves as in being nervous and performance anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:16 AM
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It's hard to say, I've been on and off Nofap. I would go good for a few days even weeks, fap and restart. I believe my cause of lack of libido was the nerves and diet(cutting).
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:08 AM
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Nope, been on NoFap for about two weeks before having sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 02:01 AM
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When it comes to NoFap, what worked for me was figuring out the benefits of it. I realized that by not masturbating I have more energy and drive to approach women. I'd come up with other positive things like; better communication skills, more energy. You also have to remember that everyone is different. Everyone has their way of dealing with NoFap, boxing, writing, exercising etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:34 AM
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I'd recommend watching a YouTuber name Thomas Frank. He has a lot of videos on studying and doing well in school.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:31 AM
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I'd recommend watching a YouTuber name Thomas Frank. He has a lot of videos on studying and doing well in school.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:31 AM
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Being in a big metropolitan city is a huge plus. I daygame in NYC and it's really great. If the club/night scene is great at your area then go for it. However if you're really want to daygame I'd suggest saving as much money as you can and try to find a similar job at a big metropolitan city. Use those 6 months at that pop city to learn the basics of game. Start with a simple smile and eye contact as you walk down the street. This might sound easy on paper but when you're out there you'll find i…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:27 AM
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Thanks bro. Really appreciate the support. I was thinking about making a post about it everything that happened so far. AskTRP is a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 12:19 AM
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So after grueling months and month of being on this "Seduction Journey" I finally got laid. Me and this girl went out, I went for it, went to my place and fucked her. I wasn't relieved that I got laid, I was relieved that I was making progress and was amazed at how far I have gotten. I still have many things to work on and one lousy lay means nothing. I do however been slacking on my meditation, reading and playing Dual N-Back.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:05 PM
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No Dual N-Back? Positive thinking? Reading actual books? Food is important as well to develop a good brain. Throw in public speaking and you'll be sharp as ever.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 12:27 PM
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Is there a way to view the convention at home?. A virtual seat or ticket. I would love to make it but work and bills are a priority. I'm sure you considered a payed live stream for the event.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 11:23 AM
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Reducing the negative thoughts and filling the rest with positivity. You cannot completely get rid of negative thoughts and emotions, it's part of life. You can however distribute the ratio, 7:3 or somewhere along those lines. Emotional mastery is not letting external and internal things(beliefs, work, family, people etc) dictate your emotions which in turn dictates your thoughts which then controls your actions.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:27 AM
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I realized that there was other more important things to work on. I'm still approaching and learning but I figured out that my mental attitude and emotions is causing me grief and pain. It's not easy to reprogram your mind after 10+ years of negativity and a unpleasant upbringing.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:17 AM
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Especially in this sub. Too many advice that spurt around here and not focusing the most important thing that makes you "alpha"
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:14 AM
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You need both. It's like driving a nice car, sure it looks nice but without a proper engine it'll break down after a few miles.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 01:12 AM
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Everybody is different. I'm more willing to approach that girl. On the other hand, I get more stressed out and a simple thing as nexting a girl will get me frustrated. I'm back on NoFap, simple because my anxiety and social awkwardness is slightly reduce.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 03:34 PM
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You're plan sounds good but it's missing two thing. Mental and emotional mastery. We humans are not machines, we get tired, we get emotional and when things don't go our way we let the negativity and our emotions dictate our life. I realized the hard way that mental and emotional health is really important. I believe it should be number one in anything. You can have the best action plan out there but without the proper mindset and emotional balance it will make you even more miserable and get yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 03:31 PM
1

I got catfished too many times. No more online dating, its a waste of time for me. I used to spend hours on OKC, answering those dumb questions, thinking "This will defiantly get that girl to respond and go out with me" NOPE! I used to see the same girls on there for years. I got the pro upgrade and it made things worse. Sure I can see if they saw my message and I can bump my profile so more people can see it but it wasn't worth it. That cute girl that I messaged? she read it but didn't respond.…
/r/seduction13/08/17 02:31 PM
3

If she doesn't respond in 24 hours then you know your answer. Women will gladly give out their contact or in this case her social media just to get attention or get more people in her friend list. Don't take it too personal. Accept it and move on, don't let the thought consume and dictate your emotions. At the end of the day, its a woman.
/r/seduction13/08/17 02:12 PM
1

Any advice for someone trying to raise his SMV? Besides the obvious ones?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 11:50 PM
3

Your post made me laugh and made my day. Thanks, I needed it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 06:37 PM
0

Good post. The most important aspect of eye contact is getting practice. You're not going to get good by simply fixing your inner beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 11:25 AM
2

Any tips to be more positive? I've been on a positivity streak and I want to change certain beliefs. Taking the red pill and reading all these stories makes my blood boil. Any advice on seeking true happiness?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 04:48 PM
1

Moral of the story? Work on yourself and have abundance. Live an interesting life and improve.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:43 PM
1

How does one acquire power? I knew you have to read the 48 laws of Power and get big but is there any other methods or routines?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:28 PM
1

Thanks bro, really appreciate it. I know my game is not where it wants to be, the only thing that hold me back is my mind, beliefs and not taking action.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:18 PM
2

Thanks bro. Appreciate it, I do want to learn how to dance(hip hop) but my priorities are conflicted, I need to build my finances up and I need to save up for a personal thing. I can try to learn on my own but I feel like dancing, just like martial arts, is better learned through a class/teacher.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:17 PM
2

That sounds good but for some reason this girl is not on my mind. I'll send a text tomorrow or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:12 PM
1

Thicc girls are amazing. Thanks for the support. I got it backwards, bulk till the end of December then cut till August. I'm on the chubbier side so I need to cut a tad bit longer. The thing about bars is that if I fuck up I have to stay at the venue. The thing love about daygame is that if a set doesn't go well, I can leave and venture of to another area. I debating about the podcast or YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 04:11 PM
1

I'm lucky enough to live in very populated area so I'm not an expert on picking up women in the supermarket. Tom Terero says that if you live in a small city or town and you want to good get at this, move. Move to a bigger metropolitan area, otherwise you're going to have a difficult time.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:19 AM
1

I like your advice. The thing is that I want to do night game but I have to work around 7 and sleep is super important. Not now but one day in the future I'll dive right into night game. Thanks for the suggestion, I really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:36 PM
1

We'll see. Thanks for the support. I really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:28 PM
1

What do you mean? There are tons of places where I approached these girls.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:27 PM
1

I used to read some of those. Those post were great. I might need to go back to that sub, maybe post some of my journals there.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:27 PM
2

I'm in the learning phase as well. Ask yourself if this is something you want.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:26 PM
2

Thanks for the advice. I'm not a big fan of hip hop/R&B. Will try to use some of your suggestions.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:25 PM
1

Yeah I looked at that. It's helpful but in my case I need to go out there and approach.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 11:24 PM
50

Great post, however you don't want to have high expectations. I've been in the situation countless times where women(men too) just don't want to talk or just not interested. It all comes down to your SMV(Clothes, body, tonality). Not everyone is social or know basic communication skills. You're dropping a hook. Say something to a girl, if she doesn't respond or body language is off cut your loss and move on.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 03:42 PM
1

Wow these are great. This can really help me out.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 05:10 PM
7

You're right, it is irrational.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:42 AM
1

Thanks, trying not to. It's hard but manageable.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 02:13 AM
2

Fucking fatties is not what I signed up for. It opened my eyes and showed me the other perspective.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:14 AM
0

I'm slowly trying to incorporate that. Social circle is important, not for just game or getting laid but for support and chilling.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:11 AM
2

Thanks for the encouraging words, really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:09 AM
1

How about you go suck a dick. Go do that 6 days a week, suck it 3-4 times a day and come back in a year.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 12:08 AM
0

You might see a 4 while others see a 10. Everyone had their own taste and preference.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 03:42 PM
2

What's wrong with having a different external motivation? I know women should not be the prize but it's better than sitting home and not doing anything. If it came down to doing it for yourself a lot of people would not go to the extra mile to get lean/muscular, they just simple do basic curls, treadmill and eat like shit. Lifting is part of sexual strategy, why do think it's mentioned in 95% of post here?
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 03:08 PM
2

25% of those numbers would lead into dates. To be honest I get a lot of no responses. It's a numbers games.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:18 AM
1

Based on the article on Monk Mode and the post I've seen here on TRP, it shown to produce amazing results. I feel like I'm missing a lot of things in my life. I feel hollow, if that makes sense. I have no idea where to stsrt
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:15 AM
1

I'll getting there haha. I was fooling around. I know she wasn't into me and I filled in the blank for her.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:13 AM
0

Anyone here do improv? What's your experience? Does it help with seduction?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:27 PM
0

Wow that's your reason? Change doesn't happen overnight. I'm laughing.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 10:08 PM
2

By all means, go ahead. I find it funny that you're taking this to heart. I'm happy that I'm pissing you off.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:59 PM
6

Bro, you do know I'm a beginner right? With a full time job and other things. It's a process. I went from not able to approach to getting dates. Calm your tits, this is my journey. If you don't like this, then don't read it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 07:01 PM
0

It's you again! How are you? I still see you have this crazy thoughts about me. I love how you just know my life based off a FR.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 10:05 AM
1

Please, do tell. I'm giving my results of the day, if you're not getting numbers them how on Earth are you going to keep in contact with them in the future? Also it's a vague FR, don't read too much into the lines.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:24 AM
-1

Numbers are leads which lead to potential closes.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:23 AM
-1

If you don't close then what's the point in pitching your product?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 02:35 AM
2

I don't keep track of the number of approaches I do. I just don't feel like it. Thanks for the support, appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 12:35 AM
1

It's an eye opener. Moving forward I'll take everything with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 12:33 AM
2

Sarah is a generic name for the girl of the day/week I meet. They're not name Sarah, it's an easier way to know who I'm talking to. The equivalent of "an average Joe"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 03:12 AM
11

There is a lot of Indian/asian people here that complain about not being good with women.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 08:22 PM
18

Lmao, the second I saw the title I had a feeling it was an Indian guy. Props to you for holding frame and keeping your cool.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:34 PM
2

I approach a lot and I never gotten that. If they are not interested at all they would either walk passed me, say thank you or ignore me. I'm assuming this in bars, right?
/r/seduction25/06/17 01:12 AM
1

Good luck on the meetup, hopefully nothing bad happens. Can't wait to read about it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 03:33 AM
2

And your alpha? You make me laugh. Fuck off, I'll take your downvote.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 08:15 PM
1

Bro, read my fucking past post. I lift, asshole. You don't know my life so fuck off, don't make assumptions based on vague FR. Thank god you're not a mod.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 07:28 PM
2

It is, I'm not going to deny it. People move to big cities because of the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:30 PM
4

I honestly don't have social media. There are times that I feel like getting the SM would help but it shows how interested the girls are. There have been countless times where they asked for SM, I tell them I don't have one, they give me they're number and we go out on a date a few days later.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:18 PM
1

What approach? Women aren't saints, they know about game and tricks.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:16 PM
1

Pretty much anywhere. That's the beauty of NYC, once you get good at approaching in general you can do it anywhere. I did it yesterday after I came out of a court house.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 04:15 PM
0

Is there a guide, like a blueprint to become a 10% man. I know there's lifting and building your career, is there a guide here or some kind of blueprint you guys follow to achieve that?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 06:44 PM
0

Your right I guess but I feel like I should stop and try to kiss on the second date haha.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:28 AM
1

Definitely, looking back I made a ton of progress, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:28 AM
2

Thanks bro. Things about me? I suck with women, trying to get better. There are other things but I prefer to not say as I want to remain anonymous.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 11:27 AM
2

Wow, these are really good advice and reference. I've been focusing on two things; eye contact and voice. Any tips on those?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 09:50 PM
2

Haha. Yes, I drink a lot of coffee. I love coffee. Coffee is good for the soul.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:46 PM
2

Your right. My goal today is to not focus on the number but instead build a connection.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 04:45 PM
1

Thanks. I've been taking girls to bars and lounges.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 03:56 AM
1

I learned that recently on that one date date I had.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:02 PM
2

The thing is that I cringe when I watch infields. I know it's my ego and whatnot but I don't like watching other PUAs but if I want to get better I might need to start doing that.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:44 PM
3

It's takes time. It's a journey. "My Seduction Journey" is a bit too much, now that I think about it. Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 12:42 PM
1

For me I can go to the gym and do a workout. My problem is my diet. I'm cutting and I would go strong for a few days but when I have my rest days I get sloppy on my diet and more prone to break it. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 01:09 AM
2

Thanks, Im getting used it. In the beginning you have to power through it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:27 PM
1

Thanks for the advice, man
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:27 PM
2

Either way, it's a learning experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:26 PM
3

I lift. I mentioned it in my previous posts.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 04:25 PM
1

I will gladly accept your down vote. If you don't like what I do then don't read it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 01:13 AM
3

This is a great guide. I just went on a date and I wished I could of read this earlier. I've been journaling my dating life and it's nice to read about someone who gets the dating process. This thing, getting good with women and having a great dating life takes time. In my field reports, people be criticising me for actually taking the time to learn seduction. They think you can just lift weights and be good.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:19 PM
1

I did it for shits and giggle. Who cares?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:11 PM
2

Dude, relax. I'll do whatever I want. So I shouldn't go for the number? Is that what your saying. You basing things on a vague FR? You must know everything about me.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 04:09 PM
2

Thanks bro. One day I'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:28 AM
5

My weakness, thick asian girls haha
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:27 AM
2

On the weekdays I have limited time. Getting a number a day keeps me not rusty and it forces me to close.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 10:59 AM
6

I've read post how some people here treat women like "children" I've been reading The Book Of Pook and the same theme popped up, treat women like children. How does one go about doing that? When I hear that phrase I imagine just teasing them and speaking in a lighter tone.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:55 PM
1

That's what I've been thinking, but with the hot weather and these bitches showing more skin than ever, I feel like they put more of a bitch shield.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:46 PM
1

You bring up a good point. It's hard to think about the positive when getting blown out.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:44 PM
1

Pretty much. Im going to keep her around and practice on het(kino, flirting, escalating, eye contact, everything)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:42 PM
1

The first date is coffee or drinks, getting to know the girl. I always go for the kiss on the first date if we're having a good time/vibe and she's very receptive to kino. I take them to the park after and we sit on the bench, I put my arm around her and bring her close. If she moves away then she's not down, if she let's me put my arm around her and doesn't mind me stroking her thigh then there is a high chance I'll be able to pull off the kiss. My date was pretty normal, I guess I'll just run …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:40 PM
46

Great job. I'm learning how to not give a fuck as well, it's hard as we are programmed to give fucks.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 02:24 PM
2

Wow, thank you for the advice. I really needed to read this. I like your ideas and approach to all this. Right now I'm having an internal struggle. I need to sit, think and plan a course of action.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 06:14 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I see what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 06:12 PM
1

Yeah, I see what you mean. Thank you for your insight, really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:30 AM
2

To be honest there is nothing that interesting. I know it sounds like an excuse but work, gym, approaching, self improvement takes up a lot of time. I have a purpose but that requires money.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:57 PM
1

Go for it. You'll doing better than glad the guys there. The most satisfying approaches I've done were around guys that just stare at the girl. I can see in their face, they wish they can go talk to that hot girl, they wish the girl talks to them. Nope it doesn't happen. I go approach that girl, I see their faces, disappoinment and anger. So go approach that girl, you may never know.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:53 PM
1

Pretty much jumping through rings of fire to get a date, huh? So much bs haha
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:13 PM
1

I see what your saying but what other option is there? My goal is to develop that skillet with women so that I have abundance and options. You're right on the numbers that's why it's important to be the best version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:10 PM
1

Sucks that has happened. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:06 PM
2

I should start eating more broccolli
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:05 PM
1

Thanks a lot. I like it that it's uncomfortable, less people doing it which it makes it easier for me.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:05 PM
1

Thanks for the solid advice. I knew if I push for sex it will come across as needy. I like you're plan, unfortunately I don't have my own place but she does. Whenever I'm in this situation I bring up cooking dinner together. We buy the ingredients together, but some wine, cook together and escalate from there. It worked a few times for me. What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 10:16 PM
1

I could of but she had to do some errands. I'd rather not count my chickens before they hatch.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 07:48 PM
1

Thanks. I figured no one wants to read a book. However, there is a lot that goes on that I want to include.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:56 PM
1

Nice. Ill start taking them and report any changes.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:08 PM
2

Thanks, appreciate it, man.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:08 PM
2

Thanks man, appreciate the support.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 05:05 PM
1

So just go into GNC and buy a bottle of 1000mg of Magnesium, huh?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:48 AM
1

I did a google search and it says that taking more than 350mg of magnesium can cause harm to the body. 1000mg? Won't that cause problems?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 02:30 AM
1

I didn't have much time. I had other things to do, getting a number a day is better than nothing. I see what you mean though.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:11 AM
3

I didn't have much time. I had other things to do, getting a number a day is better than nothing. I see what you mean though.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:11 AM
3

I'm cutting so 6 days working out is tough. I used to do 6 days, 3 weight lifting days and 3 Muay Thai days. I was exhausted. I would feel burnt out and exhausted. I'd rather do 3 days and focus on the other 4 on other things.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 01:08 AM
1

Yup, this goal is important.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:14 AM
9

You must be trolling. 6 days In the gym? You must not be doing strength training. Seduction with women starts off as a gimmick. I'm not not natural and I have a strong feeling you're not. Thanks for your advice.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 11:13 AM
2

Thank you, appreciate it. I do my approaches after work so like an hour or two. During the weekends I go for a bit longer. I lift three days a week and focus on self improvement(Reading books, writing, drawing, hobbies).
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 01:07 AM
1

Exactly. It's all part of the journey.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 09:28 PM
1

You hit the nail on the coffin. My goal is abstract. Right now my goal is to manage my approach anxiety. How do I do that? By just approching. Next is learning how to communicate with women. Obviously I want to get laid, who doesn't? But I tried in the past and got very little success. So now I'm trying a different approach. It's not easy but what the gym and other skills taught me is that things can be broken down to sub skills and that thing can be learned, it just takes time. I have a date to…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 08:55 PM
1

I'll go with the second one.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:42 PM
0

Relax, your basing my life based on a post? I appreciate the advice but I don't think you know that everyday is not going to be sunshine and rainbows. Noy everyday is going to be a good day. There are going to be bad days, that's life. I know there is a better way to handle it but don't preach like you never had a bad day or attitude. I get it, I fucked up, I could have handled it better. You do know this a journey right? I'm not just writing the good days but the bad ones too. Thanks for the ad…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:40 PM
2

Yeah, I see. My goal? Is to be good at seduction, not like RSD instructor kinda thing but have a skill set to go approach that girl, attract her and see from it from there. Pretty much having my dating life handled and not being afraid of women(romantically, of course.) As for the date, trust me I've done everything you wrote. She is just plain boring.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:35 PM
1

Thanks bro. Appreciate the constructive criticism. You don't​ tell me I fucked up but explain why. Honestly I was just bitter and mad yesterday. It snow balled into something bigger. Can you blame me for the last girl? Seeing a girl that didn't have the decency to reject you and tries to play it off cool. Try to confront them and they act like nothing is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 04:30 PM
2

Your right. I should just move on, thanks for the advice. I really appreciate your input.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:02 PM
1

Yeah, I guess being more honest will help. Thanks for the support
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:30 AM
1

Thanks man. I like your idea, I'll try it here and there but to be honest once they tell me they have a boyfriend, true or not it shows their true intentions. Don't want to waste time.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 05:31 PM
2

I'll keep that in mind. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:54 PM
1

Honestly, yes. Going out and approaching has been a great investment. These FR are about my approaches. Going in this journey is forcing me to improve in other areas of my life. Approching women is teaching me to develop thick skin, teaching me to develop a good frame. This journey of seduction is forcing me to evolve and improve my SMV. I'm reading books like How To Win Friends and influence people. 48 laws of power. The charisma myth. I'm not reading these books like any other book. I'm talkin…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 11:05 PM
2

Well I am a beginner. Are you in NYC? Your way is good too but here(In my experience) just going up and introducing yourself doesn't work. They will think your a salesman or someone trying to get them to sign up for gay rights.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 10:49 PM
2

Thanks bro, yeah she just wanted validation. To be honest I was just fed up yesterday. I don't need or want people like that in my life.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:27 PM
1

You're absolutely right. Working on myself should be the number one thing. Doing so will improve other areas. I'm in that beginner phase. Seduction takes time and practice. I do see your point of view and I appreciate the insight.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:26 PM
2

Thanks bro. Yeah I noticed that on TRP. People will post their best days a lot and their bad days only a few. The journey is the most important.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 04:23 PM
1

Yeah I've noticed. It feels great but I have a lot to learn.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 02:46 AM
2

Thanks bro. Yeah, I'm going to tell myself that before every daygame session. You should try the "Hit and Run" all you're doing is either giving her a complement and leave, you don't have to stay at all. Good way to warm up.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:33 PM
1

It is, but not a lot of people know how to convert it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:31 PM
3

Learning that as I go. I used to be very negative but slowly turning.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:30 PM
19

I got cat fished so many times by dating apps and websites. I remember those days feeling down sending messages after messages on OkCupid just to get nothing in return. Reading these generic profiles that they claim it's them. "I love to laugh" yeah, bitch so does everyone else. Getting my hopes up when a girl message me back just to get depressed when the stop responding. Getting a subscription and seeing that they infact read your message but never replied. Fuck dating apps and websites. I'm s…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 02:27 AM
7

I'm going on two weeks. What I've noticed with me is that I'm more likely to approach as before I had to do mental gymnastics just to go approach that random girl. I feel sharper and calmer. It's strange because usually during two weeks of NoFap I would be crazy horny but taking cold showers twice a day really suppresses the urge.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 07:21 PM
12

Good job bro. Experience is king.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 04:02 PM
7

Props for taking on a purple belt, while going for a month of NoFap.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 04:00 PM
8

I can relate with the jealousy, it's tough but that's where introspection comes in. What does that person have that you can work on?
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:59 PM
1

The harsh truth is that approach anxiety will never go away, you just know how to deal with that voice in your head better.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:55 PM
2

Definitely. Going to develop that mentality. There are many things I should be doing but it's overwhelming. Baby steps.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:53 PM
4

This week has been good. I've been approaching a lot and made a lot of progress with my skills in dealing with women. Gym has been going decent. My problem is that Im not consistent with my routine and diet. I always switch things up instead. Time to stop that. Take note, people of TRP, Now till he end of August; Losing 1.5lbs a week, Starting Strength variation. No more switching. I'm skinny fat 175, if I g through with this I'll be at 160 by the end of August. What else? Reading and improving …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:47 PM
1

Honesty is the best policy haha. You should try it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:25 PM
1

Honesty is the best policy haha. You should try it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:24 PM
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I used to have a sales job but I had to quit as it was killing me, working a lot of hours and it was affecting my health and stress.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:23 PM
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I used to have a sales job but I had to quit as it was killing me, working a lot of hours and it was affecting my health and stress.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 01:23 PM
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Thanks man, really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:32 AM
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Not going to put a TLDR haha. Everything is a work in progress. I'm going to be honest. I'm not getting laid and I'm probably not going to for a while, realisticly. It's a journey where I'm not just learning seduction but fixing my life.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:32 AM
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Oh trust me I know. It's a process. Seduction takes time. I'm tryin to improve in other areas.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:29 AM
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I did, I should read it again. Not a fan of the whole "Is there a pet store?" Indirect routine.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:28 AM
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I do. Dud numbers and lack of response. It's a process
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:27 AM
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Go for it. It's not as scary as you think . Say a complement and leave. Baby steps.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 09:11 PM
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There is a book called; The Confidence Gap by Russ Harris. In the book one of the main core principles of confidence is; The act of confidence comes first then the feeling. Do the action that you fear and you'll feel confident as the more you do it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:28 AM
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Thanks bro, appreciate the comment.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:20 AM
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Thank you, really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:19 AM
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I feel the same way. It's tough but we should be glad that we both live in a huge city with tons of opportunities. I can only do 30lbs for 5, trying to reach a plate.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:19 AM
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Thanks bro, I really appreciate. I never tried night club game. Maybe I'll be good, who knows.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:18 AM
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I've been trying to join toastmasters but they always say that they're full. There meetup.com page is full as well.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:02 PM
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This is actually really great advice. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 07:57 PM
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Thoroughly reading HTWF&IP next is Charisma Myth.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:20 PM
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Any suggestions to improve communication skills? There is the obvious talk to everyone and practice, any other suggestions?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:54 PM
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Thanks, been doing that. Sometimes my body just does better.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 03:42 PM
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Exactly. you're going to suck when you start out but you get better with practice and time.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:06 AM
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Yeah a simple complement. Seriously? Im putting cream in my coffee and a girl who looks nice comes up next to me. I tell her I like her outfit, she smiles and says thanks. That's it. You have this perception of this guy stuttering and making a big scene. I'm not trying to get their number or anything. I'm not trying to get there number or anything. They say smile and says thanks or make small talk. Not everything​ is a set. Relax. From the way you try to justify yourself I get the impression you…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 07:11 PM
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No shit. Obviously a man is going to come across creepy, there is no question about it.I know you you're not accusing me, it baffles me that you just assume that I run around and approach anything. Im not socially stupid. I know theses things, as someone who used to not approach women because of the fear creep it's not what you read or see on TV. Who gives a fuck? I don't. It's that dumb mentality which is another form of AA that holds people behind. Girl things I'm a creep? I do that care, neve…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 06:22 PM
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You basing me a creep and a predator based on some vague approaches. Were you there? No. It's like what RSDTyler says; It's​ creepy learning pickup but it's even more creepier not knowing pickup.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:30 PM
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Your right. Of good to swtich things up. Indirect and direct right?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 03:56 PM
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Thanks bro. Yeah mixing it between direct and indirect. In the beginning I need a decent routine, once I get comfortable I can free style.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 02:47 PM
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So your saying I should not approach anyone at all and only if they make slight eye contact with me? So walk around aimlessly and being all SpiderMan 3 emo Peter Parker huh? Bring a creep is the last thing on my mind. Any stranger is going to be a creep. Even in the bar or lounge or whatever, that thought is going to appear to her. So what? A person first learning how to play basketball is going to suck, does that mean that person should stop. This whole being a creep thing is getting out of han…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 02:44 PM
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I honestly don't know. It obvious that I'm generating attraction. If there is attraction, it fizzled out fast. Any ideas? It's obvious that since I'm going back to the basics it's just basically a friendly conversation to her.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:48 AM
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I usually saw two things; "Hey this is random I think your cute and I just had to say hi" or complement them on something either there appearance or something. Its all practice.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:30 AM
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Exactly, it's important. Also if you don't like it don't comment on it. Just downvotes and move on. Win win for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:19 PM
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Just basically ask them them out for coffee or drinks. Nothing fancy, no long texts just text to meet up.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:18 PM
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Haha, that's a funny story. At least you went for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:17 PM
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Its not about being a master pickup artist. It's about being comfortable with women. Not everyone has that. I understand where you're coming from but we just live two different lives. You do you, I'll do me. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 02:51 PM
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I'll stop when I get good. But from the sound of it you're a pro. Are you in NYC? Please can you show me how it's done so I can stop. Since clearly you have your life handled and women flick to you.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 01:02 PM
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Hmm. Interesting, I'll try it out tomorrow, the pretend you've already fucked her mindset.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 12:51 AM
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I would love to attend but work and family has me stranded here. I like your advice. I do have debt but I'm slowly paying that off. My goal is to be in a career and be independent by 30(I live with my parents etc.)
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:49 PM
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Hey, Anthony, really big fan. I love the dedication and effort you put into your company, helping tons of guys, like myself. As a guy who messed up in his early twenties in dating, financial and career wise, what would you do in my situation to turns things around? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 11:21 PM
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The only reason why I used that is because it's easier to read and understand the FR
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 02:20 PM
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Been approaching a lot this week. Taking it seriously. I learning from the ground up. Just bought Tom Terero's book, Street Hustle. Can't wait to digest the information. My diet has been going well this week. Decided to go back to cutting. I am however slacking in my studies. I haven't been reading or studying enough. Will have to force myself to do it. I just bought Mel Robbins new book, The 5 Second Rule. One person recommend to me. It was $10 on Kindle so why not.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:10 PM
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Yeah I agree with you with the whole talking to guys. Practice makes perfect. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:27 AM
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Obviously the goal it to chad-esque buy it'll come with time. Your post made me realize that I'm actually trying to get something for the short term rather developing my skills for the long run. Instead of the number just focus on the interaction.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:25 AM
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Thanks for the encouraging words.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:23 AM
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I'm listing to the audio book of models now. It's a good book but many here says that, that Models is very purple pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:55 PM
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Damn, skin disease That's tough. Hope you get over it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:47 PM
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Book sounds interesting. Its funny I just watched Mel Robbins discussing the five second rule on YouTube. I honestly don't want to add another self book to my shelve. As with the flirting i don't know when if I'm actually doing it right. To me flirting is talking in a seductive voice making sexual innuendo. everyone has their own way right?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:46 PM
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On a NoFap streak. The thing about masturbation is that I feel more emotions and in my head when I dont but. There would be times where I would feel so anxious and depressed, weird.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:43 PM
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I like the idea of splitting things up into different categories. The thing about all this is that I'm in the process of fixing my life. Saving money to get back into school. I could be wrong but some these high value hobbies cost a lot money. It sounds cool but has your priorities every conflict with your life? I'm in that boat. The obvious one is to get my career started and live a prosper life but I feel like I'm missing a lot in life.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 10:45 PM
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Two questions. When holding frame, is it just being stoic and not showing any emotion? Whenever I think of frame I imagine someone getting to to me at work via talking shit or something and I have a blank expression the whole time, not taking the bait of the insults and lashing out in response. Second question is, how does one build a interesting life? I know there is hobbies and whatnot but Im overwhelmed by the amount of things out there. Where to start?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 03:32 PM
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Thanks for the heads up. I like books like these but there is so much fluff and filler.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 08:43 PM
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Yeah. Just Google it, you'll find it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:54 PM
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No, the handbook is a PDF that has the sidebar material as well as great post and comments from various user that add a more structured and detailed explanation of trp.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 10:30 AM
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Is there going to be an updated RedPill handbook? There is the second edition which came out years ago. Any chance an updated one is in the works?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 03:46 PM
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Any difficulties that you encounterd along the way?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:10 PM
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The anger phase is destroying me. I thought I was able to part it but after getting rejected a lot and seeing the hypergamy of women the frustration and anger is stronger. How can I get passed this? Its just frustrating that any bitch can get a guy with a snap of her fingers but a guy has to leap through fire just to get attention from that 6.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:29 PM
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What? Why? I would ignore you and move on. Fighting isn't everything. I stopped Muay Thai because my real life is shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:05 PM
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I just quit my Muay Thai gym. I understand what you're saying but I have other priorities. Martial arts in important for self defense but figure out your priorities. There is no point in spending all that money and time if you you don't have a career established, a car, your finance stable, your social skills. The way I see it martial arts is a luxury. If you want to learn self defense take a few boxing classes untill you know the basics then go find a regular gym and hit the bag there.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:15 PM
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It's a futile battle. You'll be fighting for generations. The only way to get your ideal world is through dictatorship. Honestly, why bother? Less stress, headaches. Some battle are better not fought. You know the truth, you've been unplugged. You have an advantage. Use it to prosper your life while your friends succumb to the mediocrity of the SJW-Feminist world.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:56 PM
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My condolences, it must have been so hard for you. I hope you get through this as soon as possible. It sucks that a single event can ripple into other parts and ruin a life. Stay strong, we're here for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:01 PM
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Any advice on acne scars? I have a few in my face. I've tried a lot of creams and whatnot but nothing seems to work.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:14 PM
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Facts. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to follow it. It's funny, you say no kissing on the first date but I just finished from a date and I made out with her lol. Ill try it your way
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:30 AM
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Facts. Thanks for the advice. I'm going to follow it. It's funny, you say no kissing on the first date but I just finished from a date and I made out with her lol. Ill try it your way
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:30 AM
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Its all bullshit. I know that once the tingles are gone they come up with the generic yet "understandable" excuse. The whole "still have feelings for my ex" is the most bullshit thing ever. Bitch didn't mention that in the first place now she brings it up? It all bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:25 AM
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My first dates is always coffee. Get to know the girl and what not. You bring up some points. Any ideas to spice things up?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:22 AM
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I do daygame so outside. I'm 25 and I'm quite forward. I go indirect with the approach but then ask them out on date. No beating around the bush. The girls I date generally are around 19-23
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:21 AM
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So last week the three women that I was seeing all want nothing to do with me. The same excuse keeps popping up though, they still have feelings for their ex/getting over them. It's frustrating hearing that excuse over and over. Any ideas? Also I have another question. I've been going out on a lot of first dates but a few third and fourth. The girls just lose interest after. I kino and chat and whatnot but I guess its not enough. Any ideas to improve my dates?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:46 PM
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Thank you for your input. Really appreciate it. I'm in that path of getting my life together. I know having a great body won't guarantee success with women but it's a nagging voice in my head that tells me that approching will be a lot easier if I had a nice phsyque.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:31 PM
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That's the main reason I want to achieve my phsyque goals. To feel confident and not worry about the way I look.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:28 PM
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Thanks I see your point. I do work on my game. I know having a great body is not going to get me amazing with women. I just feel like it'll be easier and It'll​ give more confidence.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:27 PM
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Guys who are muscular/ripped how has it changed your dating life? I know women love muscles and whatnot but I want to know some of your guys experience. Right now I'm in the process of getting ripped. I do daygame and I have this fantasy that once I become ripped and muscular that it'll be easier. I don't wanna have that expectations and then crash when it doesn't happen. I need some guidance.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:36 PM
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I knew it was an April Fool's joke. Good one.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 02:12 PM
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This week was great. Had a few success with my seduction goals. Had two dates this week, might have one this Sunday. Diet has been going great. I went back to eating 2000 calories​. I feel great. When I was eating at 1800 it felt impossible, which lead to stress and whatnot. April is starting which give me about three months to cut down more and get lean.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 03:47 PM
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It's funny because we we're talking about sex right after. We were both sharing our experience and what not. Her PDA is an all time low. I was foreplaying but she couldn't stop laughing because she says she's not that good. She flat out said we're going to have sex. Just waiting till the weekend, hopefully.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 12:00 AM
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Thanks. I have been acting like that. Cheeky sarcastic codencening. I guess I just have pass her test and whatnot.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:13 PM
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Oh I see, thanks. Any tips to pass suad shit test?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:11 PM
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I went out with a girl last night. Things were great but she told me she felt uncomfortable because she wasn't used to the guys having "more power" over her. She was saying that she was use to being the dominant one and by hanging out with me she felt uncomfortable. I told her in sexually way to dominate me. She laughed and explained that if she were be in control it would feel like I'm letting her, which she wouldn't like. Any thoughts on to go from it here? Its funny, I'm just my normal self. …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:26 PM
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You got it wrong. Logan was the only one capable of taking care of Laura. There were no other known mutants that can protect her. Sure he was forced but it was because Charles Xavier was his number one priority.The movie teachers TRP through Logan's not give a fuck attitude and his commitment to things that he knew it was a pain in the ass to do but HAD to do it for the greater good.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 03:19 PM
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Here are a few other things to add; Feeling lonely? Got talk to other women. Building your confidence/Not enough confidence? Go talk to women. Scared of women/approaching? Got talk talk to women to conquer your fear.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 08:41 PM
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I've been meditating more. I've decided to take it seriously, notice a few improvement. If I can't take my my mind I won't be able to achieve my goals. Approaching has been going well. I went out went a girl last night and made out with her which is a plus to me. After rewarding that post here on approching for skill instead of the girl, I feel like it changed the way I see deduction now. Obviously I want the girl but since I'm a beginner in daygame I'll have to treat it as a skill(no shit). I h…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:09 PM
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Anyone here meditate? I have been meditating for a while. Just want read other people experience of it and did it improve their lives in anyway?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:13 PM
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This a very good insight on game. Do you always have that mindset, I'm sure there will be a time where you just wanna get pussy and not care about the skill or process.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:03 PM
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That's good to hear. What were some of the improvement you saw? Or what were you trying to improve?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:12 PM
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I binged ate a lot on Tuesday. Experienced a heart break which lead to it. Now trying to get back to where I was. I completed reading one book mid March, which is great. Now I'm re reading some of my old books. I'm reading The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck by Mark Manson. I forgotten how good this book is. Enjoying the struggle is what Manson wrote in order to really achieve your goals. That made sense to me as you have to really enjoy the tedious grind of eating healthy and getting rejected a…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:47 PM
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Has anyone gone through sort of like a monk mode Rocky IV kinda thing where you just focus on yourself for months, grown a beard and train like crazy? I'm kinda in one right now. I've been reading up on monk mode but would like to hear others on their journey.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:27 PM
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Thank you. I needed to read this. I got heat broken today that snowballed into me questioning my goals. My life in shambles but I will get through this and survive.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:39 AM
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I took peoples advice from my last question. However I have another one. Any advice on approaching women around people. I can approach side to side but there times where it would be super benifical to approach in the front. I can muster my courage to do so but it's the people around me that I'm self conscious about. I know you're not supposed to give a fuck and that you'll never see them again. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:26 PM
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Yeah I had that before. I would be motivated and do ten things but burn out. Everytime I'll tell myself that this time will be the time I'll change for the better.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:26 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm doing for the month of March. I'm implementing for things that I want to instill in my life.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:24 PM
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Sounds like a plan. I'm on a healthy diet. Cold showers sounds like a good idea. Any tips for when it's like super cold?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:21 PM
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I definitely will look into that book but honestly I'm tired of buying more self-help books. I have a good amount of books and I feel like I should re-read the ones I have and implement them in my life before buying another one. Thanks for the suggestion though.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:17 PM
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Which I have to constantly remind myself, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:14 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I'm going to take things so by step and not worry about the short term.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:13 PM
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Good advice. I'll had visions before but it felt to me that it was an impossible feat to accomplish. However that's not going to stop me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:13 PM
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I learned that the hard way last week. I went to a sparring class, I figured I would do well since I used to do it, I took a three year hiatus. I came back and worked out on my own, working on technique. Nope. I was gassed out by the second round. My arms felt heavy. My so-called "technique" that I thought I had down was garbage. Sparring is a whole new game and it's not to be taken lightly.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:42 PM
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I'm having a difficult time improving my life. Everyday feels like I'm living day to day. I try to change things up but I feel like everyday is the same. Is there like a model or a guide to fully fix one's life for the better? I know there is the gym, work and stuff but I'm the type that needs a structure.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:36 PM
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Do people actually believe this? For a second I thought this a joke or something. I feel like they are running out of things to complain about.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:29 PM
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1450 calories?! Holy fuck. I'm doing 1900 and dread lowering it in the future.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 05:25 PM
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I'm going to be honest this week wasn't a good week. I have been slacking on my goals. I've been living day to day, not focusing on the big picture or trying to incorporate good habits to fix my life. The only thing that I can think of is my diet being on point. For next Friday I want to get back into reading; minimum 15 pages to a chapter. The second thing is meditating for a good full week; Minimum 3-5 min
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 01:47 AM
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I gave up video games all together. I use to play a lot in my teens and early college. For some reason I just felt bored. When I was young I wished I had the money to buy games, now I'm glad I don't play video games anymore. It's like what you wrote. I believe video games is a drug, a mind slave. I quit cold turkey, at the end of the day it wasn't helping me improve my life. Just like an alcoholic it burns a hole through your wallet and these games and systems aren't cheap. It's an expensive hob…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:35 PM
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Or put the effort in eating clean to achieve that body.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:41 PM
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Honestly at that age range the best thing to do is hit the books and partake in something physical, either a sport in school or bodybuilding. If money is a concern then work a real job and get used to the real world.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:19 PM
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IG is great for women. Show off some skin and you get followers. Nice ass? Guess what your a "model" with a few filters and non expression head tilt.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:16 PM
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Bro, you should know that media is promoting all these BP feminists SJW crap, then why bother expressing how you feel? You know you're comment will trigger people, why bother putting yourself in that position and being attacked? Just chuckle to yourself and move on.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:50 PM
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I like that motto; Get Consistent Frist, Optimize Later. Pretty much building the habit first and then improve upon it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 01:31 AM
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Good post. I do want to mention that one cannot be one or the other. Being an introvert is not bad thing at all. It's the things that people associate introverts with; Anti-social, weird, creepy, plays videogames a lot, no friends etc. You can be an introvert and still be great with women. I'm an introvert, I wanna be left alone most of the time but when it comes down to social interaction and approaching women I would use all of my social energy and be precieved as an extrovert. Once that's don…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:56 PM
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Wow, this is great stuff, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 11:50 PM
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Good reminder. I have trouble usiing hatred/anger to fuel me. I have an ex that destroyed me emotionally yet it's hard for me to use her as a motivation to be the best I can. After a few days I feel meh and go back to being basic.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 05:29 PM
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Don't have high expectation. Just like women, take it with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:57 AM
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"I'll start tomorrow" Is something that everyone says. I'm guilty of it as well.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:55 AM
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The trick is to stop at "one". Once you masturbate after some time it's so difficult to go back into NoFap.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:18 PM
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What I recently realized with nofap(as well as other things) is that; you have this amazing energy, you're mind is less foggy, you are willing to be more bold, the "superpowers" that Nofap users believe. However with that "power" comes with a price. Constant urges and discipline. The voice in your head tells you and try to convince you that you need to masterbate. The voice gets suppressed the longer you do NoFap. Any thought can snowball into something greater and then your four faps deep looki…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:15 PM
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Saved. Going to read this as a kick in the butt when things are tough. I'm also brown, skinny fat as well. Not doing so great at the moment. Any other tips besides the obvious one?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 07:27 PM
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Just eat more when you do Muay thai.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 12:28 AM
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I'm in the same boat. Today I woke up and I was like, fuck me, fuck all this bullshit. Fuck trying to impress woman. Fuck trying to be nice, fuck caring about people, fuck everyone, fuck my skinny fat body, fuck my job, fuck my broke ass, fuck everything. It's tiring and it takes a toll on you.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 04:47 PM
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I understand your point but OP didn't see it coming. In that scene he was probably tipsy or drunk so he wouldn't have expected an attack out if no where. The other guy was at fault as well as it was the girls fault for not mentioning she had a boyfriend early on.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 08:18 PM
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Wow you're living a great life. Thanks for the advice. I agree with being active so the body will adapt to it. My biggest thing is doing mental activities after work. I get so tired and I end up binge watching YouTube.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:48 PM
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That's great. How do you have the energy to do all that?
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 12:25 PM
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Great post. However it all depends on the person. Some like to seclude themselves and wait to show their progress after they achieved them. Others like people to see their work-in-progress. It's what you want at the end of the day. Hopefully people here would understand the different sides, be open minded and think for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 02:06 PM
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Wow great job. Just imagine a year from now, five years, ten. Never stop improving.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 04:59 PM
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This is really inspiring. You lit a fire under me. No more mediocrity. Im going to work hard and smart to be at the level your at. Im sure you encounterd bumps along the road, care to share? Also in your opinion how do you avoid burnouts?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:59 PM
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I just go up and say hi or I just thought you were cute or something similar. See how it goes from there. Ask if shes a student or works. Start from there.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:47 PM
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Thanks. I do have a wordpress. Maybe in the future.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:27 AM
1

Great post. These are some great advice. What were some things that you found difficult?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 10:20 PM
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I don't know, something something inner beta something.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:32 AM
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The mistake was so simple that if it wasn't made things would have gone completely different. No biggie.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 03:30 AM
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Yeah, that's a positive way of looking at it. Learn and not let it happen again.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 02:19 AM
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I use that phrase too. There is no right or wrong way, it's how you made the woman feel before asking for the number.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 11:23 PM
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It's all about the context. Thank you fkr the advice but I prefer this way. "Let me get your number, we'll continue this conversation later" something along those lines. Pull out my phone and start to ask the number. Fake number or not I'm learning and training myself to take the lead and be in control.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 09:45 PM
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Thank you for the video. That really helped. Didn't know about this guy. I glad you showed me this.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 06:30 PM
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Who fills in the silence, you or her?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 04:44 PM
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Your welcome. Yeah, the way I see it, actually going out and approaching women is an improvement. I'm sure you and others see other men looking at woman, wanting to go talk to them, to be with them but can't. They have this barrier that prevents them. I seen it a few times where I would approach a girl and we would have a conversation. Some of the guys would just stare as I make her laugh and smile. I would make eye contact with some of these guys as I talk to the girl, not to show them that I'm…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:02 PM
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This is something that I'm slowly learning. Losing is never fun. It sucks. Everyone wants to win. What I learned recently that in order to win you have to lose, a lot.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:51 PM
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Will read this again and again when I'm hitting a slump. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:21 PM
1

Same, I used to look at their mouths at one point. It was weird. For the voice projection I use the same metaphor in martial arts. Punch through the person not at him. So for voice it would be; Speak through them not at them.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:18 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Going to try it out today. I feel the same way. Making things complex actually fucks me over. It's just having a conversation, with a little spice into it. Do you have a model or routine you go out and daygame?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:15 PM
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Some are the opposite. The more attraction they feel the more they look away.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:13 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I do the same thing, I usually look them between the eyebrow if I'm nervous. Eye contact is a powerful thing haha.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:13 PM
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Yeah, the date went well. It was just that she just wasn't interested. I took out tons of girls on instant date. Sometimes it just doesn't work. I hear what your saying. Experience is king.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:11 PM
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Just gotta keep pushing. One of my coworkers project his voice very good. It's not loud but well projected. There are times where I sound like a mouse, haha.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 02:09 PM
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Good post. It's the small things that count. Struggle in the short term and rip the benefits in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 04:00 PM
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I think I'm slowly failing into that self help junkie trap. Will look into it more, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 03:54 PM
1

Interesting. Will look into it, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 03:53 PM
1

While that may be true the mind can make or break you. Coming from someone who has to fight with his mind, it's tough. Tough doing anything while your brain tells you you're a piece if shit. Mental health is so important. If you're not mentally there you're not physically there.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:25 PM
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I keep seeing people talk about 'Gorrila Mindset' is it that good?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 12:21 PM
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Things like that take time. Your mind is a computer, the paradigm shift is like a new update, is not going happen at once, three update needs time to install and get rid of or update old files. Sometimes you need more than one update, hell, many depends on the computer.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:58 AM
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Sounds like a good plan, however I'll just stick to meeting them in person. Who knows, maybe once I get the physique maybe I'll hire a photographer and try online a try.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 11:54 AM
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That's really true. A lot of things sound good on paper but turns out completely different when in action.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:20 PM
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Nice post. I stay away from online. No matter how much effort I put in the return investment is so low. Id rather go out and meet with woman, work on my social and approching skills. If online works for you, by all means go for it. Online is not meant for most people. Just my $0.02
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:18 PM
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I hear that. When I went back a couple of years ago I tried to game any girl I found attractive. It didn't eotk out, hah. Going to go back next year. Hopefully my game and body will be on point then.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:10 PM
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Got a kiss and a cheeseburgers, nice. Congrats bro. Where did you meet her?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 12:25 PM
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I pay no mind. The aspect of Football is still there. Who cares if the commercial or anything is blue pill. You know the media is blue pill why bother? Stocism. Just accept it and move on. No need to feel angry about something that you have no control of.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 05:09 PM
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Situation for every athlete. The second they fail, people will forget there previous accomplishments. The expectation to always win.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 05:04 PM
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A good quote to remind us that the things you want in life is not going to come falling from the sky and into your lap.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:21 PM
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Thank you. Yeah I am giving my self credit. Tyler spoke about being negative after every approach or day will make you worse with woman. I'm trying to be less pessimistic and more positive. I'm at a point right now that I just more volume but there are times where my approach anxiety gets the best of me.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:15 PM
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Women, what can you do? I feel you. There are times where I was at the same boat. Had a great interaction with a woman, got her number and no response. Learn, build that armor slowly and move on.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:12 PM
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Comedy to develop frame? by not laughing?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:19 AM
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So pretty much go up and say hi only.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 12:18 AM
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I do daygame so I approach in the front, the side or walk and talk with her. My opener would be either saying she's gorgeous or complimenting her style. Get into a conversation and then if the interaction is good I go for the number.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:43 PM
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Great analogy. I honestly hate the gym metaphor. I like to think if it like fishing. It's what Nick Sparks said; A fisherman knows he good at fishing. There are times where the fish don't bite. Does that mean he's a bad fisherman? No he just needs to find another spot, use another bait or try the next day.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:40 PM
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It doesn't bother me. I appreciate people reading it. My idea behind these post are to inspire and show that becoming the best version is a slow, tedious process.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:37 PM
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Thank you. It's tough getting rejected left and right. I'm looking forward to the day where my skin is armor and the aftermath feeling of rejection just bounces off.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:33 PM
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Yeah. In the book;The Confidence Gap, Russ goes in depth that when we encounter thoughts like that you have to acknowledge it and neutralize it. The inner beta needs to be taken care of but that takes time. Good luck on your journey, bro.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:30 PM
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Thank you. I love Tyler. I will look up and watch that video.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:27 PM
1

Thank for your advice. 1).I am lifting 2).I know it's stupid to let them dictate my emotions but im going in the right direction. 3).Any advice on developing frame? 4). Slowing building abundance
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:24 PM
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Yeah it is. Killing the beta and becoming the alpha doesn't come overnight. I know people hate these post but it's a journey. A journey to motivate people and show people that others(like me) need to work really, really hard to get where they are. Thank for the advice though. Really appreciate it, I'll keep that in mind when I go out with another girl.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:50 AM
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Now that you mentioned it I do notice it. Different times different types of demographic. I'll keep that in mind, thank you.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 01:02 AM
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Interesting, care to elaborate further?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 12:46 AM
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That's life, you live and learn. At least you can tell yourself that you tried.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 12:45 AM
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All these books sound amazing. I actually have some of these but not have the discipline to finish them. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 12:44 AM
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Thanks man, appreciate it. I don't really care about the downvotes. Why should I care about random people over the Internet? Yeah the book is great, I recommend searching the PDF version on Google. Saves lots of time and money, plus you can read it on your phone wherever. Do you have books you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 01:41 PM
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